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eh!

ha! failed to rea btwn the lines.I don't blame you.

lefulefu:
money for hand back for ground

Is that how you nigerian men communicate wth 9ija girls when you take them out ? Damn! Soo pathetic.
Who marries your women then with all these bashing and negativity? puzzles me!

tom28:
lol some of you naija chicks tend to mistake material gifts and reality as one and the same thing
Anyway talking about nigerian ladies and their love for money is like beating up a dead horse.

yes we do.

thank u

helo?
why are you shouting from the mountain top?
has the wind blown again?

^^

Richvkunt:
4.From your post,I understand that,even though your boss is sex.ually harrassing you,you have made up your mind not to resign until you find an alternative because you need the money .Do you in your heart of hearts believe this is a wise decision for a christian lady to take?

[b]Now Rich,as a christian we are not called to be timid always running away from difficult situations but face and conquer them with God's help.We shall never develop or impart any society with this kind of attitude

Its clear in the word that, when the enemy (in this case boss) comes in like a flood,God shall raise up a standard against him.It's not your battle but God's.If that does not happen then,He will open another door for her if she does not compromise.He never fails not the God that I know.

Another point is this, in every circumstance a christian is faced with, WISDOM must apply and it must be in line with the Word of God. If God says 'he that doesn't work must not eat,then whey would you advise her to quit and go stay at home?

Its obvious that 2 things are bound to happen here.Get sacked or be retained due of her firm stand.
But see,this being a private owned company its always good to weigh risks. She has nobody to sue here.

It would therefore be unwise for her to throw in the towel immediately. Who knows whether she will be retained?
She needs to put bread on the table ([s]yes I know the husband is there but I believe the wife needs to chip in as well cz life is expensive).[/s]

The wise decision here would be to weigh risks,start applying elsewhere without his knowledge cz its clear this dude is up to no good.
But she MUST hold on to this job till the day she gets the sack or a new job.

Op but always know that you will encounter other monsters elsewhere so running is never a solution cz you need to settle and build a career.

Some jobs carry unnecessary weights making pple's lives miserable.

Okay Now what is your hubby;s stand in all this? His advise matters more than ours you know cz its the 2 of you.
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Blessed are the peacemakers for their's the kingdom of God

Is that what you would ask your wife to do? Have sex with her boss?
Read her post well! b4 u say Nyash.

some people are beyond redemption the few predestined heading to Hague
Now Observe the sabbath day and keep it holy.

@Lari lol @ makoussa? nope I dont dance to that.I am not a fan of lingala either.
I know lots of stuff but knowing is not doing.

[b]Op.
Giving in to this man's demands would give him a very good reason to fire you.Ladies seem to miss this bit.
When you give in, you lose your pride and value.You have degraded yourself in his eyes and he knows you you are capable of doing the same with any member of staff.Kudos to you.
Even if he sacks you,you carried your pride with you so you have not lost.

Now now,this seems like a privately owned company which makes it quite tricky since he can sack without explanation and you have nobody to report to. I would have said No he wont sack you but being PA? yes he can.

This is what.Stop speculating and spruce up your resume. Start applying elsewhere without his knowledge.
Its better to be safe than sorry cz this dude seems adamant.
Did you say you are a christian? One word.When one door closes God opens another. My dear God will smile and shake your hand if he decides to sack you and he will proceed to open another gate let alone a door.

If you have been a dedicated employee,be wise. Look outside BUT hold on to what puts bread on the table at the moment. Just don't throw in the towel till he gives you the sack or till you have gotten another job.!

Note this; these sort of men are everywhere and you will find worse men elsewhere than those you left behind.
I can assure you that standing up is not easy. You may keep on doing this over and over but you know what?
while at it, you may get a promotion and move from PA to say a department head.

At times God wants to promote us but the storms we face blur our vision.

Then consider a job outside PA.Those PA jobs face such challenges cz these crazy dudes are ever on your face!
All will be well. Hold on, but look out! don't ever assume.



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funny

Congolese!!!
Those fellows lack bones! They dance like crazy.koffi olomide,Defao,JB mpiana,and guess what,Fally Ipupa was here I think a week ago driving the city revellers crazy with his music.
I have a good congolese friend called Papi Mpiana.He leads and plays music in my church and the dude sings like crazy!
Is there a congolese that doesnt sing? cz I always say tht lucifer (the talented musician) dropped in congo when he was kicked out of heaven.

Halo Lari.
Well the host has gone to fix breakfast.Nayah, I take coffee, BLACK no cream no sugar.

morning Nayah. I thought u went for a haircut Am cool.extremely chilly morning I am putting myself in the microwave .
Mh I love the gospel music blaring out of my speakers.

T, I hope you were able to watch your many channels.Pray that the wind doesnt blow again in the opposite direction.

tom28:
But imagine u buying a bunch of flowers for a nigerian girl as an act of love.She would spit on u and ask u if its flower she would chop.

Get real!!

No.I hate gadgets and fixing stuff. I'd rather pay to get them fixed cz I like doing things fast and perfectly not trial and error.That's why we have experts.
At least I can fix a bulb.That's enough for me.

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=729256.msg8869535#msg8869535 date=1312657844].

Like I always say, this kind of break-ups are very tricky. You can't break up with her in a closed space--coz odds her she'll break bottle on your head. Make sure people are in the vicinity. [/quote]

@ drama.

ooh i skipped the bit where u mentioned lnbf
well,dont undrstand gadgets so whatever! so the miracle was God in the wind? 
funny but good 4 u.
some foreigners are very good at that 'tapping frequency thing.you only need to live close to them and u benefit

There must be very good frequency around there.Are you sure u aint stealing from neighbour?Go ahead and fix yours.

mind sharing? coz last time i heard you were watching ftball!

^^yes t why is your mouth shut? I can guess but you need to sanctify, not defile your mind.

@nayah
I like getting prepared in advance, not wait til monday morning to start picking out clothes for the week.

cool.am ironing clothes,getting ready 4 monday which is just around the corner
Today i just wanted to sleep and with the chilly weather outside? my bed feels like paradise
bn drinking coffee like crazy! am addicted to coffee.

of course of course .
its quite chilly these sides and I need a big warm weave to cover my head !
wassup any way.

I just replied to a thread saying ' Help! am confused'
This one says 'Am not confused'!

lol girls stop confusing and 'disconfusing' dudes!!
  funny pple.

hi nayah