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oh yes you are right. Prove what, to who and for what? This is a discussion forum as far as am concerned
Ok lets leave that aside.

I am praying that the nl server doesnt crash with insults again
What I prefer doing Nayah is this.You wanna call me silly ,I say yes I am, if only it will make you happy and shut up.
What people fail to realise is that the words they use against others stem out of issues they are facing in real life,So all your doing is infact exposing yourself.
If I know you are the exploding type I keep off. I do not have strength for that cz it brings you down to the level of that person.

No dear I avoid quarrels like plague.I suck at quarrels cz I will never win.That I know for sure.
I came across the thread and while reading thru,her negatives commments caught my attention. So as usual I thought of checking out hr profile expecting to see smbody out of this world. Now my reply to her was just to enable her see sense.Its like I criticise you for being fat yet am fatter than you .you know?
Look at her response!.Wow it was a volcano waiting to explode.
Now really how do you respond to such.People have got real issues in real life but you see they can download it all on an innocent person on the forum.
It tells me a lot about a person so in such cases I reply and go mum.

^^
The reason I love NL. Everybody is special in their own way.

@fickle

Pliz relax.
You know I always lack the right answers for people who respond like you just did. Attack!! and I truly mean it. I think I get too shocked.
Now If you are 40 smthing as you just said then you should be giving many of us some sound advise not insult everybody along the way.
But if thats how you express yourself well, do it the best way you know.

Finally, lemmie let you in on a secret. At times the words we use to attack others are a true reflection of our selves. Its good to let stuff out of your heart but in a more amicable way. It will still get across.
Now am far from 40 but mature enough to express myself without insult. I ope to be a good role model to my kids and nephews/nieces when am that age.

Now see what you just typed out of your own mind. 

I wont analyse but relax and be happy with life. We do not even know each other so why the rage?

Fickle:
[color=#006600[b] upload your pictures to prove a point. Its very obvious that you are an old emotional wreck. you have a husband and kids to worry about? You are always online to drown away your sorrows. Sorry to disappoint you but I am a wife with 2 lovely daughters. I dress like that because my hubby likes it and I am proud of what I look like in my 40s.  Don't mistake my playing around for being an old cargo in the market. I am so pissed off at the way ladies look at this young age because when you get older it becomes more challenging. That's why we have many ladies with inferiority complex because they were not taught proper grooming & confidence. I will put up my family pictures later. I hope you leave the forum for people old enough to be your kids. I am a yuppie mom & so far I thank God for my accomplishments. Madam perfect, what have u achieved at your age? You take life too seriously and personal on a forum with anonymous people[/b][/color]

you do not need to upload any family photos t 'prove'anything! to who now?
You are great woman just the way you are.Appreciate and love it

^^
ur funny

ogugua88:
The same girls you're criticizing can accurately aim their cameras at their face and take such criticism.

I love those pacific islands for real.The adventure,the ocean,the trees the people I must go to pagopago before I die.
But there are still a few cannibals there as well so I will need security.

^^^

Fickle:
@Ogugua88,

My dear I hope you had your glasses on when you read my comment. I said most of the girls on romance section are just there, some are dirty, rough, local & unkempt. Even the ones that claim to live abroad look crazier than we that are under the scotching sun in Nigeria. That even the guys here are better than them. Mamagee that people abuse is much more better than most people. I wasn't taking about naija or nairaland as a whole. Its the minority of women on Nland that are on romance section, I am included too. Can't you see the local old school pictures they upload here. Didn't know digital cameras were that expensive or they are just too ugly for camera. I don't know of other sections though.

I had to check your profile pic just to be sure where these words are coming from.
Are you the girl on the pic?? What is in bold??
If one is too ugly for camera AS YOU PUT IT,then a good 'expensive digital camera plus some photoshop' will be of great help I believe.
It transforms people into prince's and princess'

'So yes you could be right afterall.'

pagopago

The sun here shines like north pole. you see the rays but dont feel the warmth.
I am on my 6th mug of coffee. Have a cup of capuccino plz

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cool nayah. freezing. cold season

yeah.
This will make all young men run to keep grandmas happy during their last days.
Am sure he has his own fleet of women elsewhere to 'entertain him'

@ Brown,I was replying to this your comment about her keeping something for herself.
And that something is what she needs to protect if this Alfonce of a dude is goldigger.

MRbrownJAY:
clear case of a GOLDDIGGER!!!!!
we all know that even if she gives "all" her money to her children, she will keep at least 50milla for her upkeep (to fuel the jet etc lol). her future husband is not a greedy one, he aint got his eyes on the whole fortune, just what she will be left with to "survive".

MRbrownJAY:
and lets not forget, everything she makes while married to him, should be divided equally, so think about how much interest her fortune will generate, thats the income she will have to split with him if she divorces Alonso!

LOL @ hot grandma divorcing Alfonce.too old to divorce.

Okay this is the tricky part and this is where a postnup comes in handy.If the dude does not contribute to the wealth while they are married then hot grandma is entitled to bring up a postnup contract.
Especially if Alfonso starts showing signs of golddigging.
But see,Mr.Brown, even if her estate generates some interest,it would still be far less than the amount she left for her kids.At their age they are enjoying interest not setting up new bz and this interest is coming from hot grandmas estate, She therefore doesn't have to worry about divorce cz of ;
1. Prenup even if her worth at time of marriage is $1m,shes protected.
2. Postnup.If this alfonse doesnt chip in,hes not entitled to equal share of her wealth. yeah he may walk out with royalty stuff but not equal.

The name of the church says it all.

Faith and Fire brimstones and blows Prayer Ministry,

^^
am still laughing.
She's giving us a 'hot and naughty look'

^^
I want to believe that any rich man/woman today signs a prenup, whether they are marrying a rich or broke ptner.
It protects one from gold diggers esp in a case like this one.I do not even see why anybody should worry cz
Alfonso crazy name knows exactly what hes entitled to from the moment he says 'I do'.
Her death therefore would not change the prenup terms either, cz I doubt if they are going to increase what they
already have by any meaningful margin within the short time they have, to warrant an ammendment of the
prenup.

I also do not expect them to announce to the public about the prenup either.

Long One:
pendo89

But seriously, where do u get all this knowledge from and what's your relationship status?

Plus, please answer my long standing question, how old are you? Twenty something, 89 or 98?

I hope whoever finally conquers you, really appreciates what he's got.

Age: Was 98 now am 89.

To be sincere,I learn a lot from other people's exp as well as mine,cz I interact with people of all ages,class,race,size,status.I do not limit myself cz I have a crazy inquisitive mind.
Oh plus am not always right.We sharpen each other when we discuss and debate.

And now I unveil my conquerer! Jony B. .He conquered my heart.

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^^ And that will be taken care of in the prenup.
Her kids are smart.

Are you telling me that its only Alfonso who is in want here?
The woman needs Alfonso's companionship .
So they both need some loving

^^^ exactly.it just cures loneliness.
@ Mynd,and what if the reverse happens? What if the 61 yr old dude dies of heart attack instead?
He's gonna need the blue pill for sure if intimacy is in their minds.
That hot grandma has a hot strong look  Damn why dd she wait this long?

Dirty minds.
I think she just needs companionship not sex as such.I mean sex at 85? _{I need a doctor's opinion here}
And why assume the dude is after her money? what if they signed a prenup? He would be silly to kill her if a prenup is already in place cz it wouldnt change a thing.

Watch something interesting on tv or listen to some cool music.Especially music.

Very soothing

You know what? even after I told you am N/A you still insist.I kindly told you that .Didn't I?
I am in a serious relationship right now and am in the forum to enjoy and contribute to discussions not to hook up with anybody.
I think you are intelligent enough to understand that aren't you? Thanks.
so just cut off the game ok and stick to forum.
I will appreciate.

Nayah:
I avoid some not discret people who would ask me some non discret question so I get your point and I respect honey

That's right.
cool lets chat later ok.

Is that what you do T? upload a stranger's pic as your own whatevr?
Nayah you see what I was trying to avoid? I have no problem you seeing the person you are talking to.But if T is serious then am disappointed. I am hoping its a joke.

leaving the office Nayah.Lets chat another day,
cheers sis

Ok I ill upload again one of these days. As of nw,am the moustache lady.

Nayah, am confused now.I dd it for u. still havnt seen?

^^ its on my basic information though so theres no option for like or dislike.

kokoye Not even a single like!!

kokoye:
'A successful man is one who makes more money than his woman can ever spend . . a successful woman is one who can find and

hold down such a man.'

The above holds only if Money is a renewable resource, because the miner (woman) will[b] never get tired of mining.(spending)
[/b]
Infact she will mine till the mine(man in this case) collapses on them both.

done nayah?

I have this on my fb settings.

A successful woman is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks others have thrown at her