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You are confused cz men do understand women's language of communication.
Top on the list, she starts distancing herself and doing stuff that really get into your nerves so that you can get the message.
Shes fed up with you. she even told  you that u irritate? damn!  nothing is worse than an irritating dude. it means you itch!
The writing is on the wall.read it

ON THE OTHER HAND

Why do you want to 'control' her yet you've not made her your wife ? shes trying to exercise her freedom since you do not 'own her' and she therefore feels she has no obligations to fulfill, neither is she answerable to you. you are boyfriend not husband rem.
That is also a message shes trying to pass across.

ok writing is on the wall .time for u to act.
gd luck

^^lol I had the most boring and I mean boring bio teacher, he made bio taste like physics or mechanics!
but that did not deter me from having interest in the subject cz I love researching stuff on my own.
Best part is information is all over the net nowadays so ignorance is no defence really.starts with interest

^WOW

I salute your mum.
She must have been very physically active during her pregnancy. Exercise help tone and relax the pelvic muscles so she deserves to be in the guiness book of records.
sweetest delivery wow!
the way women rage and eat hospital bed out of pain! LOL

@op
my humble request.
next time,kindly fix the pic.Edit and crop it so as to get rid of all that trash in the background and side.
The tired cabinet,scattered papers,blanket? just stuff, mess up the whole pic.
Background matters a lot and this is very very bad.
I just love cool pics so pardon me for seeing 'the rest'
Thanks

@buy 1

Am just glad that nobody is still suggesting crude ways which sound more like violation.
Its not a hymen you are trying to break here, its those pubococcygeus muscles which you cannot break.

This your wife and love making ought to be enjoyed not endured so help her relax.
see,evn u succeed to penetrate her thru all manner of crude ways, then do not for a moment assume that the next try will be smooth.
If anything it may be much worse bcz her mind has registered 'trauma and pain' and so she will lock again.

You need to understand tht some women have been brought up to believe that sex is evil,(due to religious or cultural values)painful or maybe she was exposed to intimate molestation while young and all these contribute to her state of mind at the time of Being Intimate.
If she never dealt with those issues then she needs to now.

ManMadeMad
Not my speciality. Obsessed robot?? evil fetish. you need all members of the Holy Trinity to sort you out once and for all.

^^lets just assume what you said was right.
But do you know the whole world can access this site and read all these info?
What people debate here is mostly targeted at the larger crowd not NL romance section few.
so broaden your mind a lil.

what Dere 1

Do not assume that everyone talking about sex here is doing or not doing it.
lol some virgins talk like experts while experts talk like virgins.
thts was wht i meant by 'imaginary sex'

@sexkillz: who uses their real names here in 'romance section'.maybe others but here its crazy.

^^
am starting to believe you r 'the' nl robot searching for p*** everywhere?

^^
When humans stop being responsible they start blaming non-living things (the very things we create ourselves) for their own blunders.
Don't we just love shifting blame to justify our actions.
if only fb could talk

^^

@sonyvaio  lol @ vaginismuceros,its vaginismus

If Vgnl penetration is this difficult,what makes you think that BehindBased will be easier. Its not a deformity or permanent condition afterall so why would u want to destroy smbody's BehindBased muscles and confine them to diapers later?  Thats worse trouble.

Note: This is not a hymen issue at all!.
So those talking like 3direct have no clue what the real problem is.Its both physical and psychological and the negative effects affect all manner of penetration.The body screams 'no entry' and locks!
Answer is therapy/pelvic exercises to help relax those muscles.
And you shall live happily ever after

@ ok op

And what exactly do men do? never heard of men who sleep with the bridesmaid on their wedding night? Well, what you mentioned up there happens to both gender.

UNFORTUNATELY the problem will persist till the day the devil gets kicked out of this world and it automatically becomes heaven and we the angels. (dream)
Not even a group called 'brotherhood or sisterhood against immorality will put a stop to it.
You just have to search for the few not so rotten fruits and enjoy life

^^^
very irritating. all the time you do injustice to that word,chopping it and throwing it into the garbage.
you are like pepper on wound!!

Op .You do not have to say it verbally. Its best said and expressed through actions and we know actions speak louder than words.

OP this your question  
if you had asked 'that can't speak 'your' language then it would have made sense.
Ok, say I cannot speak catalan 'my' lang.but can speak yoruba 'your' lang.
Is there a problem with that?
And even if I cannot speak both ie mine & yours just know that;

language is not the same thing as communication.

its just a constituent part or key component.

^^lol
eish. The sunday mass is a no no. maybe next sunday or the next.
the stains? you have paid the hotel so they must offer service as promised.
How many things do you think they come across? worse than blood stains?
now the duck part.
be helped by ur maker.

@ Natasha,they do not experience pain because of a procedure called[b] Epidural[/b].
An epidural is where painkilling drugs are passed into the small of your back via a fine tube.
The drug is injected around the nerves that carry signals from the part of your body that feels pain when you're in labour.

@peaceoo, Please lets not all the time assume everything is through prayer.
That 's where we go wrong.
If you refuse to pay rent and say, ooh pray for me God will help.NO HE WILL NOT. You will be helped out by the landlord instead. And God is not moved cz you just put his name to shame by not paying ceasar what is ceasar's.

'Keep the se.x dirty and your home clean!' I like that.
The rest very raw. sounds like a pool of blood enough to scare a man!
Then c'mmon who washes sheets during honeymoon? unless you booked into a lodging?
What is room service all about? the laundry?
And do people really attend early sunday mass on the morning of their Honeymoon?? really?
You must have had a ducky and nasty experience 

I never saw the other one but its okay.
Just learn but do not experiment early, is the best advice I can give you.
At 16, I was very ignorant but kids are exposed to a lot of stuff nowadays.
Ok that dont mean am 80 or smthing.
And never move with the crowd.Set your principles and stick to them no matter what.
I feel as though am talking to my younger sis but I do not mind telling you this.
You will cherish it one day.
Ok gal gudnite.Keep smiling and being cheerful

now what is happening here
confusing.

ws a jke.
but hey, if 190 = seun's robot
Then who is not who?
its nl foster home and everybody is welcome.

^^^

I sure am
I thought you were underage.

really? ok .
And are you serving term in that prison? You have been there since I joined this forum.
No parole

There's no such thing as number! I understand Ashewo means prostitute right?

I mean if I sleep with one dude in exchange for money, I just passed the Ashewo test and am no different from the one that has done 1000 men.

Its the deed not the [b]number or figures [/b]that determines who you are!

I like saying,Life is a drawing without an eraser.

^^ you 've lost it Dave. I hate to start a debate like S and C cz it will never end.

Just know theres a diffrence between a lady and a female as well as btwn male and man.

Several determining factors I wont go into that but we know a few.

BTW are you 3direct?

@killzz

The message I was trying to get across was 'Handsome lies in the eyes of the beholder'
What you consider as criteria for handsome may not apply to me.The reverse may.

You are too young Natasha to see this lol
Nway its good to be informed.
Am glad you know it exist and you are not ignorant.
You may be able to help the next virgin you come across.

@ op

Forgiveness
Sacrifice
Tolerance
Patience
Understanding
Faithfulness
Kindness. and many many more.

Lemmie now hear Claremont talk of 'mutual compatibility'!!

^^exactly my thoughts. several threads at one go! 53 posts?
I have done my research of retrieving ghosts as well.