₦airaland Forum

fineboynl:
Since I started reducing beer intake which used to be everyday. I started getting obsessed with hollandia yoghurt.

Like every hours I rush to fridges to get a drink. End up drinking like two 1L everyday that's if I don't go anywhere.

Does dairy yoghurt has nicotine?

Too much of everything is bad. Fill your fridge with bottle water

Tayorshd87:
From a friend though


Am the last born in my family and there are too many ups and downs and wahala in my family because it was a polygamous home and my father was one of the man I mistakenly ever met on earth and unlucky for me he is my father 😭😢
So how I wish I should start my life with my own fresh lineage from my wife and children. Like I don't want to be part of the father tree again.

I gave birth 3days ago and I don't want my son to bear my surname 🤔 I want my own name to be his surname so my father lineage will be cut off
☹️

Please is there any future implications in this decision?
Or rather something bad behind this decision??

Thanks 😌

It's possible but you will have to support the birth certificate with affidavit especially in the future if you have to justify the father-son relationship between you guys

kokoBoii:
Honestly, I feel like if most of the subjects we struggled to understand in secondary school e.g Mathematics, were taught in pidgin English, alot of us would have become mathematics wizards...

You can't go to China or Japan and find their teachers teaching their students in English, that is one of the reasons I believe these guys are witches and wizards when it comes to anything Maths and Sciences...

Why do our parents feel like pidgin English is a forbidden language..

Sometimes you see some parents seriously warning Their kids never to speak pidgin else they get flogged...

It affects the proper usage of English grammar

E.g using "eat" instead of "chop" and vise versa

saphiere:
Any man who invites a lady to his house and does not provide transportation fare is more useless than the lady who asks for transportation money. Why would you initiate a visit if you are not ready to take the responsibility?

Initiation kill you there

Alátẹnuje

If you go to your girlfriend's house, do you ask her for t fare?

saphiere:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wjx1HTblKoI


https://www.instagram.com/reel/CvJ-tm0pZ1W/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Seconded, especially if she's working

A guy doesn't request for tfare to visit his guy. So, why should you accommodate such request from the other gender

Fake love

They will soon fight over a certain guy in the house


This, I have seen

I've been married for four years now, and it seems my wife has become a stranger.

We've been having issues from the first year, mostly on different styles of life.
I am a guy who loves managing resources and very focused on achievements because I was born with a silver spoon but lost it due to the death of my father, I never wanted to experience the same thing as I did when he died.
She on the other hand is comfortable and okay with what she has, not too bothered about achievements.

I've been calling for management of resources for a while but she's the type that grew up in a very comfortable home and knows not how to manage resources.

Another issue on my part is that, she does not really care about how she looks and that's one of the things I care about.

I lost, or should I say resigned from my first job due to pressure and things became hard. I had to sell some of my landed properties so we could survive.

I got another Job and in six months, I made millions. We lived well until I wanted to chase my passion in banking again.

Got back into banking and to cut the story short, I met one lady where I was sent to. I loved her. I wish I had met her first honestly. In a year, she showed me a lot in the kind of woman I wanted. Then I lost my job again, this time because I wanted to go for youth service.

I got back home and I told my wife the game plan. I bought foodstuffs for at least two months and went for camp. In less than a week, my mother called me and was angry why I left my wife and two kids hungry. I exeated camp immediately and came back home. After investigating, I found out she sent the food to her mother who is an associate professor, without telling me and while she knows out conditions.

I got so angry. I wanted her out.
I considered things because my second child which she had by force is just 5months. She had the baby because she stopped taking contraceptives because of advice from people that if she has a male child for me, I'll stay.
After much, she can't leave, because who will take care of the boy?

Yesterday, she read my messages and discovered I was having an affair and wants to leave. I told the lady off this morning but, I still loved her.

I can't allow that. Even if she does, she has to wait for the boy to be at least a year old. Remember she was the one that wanted this baby, not me. Now she wants to leave the liability for me?
And I can't allow my kids to grow with her because I don't want them to learn such lifestyle.

What should I do?

You kept referring to the baby as hers, if you don't want the baby, you would have used condom. So, you are part of the blame.

You are in and out of jobs cos you failed to put your house in order. If you think your gf is better, give it time to show her true colors, she might be worse than your wife.

Stay with the devil you know and learn how to resolve issues with her

JagabanBorgu:
Compare house rent in the USA to that in Nigeria, compare the various taxes u pay to that in Nigeria, compare medical bills, compare tuition fees for children too.
When u compare like that, you won't be screaming anyhow.
There are many many ways to demand improvement from the government not being hypôcrîtical

Even when you compare,
You still can't compare it to 30k in Nigeria without deduction of the highlighted in Nigeria.

Mind you, nothing like school fees for children over there

MrsTwrite:
But why is insecurity so loud in the East? Sit at home in order to avoid corona virus or what?

It's a form of protest so that govt can listen to them and give them Biafra. Very foolish approach

Penguin2:
Lol!

They thought they would distract us with BBNAIJA but we are wiser now.

Sanwolu must explain how we went from “nobody died” to having “103 unclaimed EndSARS victims”.

I’m glad the international bodies and platforms are already picking up the news.

BBC already reported it.

I can’t wait for CNN to do a follow up of their 2020 detailed report of the massacre that happened at Lekki.

The souls of our comrades must get justice.

Which bb naija dey distract you. You better face your kettle.

Those BBN fans were out there on the street during Endsars protest while you hid behind the keyboard.
Let the show BREATHE

Meritjoshua:
I applied for political science in unilorin during 2022 Utme but i was transferred to social work early this month.(it was due to their slow calendar and the strike)
i felt bad because social work sound lesser than political science. so my question is which one is better between the two?

Just graduate first. You can always go back to political science

Dickcap:
Good morning Nairalanders
I would like to seek your advice. I'm presently working at a farm company where I hold the post of Assistant Manager. Forget the position I hold oo cause the salary is less than 60k.
Due to the harsh economy, we are currently facing, the CEO said he does not have the power to pay our salary again and that we should find a way to generate income to pay our salary.
It won't be hard for my team to generate income to pay salary but we would have problems with the CEO cause he's the kind of person that loves taking over any money we make from the farm

Discuss with the CEO. Let their be a written and signed agreement

ahnie:
This man now remembers there's a Bible abii?

If he like make he carry POS abii baba ijebu lottery machine,that's his problem.

DSS should kindly hand him over to me....e get wetin I wan whisper in his ears.

That's not a bible

ahnie:
The way this agbor man stressed me n my then 5years old boy during the cash crunch time,that my lil boy has to stay with me in Accessbank from 11:30am when he closed from school till after 6pm .

The lil kid was so stressed out that he survived only on canned coca cola and eggroll waiting for mummy to collect money in long queue.
His support system was super strong telling me now to leave the queue


I refused deleting that pictures because my son was overtly stressed because of this baldheaded diminutive short umunede/agbor man.

Pls DSS should give this man to me....e get weytin I wan tellam.

Stressed with egg roll n coke....dey play

Flora2Sweet:
To open company na beans?

With all the theory they are teaching them, how will the company survive . Which practical course were they taught on how to run a company

Harmony92:
Just imagine going to the market and you mistakenly buy one of these products

Omo LG go begin work like sharp .

I have one on my office.

PANSONIC instead of PANASONIC.

The gas was refilled several times, we just have to abandon it

Olumighty123:
Yes, was driving through mobolaji bank Anthony way, going to yaba to be precise. Just before leventis, there was this usual traffic, na so I apply brake e no catch, see me swerving to different lanes just to avoid bashing into cars, I sha manage to stop. Naso I dey breath heavily. Found out the brake oil had a leakage.

That's why you have dashboard. It's not for decoration

PatEinstEin:
Most Nigerians especially Igbos see the idea of moving back to their hometown as a defeat. If the City (for instance Lagos) becomes very difficult, I don't see anything wrong in relocating. There are people there afterall.

What are your thoughts on this?

It's about the economy not the people.

hazinibones:
Hello Nairalanders,

I have this decision bothering me. I know it is a personal problem, but I believe everyone need some guidance at every point in life.

Straight to it, I have been considering Japa for over two years now and I think the opportunity might be here but I am having a cold feet.

I recently started working for a foreign company as a software engineer and the pay is decent when converted to Naira. Enough to live an averagely comfortable life. But my challenge now is that, I have been talking to some friends that are outside the country and they keep telling me how life is not easy there and cost of living is super expensive out there.

I currently earn $3000, which I plan to either save and travel or startup a business here in Nigeria. Please, Nairalanders with experience, is it worth japa to live an almost average life for almost the rest of your life or investing here in Nigeria and growing wealth?

The healthcare and quality education benefit is there as an advantage for japa though.

Thanks in advance for your responses!

You're earning in dollars, stay here. Only those earning in naira should be thinking of Japa.

Seunomobo:
Can we place a financial bet on this?

We find a known moderator who can help with this....

Deks will stay beyond 1month (In Venita's voice)

yes, go ahead

We all knew he rode on Mercy's wing the last time he was in the house. Unfortunately, he's on his own this time. He's got no talent and not popular on social media

Oyindamolah:
From DM

If it's not your duty...mind your business .

ITK (I too know) kills

Seunomobo:
I agree with Ike....

Bad boy Deks owns that money and will surely win.....

Unfortunately, he's one the weakest in the house. He can't survive one month before been evicted

utenwuson:
If Christians feel their own religion is tolerant and should be mocked, we have got no kwams with that

But mocking the Islamic religion is something we hold with grievances and on no condition should anyone, whoever you may be mock the religion....


It's has no connection with bad governance or societal emblem.....

Just stay away from a religion who doesn't even interfere with yours....


Anyone who is caught playing the video in any volatile Muslim environment should have himself or herself to blame... Peace

Just shut it

Are those people worshipping Osun river interfering win your religion in ilorin? Religion of peace my foot.

Boko haram that has been bombing and killing using your religion, what have you done about them.

Puss360:
It's very hard to imagine say 1k is all I have to spend not in a day but in a week.. lol.. wahala...

Well, I'm now a new creature... So I'll give two instances 🙈..
Former Me:: "I will use 500, buy card, and begin to flash guys/men I know.. If I contact like 5 , at least two will invite me for Sex and Pay... I'll use the other 500 pay tfair and go... Lolz... 🙈"

New Me:: "I will buy garri 500, buy sugar 200 mix it all... Then buy purewater one bag 250... And be drinking morning and night till help comes.. lols.."

The old and new you are the same .

"Till help comes" can still be sex related

Reinamaria:
Recently, there was a thread on the front page where the op stated that all he had was N1k, and was seeking advice on foods to buy with that amount, that will last him for 3days.
It got me wondering if that was a wise thing to do.

So then I ask; if you were in his position, what would you do, if that was all you had (let's say) for the week?
Would you spend your last cash all on food?
Assuming there's no one you can ask from within the time, what would you do in that situation?
What would your decision be?

Food comes first. You need to be alive to chase more cash

orohbiro:
DID YOU KNOW❓

Quinn, has become the first out transgender player to play at a FIFA World Cup. He featured for Canada against Nigeria 🇳🇬.

Last we checked there are only two genders male and female!

#FIFAWWC



https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sport/football/article-12328795/Canadian-footballer-Quinn-trans-non-binary-player-feature-World-Cup.html

That's day light robbery. This is just the beginning, FIFA shouldn't have allowed her.
Until a team present eleven men as women in a women's world cup all in the name of trans

DWJOBScom:
APC still selling shit to the country

Blamed PDP for 15 yrs. They are about to complete 15yrs with Tinubu's tenure yet no improvement

seborrhic:
It is laudable but is it sustainable economically?
Unless he is buying at less than 580 I don't see how he can economically sustain it,unless he just wants to be running his fuel station as a charity for now.

Nobody knows the actual cost of bringing the product in. They all lied to us

Acekidc4:
Musa is a good Understanding Man, he knows what his President Mr Tinubu is doing. Every Sensible Person knows exactly what is happening in Nigeria today. All this Suffering must happen before Enjoyment and Elevation. If you like cry and shout on my mentions from now till Jericho Na you know.

That's future impossible Tense. We all know that no elevation and enjoyment is in sight

Sheggy13:
I feel this guy hasn't lived up to his potential. He's such a raw talent and arguably one of the most gifted players to come out of Nigeria, but somehow inconsistency is his undoing. I can't place my fingers on what the issue with him is cos it's painful to see somehow that should be chased by big clubs for a much higher fee being sold for just 20 million Euros.

Ac Milan is a big club even bigger than Napoli. Forget their recent form