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Education › Re: Poor Result From UNICAL Mathematics Department by phemmyfour: 3:27pm On Jul 18, 2023
Timoleon:
Lecturer(s).

Lecturers that have results like these often pride themselves in failing students. When you dig deep enough, you’ll find a real disconnect n their teaching methods. Either they didn’t attend enough classes or don’t know simpler methods of imparting the knowledge on the students.

(This is not to absolve the students from failure o, you are in school to learn and excel, even if your lecturer Dey mad, there are lectures online you can use to help yourself).

Truth however is that lecturers like this are in almost all if not all our public universities. In my books, they are failures.
You never jam kolo lecturer that will tell you that if you use another method, you will fail.


In this type of result, you can't blame the student, not everything you can even find online especially modified case studies.

Even the few students that passed scored between 40s and 50s
Education › Re: Poor Result From UNICAL Mathematics Department by phemmyfour: 3:23pm On Jul 18, 2023
Benblaq:
Would you fault this result on the students or lecturer?
The lecturer of course.

If you can't get at least 50% of your class to pass your course, it means you ve failed woefully in your method of delivery
Politics › Re: Tinubu's Guinean Citizenship Expired Once His Passport Expired- Wole Olanipekun by phemmyfour: 12:33pm On Jul 18, 2023
pquaver:
Exactly if obidients say otherwise they should present their proof. Afterall as Nigeria if my passport expires i wont be allowed into the country unless i have proof from Nigerian embassy, LGA or any relevant authorities..

Let obidients show us the proof..
You cannot defend Tinubu and sound intelligent.

The bolded is irrelevant to the topic
Politics › Re: Tinubu's Guinean Citizenship Expired Once His Passport Expired- Wole Olanipekun by phemmyfour: 12:29pm On Jul 18, 2023
psychalade:
Fact! grin
That's means I m no longer a Nigerian since 2012 grin
Career › Re: Is It Unprofessional To Use Whatsapp For Official/business Calls? by phemmyfour: 12:27pm On Jul 18, 2023
TOBILOBA2023:
I noticed that some people sees use of WhatsApp for calls as unprofessional.

I prefer WhatsApp calls to normal voice calls because it's more cheaper and also helps save normal call airtime for lines that are not registered on WhatsApp.

A woman refused to engage me in business discussion because I called her via WhatsApp. She feels I'm not serious or professional enough.

Do you have any issues with WhatsApp calls for business/official purposes?
It's unreliable especially in this part of the world. Not that it's unprofessional.

Over there, they do biz, job interview, meetings etc on Skype, zoom, teams etc
Business › Re: FG Calls On China, Others To Set Up Lithium Battery Factories In Nigeria by phemmyfour: 12:23pm On Jul 18, 2023
SmartPolician:
If you want to attract investors, do your bit.

How can you tell a sane mind that after 60 years of independence Nigeria cannot boast of 24-hour electricity supply?
don't mind them.

No power
No motorable roads....yet they want to attract investors
Pets › Re: Dog Mauls Owner's 4-Year-Old Son To Death In Rivers (Graphic Photo) by phemmyfour: 12:18pm On Jul 18, 2023
fuckingAyaya:
Animal will always be an animal,
Even domestic animal
Art, Graphics & Video › Re: Jackie Chan Pays Ejike Victor For Graphic Design by phemmyfour: 12:15pm On Jul 18, 2023
calabaman:
Nice poster.

However your response to Jackie wasn't professional!
I love the poster too

When your job is good... anybody from planet earth can contact you
Romance › Re: Does Age Matter In Relationships ? by phemmyfour: 3:50pm On Jul 17, 2023
philo3:
Hey Good evening , please I need experienced and matured minded answers on this thread
.
I have a girl I love and if God willing marry her
She's humble, submissive , and posseses good qualities of a wife material.
I senior her with just months in age . same year of birth.
Can that marriage work out well because I have this ideology that the husband should senior his wife by some years at least 2years.
Age is just a number. Peter n Lola is a good example
Family › Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by phemmyfour: 3:47pm On Jul 17, 2023
robosky02:
So how do you ask?
Let your eyes n hand do the talk. Touch the right places. A good couple communicate without talking
Family › Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by phemmyfour: 3:43pm On Jul 17, 2023
robosky02:
Marriage is indeed a beautiful institute. Some even say it is the. Oldest institution and was ordained by God himself.
It is even more amazing when the union involves two love birds, who have learned to really COMMUNICATE thier feeling, emotions, fears and commit to better thier weakness.

However marriage will be boring when there is a breakdown in communication. Especially in matters about the other room play, finance and third parties like In-laws and exes.

A man has been complaining that his wife doesn't initiate love making. Even if she is in the mood except he does. This has been thier other room complain.

So I want to ask the house
A. Is it only the man that should initiate conjugal play?
B. Is it wrong for a woman to ask for it as a legally married woman
C. What would make a woman shy away


Let's talk or counsel or advice to help somebody.


Please help a couple and other to learn.
It's normal

Whoever needs it can ask for it

No rules, no timetable

As a man, you should be worried if you're the one demanding for it every time.

It's either you are not doing a good job or she doesn't find you appealing sexually.
Romance › Re: Is It Polite To Secretly Call My Potential Father-In -Law? by phemmyfour: 3:41pm On Jul 17, 2023
Farthing02:
I’m on the verge of proposing marriage to my girlfriend whom have been dating for 2years now, but the issue is the frequent quarrels we do have over everything.

She disrespects me a lot and this sometimes lead physical confrontations .

This is making me contemplate to secretly call her dad to inquire why he’s separated from my girlfriend's mother, because she was raised by her mother alone alongside two other sisters and the man is happily remarried with other grown up kids.

I really would love to inquire why he left her because they are really bitter against him due to the fact that he neglected them according to what the mother once told me.
You're immature. Leave that woman alone, you are not ready for marriage .

There are many orphans and kids raised by single parent doing well in their marriage.
Sports › Re: Carlos Alcaraz Beats Novak Djokovic To Win Wimbledon Men's Singles Final by phemmyfour: 11:35pm On Jul 16, 2023
budaatum:
Is this the dawn of a new Wimbledon King?
it's one off

Djokovic will bounce back
Career › Re: How Can A Single Guy Manage ₦‎25k Salary In Port Harcourt? by phemmyfour: 11:33pm On Jul 16, 2023
Sirchiboy:
Comments can come in now
Is it for garri, ẹwà, àgbàdo
Romance › Re: Photos Of A Cute Couple Who Met On Nairaland by phemmyfour: 8:34pm On Jul 16, 2023
Puss360:
God whenhuh? 🙈🙈🙈🙈....
When you start replying DMs
Romance › Re: Photos Of A Cute Couple Who Met On Nairaland by phemmyfour: 8:33pm On Jul 16, 2023
obembet:
God when huh when 😭😭😭😭? Stil Dot know why nairaland guys dey ignore me
When you start promoting Messi, we will consider you
Health › Re: Strange Recurring Boil Pus On My Child's Back (Viewers Discretion) by phemmyfour: 2:55pm On Jul 16, 2023
Maravilla:
Please doctors in the house, for some weeks now my 4yr old son has this recurring boils on his back and armpit, when I burst them, it brings out a pus like substance and form a sore. I went to the hospital, the doctor said it was a bacteria infection and I was giving some antibiotics, yet so far no tangible results. Please I need your assistance
ringworm not boil....It's a fungal infection
Let him take Griseofulvin tablet for one month
Food › Re: How Much Will You Pay For This Food In Your Area ? by phemmyfour: 2:21pm On Jul 16, 2023
EnemyofGod2:
Be sincere.

In My place tans Amadi pot harcourt, this food goes up to N800 naira . fish 500, rice 200 why beans 100 naira.

Nairalander's.How much will you pay for this food in your area and where is your area ?
N1000
The beans isn't looking fresh
Celebrities › Re: Wizkid Celebrates 33rd Birthday Today by phemmyfour: 11:41am On Jul 16, 2023
nlfpmod:
Wizkid Turns 33 Today.



https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wizkid
He's no longer a kid. Happy birthday Wizzy
Christianity Etc › Re: As A Christian, What Is Your Best Posture Or Position When Praying? by phemmyfour: 11:34am On Jul 16, 2023
ebubeson:
Some may love kneeling down mostly when praying or standing or lying down or walking or sitting. Whichever way, let your prayers be of quality..

So what is your best posture or position when praying?
In Christianity, the position of the body count for nothing. It's more of the heart and the act of prayer that's important
Christianity Etc › Re: I Pray To Die Same Day With My Wife Says E.A Adeboye by phemmyfour: 11:32am On Jul 16, 2023
jesusjnr2020:
To be "taken together" doesn't necessarily mean to "die together".

Matthew 24:40-42 (KJV)

Then shall two be in the field; the one shall be taken, and the other left.
Two women shall be grinding at the mill; the one shall be taken, and the other left.
Watch therefore: for ye know not what hour your Lord doth come.


The most important though, is that they were both ready whenever their time comes tp depart this world.

God bless.
In this context, Baba is talking about death ....ITK
Family › Re: Who Are The Real Middle Class In Nigeria? by phemmyfour: 11:30am On Jul 16, 2023
Nice2023:
I don't agree with u.

I am practically in the middle class.
grin
Christianity Etc › Re: You Can Be Fasting And Be Prayerful & Still Die Of Hunger - Rev. Mike Okoh by phemmyfour: 11:27am On Jul 16, 2023
jesusjnr2020:
You could be hardworking and still die of hunger.

Being hard-working doesn't guarantee the lack of hunger.

Peter and Andrew toiled all night in the sea but caught no single fish. Luke 5:5
Balance your message

The following morning, he still cast his net at the command of Jesus. The fish didn't jump into his boat.

Combination of hard work and prayer bring success

Lk 5:5-6

But because you say so, I will let down the nets.”

6 When they had done so, they caught such a large number of fish that their nets began to break.
Family › Re: Who Are The Real Middle Class In Nigeria? by phemmyfour: 11:23am On Jul 16, 2023
Nice2023:
The real middle class in Nigeria are individuals and families who have a moderate income level, typically earning between N500,000 to N10,000,000 ($1,200 to $24,000) per year. They often hold white-collar jobs in sectors such as banking, finance, education, healthcare, and technology. The middle class in Nigeria is characterized by their ability to afford a decent standard of living, including owning their own homes, sending their children to good schools, having access to healthcare services, and possessing some discretionary income for leisure activities and savings. They typically reside in urban areas, particularly in the major cities like Lagos, Abuja, and Port Harcourt. The middle class in Nigeria is considered the backbone of the economy and plays a vital role in consumer spending and economic growth.
middle class no longer exist in Nigeria
Romance › Re: Did You Recover The Money You Spent After Your Wedding?. by phemmyfour: 11:18am On Jul 16, 2023
nkemjacob2:
Let me ask those who are married.

I meant a friend who said he did recover his money even more than 100%.
I never borrowed.
2. It's not a financial investment, so trying to "recover" what you spent doesn't make sense.

It's an irresponsible move to borrow to do wedding. You should have a plan in place financially before the D day.
Romance › Re: Your Partner Confessed To Cheating... by phemmyfour: 11:17am On Jul 16, 2023
Melhome23:
What do you do when your partner confeases to cheating??
Watch the video below. Please SUBSCRIBE after watching. Thank you. Leave a comment for me too


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vohg_7_DLms
Forgive her n let her go
Art, Graphics & Video › Re: What Is The Best Caption For This Picture by phemmyfour: 11:13am On Jul 16, 2023
Ugaboy:
What is the best caption for this pic below

Me: Food is life, Happiness is free.
Good food is the foundation of genuine happiness.
Christianity Etc › Re: Do Catholics In Nigeria Actually Confess To Their Priests? by phemmyfour: 11:09am On Jul 16, 2023
jmoore:
Do they confess to their priests?

Do they mention the sin they did?

Those that are still fornicating, do they confess to the priests that they had premarital sex with someone?
confessing to God through Jesus Christ is the ultimate. No priest has the power to forgive sins.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: How Can You Manage 150k Salary In Lagos?? by phemmyfour: 11:01am On Jul 16, 2023
Englishisamust:
How can a single person manage a 150k salary job in lagos. Considering house rent and a lot of expenses that are high here in lagos??

I need your input guys!!!
Look for shared apartment with your guys.

Live close to your working place

Normalize cooking instead of buying food

If you must have girlfriend, she must be a working class one.

Get a side hustle....even people with 500k salary per month have side hustles.
Properties › Re: Story Of How I Finally Got My Apartment !!! by phemmyfour: 7:56am On Jul 16, 2023
Donkogbe:
This is a true life story about me.
I don't know how to write so don't mind my text errorrs.

I came from a very poor background and a divided family with no single love among siblings. Its affected my mental health allot.
My mother gave birth to 8 children. 4 girls 4 boys and i am the last born. I have never enjoy my childhood because i was surrounded with brothers and sisters that don't like each other and the hatred grew that my elder brother from another father bullied and gave me a tough childhood till i grew to be a tennager. i endure everything but i was setting my head on what could be going wrong in the family maybe it is a curse or something.

i fought my way through school and struggled to pay my tuition fee plus accommodation and life expenses. I was living in face me and slap you in abeokuta and i experienced one of the dreadful moments of my existence. But glory to God it made me stronger and wise to be a man i am today.

I finish my service year this feb 2 and i went back to my mothers house because i lost allot of money from a trip that took me and my ex from jos to lagos. i went back to ogun state to stay with my mum God so good she traveled to london to stay with my rich sister from another father ( the family is so divided that nobody love each other, the rich don't want to help but taking care of our mother) She travelled for 4month and i was able to save my apartment money.

Just today to the Glory of God, the poor boy that was digraced and shamed in abeokuta, the boy they have written off and said he can never make it in life or do good things HAS JUST SEALED AND PAID IN CASH HIS APARTMENT DREAM. This will be the first time i will be experiencing maximum privacy.

I am not showing off or trying to brag. I am only setting it out to whoever come accross this story that " whatever you set your mind to do irrespective of coming from a very poor background" with focus and diligence, YOU WILL ACHIEVE THEM. Stay blessed
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OP please push to FP. i need to see people comment and views.
So disjointed a family.....at least, give us a glimpse of the apartment
Romance › Re: Nigerian Man Proposes To His Lecturer (pics/video) by phemmyfour: 7:52am On Jul 16, 2023
advanceDNA:
So lectures and turorials don dey go on in za oza room.......


By the way....isnt this supposed to be unethical yet, una dey post am....

Lol...One of his friends will soon be like... "guy.....i no do well for that risk management course at all... help me tell ur babe make she just give me let my pple go"...
It's a skit
Family › Re: Marriage: Women Decry Lack Of Financially Eligible Suitors by phemmyfour: 7:50am On Jul 16, 2023
Zigzagman:
Marriage: Women decry a lack of financially eligible suitors


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6hWypHOGur8

In Nigeria and across Africa today, women today are struggling to find men who earn as much as they do.

There is a shortage of economically attractive men and this has contributed to battles for control in relationships in which the women outearn their men. According to the young women in the trending video below, a good man is hard to find, especially in this economy.

Although we like to think marriage is based on love, they say, it “also is fundamentally an economic transaction,” and women want partners whom they can call their equals.

Two of the women on the panel confessed they'd fought with their partners, exchanging blows over money and control.

So, here are the questions for discussion within this thread:

1. Does a “lack of good jobs” for men contribute to loss of male control in a relationship?

2. Have you been in a romantic relationship in which a partner who had economic power over you, was tempted to control you or abuse you physically or verbally?

3. How do you go about handling it?


Please watch the video and share your opinion.
Nothing stops her from being the financially eligible partner in a relationship.

No gender is allergic to making money.

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