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RomanceRe: When An Angry Husband Refuses To Eat And Have Sex With His Wife, Who Is Losing? by phemy36(m): 10:58am On Jun 04, 2020
Jullima:
This is going to be my last post on this thread, it’s starting to get ridiculous.

What has menopause got to do with not kowtowing to a an adult male that calls himself the head of a home childish solutions to a marital problem? I believe in communication and that’s how mature adults should handle their affairs.

It’s only a selfish man that will put his feelings above his family. How does not eating food resolve anything??

Why should I worry or care wether a grown man has refused to eat, is he a child?? He put himself in that position. When an adult decides to throw a tantrum like a toddler, the best is to ignore him. Lol we talking about men in their 30s and above, what kind of people are this?
I laugh reading your quote. I have someone like you as a wife before, a BNSc. Very proud, not bother if i eat or not. I one day packed out of where we both stay, rent another apartment, left my daughter with her, always pay my daughter school fees and upkeep leaving my life as bachelor, enjoying every bit of myself. She's close to 40 now. She has been calling now to sort things out with me,which I decline. Her mummy call me to see her this Sunday, I told her that i will come, but i will not. Be humble to enjoy your home. If not you will suffer for it and your wards will be brought up in a terrible environment.
FamilyRe: I Cause Pain To A Lot Of People by phemy36(m): 9:59pm On May 22, 2020
Divine89:
Hello everybody. I am Nigerian based in France. My English it is not 100% perfect but I will try to make it possible for you to understand me with the help of google french to English translator and my story is also long sorry for that.

When I was 9 years old I joined my uncle, my mum's younger brother in France. He declared me as his daughter. During that time he only had one child, 2 years old. He and the wife were so loving to me. I never lacked anything in their house.

But when I turned 12, I went to secondary school. I met some bad friends there. This is where the problem started.I became a very difficult child. I will go to school come home late. My uncle will beat and beat me but I never listened. I smoked my first cigarette at 12 and had my first sex at 13 and I started running away from home to stay with boyfriends. Sometimes I can go for a week and when uncle reporta me missing, the police will be looking for me, then they will bring me back home.

Then at 14 I went to school and lied to my teacher that my uncle was abusing me. I told them he was beating me with belts, electric wire, they don’t give me foods and I really said a lot of bad things about them doing to me to make my teacher believe my story so they could take me away from them because I wanted freedom and my teacher believed me and reported to the police and child protection, they are people who take away abused children from their parents. They took custody of me and my uncle three children, the youngest was 6 months old to their care and they gave us to this white lady to care for us and my uncle and wife were arrested for child abuse and the police were doing some investigation.

After spending 1yr 9 months in care of the white lady I dropped out school. They found out that I was a difficult child that I lied to get freedom so they have decided to give my uncle his children back to him while I stayed in care of white people but my uncle had sworn because I made him lost his children for 1yr 9 months that I will never found happiness in my life and I will never enjoy the fruit of my labour which it is true as I am typing this.

I have given birth to 6 children by 6 men and none of the children is living with me. The first one was taken away from me at 2 months old because I beat her up and fractured her hands and I also tested positive for heroinn (drugs), so that did not stop me from giving birth second child was removed from my care 4 hours after birth she also tested positive for heroin the same way my other children were removed at birth too so I carry on with my lifestyles. I did not care about my children at that time all I care about was sex, alcohol and drugs this is what I wanted and I have been to prison several times for selling drugs and fraudsters. The longest I have spent in prison was 2 years then after i left prison, I met with this sister who introduced me to this church she attended so I went along with her, the pastor told me to confess my sin to him and promised it will be a secret between I, him and God which I did repented and accepted Jesus as my saviour. To be honest, my life did changed a lot, I fell the peace in my heart , enjoyed going to church every Sunday but this pastor went tell his wife my life story and the wife told everyone in church my life story and started using it against me so it made me so angry that I left the church in November 2017 without looking back. I have decided not to attend any church again. I have stopped alcohol, taking drugs and sleeping with men I no longer do it. I prayed at home, read my bible and behaving good and it's almost 2 years I havnt slept with a man and i went to look for my uncle asking him for forgiveness but he has refused and I send him many text messages begging him to forgive and I still no heard anything from him or the wife even their children I have tried to ask them forgiveness they have blocked me and they all want nothing to do with me even my own parents and siblings in Africa they have rejected me, none of them want to talk to me, my parents said i am dead to them, it is so painful I cry everyday in my prayers, as for my children 4 of them are adopted with new family. I can't see them again maybe until they are 18 years old If they want to know me if they don't want I will have no choice to accept it and my 2 youngest children i am only allowed to see them once a year in a children play centre with someone supervise because they don't let me to be alone with them and soon I will stop visiting them because they are planning to adopt them to a new family too that will mean I will have nobody on this earth.

I regret my mistake so bad I wish I could change it but it will no be impossible. I can't have more children because they will be removed from me like the others and I am only 31years old. I don't know if my repentance was genius because my family has refused to forgive me and my question goes like this if they never forgive me will I ever found happiness again or I will just have to accept it until I died?

Please, advise me in a Christian way maybe if there's more I can do and also prayed for me so my family will be able to forgive me and also pray for my two children that nobody will adopt them so I can get custody of them and i promised to be a good mother to them, please I am begging you in the name of God.
You can contact me through this no 08132091300. WhatsApp only
PoliticsEkiti: Confusion As Local Govt Officials Allegedly Break Into Palace by phemy36(op): 2:41pm On May 22, 2020
Pandemonium broke out in Orin community in Ido-Osi Local Government Area of Ekiti State when a team of officials of the Ido-Osi Local Government allegedly led by Secretary to the local government Mr Olumide George Fadipe and the Chairman, Adeola Adedimeji, allegedly broke into the palace of the late Olorin of Orin-Ekiti, Oba Oluwole Olubunmo, carting away many sacred items meant for the installation ceremony of the Oba and other vital documents.

A youth leader in the community, Mr Martins Omotoso, who spoke to reporters Thursday evening, alleged that:



‘At about 10:45 am today, a team of officials of the Ido-Osi Local Government Area who were led by the Chairman and his Secretary brought security operatives and some men appointed as warrant chiefs by the state government to the palace of our late monarch. They broke into the palace and broke the doors and carted away many sacred items meant for installing the monarch and many documents stored therein. They did this because they didn’t have the keys to the palace. The man who has the keys to the place is Chief John Ilori who is the Elewere of Orin, who is the traditional custodian of the property inside the palace. They also carried out a purported selection process and barred the people of the town from witnessing the process as demanded by tradition.

‘We suspect that these people are being sponsored by the government of the day in order to forcefully install the anointed candidate of the state government which they want to impose on the people of the town. Only yesterday, the government through the Ido-Osi local government sent letters of suspension to the traditional kingmakers of Orin without stating any reasons for their suspension.

‘The government had also appointed their own people as warrant chiefs and we leant that they have bribed these people who had followed the LG officials in company of security operatives to steal the royal traditional sacred items for installation of the monarch. This is so terrible. We wonder if this is how Governor Kayode Fayemi wants to restore our values.



‘They were in town in the company of the warrant chiefs to begin Obaship selection from Ajibewa ruling house that was not recognised by history and tradition.

‘We even learnt one Olufemi Adeniran Ajibewa has been selected against our culture and tradition. We appeal to people of good conscience to beg them not to cause chaos in Orin Ekiti.’

Reacting to the allegation, the Secretary to Ido-Osi local government, denied the claims, saying that he and those in his team had merely acted on the instruction contained in a white paper from the state government which directed that the selection and installation of a new monarch of the town be commenced without delay.

‘lt is a mere fallacy to say that we broke into the palace of Olorin today. All the property inside the palace are government property, including all the workers there, including the security guard, they are all staff of government. So, we did not break into the palace but we only went there to carry out the instruction of the government on selection of the new monarch and that has to be done with the protection of security men. The kingmakers existing before were suspended by the government because they had failed to perform their duty of producing a new monarch more than five years after the death of the late monarch. So government-appointed warrant chiefs were with us to preside over the selection process today. In the government paper, we have three ruling houses of Famokiti, Olubunmo and Ajibewa and the next in line is the Ajibewa family,’ he said.

Mr Fadipe also denied the allegation by the Orin people that Governor Fayemi wanted to impose a candidate who is a personal friend on the people of the town.
https://www.sunnewsonline.com/ekiti-confusion-as-local-govt-officials-allegedly-break-into-palace/
CareerRe: Should I Expose Them? by phemy36(m): 6:04pm On May 21, 2020
Fabulouzjoseph:
For me minding your business is the best.
Na thief they know im fellow thief grin you might incriminate yourself while trying to report them undecided
I have seen where people put their self in trouble for trying to help others.

in simi's voice: mind your business wether you no like am mind your business.
Nigeria will never progress with this mindset. Let assume you are the owner of this company, will you give this advice. You must be indulging yourself in something related to this to be giving this terrible advice. I don't pray to meet your like let alone working with someone of your mindset
CelebritiesRe: Tiwa Savage: I Might Go Naked In My Next Video by phemy36(m): 10:19pm On May 16, 2020
perdollar:
u need doggy really. it wl help cool ur mouth
I'm disappointed in you. Why do you reply her. Why can't you ignore that hoe
RomanceRe: Out Of The Blue by phemy36(m): 6:34am On May 12, 2020
CasNova:
A uniformed security man I had seen the last time I was there opened the gate for me. He must have been told I was coming as he made no fuss about allowing me to enter the grand house.

The maid told me Big Mummy was in her bedroom, expecting me. I went up to her room, knocked once and opened the door.

“Good day, madam.”

“Hello, Bayo.”

This time, she sat at the dressing table, packing her hair. She was wearing another spaghetti and another bum short. She looked much younger than her age, much prettier and more attractive.

From what I could see, she was wearing the second lacy bra (the beige one) that I had got for her. Her huge rack looked incredible with the heavily wired power-bra pressing those big tits together and upwards enticingly. I gave her a peck and sat on the sofa, staring at her.

“I want to ask you a question,” she said.

I looked at her in surprise. “Ask me any question, madam.”

"Answer it honestly. Don’t you think I'm a fat and unattractive?"

I moved closer to her, put my hands on her shoulders and looked intently into her eyes.

"Ma’am, believe me when I say this; you are one of the most beautiful women I have ever seen.

And God's honest truth, I'm not saying that because you're my boss or employer. I'm saying it because it's the truth.”

I looked down at her sumptuous chest, the big swells rising and falling beneath her top with each warm breath she took.

"Your breasts ... they're not just beautiful ... they're spectacular. I have never seen such nice breasts in my whole life. Maybe I’m full of exuberance, but that’s just exactly what I feel. What I've told you is the absolute truth. Please trust me when I say that."

Her bottom lip trembled as my eyes remained locked on hers, letting her know everything I said came from deep within my soul.

"Oh Bayo, I love you so much." She pulled me close and hugged me tightly, tears of joy running down her face.

I slid my arms around her and held her warm soft body against me, letting her find the comfort she so badly needed within my loving arms.

"I love you too. Really, from the bottom of my heart, I do."

After I said that, she squeezed me tighter, and I let her cry. Why exactly was she crying? Was it because of the joy of finding a man that seemed sincere and could say those wonderful things?

Or could it be that she suffered so much insecurity with her first husband and was now delighted that a man was saying those wonderful words?

Whatever was the case, I kept cool. My arms were around her body and I gently stroked her shoulders until her tears finally ceased.

She slowly composed herself and pulled herself back from me, a warm smile starting to spread across her tear-stained face.



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Christianity EtcAbel Mwelwa: Zambian Priest Suspended After Married Lover Died In His House by phemy36(op): 8:24am On May 10, 2020
SUSPENDED PRIEST WAS BONKING SOMEONE'S WIFE WHO WAS FOUND DEAD IN HIS HOUSE.

By George Lemba

The Catholic Church has suspended St. Maurice (Kaunda Square Catholic Church) Parish Priest Abel Mwelwa from priesthood after a married woman he had an extramarital affair with died in his Parish House during the Easter Holiday.

The married woman is said to have lied to her husband that she was going for a funeral with her fellow women from the Catholic Women's League but went to Father Mwelwa's Parish House where she died in the night in unexplained circumstances.

According to memo from Alick Banda, the Archbishop of Lusaka addressed to the clergy, religious and Lay faithful, Father Mwelwa has been suspended with immediate effect.
"I hereby wish to inform you that I have with immediate effect suspended the Very Rev. Ringford Abel Mwelwa from the priesthood indefinitely. With this suspension he ceases to be Parish Priest for Kaunda Square Parish as well as Judicial Vicar of the Archbishop of Lusaka," read the two-paragraphed memo dated 30th April 2020.

According to her fellow women from the Catholic Women's League (CWL), the woman was invited to Father Mwelwa's Parish House on Holy Thursday night.

"She was a married woman from St. Maurice and she lied to her husband that she was going for a funeral with her fellow league members in Kaunda Square. Sadly she died in Abel's room in the Parish House that night - on Holy Thursday," said the source.

The source said Father Mwelwa called some CWL members from St. Maurice who came to pick up the body and took it to Levy Mwanawasa University Teaching Hospital where she was confirmed dead on arrival and taken to the University Teaching Hospital mortuary as brought in dead (BID).

The source said the Archbishop of Lusaka was made to pay for the funeral expenses by the family of the deceased woman.

Police are waiting for postmortem results to determine what led to her death.

The Catholic church World over does not tolerate nonsense and in Zambia it is far much better than the PF in terms of morals and discipline.
If it was in the PF, the suspended priest would have continued doing what he was doing as can be seen by the way Edgar Lungu treats his fellow corrupt criminals like Chitalu Chilufya and others.

In the pictures is the suspended priest with someone's wife who died in house though its not clear whether the woman died of conjugal activities or God simply allowed this to act as deterrent to anyone including Christians for Lungu who we know that are busy breaking marriages.
https://mobile.facebook.com/OnlyKoswe/posts/suspended-priest-was-bonking-someones-wife-who-was-found-dead-in-his-house-by-ge/1310606142478038/?_rdc=1&_rdr

RomanceRe: Abby Chioma Poses Topless As She Shares Her Worries While Under Lockdown (photos by phemy36(m): 8:42pm On May 09, 2020
Ehya pele
PoliticsAbba Kyari Was Not A Good Man And Nigeria Will Not Miss Him- Shadrach Bako by phemy36(op): 9:36am On Apr 24, 2020
No one needed to have had any personal relationship with him to know that.

The same way we don't have to be Buhari's close friend or associate to know the kind of person he is.

Those who believe that Abba Kyari was a good man will one day tell the world that Abubakar Shekau of Boko Haram is a good man - and why not?

We do not have a personal relationship with him so how can we be certain that he is not.

Shekau, the Boko Haram leadee, may have done so much for his fighters. He may be taking care of their families - which in fact explain why they have been so faithful to him as to not mind laying down their lives for his evil cause.

Don't you think?

But that's precisely where the problem lies with subjective reasoning.

How good a leader is or otherwise cannot be measured through the prism of personal relationship and interactions because that in itself proves that the leader isn't ‘truly’ good.

Not everyone would have had access to Kyari even if he were to be the Chief of Staff to Buhari for the next 50 years.

It is True that not everyone would have access to Buhari till he leaves office.

Quite frankly, people do not need to have personal contact with their leader to know the kind of person they are.

Why do I need to have personal access to a national leader to know how good they are when I can feel the pulse of their ‘good’ through the policies they enact and the quality of their leadership?

Abba Kyari was the de facto president of Nigeria who wielded so much power. He was the most powerful man in Aso Rock. Nothing happened in Nigeria without late Kyari assenting to it. And I mean, ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!

Buhari was just and has always been a ceremonial president. Kyari ran the government. Kyari gave directives and orders that Buhari didn't even have knowledge of. That was how powerful Kyari was in his position as CoS.

He could do and undo. He had the power to influence a lot that would better the lives of Nigerians.

But what did he do?

He abused the privileged position of power that he found himself in, forgetting that power is transient.

I will cite just one instance of Kyari's misdeeds that had a direct consequence on Nigerias preparation against coronavirus.

It was Abba Kyari who in October 2018 stripped the Ministry of Health of its powers to procure anything and transferred the authority to the Federal Ministry of Agriculture and Rural Development due to a power play between him and then Minister of Health, Prof. Isaac Adewole, according to a Punch report.

Kyari wanted to prove that nothing could be done in the Ministry of Health without him and when Isaac Adewole, the Professor Minister refused to let an 'ordinary' Kyari order him around, not only did Kyari strip the health ministry of its powers to procure anything and transferred the authority to the Federal Ministry of Agriculture and Rural Development just to prove that he was powerful.



Kyari made sure that Adewole was removed from office 8 months later, for no justifiable reason other than to prove a point, and he refused to reverse the directive that stripped the health ministry of its powers to procure items meant for the health ministry without going through the Ministry of Agriculture and Rural Development.

It was this singular and reckless display of power by Kyari in 2018 that slowed down preparations for the prevention of Coronavirus in Nigeria, despite the Federal Government releasing N386m to scale up preparation to tackle the pandemic on February 21, 2020.

Imagine the Ministry of Health having to make formal requests for sensitive materials needed to fight coronavirus through the Agric ministry and waiting for days on to get approval all because of Kyaris quest for power and youll realize the damage that Kyari did to Nigeria.

For once in your life, use your brain to think. What is the correlation between the Ministry of Agriculture and Ministry of Health?

Late Kyari was culpable for manslaughter.

Sad thing is, that is one of Kyaris many misdeeds that innocent Nigerians are paying for.

There is nothing about the man that Nigeria and Nigerians will miss.

For those saying late Kyari did the bidding of his boss, Buhari, and therefore should be exonerated from the failures of the Buhari regime. Lets pretend to agree with your line of thought.

Now please answer this: What does that make Abba Kyari?

Not to forget.

It was same Abba Kyari that Aisha Buhari, the presidents own wife accused of hijacking the government.

In June 2016, it was same Abba Kyari that Kaduna State Governor, Nasir ElRufai, accused, together with Babachir Lawal, former Secretary to the Government of the Federation, of being careless in a memo he had written to the president.

It was same Abba Kyari who collected a bribe of N500 million to help cut down the fine of $5 billion imposed on MTN by the Nigeria Communications Commission (NCC) for a security-related infraction.

It was Abba Kyari whom the National Security Adviser, Babagana Monguno accused of jumping into the security affairs of the nation.

Mr. Monguno even warned that all service chiefs should desist from taking directives from late Kyari without president Buharis knowledge which in fact lends credence to my claim that Kyari acted on several occasions during his reign as CoS without Buharis knowledge.

Here is an excerpt of the letter Mr. Monguno had written:

"Chief of staff to the President is not a presiding head of security, neither is he sworn to an oath of defending the country. As such, unprofessional practices such as presiding over meetings with service chiefs and heads of security organisations as well as ambassadors and high commissioners to the exclusion of the NSA and/or supervising ministers are a violation of the Constitution and directly undermine the authority of Mr President.

Such acts and continued meddlesomeness by the chief of staff have not only ruptured our security and defense efforts, but have slowed down any meaningful gain that Mr. President has sought to achieve," he said.

In 2017, the then Minister of State for Petroleum Resources, Ibe Kachikwu, accused Mr Kyari of blocking him from seeing the president over matters relating to the ministry.

Abba Kyaris daughter was also secretly appointed as an assistant vice president at the Nigerian Sovereign Investment Authority (NSIA), a position that Nigerians were riled that it was never publicly advertised.

Kyaris notable ills is perhaps how he reportedly influenced the President to discard Vice President Yemi Osinbajos request for approval for funds to continue his role in resolving the deadly farmers-herdsmen crisis.

Mr Kyari was said to have approached the president with a similar proposal after rubbishing Mr Osinbajos request before the president.

Kyari was also allegedly involved in scrapping of the Economic Management Team (EMT) which Mr Osinbajo headed and this was replaced with the Economic Advisory Council (EAC).

To prove that Kyari and Buhari are birds of same feather, Buhari further strengthened the position of his ally when he warned that only memos that go through the late chief of staff would get his attention.

Is this a man whose death Nigerians should mourn?

I'd like to complete this piece by warning that we are in perilous times. This is not a time to sit on the fence and watch as actions of up-to-no-good politicians undermine the collective interests of Nigerians.

We need to learn to throw political correctness in the trash bin where it belongs and start to call a spade a spade. An evil man does not become good because he is dead.

Abba Kyari had enormous powers to positively affect Nigerians but he chose to abuse it.

You only have to imagine what if Mr. Kyari had done things differently prior to his death?

Power is transient. Maybe if every politician lives in the consciousness that not even death would erase the memories of what they did whilst in position of authority, they would act more responsibly and in the interest of all Nigerians.

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BusinessHow Can I Convert My TBC To Cash by phemy36(op): 7:15pm On Apr 05, 2020
Good evening house. I invested in TBC which generated to 5112 Kringle, about $20 million if converted to dollar. I want to know if I can convert it to cash or use it to purchase cars. Your opinion is needed please.
RomanceRe: Out Of The Blue by phemy36(m): 9:37pm On Mar 29, 2020
CasNova:
I looked down and could see pre-cum oozing constantly from the tip of my dark crimson cockhead as she masterfully stroked my raging prick in her warm soft hands.

One hand worked up and down on that raging monster while her other hand was gently rolling my swollen nuts between her delicate fingers. Man, she certainly learned quickly; it was like she wanted to make up for lost time.

"Oh Bayo, that feels so good," she whispered breathlessly as my hands lifted, squeezed and felt up those astonishingly huge boobs.

She had said they were sensitive, and her continuous moaning and ragged breathing was bearing witness to that.

I pushed directly down on her jutting nipples and was delighted when they seemed to spring right back out at me forcefully as I released them.

This had drawn another groan from her and I saw her eyes roll back and close in bliss as the marvelous sensations flowed through her.

As I worked her boobs over with my warm caressing hands, I could see her pleasure level escalating rapidly. Her breath was coming in short little gasps and she was starting to squirm around on the cushion beneath her.

I wondered about the state of her panties right now as I took those long thick nipples between my thumbs and forefingers once more and gave them a firm squeeze.

"Oh Bayo ... I ... I... ," She was almost babbling now as she squirmed about beneath my hands, and her stroking hand started to work more vigorously on my pulsing rigid pole.

I saw her tongue run out unconsciously and lick around those full soft lips of hers ... and that was all it took. As I looked at her open mouth and sexy hooded eyes, I felt that thrilling sensation as my boiling semen started to rush up the pulsating shaft of my prick once more.

I was not able to warn as the first shot jettisoned forth. We both watched spellbound as the long white rope erupted from the tip of my cock and splashed forcefully right between her big boobs.

I could see her shaking as her own climax hit her as I continued to tug and roll those thimble-sized nipples between my fingers. I was proud of her though, her stroking hand never slowed its insistent magical jacking of my spewing love-muscle as I flooded her gorgeous chest.

Shot after shot spat forth all over those stunning big breasts. My release seemed like it would go on forever as I unloaded wad after creamy wad of pearly fluid all over her sumptuous bosoms.

I was in absolute heaven, my dreams coming true right before my eyes as I continued to fill my hands with her voluminous boobs while I came, my own manipulating fingers giving her a spine-tingling orgasm at the same time.

She hissed as blissful sensations of pleasure swept through her; her tremendous boobs quivering and shaking fitfully in my hands as she rode out her climax.

Her eyes were closed with the intensity of the moment, her mouth open as she gasped for air, her whole body flushed with the heat of desire as she continued to shake in the convulsive throws of a tingling release.

As the last of my ejaculating seed rained down upon that magnificent set of big round boobs, I felt totally drained as I released her heavy breasts and sat back in the chair, my own chest heaving as I drew in deep gulps of fresh air.

My madam's hands gently released my spent prick and she lowered her arms, her own body shivering in post-orgasmic bliss as her ragged breathing echoed my own.

We just sat like that for a minute or so, me in the chair and she kneeling on the pillow between my spread thighs, our bodies slowly coming down from the endorphin high of our mutual tremendous climaxes.


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RomanceRe: So Far I Have Slept With 18 Married Women by phemy36(m): 6:56am On Mar 21, 2020
Nadoson1:
continue sir
Lol
RomanceRe: She's Pregnant And Wants To Terminate it. by phemy36(m): 4:23pm On Mar 18, 2020
prazil:
Thank you.
Don't do that as she will hate you for it. You might regret it in marriage as she may not be able to stand so many things that will happen in the process. The best thing to do his to allow her to take the decision and don't give her a dime for the abortion and don't follow her to the place as well, if possible have an evidence so that she will not put you in problem thereafter. I have similar experience before and that is what save me. If not may be i would have been in prison now. So save your future. If anything happen to her in course of that abortion, you might not be spare if you don't have evidence.
FamilyRe: Celebrating A Good Wife by phemy36(m): 11:50pm On Mar 04, 2020
LagosBoi2:
It is your birthday my darling wife, I have to make public this letter because you are the best thing that ever happened to my life and I can't keep silent anymore.

My friend and lover of 16 straight years, It is usual for husbands to appreciate their wives in the name of marriage but it is unusual to state reasons for the appreciation.

I think you don't just love, there should be genuine reasons to love, I will purge out my thoughts on the reasons you should be the most celebrated wife on earth.

As a young man, if all you ever wish for is to meet your partner a virgin, I personally NEVER wished for it but women who still keep their virginity against all odds for the right man should be specially celebrated in today's crazy world. Amazingly I can confidently say that I am the only man in her life for 16yrs until date, she is a completely faithful wife.

We have never had any issues over infidelity on her part during our courtship and marriage till date, I have been the one misbehaving through the years, growing up was crazy, I was the one exploring life and doing all I could but she submitted her life to me.

As a multi talented young lady, she submitted her career and life to me, believing in me despite all my mistakes, she is the only person that understands me even without an explanation to my human mistakes.

I can not easily forget her usual lines after giving her piece of advice, she will say "I do not see you as my husband, I see you as my own son, If my son should do this same thing you have just done, will i disown him?", "you are still young, you will outgrow these behaviours and be the best man for me"

I lost my biological mother 11 yrs ago but If I call you my mother, I have a genuine reason to do so because you stood by me in a way that only a mother can.

The 16yrs wasn't all rosy, about 9 of the 16 years was full sufferings and poverty, even when I lost hope in myself, you continued to have high hopes in me without any iota of doubt.

We were homeless on two occasions in our lives and then with 2 kids, you endured with me, staying with your mom while I stay with a friend, you even came to live with me in my friend's place.

Despite the humiliation, you refused to give up on me, you absolutely signed off your whole life to me. At a point you wore your best cloth to a company where I asked you to help me submit a proposal, a young lady tapped you to inform you that your dress is torn at the back.

If you have ever had to wear a cloth that is so used up and begins to split into two from the back, you will understand what this means, my wife came home and narrated the issue to me, she actually saw the dress before wearing it, she wore it because she had no better one to wear

I couldn't control my emotions, I began to cry like a baby, I can never forget what she told me that faithful day, she said "Baby, don't worry, the same me wearing torn cloths today will have enough to wear tomorrow, I will even be giving out because it will be excess" Behold 7yrs after her words came to pass, cloths and female accessories are the least of her worries.

Your wisdom is extraordinary even me your husband can not match, your heart so pure that you forgive the unthinkable. Your ways so pure that you find it difficult to tell a lie. You gave me a girl and 2 boys. 12yr, 6yr and 2yr respectively.

You stood by your promise to see me through to success, If you look for a woman who gives in everything into a relationship without blinking, that is my wife.

You politely correct me when I am wrong, you warmly advise me and leave me to make my final decisions, you respect me as a father not as a husband.

Your culinary skills are the best I have ever known, friends and family can testify to this, you are the best mother to our kids, your daughter calls you the best mom in the world, I also call you the best wife and mother in the world. They say no perfect human but you are near perfect. You are so beautiful that people who do not know you conclude that you must have several men in your life spending money on you to look younger and beautiful even after 3 kids.

I can go on and on because there is a lot to talk about you that is not open to others, you live a private life without desperation for anything in life, You are a woman of honor, dignity, value with undying strength to carry on and remain focus against all odds.

I promise to guide our union with my life, protect our family with my strength and celebrate you for the rest of your life.

Happy birthday my darling wife!

You are indeed the best!

Please help move this to FP today 26 Feb to celebrate a good woman's birthday.

Add: On your request, I have added pics.

Thank you.
I can't but keep reading this post over and over again
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor E.A Adeboye Celebrates His 78th Birthday (Pictures) by phemy36(m): 8:21am On Mar 02, 2020
seunlayi:
Nice short... The man that sold pmb/oshinbajo to us
Happy birthday our father in the Lord. Age with sufficient grace sir
PoliticsRe: Disquiet In Bayelsa As Supreme Court Reviews Judgement by phemy36(m): 8:30pm On Feb 25, 2020
NothingDoMe:
Senior lawyer, please educate me. Normally there are case references that lawyers normally refer to during court proceedings.

Do you know of any such case where the Supreme Court reviewed its initial judgement? Asking to learn.
Just leave that man. You can't see a learn lawyer priding himself the way he does. He is not a lawyer
RomanceRe: Out Of The Blue by phemy36(m): 6:28pm On Feb 23, 2020
kweensheba:
kudos
This guy is a genius
RomanceRe: There Is Nothing Like A Broke, Lazy Good Man by phemy36(m): 8:01pm On Feb 22, 2020
Shugavee:
there r broke guys that are cheats n any lady with such a man is stupid !! Bottom line is broke guys can’t be trusted
Can i ask how much you have in your account to be making this statement. So sorry, you are not what i think you are
CultureRe: Abdulrosheed Akanbi Suspended For 6 Months by phemy36(m): 4:56pm On Feb 21, 2020
mu2sa2:
The suspenders and the suspended both cannot be trusted: they all look alike. Who's not a rogue among them?
You should be referring to your emir up North
FamilyRe: We Have Stronger Women And Weaker Men Now!! by phemy36(m): 2:32am On Feb 17, 2020
LilMissFavvy:
I guess you are referring to the cheats who are dying on top of prostitutes daily, you aren't being sincere with your comment. Where are the worthy and responsible men? Is it the cheats? rapists? the stealing leaders? the yahoo-boys? etc. Men deserve whatever is happening to them currently, worthy/responsible men are very very few.
Like your father and brothers right. You like home training i swear
RomanceRe: Pls Help It Is Urgent by phemy36(m): 6:42am On Feb 06, 2020
Busta:
In a way, that is true.

@topic,
Money or no money, I can't stand a cheap, stingy guy.
not about depending or a guy or that I have to work. Even if i work, its only nice, loving and romantic that my guy shld spend on me.
u have to spend on me oh. That is why he is the man and I am the woman  tongue
Sorry to quote you but to be honest with you. You don't have class. I mean you are cheap
PoliticsRe: Presidency Backs CAN 's Protests Over Insecurity, Pastor Andimi’s Killing by phemy36(m): 5:53am On Feb 05, 2020
Awol1:
Don't mind the fool.

Now the abokis have finally succeeded in exonerating themselves from his stupidity.

How can call CAN an opposition party because they complained about killings.
It beat my imagination my brother
PoliticsRe: Presidency Backs CAN 's Protests Over Insecurity, Pastor Andimi’s Killing by phemy36(m): 11:24pm On Feb 04, 2020
Femi Adesina will say otherwise
CrimeRe: Death Sentence: Maryam Sanda Cries In Court As She Is To Die By Hanging by phemy36(m): 2:07pm On Jan 28, 2020
jimyjames:
My friend keep quiet,

Are you telling me the dead man is innocent?
Are you there when it happen
PoliticsRe: LG Crisis: Oyo Government To Prosecute Those Who Vandalize LG Properties by phemy36(m):
Blue3k2:
The governor is powering to go after the LG chairman. Who knows who will prevail. Stay tuned for the next episode.
You are not aware of the happening in the state. Try to read this

CrimeRe: Death Sentence: Maryam Sanda Cries In Court As She Is To Die By Hanging by phemy36(m): 1:41pm On Jan 27, 2020
jimyjames:
She stabbed him in self defense the judge is not fair,


this is Sharia law I no go gree
May you be stab in self defense. Say abig amen to it. Call injustice what it is
PoliticsRe: Amotekun: Cleric, Hunters, OPC, Others Lead Solidarity Rally In Ekiti by phemy36(m): 6:20am On Jan 22, 2020
Perfecttouchade:
I ma se un baami..I will love to learn more, I'm an ekiti man who does not know how to speak it jaare..I ma ba mi ki gbogbo u le o grin
You really try. Kete ara ule agbo. A kere oko dele ooo
PoliticsRe: Amotekun: Cleric, Hunters, OPC, Others Lead Solidarity Rally In Ekiti by phemy36(m): 10:09pm On Jan 21, 2020
Perfecttouchade:
okun o a we
Ora Aba. Sala lo se
PoliticsRe: Amotekun: Cleric, Hunters, OPC, Others Lead Solidarity Rally In Ekiti by phemy36(m): 7:31pm On Jan 21, 2020
Thumb up for my people in Ekiti

PoliticsRe: Police Barricade Gani Fawehinmi Park Venue Of Amotekun Rally In Lagos (photos) by phemy36(m): 7:28pm On Jan 21, 2020
okorotalkative:
Please keep them busy there for like a week, they no kuku get work pass to dey disturb youths with iphone.

These one wey dey use sienna fear them.
On Amotekun we stand. Meanwhile see Ekiti walk

PoliticsRe: Akeredolu: I Am Not Bothered If Amotekun Will Cost Me Second Term Ambition by phemy36(m): 11:07am On Jan 21, 2020
So we still have people like this man in southwest. Better day ahead of us in the region. Thanks sir

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