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mercyvivv:
First and foremost, you're simply naive! When you enter into a relationship, look around, try to find out your partners problems. Is she been pestered to get married, is she broke just finding anything to hold onto as a lifeline, is she just for the fling, sex, etc. These should inform how you relate.
Second, you don't say "yes" when you mean to say "no"! It would lead to a fight, quarrel let it be. Stand up and stick to your gun. What you mostly fail to see is that most women don't get spite when you turn them down, especially over a demand you absolutely can't meet, rather they see you as principle, real and rational.
Third, you just said your own part of the story and it doesn't sound good even when it came from your mouth, imagine when we have the opportunity to hear the other side of the story from her?
My verdict: No one pushed you into a corner, you allowed yourself to be led into it. By the way, forget your principles , cos you have none. And about time you understand too that Heaven won't fall if she works in your establishment. What you feel is unsafe, and somehow you seem to feed on her joblessness, perhaps as a tool to keep her in check and susceptible to your whim and caprices. If you truly have a way and means of helping anyone, please do, ditch the rationality. She doesn't necessarily need to be your wife or pay you back for your generosity, No. Posterity has it in store!

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I'm so sorry to say. You are self-centered and hypocrite if you can't do that in your case

God bless you my Governor. Ride on

Wiifesnatcher:
when you're done doing copy and paste you should also memorize it. I welcomed anything that will revive your lost brain

Foreigners in SA by country

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Source: United Nations (2017)[7]
Place of birth Population
Total foreign-born 4,036,696
Zimbabwe 649,385
Mozambique 381,386
Lesotho 312,537
Namibia 174,043
United Kingdom 123,764
Malawi 102,327
Germany 93,660
Zambia 92,075
Swaziland 87,362
Botswana 69,160
Angola 65,716
DR Congo 50,340
Portugal 44,925
India 39,907
China 38,684
Italy 38,515
Netherlands 33,217
Congo 32,497
Somalia 30,847
Nigeria 27,326
Kenya 27,143
Ireland 19,989
United States 16,713
Pakistan 16,517
Poland 16,276
Tanzania 15,823
Greece 14,912
Mauritius 14,043
Belgium 13,128
France 12,506
Australia 11,898
Ghana 11,013
Burundi 10,822
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Immigration_to_South_Africa

I'm so happy i supported this visionary leader against Tinubu stooge. Please don't disappoint me sir

And this one call himself a governor. Shame on Kaduna people who made him their god. Expecting you to contest for president

kpompey:
It is obvious how bad these people can be .I mean the hungry blindfolded people following Seyi makinde.Point of correction,I never belong to APC but instead I will rather be a mouth piece to the good people of Oyo state.Ajimobi is a poor governor too but far better than this man who lives on propaganda politics.What we expect from him is to do his job and not point accusing fingers.Quoting your governor now,Ajimobi paid 1 billion and awarded the contract,I only paid the balance of 200 million and commission the project.
Moreover,let me educate you a bit, the idea of notebooks and big notes is a routine project in Oyo state, from Lam whom I am a beneficiary to Ladoja and Ajimobi, none of them boasted about this as an achievement except your myopic governor, who is taking the advantage of social media to earn himself cheap popularity. Again, ask from people living abroad whom we believe has a better structure,learning is not the numbers of hours you spent in classroom but the quality of teachers,facilities on ground,incentives goes a long way.Your Makinde increased the learning period of student including weekend soon this stupid policy will be someone thesis at the faculty of education in UI, who will evaluate his outcome.Teachers are not sufficient, the little available ones entered through the back door with 9 F9's in different subject, yet your governor never imagine that the best thing to do is to audit system by giving the common entrance and waec exams to teachers who are training the students.I am very sure only 5 percent will pass, yet a very good percentage of our allocation goes to this recurrent bill.Let me tell you I know many of this so called teachers who can not even utter a single statement correctly yet they are earning as much as 80k.
On other projects your KIA is available on paper , I am yet to see any on the road of Oyo state.You are still searching for the right contractor who will give your 50 percent.Rhetorically , why KIA and not other brands like Toyota that are rugged (Shady deal).
For the law school 500k per student,it is very foolish on the side of government, 100 to 200k is good.Why, wasting tax payers money all on cheap popularity.Are engineering ,medical and other students compensated.Will they be trained abroad to create jobs. or work in government parastatal to bring succour to Oyo state people.
Four years is around the corner APC and PDP will go, the real vanguard of change is coming.

For the curse of not progressing, I dashed you and your family.

Bro you are a big liar i know you very well. You belong to APC family. If you want me to expose you, i will do that. But till then keep your hating to yourself

Oh my country Nigeria. It s well with you

etcsines:
The Christian Association of Nigeria (CAN) has asked President Buhari to ban the Miyetti Allah Cattle Breeders Association (MACBAN), an umbrella association of herdsmen in the country.

The association also called on the president to “completely scrap” the suspended ‘Ruga’grazing scheme. CAN made the request at the Church leaders stakeholders’ summit, themed, ‘RUGA: The church’s response in the 21st century,’ which was held in Lagos on Saturday.

Samson Ayokunle, CAN president, was quoted as saying the association came up with the recommendations after setting up a committee to look into the Ruga grazing scheme and related issues. He accused MACBAN of supporting some herdsmen fingered in various attacks across the country.

“Anything that smacks of mutual suspicion should be avoided in the interest of national unity,” Ayokunle was quoted as saying. He said among the group’s recommendation are: “The federal government should immediately disarm and prosecute the Fulani herdsmen terrorists that have been recorded as one of the deadliest terrorists groups in the world.

“The group of Miyetti Allah Cattle Breeders Association which openly supported the activities of the murderous Fulani herdsmen be identified and banned immediately. President Buhari should suspend his membership and patronage of Miyetti Allah Cattle Breeders Association until he leaves office to reduce tension.”

Ayokunle was also quoted as saying insecurity in the country had become an embarrassment such that even military officers are afraid of traveling without escorts.

He added: “Enough is enough about insecurity in the country. It is totally embarrassing and people are having sleepless nights over it. There is no free movement anymore. Even military officers can no longer travel without heavy military escort; it is as bad as that. It is happening on a daily basis, it is no longer propaganda, neither is it political opposition talks.

“Our relatives are constantly being kidnapped and we are being compelled to look for money to pay ransoms. There are no other persons we can call upon other than the government because that is why they are there.”

source: https://www.titiloyeblog.com/2019/09/can-asks-president-buhari-to-ban.html

ENOCH ADEBOYE TACKLES RUGA WITH WISDOM

narrates his conversation on RUGA with his mathematician friend

passes power of judgment to participants

RUGA: Reasonable Understanding for Gradual Advancement




Pastor Enoch Adeboye of the Redeemed Christian Church of God, RCCG yesterday 31st August, 2019 at the Church Leaders Stakeholders’ Summit organised the Christian Association of Nigeria (CAN), displayed a rare kind of wisdom in tackling the RUGA issue that has agitated the minds of most non-Fulani Nigerians, especially in Southern Nigeria. 

In his keynote address at the summit which took place at Shepherdhill Baptist Church, Obanikoro, Lagos Nigeria, Adeboye responded to the proposed/suspended RUGA Settlement Programme by the Buhari administration, by narrating a conversation that took place between his friend, a mathematician and himself, during which the friend opened up on the RUGA standoff enveloping Nigeria.

Adeboye said his friend is as grandiloquent as he is funny. He loves using big grammar like conviviality, probability, monstrosity,  concentric, eccentric, adding that people who agree with his position are called Concentric and those who disagree with him are called Eccentric.

The friend is not only grandiloquent, but also a funny man. A proof that he is funny, Adeboye said, is his contention that when nursing mothers refused to breastfeed her child and resort to cow milk, the child ends up being a cowboy. The friend also said the problem in Nigeria is not about the North and South dichotomy, but between the wise and the foolish.

On RUGA, the funny friend said, if a cow herder kills your brother and his blood spilled on the grass which is fed to the cow, and the siblings of the man killed still eat the cow that fed on the grass on which the blood was spilled, they are as guilty as the cow herder.

The funny friend, according to Adeboye said, if a cow herder kills your brother and the following day you are still seen eating suya by the cow herder, you are foolish because you are assisting the cow herder to march on.

The funny friend still contends that RUGA means Reasonable Understanding for Gradual Advancement and this is succinctly displayed in what is happening in Nigeria. The funny friend said “the cow that is eating in your backyard will gradually advance into your bedroom. Very soon, you will be drinking water from the river that has been polluted by the droppings of the cow.

Adeboye said his friend went ahead to show him what the white man said about red meat. Red meat is not good for the body and the first source of red meat is the cow, followed by goat and then ram. He said the best meat for you is the fish and you find it everywhere in any village. Why eat cow meat then?

The pastor then assisted his friend to throw a challenge to people at the summit: “Those of you who agree with my friend should say Yea…” to which the whole participant shouted YEAAA. “Those who disagree with my friend should say “NO”. There was a pin drop silence and Pastor Enoch Adeboye stepped down from the podium.

Earlier, Adeboye had warned that he only came to narrate a conversation between his friend and himself, and he would not want anybody to say he is the author of the conversation, to which everybody laughed.

PureFace1:
The Oyo State Governor, Mr Seyi Makinde, on Friday unveiled the e-registration programme of the Nigeria Immigration Service for all migrants (non-Nigerians) in the 33 local government areas of the state.

Makinde said the exercise was coming at the period the country was facing security challenges.

He said no meaningful development could take place where there was insecurity because no investor would invest where there was insecurity.


The governor said one of his cardinal objectives was to address security threat in the state, adding that the e-registration for migrants would help tackle insecurity, plan and know the total number of people to be budgeted for in the state.

Makinde said, “The state appreciates the NIS for the exercise because it will assist the state to leave up to its responsibilities. Those concerned should comply adequately without wasting time to avoid going to jail or being reprimanded.”


In his speech, the state Comptroller of NIS, Saleh Abdullahi, said the registration would help to identify and determine the migration status of resident migrants in the state and Nigeria in general.

Abdullahi said that the registration would also enhance the internal security of Nigeria.

https://punchng.com/makinde-unveils-e-registration-for-migrants-in-oyo/

ENOCH ADEBOYE TACKLES RUGA WITH WISDOM

narrates his conversation on RUGA with his mathematician friend

passes power of judgment to participants

RUGA: Reasonable Understanding for Gradual Advancement




Pastor Enoch Adeboye of the Redeemed Christian Church of God, RCCG yesterday 31st August, 2019 at the Church Leaders Stakeholders’ Summit organised the Christian Association of Nigeria (CAN), displayed a rare kind of wisdom in tackling the RUGA issue that has agitated the minds of most non-Fulani Nigerians, especially in Southern Nigeria. 

In his keynote address at the summit which took place at Shepherdhill Baptist Church, Obanikoro, Lagos Nigeria, Adeboye responded to the proposed/suspended RUGA Settlement Programme by the Buhari administration, by narrating a conversation that took place between his friend, a mathematician and himself, during which the friend opened up on the RUGA standoff enveloping Nigeria.

Adeboye said his friend is as grandiloquent as he is funny. He loves using big grammar like conviviality, probability, monstrosity,  concentric, eccentric, adding that people who agree with his position are called Concentric and those who disagree with him are called Eccentric.

The friend is not only grandiloquent, but also a funny man. A proof that he is funny, Adeboye said, is his contention that when nursing mothers refused to breastfeed her child and resort to cow milk, the child ends up being a cowboy. The friend also said the problem in Nigeria is not about the North and South dichotomy, but between the wise and the foolish.

On RUGA, the funny friend said, if a cow herder kills your brother and his blood spilled on the grass which is fed to the cow, and the siblings of the man killed still eat the cow that fed on the grass on which the blood was spilled, they are as guilty as the cow herder.

The funny friend, according to Adeboye said, if a cow herder kills your brother and the following day you are still seen eating suya by the cow herder, you are foolish because you are assisting the cow herder to march on.

The funny friend still contends that RUGA means Reasonable Understanding for Gradual Advancement and this is succinctly displayed in what is happening in Nigeria. The funny friend said “the cow that is eating in your backyard will gradually advance into your bedroom. Very soon, you will be drinking water from the river that has been polluted by the droppings of the cow.

Adeboye said his friend went ahead to show him what the white man said about red meat. Red meat is not good for the body and the first source of red meat is the cow, followed by goat and then ram. He said the best meat for you is the fish and you find it everywhere in any village. Why eat cow meat then?

The pastor then assisted his friend to throw a challenge to people at the summit: “Those of you who agree with my friend should say Yea…” to which the whole participant shouted YEAAA. “Those who disagree with my friend should say “NO”. There was a pin drop silence and Pastor Enoch Adeboye stepped down from the podium.

Earlier, Adeboye had warned that he only came to narrate a conversation between his friend and himself, and he would not want anybody to say he is the author of the conversation, to which everybody laughed.

Difrent:
we know you are not YORUBA
stop deceiving yourself, you are IGBO

Proudly Omoluabi

So in your wisest thinking any Yoruba who did not think the way you think is an IBO person. Morning go soon come for you

TITOPE:
http://www.titopeblog.com/2019/08/makinde-declares-n650000-as-salary-is.html

Makinde declares N650,000 as salary is not enough, promises to address poor remuneration

Governor Seyi Makinde of Oyo state has promised to find solution to poor remuneration in the state civil service.


Makinde, who declared his readiness to tackle the workers poor remuneration, asserted that poor remuneration was dangerous to anti-graft campaigns of any serious government.


A statement issued on Wednesday by Mr Taiwo Adisa, the Chief Press Secretary to the governor, quoted Makinde as making the assertions while addressing members of his cabinet.


He noted that poor remuneration packages could be counterproductive to anti-corruption initiatives of his government if not addressed.


He, therefore, reiterated his commitment to finding a lasting solution to the issue of poor remuneration in the civil service.
The governor stated that it would not be business as usual under his leadership, as he would do everything possible to ensure that workers in the state were not exposed to the temptations of corruption.


” We do have challenges and I can give you an example of the kind of issues that we are faced with.


”When I was on the podium being sworn-in, I announced that I was donating my salary to the pension board. I actually thought my salary was going to be like N3 million or N4 million monthly.


” But when I came in here, I discovered that my salary is only N650, 000 monthly, which is less than $2,000.


”And then, I have a budget of $500,000,000.
”How can somebody earning $24,000 a year preside over a $500,000,000 budget?

The temptation is just too high.
”When I was growing up, anytime I saw permanent secretaries and top civil servants, all around with their entourage, jeeps, Land cruisers,etc, I thought they were making it big, because I was driving Peugeot or Toyota Camry.
”But when I came in here, I discovered that the salary of Permanent Secretaries is under N500,000 per month; in such an environment where you have contractors coming with big temptations.


” The expectation is just too high, but the good news is, we will find a solution to this, it is not going to be business as usual in Oyo State, ” Makinde said
He further charged all the new commissioners in the state to key into his vision and manifesto of accelerated development of the state.


He stressed that his administration would conduct business in an unusual manner that would change the narrative about governance in the state.

lalasticlala, mynd44, seun

Makinde lead others follow

sinaj:
lollll
Following your logic,

Medicine should be outlawed too.
Guns should be outlawed and replaced with sticks
Alcohol should be outlawed.
Cigarette should be outlawed too.
Politicians should alsi be outlawed.

I understand your point on punishment being administered without being physical, but we should know that same way our societies, culture and all differ, is the same way children and characters differ.

I know about punishing via positive and negative reinforcement, but you should know it might not work on every child.

You might even have 3 children and use different disciplinary approach on them coz of how unique they are.

We shouldnt be quick to swallow everything from the westerners.

You are all taught. Kudos

wharley01:
well behaved but still has the most corrupt people in the world, your brain is leaking

And you call yourself a man. Using abusive words on a female quote is very wrong. You can contribute to the topic without abusing her now. Don't bother yourself to quote me because I will not reply you

fergie001:
Former Commissioner for Energy and Mineral Resources in Lagos State, Mr. Olawale Oluwo, has stated categorically that government in Lagos State starts and ends in the house of the leader of All Progressives Congress (APC), Bola Ahmed Tinubu. Oluwo, who spoke at Afang Summit, organised by a Lagos-based investment banker, Mr. Joseph Edgar, also gave insight into the power play that denied former Lagos State Akinwumi Ambode his second term bid.

In his words, “Part of the things we were doing before they stopped our government was building terminals and bus depots all over the state. If completed, the project will take out completely those garages that have been there for decades. It’s those garages that are producing touts. There is no need for National Union of Road Transport Workers (NURTW).

“The NURTW makes N82 billion every year from Lagos, which is almost 10 per cent of our budget. So, these things would have eliminated the commercial danfo, the molue, tricycle, and okada and the same guys will be the ones running the new transport system. We never used to ride okada. So, why would okada be normal? this is one of the things we were trying to eliminate. The okada and agbero we see today were not in that future.

"I think the Lagos of three to four years may not be the Lagos of the last three to four years. Lagos will change; the change will be tough, rough, and I believe it will be bloody. It will be delusional to think you want to go and do a struggle and you are thinking of coming back. Until you are able to make coming back home a probability, you are not qualified to lead the struggle. You might be qualified to be a supporter or sympathizer of a struggle but you can’t be at the forefront, because nothing good comes easy. Do you think they will leave power and move on?”

On why the powers that-be moved against Ambode, Oluwo said, “Don’t judge a man you don’t know and you have never met before. People manipulate people to destroy people and they succeeded in doing that to Ambode.

“Ambode deliberately decided not to talk. So, it’s not balanced. One side was busy feeding the public with a negative story. I was not only a government official, I was also close to him and I was a member of his kitchen cabinet. I know the time he will talk will come. Ambode has made his own determination not to talk for now.”

On how Ambode became Lagos State governor, Oluwo recounted his meeting with Delta State-born businessman, Mr. Albert Okumagba who “told me that Ambode would be governor of Lagos in 2012 and I laughed. I told him then that even if I don’t know who would be governor of Lagos, I know those who would not be governor, that if they were sharing it for free Ambode was one of those who cannot rule Lagos. And I did not work for Ambode during the primary. I worked for the former Speaker Lagos Assembly, Mr. Adeyemi Ikuforiji, because he is my maternal cousin and I gave him my commitment in 2007 that I would support him in anything.

“I never knew Ambode until Okumagba introduced me to him in 2011 when I took a proposal to his house, and I think at that period, Asiwaju Tinubu had told Ambode that he would be governor of the state. So, Ambode is not the kind of guy they woke up from sleep to be the state governor. I didn’t believe it when I was told. I didn’t work for him during the primary because I did not believe Tinubu was behind him.”

Oluwo also spoke about the battle Mr. Babatunde Raji Fashola fought before securing his second term.

According to him, “I don’t want to believe that Tinubu has the intention of making anybody a governor and then give him a second term. Fashola was not meant to go for the second term. There was a plan to stop Fashola; I was in Ikuforiji’s camp at that time and Asiwaju told him to start preparing. Whatever that meant, I don’t know, and Ikuforiji was the only one that came to contest against Fashola during the primary. So, people say probably it was because of Fashola’s popularity that earned him a second term. The answer is, ‘no!’ It had nothing to do with that. It’s just that that thing (federal might), Asiwaju did not have it in 2011. That was what made him succumb to Fashola going for the second term; he had it (federal might) in 2015. If the party had been in power in 2011, Fashola would never have gone back, because these guys (Fashola and Ambode) are technocrats. They don’t have any party of their own; they don’t have structure. PDP was ready to give Fashola the ticket before Asiwaju ran back.”

Oluwo also spoke on the Afang Summit’s theme, ‘The Economy: What Hope?’, saying, “Anybody can build a structure but a man that has access to state’s money to build a structure is different. If Ambode had known a year earlier that he won’t come back, it would have been a different thing, because they sold a dummy to him and to all of us but I didn’t believe them and I told my people that they were being deceived. Ambode did not fight because of Buhari. One, Ambode didn’t know that Buhari would be aloof and will not get himself involved. Two, he had too much respect for Vice President Yemi Osinbajo.

“They sold Ambode a dummy, that the ticket will be given to him, but they just wanted to shake him and they were sending people to tell him, ‘don’t worry, you are too popular to be stopped.’”

Oluwo also spoke about the relationship between Ambode and Lagosians, noting, “There are things Lagosians didn’t like. Refuse became a disaster; they didn’t like the Land Use Charge, but that doesn’t affect the ticket of a political party. The refuse problem is not as serious as killings under Buhari. As long as you are on the right platform of a political party and they have money they can share, some Nigerians will sell their votes and look the other way and let you write the result. That is the level of our development at this time.

“Yes, mistakes were made on Visionscape, but in every reform, you are displacing vested interests. They would fight back and take you down or destroy the programme. Visionscape has its own problem, but they escalated it. But one thing is sure, Lagos will go back to Vissionscape reform; they may repackage it, do the naming ceremony for it but they will surely go back because that is the only way to manage waste and the transportation programme we put together.”

On what Ambode would have done differently if he had realised early that he would not get the ticket of the party, Oluwo said, “Forget about the party leaders; they don’t count. That thing they call Governor’s Advisory Council (GAC) is a toothless bulldog; they don’t have one per cent relevance in the scale of hundred. Ambode was too popular for them. So, what Ambode should have done was to have gone to his principal to say, oga, anything you do, we are going into this second term together, give me my second term and I will give you everything you want’. The truth is that Ambode never had any issue with Tinubu; it was people that came in between them.

“Nobody has power in Lagos outside Bourdillon. If Ambode had given the impression that he was ready to fight, they would sit him down. It is about power and resources; power does not belong to these people. The lesson learnt is that you can be given something on a platter of gold, but you may not sustain it on a platter of gold.”

https://m.guardian.ng/politics/ambode-quiet-despite-ordeals-out-of-respect-for-buhari-osinbajo/

Articulated write up.

That's my Governor. Ride on Eng. Seyi Makinde

Cutezt:
The leader of the proscribed Islamic Movement in Nigeria (IMN), Ibraheem El-Zakzaky, and his wife Zeenat are spending their first night at the Mendata Hospital in New Delhi, India where they are currently undergoing medical treatment.

This comes a day after the couple left Abuja and made a stopover in Dubai, before taking another flight to Delhi.

They are accompanied by officials of the Kaduna State government and personnel of the Department of State Services (DSS).
The medical trip followed the order of the Kaduna State High Court which granted El-Zakzaky and his wife leave to undergo treatment abroad after they had been in custody since 2015.

The court also said the IMN leader must return immediately after treatment to face his charges.

El-Zakzaky is facing charges of homicide, unlawful assembly, disruption of public peace and other offences which he has pleaded not guilty to.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a6eShECbRfI

the fool, selfish and wicked among us
I have listened to the expression of regrets by some of those who supported the emergence of General Muhammadu Buhari in 2015, especially someone like Oga Dele Momodu, a seasoned journalist and I have found it difficult to excuse their foolishness, selfishness and wickedness.
I have wondered how they expected Buhari, a known ethnic champion and tyrant to change at close to 80 years.
I will cite four reasons I am convinced that those supporters of Buhari, especially the ones who experienced him as military head of state only supported his return as President just because of their personal foolishness, wickedness and most importantly, selfish ambition to have access to power and the benefits of it.
#ONE
In 1985, instead of supporting the confirmation of Dr Peter Onu of Nigeria, who was acting Secretary General of OAU, Buhari supported the Niger Republic candidate, Idi Omaro, a Fulani Muslim.
In a meeting, a handful of Presidents led by Julius Nyerere of Tanzania met with Buhari and begged him to support Dr Peter Onu for the post of OAU Secretary General, Buhari refused.
When the Idi Omaro emerged, Buhari rejoiced to such a degree that he was unable to control his emotions.
#TWO
Buhari's first wife was Safinatu. The marriage produced five children, Zulaihat, Fatima, Musa, Hadiza, and Safinatu. Musa however died at infancy, while Zulaihat died of sickle cell anemia after giving birth in 2012.
After his removal from office, Buhari on August 27, 1985, Buhari was placed under house arrest in Benin for three years.
When Buhari was released in 1988, one of the first things he did was to divorce Safinatu for allegedly visiting Babangida to seek help for her sick daughter.
When Safinatu died from complications of diabetes on 14 January 2006, Buhari did not attend the burial.
Now fast forward to 2015, when Buhari needed Babangida's help to become President, he visited the former military president in Minna.
#THREE
On October 13, 2000, Buhari led some Arewa Consultative Forum leaders to Ibadan, Oyo State to confront the then Governor Lam Adesina over alleged killings of Fulani cattle rearers in Saki, Oke Ogun Area of the state.
Buhari's question to Lam Adesina then was; “why are your people (Yoruba) killing my people (Fulani)” when indeed the attack on the Fulani herdsmen, which led to the death of five herdsmen was aftermath of the killing of many Yoruba farmers in Oyo state.
Indeed, private citizen Buhari was very angry that Fulani herdsmen were killed in Oyo State then, and he showed his anger by speaking sternly to the then Governor, Lam Adeshina.
Now I ask, as President of Nigeria, did Buhari display such anger when thousands of Agatu people were killed in Benue State by suspected herdsmen? Even when the former IGP that he ordered to relocate to Benue State disobeyed his order and stayed in Abuja, did Buhari take any disciplinary action against him?
In all the cases of killings in the country by suspected Fulani herdsmen, has Buhari shown the same anger he displaced in Ibadan on October 13, 2000?
#FOUR
The Council of State meeting is presided over by a sitting president, and attended by all former Heads of State.
After losing the 2003 Presidential election, Buhari announced to Nigerians that he will not participate in the Council of State meetings until after ruling on his petition challenging the outcome of the election.
In 2011, he did the same thing saying; "I will wait for the outcome of the case before I decide on my membership of the Council.
"After the 2003 elections, I stopped attending the council meeting because we had challenged the outcome of the election that brought Gen. Olusegun Obasanjo to power."
Indeed, Buhari never attended the Council of State meetings even after the Supreme Court ruled that he duly lost the 2011 election.
It was only in late January 2015 that he attended the Council of State meeting where it was decided that the general elections be rescheduled to allow the military enough time to reclaim some areas lost to Boko Haram in the North East.
After the meeting, Buhari reacted so angrily to the elections postponement that it was obvious that he only attended the Council of State meeting to prevent the postponement.
The implication of Buhari's action is that between May 29, 2011 and January 2015, Buhari never accepted Goodluck Jonathan as the President of Nigeria even after the Supreme Court held that he was duly elected. He also did not accept Obasanjo as President between 2003 and 2007.
So the likes of Oga Dele Momodu expected a Buhari, who in 1985 preferred Idi Omaro from Niger Republic to Dr Peter Onuh, a Nigerian as OAU Secretary General to have suddenly changed to a nationalist in 2015?
They expected a Buhari, who divorced his first wife in 1988 for allegedly visiting Babangida, but was comfortable visiting the same Babangida in 2015 to seek support for his Presidential ambition to have changed from being selfish?
In their own understanding of the saying that a leopard can never change its spots, they believed that a man who as former Head of State, went to fight ethnic battle in Ibadan on October 13, 2000, will act in the interest of all Nigerians?
With their level of education and exposure, they believed that a Buhari, who refused to attend Council of State meetings just because he lost election was the best to rule the country?
Like I have maintained, let those who out of their foolishness, selfishness and wickedness brough Buhari to power stop disturbing us with their tales of woe. Rather, they should continue to enjoy the benefits of their misadventure while waiting for their other colleagues to face the consequences of their support for the wicked and selfish soon.
Lere Olayinka (Aresa 1) writes from Irunmale Avenue, Oke Agbonna, Okemesi Ekiti.

LegendVibes:
Police in Yobe have arrested a police officer, Sunday Japhet, for allegedly insulting President Muhammadu Buhari, Vice President Yemi Osinbajo, and the Inspector-General of Police (IGP), Mohammed Adamu.

According to a Daily Post report, Yobe police commissioner, Sunmonu Abdulmaliki, confirmed the arrest on Wednesday.

Mr Japhet, who is said to be a part of the Mobile Police (MOPOL), had on August 9 bared his mind on the state of the country on Facebook.

He wrote: “This is Nigeria, with a president who want to fight corruption and tackle insecurities, with the vice who claimed to be a man of God without truth, with many elected senators, with IGP that we think things will change, its a pity for them, those that lead this country, I pray that this demonstration that is going to happen on 14 /8 in Maiduguri, Yobe, Adamawa and other places that mobile police on special duty are going to hold for their allowances be the beginning of something in this great country led by evil men.”

The policeman continued: “We are inviting all the media to be there for us, this people call their self leaders are all aware that this money use to be in some people joint account to get interest, then after 3-4 month they pay, no one will say he don’t know what is happening that this money is not paid, God will come down himself to help Nigerian if really this is buhari handling this country this way, i better die for truth then to be, seeing nonsense.”

The police commissioner was quoted saying Japhet has been transferred to Zone 12 headquarters in Bauchi.

Source; https://foxmeek.com/news/photo-policeman-arrested-for-mocking-buhari-osinbajo-igp-on-facebook

the fool, selfish and wicked among us
I have listened to the expression of regrets by some of those who supported the emergence of General Muhammadu Buhari in 2015, especially someone like Oga Dele Momodu, a seasoned journalist and I have found it difficult to excuse their foolishness, selfishness and wickedness.
I have wondered how they expected Buhari, a known ethnic champion and tyrant to change at close to 80 years.
I will cite four reasons I am convinced that those supporters of Buhari, especially the ones who experienced him as military head of state only supported his return as President just because of their personal foolishness, wickedness and most importantly, selfish ambition to have access to power and the benefits of it.
#ONE
In 1985, instead of supporting the confirmation of Dr Peter Onu of Nigeria, who was acting Secretary General of OAU, Buhari supported the Niger Republic candidate, Idi Omaro, a Fulani Muslim.
In a meeting, a handful of Presidents led by Julius Nyerere of Tanzania met with Buhari and begged him to support Dr Peter Onu for the post of OAU Secretary General, Buhari refused.
When the Idi Omaro emerged, Buhari rejoiced to such a degree that he was unable to control his emotions.
#TWO
Buhari's first wife was Safinatu. The marriage produced five children, Zulaihat, Fatima, Musa, Hadiza, and Safinatu. Musa however died at infancy, while Zulaihat died of sickle cell anemia after giving birth in 2012.
After his removal from office, Buhari on August 27, 1985, Buhari was placed under house arrest in Benin for three years.
When Buhari was released in 1988, one of the first things he did was to divorce Safinatu for allegedly visiting Babangida to seek help for her sick daughter.
When Safinatu died from complications of diabetes on 14 January 2006, Buhari did not attend the burial.
Now fast forward to 2015, when Buhari needed Babangida's help to become President, he visited the former military president in Minna.
#THREE
On October 13, 2000, Buhari led some Arewa Consultative Forum leaders to Ibadan, Oyo State to confront the then Governor Lam Adesina over alleged killings of Fulani cattle rearers in Saki, Oke Ogun Area of the state.
Buhari's question to Lam Adesina then was; “why are your people (Yoruba) killing my people (Fulani)” when indeed the attack on the Fulani herdsmen, which led to the death of five herdsmen was aftermath of the killing of many Yoruba farmers in Oyo state.
Indeed, private citizen Buhari was very angry that Fulani herdsmen were killed in Oyo State then, and he showed his anger by speaking sternly to the then Governor, Lam Adeshina.
Now I ask, as President of Nigeria, did Buhari display such anger when thousands of Agatu people were killed in Benue State by suspected herdsmen? Even when the former IGP that he ordered to relocate to Benue State disobeyed his order and stayed in Abuja, did Buhari take any disciplinary action against him?
In all the cases of killings in the country by suspected Fulani herdsmen, has Buhari shown the same anger he displaced in Ibadan on October 13, 2000?
#FOUR
The Council of State meeting is presided over by a sitting president, and attended by all former Heads of State.
After losing the 2003 Presidential election, Buhari announced to Nigerians that he will not participate in the Council of State meetings until after ruling on his petition challenging the outcome of the election.
In 2011, he did the same thing saying; "I will wait for the outcome of the case before I decide on my membership of the Council.
"After the 2003 elections, I stopped attending the council meeting because we had challenged the outcome of the election that brought Gen. Olusegun Obasanjo to power."
Indeed, Buhari never attended the Council of State meetings even after the Supreme Court ruled that he duly lost the 2011 election.
It was only in late January 2015 that he attended the Council of State meeting where it was decided that the general elections be rescheduled to allow the military enough time to reclaim some areas lost to Boko Haram in the North East.
After the meeting, Buhari reacted so angrily to the elections postponement that it was obvious that he only attended the Council of State meeting to prevent the postponement.
The implication of Buhari's action is that between May 29, 2011 and January 2015, Buhari never accepted Goodluck Jonathan as the President of Nigeria even after the Supreme Court held that he was duly elected. He also did not accept Obasanjo as President between 2003 and 2007.
So the likes of Oga Dele Momodu expected a Buhari, who in 1985 preferred Idi Omaro from Niger Republic to Dr Peter Onuh, a Nigerian as OAU Secretary General to have suddenly changed to a nationalist in 2015?
They expected a Buhari, who divorced his first wife in 1988 for allegedly visiting Babangida, but was comfortable visiting the same Babangida in 2015 to seek support for his Presidential ambition to have changed from being selfish?
In their own understanding of the saying that a leopard can never change its spots, they believed that a man who as former Head of State, went to fight ethnic battle in Ibadan on October 13, 2000, will act in the interest of all Nigerians?
With their level of education and exposure, they believed that a Buhari, who refused to attend Council of State meetings just because he lost election was the best to rule the country?
Like I have maintained, let those who out of their foolishness, selfishness and wickedness brough Buhari to power stop disturbing us with their tales of woe. Rather, they should continue to enjoy the benefits of their misadventure while waiting for their other colleagues to face the consequences of their support for the wicked and selfish soon.
Lere Olayinka (Aresa 1) writes from Irunmale Avenue, Oke Agbonna, Okemesi Ekiti.

Mophasa:
President Muhammadu Buhari was pictured being dressed up by his children; Yusuf, Hanan and Amina today in his hometown, Daura, Katsina State.

More Photos below:


https://www.viewsnaija.com/2019/08/photos-president-muhammadu-buhari-seen.html?m=1

the fool, selfish and wicked among us
I have listened to the expression of regrets by some of those who supported the emergence of General Muhammadu Buhari in 2015, especially someone like Oga Dele Momodu, a seasoned journalist and I have found it difficult to excuse their foolishness, selfishness and wickedness.
I have wondered how they expected Buhari, a known ethnic champion and tyrant to change at close to 80 years.
I will cite four reasons I am convinced that those supporters of Buhari, especially the ones who experienced him as military head of state only supported his return as President just because of their personal foolishness, wickedness and most importantly, selfish ambition to have access to power and the benefits of it.
#ONE
In 1985, instead of supporting the confirmation of Dr Peter Onu of Nigeria, who was acting Secretary General of OAU, Buhari supported the Niger Republic candidate, Idi Omaro, a Fulani Muslim.
In a meeting, a handful of Presidents led by Julius Nyerere of Tanzania met with Buhari and begged him to support Dr Peter Onu for the post of OAU Secretary General, Buhari refused.
When the Idi Omaro emerged, Buhari rejoiced to such a degree that he was unable to control his emotions.
#TWO
Buhari's first wife was Safinatu. The marriage produced five children, Zulaihat, Fatima, Musa, Hadiza, and Safinatu. Musa however died at infancy, while Zulaihat died of sickle cell anemia after giving birth in 2012.
After his removal from office, Buhari on August 27, 1985, Buhari was placed under house arrest in Benin for three years.
When Buhari was released in 1988, one of the first things he did was to divorce Safinatu for allegedly visiting Babangida to seek help for her sick daughter.
When Safinatu died from complications of diabetes on 14 January 2006, Buhari did not attend the burial.
Now fast forward to 2015, when Buhari needed Babangida's help to become President, he visited the former military president in Minna.
#THREE
On October 13, 2000, Buhari led some Arewa Consultative Forum leaders to Ibadan, Oyo State to confront the then Governor Lam Adesina over alleged killings of Fulani cattle rearers in Saki, Oke Ogun Area of the state.
Buhari's question to Lam Adesina then was; “why are your people (Yoruba) killing my people (Fulani)” when indeed the attack on the Fulani herdsmen, which led to the death of five herdsmen was aftermath of the killing of many Yoruba farmers in Oyo state.
Indeed, private citizen Buhari was very angry that Fulani herdsmen were killed in Oyo State then, and he showed his anger by speaking sternly to the then Governor, Lam Adeshina.
Now I ask, as President of Nigeria, did Buhari display such anger when thousands of Agatu people were killed in Benue State by suspected herdsmen? Even when the former IGP that he ordered to relocate to Benue State disobeyed his order and stayed in Abuja, did Buhari take any disciplinary action against him?
In all the cases of killings in the country by suspected Fulani herdsmen, has Buhari shown the same anger he displaced in Ibadan on October 13, 2000?
#FOUR
The Council of State meeting is presided over by a sitting president, and attended by all former Heads of State.
After losing the 2003 Presidential election, Buhari announced to Nigerians that he will not participate in the Council of State meetings until after ruling on his petition challenging the outcome of the election.
In 2011, he did the same thing saying; "I will wait for the outcome of the case before I decide on my membership of the Council.
"After the 2003 elections, I stopped attending the council meeting because we had challenged the outcome of the election that brought Gen. Olusegun Obasanjo to power."
Indeed, Buhari never attended the Council of State meetings even after the Supreme Court ruled that he duly lost the 2011 election.
It was only in late January 2015 that he attended the Council of State meeting where it was decided that the general elections be rescheduled to allow the military enough time to reclaim some areas lost to Boko Haram in the North East.
After the meeting, Buhari reacted so angrily to the elections postponement that it was obvious that he only attended the Council of State meeting to prevent the postponement.
The implication of Buhari's action is that between May 29, 2011 and January 2015, Buhari never accepted Goodluck Jonathan as the President of Nigeria even after the Supreme Court held that he was duly elected. He also did not accept Obasanjo as President between 2003 and 2007.
So the likes of Oga Dele Momodu expected a Buhari, who in 1985 preferred Idi Omaro from Niger Republic to Dr Peter Onuh, a Nigerian as OAU Secretary General to have suddenly changed to a nationalist in 2015?
They expected a Buhari, who divorced his first wife in 1988 for allegedly visiting Babangida, but was comfortable visiting the same Babangida in 2015 to seek support for his Presidential ambition to have changed from being selfish?
In their own understanding of the saying that a leopard can never change its spots, they believed that a man who as former Head of State, went to fight ethnic battle in Ibadan on October 13, 2000, will act in the interest of all Nigerians?
With their level of education and exposure, they believed that a Buhari, who refused to attend Council of State meetings just because he lost election was the best to rule the country?
Like I have maintained, let those who out of their foolishness, selfishness and wickedness brough Buhari to power stop disturbing us with their tales of woe. Rather, they should continue to enjoy the benefits of their misadventure while waiting for their other colleagues to face the consequences of their support for the wicked and selfish soon.
Lere Olayinka (Aresa 1) writes from Irunmale Avenue, Oke Agbonna, Okemesi Ekiti.

Charleys:
What did 6000 Malian miners come to Osun for apart from skull mining.

Should Christians curse their enemies?

Yes when need arises

SLAP44:
How many people did Dangote and Zuckerberg use for money rituals?

Maybe your father refused to use someone for rituals and that's why your family is so poor?

With due respect you lack home training. In fact you lack manner

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Obasanjo, Soyinka, others should enjoy their Buhari quietly
Lere Olayinka
I can excuse 40 year old Nigerians and below for voting Buhari in 2015 because they never really experienced a General Buhari between 1984 and 1985. Unlike the likes of Obasanjo and Prof Soyinka who witnessed what Buhari turned Nigeria to within one year as Military Head of State and still supported him in 2015 just because they hated Goodluck Jonathan.
As at December 31, 1983 that Buhari truncated democracy and forced himself on Nigeria, the entire States in the Southwest, including Kwara State had TOTAL FREE EDUCATION and FREE HEALTH.
Then, the only thing my mother needed while taking me to Agbonna Comprehensive Hospital in Okemesi Ekiti were clean EMPTY BOTTLES to take free syrups.
As a student of Fabunmi Memorial Grammar School in Okemesi Ekiti then, the only item I needed to go to school were School Uniforms and DESK (because the school was new and the desks belonged to us). Textbooks and writing materials, including exercise books and mathematical sets were given to us free.
What did Buhari do when he assumed power? He cancelled the free education and free health. He introduced N20 Levy per term and many students dropped out.
Not only that, Buhari went ahead to accuse the likes of Ajasin, Bola Ige, Bisi Onabanjo, Jakande, Ambrose Ali, Bisi Akande, etc of fraud, sentencing some of them to as much as 200 years imprisonment!
Till today, I have not seen any governor that beat the records of those UPN governors who ruled the Southwest States and Edo (then Bendel).
It was under four years as governor of the old Ondo State that Ajasin established Oluwa Glass, Okitipupa Oil Palm, ROMACO in Igbemo, Ire Bricks, Ifon Ceramics, Ondo State University (now Ekiti State University), Ondo State Polytechnic, Owo (now Rufus Giwa Polytechnic) among others.
Yet, Buhari rewarded Ajasin with corruption trials.
In Lagos, there was no adequate classrooms before Jakande became governor in 1979. This prompted the operation of Primary and Secondary schools in Lagos on SHIFT basis. School "Alaaro (morning) ati Olosan (afternoon).
Jakande solved this problem within six months by building makeshift classrooms in all the schools. Lagos State University, Lagos Television, Jakande Estates (in various locations), many roads are to the credit of Jakande's four years as governor of Lagos state.
Of importance is the Lagos Metroline network initiated by Jakande then. The Metroline project was scrapped in 1985 by Buhari and he went ahead to pay compensation to the French company that handled it. Buhari’s action cost Lagosians over $78 million then.
If Buhari had not cancelled the metroline project out of vendetta, transportation problems in Lagos would have been solved permanently.‬ The metroline project would have made life easier and changed the face of transport in Lagos.
All these were known to Obasanjo, Soyinka and others when they went on the rooftops, campaigning for Buhari in 2015.
So I ask, what has changed? Absolutely nothing!
President Muhammadu Buhari is still the same as General Muhammadu Buhari who wrecked Nigeria between 1984 and 1985.
He is still the same ethnic champion who led leaders of Arewa Consultative Forum to the Governor’s Office, Ibadan on October 13, 2001, to challenge the government of Late Lam Adesina, on its perceived unfair treatment meted to the Fulani in Oke-Ogun, Oyo state.
Buhari is still the same sectional leader, who told Lam Adesina then that; "We are here to complain about your people (Yoruba) killing our people (Fulani)."
He has never acted like a nationalist and the likes of Obasanjo and Soyinka cannot tell Nigerians that they were unaware of this before they took that selfish decision they took in 2015.
They hated Goodluck Jonathan, and translated that hatred to love for Buhari when there were other liberal minded and nationalistic Hausas and Fulanis that they could have supported to be president. After all, Yar'Adua was a Fulani man too.
Today, they are now on the same rooftops where they campaigned for Buhari to speak against him and I ask them, were they expecting Lucifer to preach the Gospel of Our Lord Jesus Christ?
Methinks these intending WAILERS should quietly enjoy the benefits of the ants infested woods that they roofed their houses with and stop troubling the House of Wailers with their Ekun Egbere.
My name is Lere Olayinka, I am enjoying my life at the topmost part of Oke Agbonna in Okemesi Ekiti with the Irunmales. If you are tired of this NEXT LEFU, you can come and join me.

May God save us in this country. It has get out of hands. It is a pity Some gullible people are still supporting this devil government

AbuuBilaal:
I'm in my house and on my bed, come and meet me. Oponu afofun gbe mu.

Iwo loponu ayirada

AbuuBilaal:
They've suspended the project na, these ppl show let us hear word.

One fact many people don't know is most of the cattle in Yoruba land is owned by Yoruba people. They only hire fulanis people to herd them.

You won't know this until you get close to those at the Kara (cattle farm). It's silent business and has created many silent millionaires in Yoruba rural areas. I didn't know until I met some of them one-on-one.

Unfortunately for you all, those people are mostly not educated enough to join this hullabaloo on social media.

The east don't consume much beef and don't engage much in it's business. So it's no surprise if they have zero interest in it.

So, if a Yoruba man is supporting RUGA, he's not bootlicking fulanis. Rather he's supporting an economic sector that affects his tribe and maybe family.

Most Yoruba men and women that talk against RUGA are people from urban centres (Lagos and Ibadan). All they know is that cow and farm products are shipped to them. They don't know how the food was produced in the rural areas.

I'm warning you stay clear of Yoruba issues. Nobody gives you audacity to talk on our behalf. You Fulani propaganda will not work here

Oloniyan:
that's cool. know anybody from Ifajulugbe's family? hope you can decode that name?

Yes

Oloniyan:
I'm from Ilere street. where is your street

Ogbon idemo

AbuuBilaal:
I don't see any fulanis terrorising the road. I only see ritualists kidnapping people. That ilesa-akure road has been the trade route of kidnappers from time immemorial.

Tell your people to leave idolatry and blood rituals.

Even if I tell you where I'm from you'll still not believe.

You see, Yoruba and Igbo people want to blame northerners for their plight but they can't. It's not their fault that you people chose the 'bring him down' way of life.

Can you see what am saying he's an Hausa man trying to divide us. His true being when he sees that not a single Yoruba person in this forum supported him. They have an agenda. It will not succeed

AbuuBilaal:
Says who? I'm a Yoruba, FYI. I'm from Osun State and my name is Bayo. Adebayo!

You are a lair. You are not a Yoruba man, but one of those Hausa imposter sent to divide Yoruba's land through propaganda. It won't work. You will fail. You and Benkuru or what is it call will fail. In Yoruba's land individual can own a large land, it is either family land or community's land.

Truthsbitter:
OP ( sirdouglas ) READ THIS TO THE END, it is not one-sided.

I am not here to side one party or judge blindly.
firstly, you see all these people making insulting comments to you and forceful decision for you. Read their comments but don't bother to reply them and this is why; people are quick to judge or decide for others but they make the most stupid and inhuman decision when it's their turn and more is that they are blind with a plank in their eyes but yet trying to remove a dust from another man's eye.

YOU ARE NOT WITHOUT BLAME, oga you slept with her unprotected knowing there's 50% or even more possibility that you won't marry her. this is your first and biggest Bleep up. If you date for marriage then there should be two things involved, you either leave sex out of the marriage or you must be sure to wife the girl if she gets pregnant for you or it means you were never truly dating her for marriage and in such case you should state the possibility of "no marriage" to the girl and play safe not to fall into getting her pregnant. so oga stop giving me self-righteous lies.

Bro don't marry her. This is why; You simply state that you don't love her enough to make her your wife. note this is solely your decision and not mine and it is easier to live with the consequences of your decision than to live with that of another man.
l am not saying your decision will be 100% good for you but you will definitely have more strength to stand the times of harvest when you make your own decision. so for your own good CHOOSE WISELY. Think well before you make conclusions.
I am not saying if you marry her things are going to be rossy (I definitely won't marry someone I don't love enough to wife no matter how much I feel for her, I can only help her as much as I can, meaning going to the extent of making sacrifices for her but not the sacrifice of caging both myself and her under a sad wedlock, but this is me and this is my decision without fear. unless I find an experience in the future that changes my mentality).

DON'T LISTEN TO ALL THESE EMOTIONAL RANTS you read on your thread if you feel you're going against the peace of your mind and if you feel like you're going into a cage and that you're taking the girl along with you.

The other side; The girl is not completely without blame as there's also a high possibility that she is trying hard to cope with this relationship for financial liberation or for a more secured future and not exactly for the love she has for you. Think about this; if she was rich and independent, would she be running after you? while she is yet still on the young side? would she care to bore your children if she had an independent future? would you be able to push her away, damage her pride and she would yet come back begging and throwing her legs wide open at you if she has another alternative of securing her needs without you?....This is my unsentimental answer to those questions, I think it is over 90% a NO. every body is responsible for their decision, she is is facing hers and how ever it turns out for her, it was solely her decision.

last one on you before i rest my thumbs.
you shouldn't have waited until she got pregnant before trying to help her secure her future if you truly love, for the sake of the good sex and good relationship you guys have had together you should have been able to freely do things for her to help her grow than just sleeping with her and pushing her away. now that is a bit late but not entirely impossible. for future purpose keep this in mind.

if you CAN find a way to imagine a good and peaceful future with her, please do marry her but if all your imaginations about spending the rest of your life with her is hell, please do not marry her. But one thing you must do, sacrifice all you can to make her become the best she could ever be.

truthsbitter

Best advice. I respect you sir. You must be a councillor

flexyrule:
OP is a fraud.
Looking down on someone and her family, yet you were lashing her over and over again.
If she had my type as her brother, forget it. You won't even have access to the internet by now.
All this am comfortable, am traveling abroad, am this, am that... All Na Bull - Shit.
You just took advantage of the young girl, now you're making up excuses.
Its your life anyway, we won't be there 20 years from now when the twins grow up to realise how badly you treated their mother and dump your sorry a-s-s.

Grown man indeed!

You are a small boy. You don't know anything about relationship. You reason one way. Learn to judge from both side. Deal with issue with wisdom. I solve issues between old couple without offending any. Learn how to balance issue

daddytime:
Go and sit your nonsense ass down.

Go look for oyibo or slay queen marry, when your eye clear na double knee you go take cry come look for this mgbeke.

You are a cunning, deceptive and self-centered predator who fed fat on the naive girls innocence.

You dey look for people wey wan tell you wetin you want hear to justify your actions.

Nonsense an ingredients.

What is your problem Mr man. You are taking another man's issue so personal, be reasonable. If you can't advice him, let him be. From your post it is obvious you are aggressive in nature and you are a type that judge through sentiment and is not good because you will not be able to offer a quality advice. Don't force the girl on him, you just need to guild him, he might end up married her if you guild him on how to solve the problem not condeming him.I understand what the man is going through, I'm into similar situation.