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Kinjikitile:
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Reading thru this I look at myself and smile, recalling the sweet memories of school life. This low grading of a thing is caused by absolute distraction especially from women in d name of boyfrd/girlfriends, campus fun Etc. I will use myself as an example, I made a 2:2 which am not very proud of, bcoz during my secondary school days I was so intelligent everyone tot I will be studying medicine and surgery. Got admitted in Microbiology and couldn't even make a First Class or 2:1 bcoz I was carried away with school fun, women are big distraction in school. I regretted keeping girls and moving with unserious Friends who only knows how to chase campus girls, dress with latest designer and shoes in d name of being a big boy, looking back it's all vanity, parents were up and doing making sure their kids get the necessary funds they need for schooling, Just to read and pass was all that was required of us yet we just go to school and do whatever we like, mtcheew! Just to read and pass!. I wish I was more serious, funny enough I was d only one who graduated amongst my hopeless friends, Imagine! they all fell into extension and abadoned their results. Please if you are yet to gain admission, be careful d type of friends u move with on campus, it determines alot how far you go, most guys who graduate with first-class or 2:1 are usually simple, more serious academically,
usually from humble backgrounds and observably do not keep girlfriends nor are they obsessed with them, and do all you can to stay away from these Jezebels called girlfriends

PocoAPoco57:
Third fuckingggggg class? Were you smoking weed all those years in uni?

Reading thru this I look at myself and smile, recalling the sweet memories of school life. This low grading of a thing is caused by absolute distraction especially from women in d name of boyfrd/girlfriends, campus fun Etc. I will use myself as an example, I made a 2:2 which am not very proud of, bcoz during my secondary school days I was so intelligent everyone tot I will be studying medicine and surgery. Got admitted in Microbiology and couldn't even make a First Class or 2:1 bcoz I was carried away with school fun, women are big distraction in school. I regretted keeping girls and moving with unserious Friends who only knows how to chase campus girls, dress with latest designer and shoes in d name of being a big boy, looking back it's all vanity, parents were up and doing making sure their kids get the necessary funds they need for schooling, Just to read and pass was all that was required of us yet we just go to school and do whatever we like, mtcheew! Just to read and pass!. I wish I was more serious, funny enough I was d only one who graduated amongst my hopeless friends, Imagine! they all fell into extension and abadoned their results. Please if you are yet to gain admission, be careful d type of friends u move with on campus, it determines alot how far you go, most guys who graduate with first-class or 2:1 are usually simple, more serious academically,
usually from humble backgrounds and observably do not keep girlfriends nor are they obsessed with them, and do all you can to stay away from these Jezebels called girlfriends!

solasoulmusic:
Sometimes it’s the truth and it’s a nicer way of saying your really not my type it’s better than ghosting you sha sorry

It's all hypocrisy! Forming class that doesn't exist, this girl I speak of now is a nurse in the hospital and she don't even have a phone, imagine! And she said she has a boyfriend... I asked her, "so u have a boyfriend and you don't have a phone? Please don't ever repeat it in public if u don't want your fellow girls to start laughing at you" she was obviously embarrassed at my remark, I just shake my head for most Nigerians girls

solasoulmusic:
Sometimes it’s the truth and it’s a nicer way of saying your really not my type it’s better than ghosting you sha sorry

Yeah, u might be right to some extent but wrong somehow. I onced asked a girl out and she told me she had a boyfriend, in my mind I was like.. "and you think I don't have a girlfriend? " lol... I just let her be, after like two weeks she was now d one trying to come closer to me, already I was planning my wedding by then. She was shocked when I served my wedding invitation cards to the hospital managements and staffs... Women can pretend, they will like a guy but will pretend totally about it, expecting d guy to keep chasing them. Who has such time?

Came4amod:
Let me guess .. you are in your fifties .. ya all sorry old Bleep who are just angry and want everyone to suffer.. mean while u guys had it easy.. the life we are now is more complicated than what you guys had .. before you call someone lazy . Try to show empathy.. not emotion .. old people no dey hear English.. empathy means you put yourself in his shoes .. you will think I am a wizard .. but I am just smart and have met many sad people like you ..

Exactly bro, far more complicated than ever before, infact it get worse day by day. More occultic brotherhood have emerged and if you or your family members don't belong to any one you are strictly on your own. I have a friend, 39years old graduate, approached one HOD of a department in AAU, ekpoma whom he had diligently served with loyalty even from d days of undergraduate years as class rep, to find him a space as a graduate assistant lecturer, who can guess what the HOD told him? Sad reality

MERCHANDISER:
no mind the mumu wey dey make demeaning remark on graduates driving keke.

i once packed sand at waterside Lagos (labourer job 1500 daily) as a graduate

This life hard bro8

It's worse if you have no parents. Parents serves as umbrella ☔ for you as an upcomer, God help you if you are a graduate in this shithole country and no dad and mom around, it's better imagined than told, suicide is d least you can think of... Henceforth I will no longer spite those guys who go into crime to survive, mehn it's really frustrating.

kay4kay:
If you can get a place to stay in OTA I can offer you a contract job of 28k , HMO with daily meal.

I don't mind starting small sir, am a graduate and very young and strong, resides close to sango ota my number is 08100254826 if you can help me too

[quote author=Mynewdawn15 post=83192353][/quote
So this is what I saw in the dream a night before the incident... God of Mercy!

[quote author=mikejj post=63974115] bro sorry for the loss may God give u the heart to bear the loss....when they clock 30 and no man is coming for them, our ear no go hear word....bro good ones still they sha search well..[/quote
Exactly! The moment they cross 30 , they will Desperately be looking for a guy to hook with pregnancy, useless whores!
I swore to it that if any advance lady ever try to get me down with pregnancy, no problem, she will have the baby, but as a baby mama only cos I won't marry her.

tightpussy156:
stupid an useless government. one person go de chop all the money.the money Nigeria get can pay everybody that are up to labour force an lot will still be left.everybody go they live comfortable but greed wan kill government. if any politician fall for my trap I go finish am carry go poverty level.I no get joy for hear.the things they do upset me everyday because I feel for the masses.those that will quote me wrong should hug transformer.

If you ask me I think the problem is with us. Firstly most things we value and hold in high esteem in Nigeria aren't giving a blink of an eye in overseas countries. You buy a car here, people envy you with so much admiration and wants to be like you, you build a house, more admiration. So we resort to being greedy and self centered in other to be admired and envied (Politicians enjoy this the most) now in western and develop countries nobody cares how much you have, know, until they know how much you care. I keep saying it there's no hope for Nigeria as a country, these evil of leadership is pertrated on purpose and they are getting admiration for it, yes! Everyone envy them. And so they continue swimming in money and acquiring more wealth at d expense of their prey(the masses). Am a graduate myself, I don't know how am going to do it yet but I sure know am going to make money, either by crook or nook. The national cake must not be eaten alone by some certain groups of old cargo being without little or no teeth while the youth waste away in frustration, it's a pity!

amoduganja:
Played an accumulator bet for a possible win of 4625000 naira. I was offered a cash out amount of 2900000 when it was remaining a single game which I believed was sure. I rejected the cash out offer and eventually lost the bet. Sh**t happened in July and I still have not gotten over the shock.

This is what we call GREED
Though I didn't know your stake, but am crying for you right here � I feel the pain like am u

Oahray:
lmao. Funny how you just messed yourself up. Many people believe everyone goes to heaven or hellfire at death. Do you even know what you are defending at all? How does this long pile of emptiness you just posted support that claim and yet support your reincarnation claims?
If everyone goes to heaven/paradise or hell at death for eternity as muslims and most christians believe, at what time do they get reincarnated? Think bro.

I expected you to add bible verses to this post supporting your claim as a reasonable person would, not rant like the average fanatic.

reincarnation springs directly from the belief that the soul is immortal and cannot die. The bible didnt say the soul would die 'only after several reincarnations'. Ezekiel was talking to the people about their present actions and the fact that God is the owner of life. Death is the wage of sin and every human has fallen short.

I have read the verses bro. It still doesnt support reincarnation anymore than calling the devil 'the god of this age' makes him the creator.

Good question. First of all, the bible never said Adam and Eve had only sons. Why do you suppose they had no daughters? Did you ever pause to think that? Absence of evidence isnt evidence of absence. Cain obviously took one of his sisters as his wife. At that point in human history, mankind was still close to perfection and genetic effects of interbreeding would have been negligible.

when we die, we are dead. Our spirit or life force returns to our maker. If he chooses to restore that life, it is what the bible terms resurrection.

now this is absolutely hilarious. Until the 19th century, the world population had never been up to 2billion. It has been increasing over time and is expected to increase still. If there is such a thing as reincarnation, it means the <2billion souls then alive are souls that have been recycled. All of a sudden 5billion more are added. How many of these added souls have lived before if the former 2billion have been recycled have been recycled over time?
Could it be some souls do not get reincarnated at all, while some get to come back in a short while as their grandchildren?
You talk about that which you do not know as if they were proven.

If anyone can be called blind its confused persons like you. You do not want to believe that we are new beings resulting from procreation, but you would like to believe that there were five billion souls awaiting reincarnation.
At what point were these waiting souls created or start to exist?
If they were created why cant they be destroyed?
Examine your beliefs youngman. Human philosophy is confusion and it would never lead you anywhere.

I believe in reincarnation
Let me quickly clear this statistical misunderstanding of 19th century 2billion people on earth as against the current 7billion. Purgatory is a place where the human soul goes to stay after death. There are phases/ranks in this purgatory. Now, depending on your karma, some souls are not fit to transcend to the next phase of spiritual grant having not completed fully, their assignment on earth so they are made to go back to the living world in a new body(Re-incarnation), in hope that the reincarnated soul should now utilize this second opportunity to be spiritually grounded to make it into the next phase of spiritual maturity should another death occur. Depending on ur karma as regards how u live your previous life, some souls can't come back as humans, they go to reincarnate animals, trees, some reincarnates snakes �(DEPENDING ON YOUR KARMA). Now a reincarnated human soul can mimic d exact existence of his/her previous life in terms of achievements, belief, lifestyle etc or it can be a complete opposite in comparison to the previous existence. Example : a know wealthy and famous man with plenty kids, wives, when reincarnated will most likely be wealthy again, while in opposite cases he can become as poor as church rats with no kids or wife at all...DEPENDING ON HIS KARMA/FATE. I I am also believed to have reincarnated my maternal grandma's elder brother, whom was attached with a chair on his head by one of his wayward sons, and the deep injury inflicted on the dead man's skull is very visible on my skull � till today.

LaurelP:
I have seen so many Nairalanders complaining and lamenting their ordeal in the hands of fake scam companies who invite people for interview only to introduce them to fake drug marketing business.
I'm doing this not only because these companies waste people's time, energy and T-fair going to such interviews, but also because most of these scammers extort money from hapless job seekers thereby making their suffering times two.
Imagine a scammer extorting #10,500 from a graduate who have been unemployed for years, not to talk of the transport fare wasted going to such fruitless interviews or job chat as they usually call it.
Some people even borrow money to pay these sheep in wolves clothing, who promise them heaven on earth. Some will tell you that you will make half a million within 1 month and all that. If you're not careful, you will take a loan that you will not be able to repay thus causing embarrassment and lack of rest of mind. An unemployed person should have only himself to worry about, not having debts also.

So I believe that if we are properly guided, we will not fall into the hands of these scammers.
Having said that, there are ways by which one can identify a fake or scam interview invitation and there fore avoid such waste of time and money. The good thing is that most of their messages come in the same format, so you will know its fake!

1. The message does not bear a company name: most of these scammers won't include their names on the message you will receive. All you will see are the address, the time and date and a phone number. A genuine company will not hide its identity from a potential employee.

2. The message will say "interview/job briefing": whatever job briefing means I don't know!
3. You will see a code or reference: something like "HR=0056" or "REF=002". This is an indication of the code number of the person who invited you to the "job briefing".
4. It will contain a phone number: this is the number of your referer. Most genuine companies don't give phone numbers.
5. You will see HR Admin in the message instead of company name
6. If you call their number, they will be reluctant to give info on the company.


And pls, ignore those people sharing job flyers on the streets, and those ones they paste on walls. Those are scammers and some ritualists too. And also most of these so called agencies are avenues for duping unsuspecting job seekers. Pls shine your eyes well well.
I will post the names of some of these fake companies/ agencies later.

Pls if you have any experiences inthe hands of these scammers kindly share it here so that others can learn and avoid them too. Thank you

Cheers!

Please I need a job, anyone who can help. Am married with a daughter, Just stopped working in a hospital lab recently, am young and very active and productive. I have a First degree BS c Microbiology, Second class honors, my number is 08100254826

ifyalways:
Sorry o.

All through the courtship, you couldn't get a visit visa to visit him and see things for yourself and know his true status "abroad" ?

Nne, just hustle a visit visa now, travel and see, then decide if he's worth waiting for, how to do the waiting or better still know if it's time to move on.

Haha that's harsh! We are talking about a husband here and not some random boyfriend, I know it's not easy sexually but if I was a girl, as long as he's sending money for me to spend, everything else is okay by me, provided am not lacking, most women cheats 95% from lack of funds or inadequate access to money for children upkeep, especially in situations like this

phamarsenal:
honestly u re right u hardly see vacancies. d one u would see would be asking u for 5yrs experience, am a graduate of biochemistry am having d same problem.

Even when private hospitals employ u in the lab, it's purpose is to cut cost. I have a first degree B.Sc Microbiology, currently working in a hospital, fresh graduate, am underemployed if u know what I mean (When hospital employ you cos they can't pay a Med. Lab scientist) some of my colleagues have gone back to school to study pharmacy but instead of me to go back to school to study pharmacy with another 4 years plus, I rather apply for DE medicine and surgery. Let me know what am suffering for. Please does anyone know how I get into Medicine, Unilag precisely? Am from Edo state, heard Unilag discriminates alot against non-indigene. My number is 08100254826, whatapp message is allowed

damogg:
I'm a microbiologist by profession and i will like other microbiologist in Nigeria and diaspora to join me in discussing: 'Life after studying Microbiology'. The question is, are you really practicing your profession? I don't think Nigeria values Microbiologist at all,

I have a first degree B.Sc Microbiology, currently working in a hospital, fresh graduate, am underemployed if u know what I mean (When hospital employ you cos they can't pay a Med. Lab scientist) some of my colleagues have gone back to school to study pharmacy but instead of me to go back to school to study pharmacy with another 4 years plus, I rather apply for DE medicine and surgery. Let me know what am suffering for. Please does anyone know how I get into Medicine, Unilag precisely? Am from Edo state, heard Unilag discriminates alot against non-indigene. My number is 08100254826, whatapp message is allowed

Thekeeper:
Of d Greatest microbes...we welcome all d E.coli,shigellas,klebs,staphs,enterobacters....including d virulents n fungals to dis forum. .your input will go a long way in creating awareness on d beauty n prospects of microbiology..i still remember with nostalgia,my student days in d uni,will delve on that some other time..just to make folks aware,microbiology finds application in many fields especially in d fmcg and medical fields.microbiologists work as quality control officers in many industries as well as consultants to multinational coys-as a matter of fact,one of my profs is a consultant to mobil and he has really done well 4 hm self in that area.microbiologists can also choose to pursue further research where they hone skills that make them better equipped to work in NGOs like d world health organisation,UNICEF et al...all in all,due to d obiquitous nature of microbes,microbiology finds application in almost all fields of human endeavour, ranging from agriculture to bio weapons(lol) used in warfare. . . . .when i have d time,i shall initiate a discuss on recent discoveries and ongoing research in d field....CIAO

I have a first degree B.Sc Microbiology, currently working in a hospital, fresh graduate, am underemployed if u know what I mean (When hospital employ you cos they can't pay a Med. Lab scientist) some of my colleagues have gone back to school to study pharmacy but instead of me to go back to school to study pharmacy with another 4 years plus, I rather apply for DE medicine and surgery. Let me know what am suffering for. Please does anyone know how I get into Medicine, Unilag precisely? Am from Edo state, heard Unilag discriminates alot against non-indigene. My number is 08100254826, whatapp message is allowed

Irelexicon:
These are lists of notable Categories of Microbiology you can chose to study and become! During your Masters..

Medical Microbiologists ; Mainly work at hospitals to carry out various test analysis but does same work as Medical lab. Scientist

Environmental Microbiologists : Works at ministry of works, mining

Pharmaceutical Microbiologists : Work at pharmaceutical companies

Agricultural Microbiologists: works at agro-allied industries

Industrial/food Microbiologists : works at food and beverages companies such as indomie, nestles, diary companies

Virologists: works at health organizations such as (WHO) in curbing of viral attacks such as Ebola

Biotechnologists: works at research institutes such as IITA, NAGRAB, etc.

Mycologist: works at forensic research institutes

You can add yours...

I have a first degree B.Sc Microbiology, currently working in a hospital, fresh graduate, am underemployed if u know what I mean (When hospital employ you cos they can't pay a Med. Lab scientist) some of my colleagues have gone back to school to study pharmacy but instead of me to go back to school to study pharmacy with another 4 years plus, I rather apply for DE medicine and surgery. Let me know what am suffering for. Please does anyone know how I get into Medicine, Unilag precisely? Am from Edo state, heard Unilag discriminates alot against non-indigene. My number is 08100254826, whatapp message is allowed

Theflint1:
It would really be a good idea if we can have a thread for microbiology students where we discuss ideas, job opportunities and potentials of our wonderful discipline. I must get paid in $$ from this course!

I have a first degree B.Sc Microbiology, currently working in a hospital, fresh graduate, am underemployed if u know what I mean (When hospital employ you cos they can't pay a Med. Lab scientist) some of my colleagues have gone back to school to study pharmacy but instead of me to go back to school to study pharmacy with another 4 years plus, I rather apply for DE medicine and surgery. Let me know what am suffering for. Please does anyone know how I get into Medicine, Unilag precisely? Am from Edo state, heard Unilag discriminates alot against non-indigene. My number is 08100254826, whatapp message is allowed.

Uniben4sure:
from whom do d dealer s buy medicines. Don't be silly. Seek knowledge dude.

I have a first degree B.Sc Microbiology, currently working in a hospital, fresh graduate, am underemployed if u know what I mean (When hospital employ you cos they can't pay a Med. Lab scientist) some of my colleagues have gone back to school to study pharmacy but instead of me to go back to school to study pharmacy with another 4 years plus, I rather apply for DE medicine and surgery. Let me know what am suffering for. Please does anyone know how I get into Medicine, Unilag precisely? Am from Edo state, heard Unilag discriminates alot against non-indigene. My number is 08100254826, whatapp message is allowed!

[quote author=Irenemmeso post=48456486]that's not true
Doctors
Pharmacists
Mls
Nurses[/quote
Who are those peeps separating Doctors from nurses? The series is very clear :
Doctors
Nurses
Pharmacist
Medical. Lab sc



Quote me anywhere

How much is Toyota Sienna 2002/2003 model, I want to buy it for someone who intent to use it for transportation business, I want to buy it for a distant cousin who just returned from SA, Jobless. Faily used not toks

Ten06:
Bro, after the day stress you will be so confused that you won't even think of how much you are making. Bros, commercial driving is for people who has no skills but must do something to sustain themselves. I will advise that you look for a good transport company who has been in the business for some time and hire the bus to them for them to add to their fleet, before now some of them use to pay 100k a month to the owner and also assign driver to the bus and will also take care of the bus in terms of maintenance.

And you think driving is not a skill?

[quote author=Judeozoemena post=37114340][/quote]I don't mind starting somewhere if you can assist me get any placement. Am a microbiology graduate, Just stopped working in a hospital lab recently, searching for another job now. My number and whatapp is 08100254826 ,email : ebohphilipe@gmail.com

[quote author=Brownshugar69 post=82523163]This is one of the reason I didn't want to be a doctor. People's lives are at your hands! Except God be with you, you cannot do well as a doctor[/quote
Most doctors don't even know what they are doing, that's the truth. I work in a hospital and I have facts for you, guess what? Hospital is simply business, your money is their number one priority, besides that when things go awry, they (most doctors) are as clueless as a common man!

chioma134:
Mrs M.A. Has been on admission twice since the last post. Husband has sold his car and other property,and there is no money now. Sister came shedding crocodile tears and accusing the husband publicly of neglecting his wife. Says her family had spent abt 50k. Doesn't realize that is chicken feed. Was so bad some doctors had to contribute money to help. Efforts being made by the hospital to appeal to the public on her behalf and for others. Heard President Yaradua used to contribute heavily to these patients when he was alive but since his death,no other source of help. Pls everyone,try to contribute something no matter how small.

And people are there who have the financial capacity to help but they won't, some prefer to spend d money on irrelevant things, women and donations to fake churches. When I become very rich, my devine offering goes to the less privileged and those in need, as much as I can instead of donating to fake pastors so they can fly in private jets.

Acidosis:
Your cousin should first and foremost consider any effects donation might have on her overall health. Confirming that your cousin is a biological match means some steps already have been taken. Further 'light' tests should be considered to be sure there are no medical challenges (diabetes, HBP, etc.). Presence of health challenges automatically nullifies chances of donating to her husband. In my opinion, it's better to decline by dwelling on the aforementioned challenges.

Where there are no underlying health issues, no one should pressure her into giving her organ. Organ donation is more of sacrifice and selflessness than romantic and sexual love. It takes a special kind of love to give an organ to a spouse, sister, brother, parents or child, etc. What if she loves her husband but just can't trust the medical procedure? Some people don't trust medical doctors and surgical procedures. It's just what it is.

The mother of the man in context can also come forward and donate to her son. After all, people have made us believe that the love a mother has towards her son exceeds all forms of love. Let her come and prove that love.

Of course, a mother's love has no comparison. No boundaries my dear friend, but in all, his wife is supposed to stand by him in trying times like this. I lost an aunt to kidney problem in 2014. From time time of diagnosis to her death was just six months, the husband ran away two months into the illness, my grandma, that's my aunties mother was ever willing to donate for as we made arrangements to fly her to Indian. The husband whom my aunty have opened a business for severally and he lavishes it on young girls ran away on discovery that he was a perfect match and a potential donor. Smiles# he family members encourage it though, but he perceived the money for transplant was almost ready as the Nigerian Police force assisted my aunt who was a police inspector with 2million naira, we needed 6 million. Some families members aren't worth it self, some of her rich biological brothers refused to support courtesy to their wives! We put up her house for sale, chai come and see where people were pricing a six bedroom apartment anyhow. Life is deceiving sha!! Pray you don't experience kidney failure. Our money got exhausted on three-times a week dialysis! funny enough dear husband wanted to hijacked the money. Long story short, she gave up the ghost few days to her traveling abroad, the knowledge that her dear hubby have abandoned her hastened her death. After her burial, the same hubby came wanting to claim her house. The house my aunt single-handedly built even before they met. What a world! In-laws are scam, they are mostly after the interest of their very own, they will never allow their son/daughter to lay down their life in times like this, but when things are okay, you hear them calling you 'my in-law my in-law every now and then!

yazga:
Did the kidney suddenly fail or it was there all along and wasn't disclosed? If it wasn't disclosed, she has a choice to walk away. If it happened suddenly, she ought to make sacrifice but you can't force her. I believe he has siblings, let love ànd blood lead.

Again, Instead of the two families to sit down and look for a suitable solution, it's divorce they are pushing her for? A fresh marriage for that matter, what exactly was their reason to get married if they can't support and help each other at their down times?

Oh so it's now you remember he has siblings, when some ladies will never allow their husband to assist their biological siblings in any way, now he's sick its falls on the siblings as their duty to revive their brother. See why I don't joke with my family? Mother, father and siblings first over anything else. Am married too

handsomeclouds:
Your chances are limited because education in Nigeria has become a joke.

Most of us running Phd now are unemployed meaning after Phd some will still be. Phd is fast becoming pure water.

Even in Nigeria you could get a lecturing job and still get fired for running Phd just like what happened to me where I was working a few months back. But just don't want to disclose or create a thread on it. Because my colleagues are still there and I don't want the tactless proprietor to start his usual habit of annoyance and venting his anger on them as he did the last time someone brought an internal memo here.

Even after seeking permission to attend lectures, I was given only oral approval. The worst part was a six-day leave for examination which was given an outright disapproval. I left for my exams however, and before I could say Jack, I was fired- just two days of departure.
Yet the school along with it parent body and subsidiaries keeps advertisings year-in-year-out. I pity the next set of people that would be employed there.
Sorry for digressing.
My advice for anyone is to search for management trainee jobs after masters and save towards running PhD in saner climes. Possibly seeking lecturing job in some middle eastern country like Dubai cos nothing works in this Nigeria any longer.

People are bad o...hmmmm you won't know until u start making progress in life.

Safari29:
people move bro. they either get tired, get a better offer or get sacked after a while and leave. it applies to most companies. some do in-sourcing, so you might not see their advert. A friend just left Firstbank that i have been rooting for, management position o, to Canada

That's called upgrading my friend. I too would prefer Canada to even a managerial position in the bank. as far as naija is concerned, nothing is guaranteed. you friend isn't stupid, he probably have weighed both options and find out leaving for Canada is a better option while there are some who envy his former job... hmmm funny world sha, " Some have,they don't don't want, others want they don't have "

luvyaself95:
I have start disbelieving long term relationship sometimes can't lead to marriage..

NOT ALL, MINE WORKED OUT, I GOT MARRIED JUNE 29TH, 2019. THAT'S LAST MONTH, MY WIFE AND I DATED FOR 5 YEARS, THOUGH ALOT OF PEOPLE NEVER TAUGHT IT WOULD WORK OUT CONSIDERING AM A YOUTH CORPER! my wedding was a blast, talk of the town!