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As we step into a new year, I expect guys with honour and integrity to shun any girlfriend who got carried away in the arms of other guys as a result of the Xmas and new year celebration.

There's no coming back
have I spoken your mind? Lol

My best friend just narrated his ordeal to me last night regarding his fiancee of 5 years' behavior during this Xmas just because he couldn't meet up with her financial demands. Girl has started giving attention to others rich guys mostly the newly arrived overseas based Guys of recent. Nigga always buy his lady the best of clothes, shoes, enough money to flex the Xmas including her entire family members. He further told me how he usually give the girl's mom over 100k every Xmas but had to drop to 30k because of some set back he's having with his business.

Got me wondering if anyone has the same experience this Xmas, please share for others to learn.

Jodha:
If the mother is the only issue...there shouldn't be much problems nah... She should focus more on totally convincing her father..

He's obviously the head of the family...and if he's ready to make a stand... it's a done deal...

Exactly if yhu guys are meant to be together nothing will stop it...but that doesn't mean yhu won't fight for eachother...

It's just an obstacle... it'll pass

Ah don't underate the power of a woman in the house o.. Infact it would have been better if it's the woman that is on the OP's side instead of the man. Women have a huge influence over their husbands.

My advice: shower the mother with some good gifts and money to make her be on ur side, women love gifts and money alot

Jerryembassy91:
I realize procrastination is a robber of time .....I regret not taking action when I had the time and cash

I love this topic, sincerely people should focus more on improving their mistakes from previous years and be wiser individuals than setting an unrealistic new year resolutions!


Mine is "Friends are not as important as we thought, they only stick around when there's a common goal"

"Most uncles don't mean well for their nephews and never want you to better than their kids, be as discreet as possible with your achievements and plans"

"nobody give a Bleep about you, it's each man for himself, so do what works for you and never care what anybody thinks"

HAPPY NEW YEAR

Jobminister:
Am serious ooh, since people are lying up and down hear claiming what they did not do.

Now let me tell you what happened to me yesterday: on a serious note

I bought two giant croaker fish barbecue yesterday for a girl 4k each, she told me she will take one to her mum and eat one in the bar there with me, so I gave her money to go and pay for the fish, na so the girl carry the two fish comot, when I call, she told me that she is coming that she want to take her mum own for her and come back.

After sometimes she could not pick my calls again, so today she was begging me that she took the two fish to meet her uncle that he was doing birth day.

You know what, the girl took those two fish to meet another man (not any uncle) for them to enjoy and left me.

Am still in total shock, thinking of what to do to her. Guys please help out on what to do to this girl.

I will give you a scope that will bring her to the receiving end but before then, you need to be sure it's actually a guy she went to flex the barbeque with. How can you prove this?

englishmart:
I once met a girl in a cab, I collected her contact and within days we started going out. Since we used the same route and closed the same, we thought it wise to always meet at the bus stop and take a cab together. For like 2 weeks we were doing this, I was the financier of the transportation fare, which was about #600 then. Sometimes she will call me to get her Nutri milk and snacks. Imagine paying 6h +250 almost daily. I was practically suffering and smiling, drunk in love like Beyonce and Jay Z. Mine was stupidity and naivety at play. The craziest of all was that I even borrow if need be. One day I lied to her that my closing time had changed from 5pm to 7:30 pm- she protested and was very unhappy as if it was something I could influence. 3 days later she quit her job. End of a magaring.
Some girls have no conscience, whatsoever. The experience makes me annoyed each time I remember

Hahahahahahaha, nor be toto you dey fine, Lwkmd


Mine was I camped a girl for over five years on campus. Was practically financing everything, no regret sha cos we later got married.

Dozie404:
Hello, I wanna rent a room in my flat. Add me on WhatsApp 09021117285

She's a guy o, incase you think she's a lady. Lol no show for you

APOPTOSIS:
U are asking for HELP and at the same THREATENING NIGERIANS with Internet Fraud.
Who does Such..?
U should be putting up IDEAS and STUFFS u can offer..rather than starting with such threats and how your FRIENDS are compelling you.

SO, U Keep YAHOO BOYS as Friends..?
Please go and start up a Church BUSINESS, that's what most people are good at.

What's all these..?

Lol... Lucrative yahoo yahoo is focused on foreigners not Nigerians.
It's obvious you have nothing to contribute here sir, please go to romance section.

annpeter6677:
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1. Thank God for life
2. Got married, June 2019
3. Had my daughter, Sept 2019
4. Bought my 1st car, Dec 2019

handsomeguy4kyf:
the day i mistakenly slept with a prostitute and my condom slipped off.
and it turned to skin to skin fuckin.
mehn that day was the scariest day of my life i use my life savings in doing checkup for different diseases

Lol, let me shock you. Most prostitutes/runs girls don't even have infection. Infections abound amongst these normal girls going from one boyfriend house to another in the name of girlfriend. Bcoz most boyfriends don't use condoms for these so called normal girls. Na bumper to bumper. Prostitute/runs girls insist on condoms always so you hardly see any of them down with deadly infection, sorry to disappoint you!

phillippians:
Read carefully from the beginning to the end. Okay let me share mine!
1. In sec school, am robbers went to rob in a nearby village, so vigilatee from my village went in search of them. Robbers dived into the river (obviously good at swimming) but trust village youths, they were better at swimming. Long story short, they caught the robbers, brought them out from water and shot them instantly and then brot them to the village market for display, one of the robbers was still alive when I got there but badly wounded as his stomach was ripped open by bullets, u could see through his internal organs to the back of his spine. He died an hour later after blood has dried from his body. They were Hausa thieves.

2 Grandpa, 96years old died and I didn't cry, they said its celebration of life until I saw his dead body inside the mortuary room. I Was the only one that followed elders in, and I couldn't help it but cry seeing my beloved grandpa who raised me looking like a mare piece of furniture, so dried, stiff and whitish in appearance. This was a retired inspector of education, a bookworm. Life is one big vanity

3 my wife's labour started 11pm at night, rushed her to the hospital for delivery, was told her BP was very high 190/100. My God, on delivery day? Was scared as Bleep, started praying, everyone in the ward join me. My mom was so scared, her mom too but then she delivered safely, naturally with herself qnd baby alive. People said it was a miracle a lady with such BP giving birth naturally.

4. Was bitten by a snake in the village while myself and my cousin brother went to plug pear. I was the one who climed the tree to plug pear while my cousin was on ground picking it into a bag, cousin brother have been going round and round the same spot where the snake was since and nothing happened to him (Grace exist) but on getting down from up the tree, d snake welcome me with a deep bite. Was standing right on top a snake barefooted, Tot i was going to die, I ran first but later came back to the snake and killed it, after all it has already bitten me. What's left? Off my shirt and tie the upper side of my bleeding leg and ran home, before I got home my leg was four times it original size, so big and swollen. Spent months in a herber home!

NNAMDIII:
Following...

Read carefully from the beginning to the end. Okay let me share mine!
1. In sec school, am robbers went to rob in a nearby village, so vigilatee from my village went in search of them. Robbers dived into the river (obviously good at swimming) but trust village youths, they were better at swimming. Long story short, they caught the robbers, brought them out from water and shot them instantly and then brot them to the village market for display, one of the robbers was still alive when I got there but badly wounded as his stomach was ripped open by bullets, u could see through his internal organs to the back of his spine. He died an hour later after blood has dried from his body. They were Hausa thieves.

2 Grandpa, 96years old died and I didn't cry, they said its celebration of life until I saw his dead body inside the mortuary room. I Was the only one that followed elders in, and I couldn't help it but cry seeing my beloved grandpa who raised me looking like a mare piece of furniture, so dried, stiff and whitish in appearance. This was a retired inspector of education, a bookworm. Life is one big vanity

glo3nity:
I have a story to tell.

In the case of bleeding after birth my neighbour expeirienced it and the worst part was that, when labour kicked in her husband, will I call it stupidity, foolishness or what?!
He rushed her to White Garment Church to deliver and after a successful delivering of her child bleeding kicks in and the so called doctor ran out of experience. Their inability to control the pressure of the bleeding led to her untimely death awarding the man an eminence title as a WIDOWER and the children..? MOTHERLESS!
This is the end of my story.

The point is, LIVE IS TOO PRECIOUS TO BE WASTED IN A CHURCH WHICH IS NEVER AN HOSPITAL...

Lost my wife's elder sister this morning to bleeding after delivery after she had successfully birth a very pretty baby girl around 2am.

The four kids she has in total now are motherless, so painful. If anyone wants to even lose a parent, not a mother Biko! Feeling for those kids, my wife is now breastfeeding d newborn cos she too just put to bed three months back after battling pre-eclampsia. Women must be respected, childbirth is not easy at all...

almustopha82:
NO 1 happen to my wife on delivery day. She started bleeding during the labour. They operate her but she couldn't make it alive

My wife's elder sister just died this morning from bleeding immediately after giving birth to a baby girl around 2am.

valuedammy:
Bought my first car April 3 2019, which was a Tukunbo 2003 Toyota Corolla and I bought it for 1.8million, I love the car like kilode, I don't pray it get spoiled soon even if I don't have money to buy another. Using it for my Uber business .

Thought uber uses cars from 2008 above? How manage they accepted ur 2003 model, please can I register my 2004 Toyota Sienna too?

I loved it. I wish we never separated (my fault)... I love the fact we could sit and talk for hours, plan, kiss and just be like lovers. Gave me mental space to actually be a better person plus she was really disciplined my best friend....

Now I have a girl who would suk my dicky nd swallow all while I look at her in utter disgust and dismay thinking "how d heck did she get used to this, a choir mistress for that matter, when will she leave" ....

I want my virgin ex back, life is just incomplete without her, I would stay celibate for 10years if that's what it would take.... My heart still aches sef.....

Lol... All women are like this. Difference is they try to narrow down their sexual exploits during dating bcoz they are sensitive and can read ur mind, they know u will think they are wild when they reveal their sexual skills to you. Only the married men like myself will understand what am saying... Women don't joke with sex!

deekseen:
I think this 'virgin' thing is highly overrated.
The first time i tried to penetrate a virgin, it was hell. Three hours plus and i could not make any reasonable penetration. Three hours with a deflowered girl would have been next to heaven. For some time now i've tried as much as possible to stay off 'virgins'.
I'm not saying girls should not keep their virginities till their wedding night and i'm not saying i wouldn't like to marry a virgin. All i'm saying is that i wouldn't force it. If the girl i eventually fall in love with is a virgin, good. But if not, not bad either.
I won't be a 'virgin-p*ssy' hunter!

You were probably making out with an underage girl. If you meet a mature virgin say 20 years to 25years, you will have a smooth penetration so much so you will think the girl was never a virgin in the first place.

Biglittlelois:
I was actually looking at his opinion objectively, and in a way, it make sense, if one wants to be selfish anyway, and if we should look at life generally, it is always all man to himself at the end of the day, even after raising kids and they are all grown, they go out to be on their own and do things for themselves, it's more like going round in circles, so it's better for one to be happy, whether married or single.

I almost scrolled passed your comments without hitting the like button but my apologies as I have done so now. The world is designed in a way that, it's each man for himself. The word "Man" here also include both genders. I got married at age 25, did introduction, traditional and white wedding. Was a Corper and my uncles and everyone except my mom were all against it obviously bcoz I don't have a job yet but I choose to take the risk particularly bcoz she was pregnant. Didn't want to shame such a good girl who has strangled with me for the past five years, luckily for me she's gainfully employed. 6months After NYSC no job coming I had to venture into business with the last 800k in my account and today we are doing fine. If I had listened to my uncles and everyone I would have even regretted it more because as a broke guy, I wouldn't have been able to afford another gf, Nor be who get money dey get girlfriend? Lol. Whatever you believe in, do it... Don't care what others people think or say, at the end of the day, it's each man for himself!

Oshiomohle is only trying too hard to control EDO state and dictate what goes on there. In as much as I like him for the infastructural development he has given the edo people during his tenure, he should leave the affairs of the state for the present government to handle and focus on his party leadership in Abuja. Obaseki will retain his seat come next governorship election in edo state and as he (Oshiomohle) should join hands in saying No to godfatherism just as he has been saying, of course hypocritically![color=#990000][/color]

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A cousin just collected one babe number yesterday and they had sex today. Right in her father's house, in one dark room like that, her younger ones playing around in d living room. He narrated " Was just passing by n decided to say hello shud have known she's up to something as she kept asking me "What will I offer you?" later decided to just kiss her goodbye, next thing she grabbed my dick oo after few seconds of kissing, help me bring out my huge dick and on pulling her trousers down to her knees she practically installed in into her VJ herself without anyone us pulling off our clothes completely... After d act she's now acting depressed obviously feeling cheap, I even got angry at her cos I noticed blood stains on my dick and white top when I went to wash in d restroom, obviously she was menstrating, I felt bad, scolded her about it and on getting home, I deleted her number". Just imagine!!!![color=#990000][/color]

henchmark:
@ achilles,

i want to agree the economic situation is really having an impact and for real. most parents these days dont ask their daughters how they fend for themselves , the moment they know she is seeing a guy the first question is where does he work, if no jab, they will say na bad market oooo, am speaking from experience.

i remember a girl i was asking out during my service, you need to see her formings simply because i was still staying with my parents, 2 years later when we saw, she was like: is this you? you, mummy's boy, when she got to my crib, after 3years of no communication she spent the night that very day, the remaining story i leave to ur imagination. i mean its that bad.

I just collected one babe number yesterday and we had sex today. Right in her father's house, in one dark room like that, her younger ones playing around in d living room. Was just passing by n decided to say hello shud have known she's up to something as she kept asking me "What will I offer you?" later decided to just kiss her goodbye, next thing she grabbed my dick oo after few seconds of kissing, help me bring out my huge dick and on pulling her trousers down to her knees she practically installed in into her VJ herself without anyone us pulling off our clothes completely... After d act she's now acting depressed obviously feeling cheap, I even got angry at her cos I noticed blood stains on my dick and white top when I went to wash in d restroom, obviously she was menstrating, I felt bad, scolded her about it and on getting home, I deleted her number. Just imagine!!!!

It was a wonderful and prosperous 2019.
-Had my wedding June this year
-Had my pretty daughter Sept this year
-Bought my first Car Dec this year
-Sound health, maximum Protection, God too much abeg. Hoping for a better year 2020. God be praised!!!

Blazing12345:
Well, for me it just about man's inhumanity to man and I'm hoping God will see me through. Got married to an Igbo man and everything became a nightmare immediately after my third child.

My womb got ruptured when I was in my ninth month and my womb was removed though the baby survived and this man abandoned me in the hospital coupled with the fact that I gave birth to a girl, making it 2 girls and a boy.

My family rally round and paid my bills because it was through CS, came back home he has already moved out with my first two kids and denied me access to them,all along it's seem I wasn't observant enough to noticed he was keeping a mistress and planning something serious with her. Because he is living with her now.

I reached out to his family and they are like their brother needs more children and male kids which I can't give him now. So I should forget about him. So I became a single mum just like that,catering for the new born baby alone.

Well,my problem now is how to sue him for all the demages he has caused me and also retrieved the other two kids from him.Getting a competent lawyer will cost good money,which I'm still working towards it

This is my previous thread though about this

https://www.nairaland.com/4974754/how-go

CC PerfectMatchNG

I have no pity for most single mothers. They caused their ordeal. Why won't you be rejected when you will ignore responsible guys and be after looks and swag, how handsome he is, if he has pink lips or not, then go about spreading their legs apart for a an irresponsible fine boy who continue to enrich their pussies with his baby making fluids, women are too carried away with looks, ever ready to get down with "Ramsey Noah" looking kinda of kinds even though he has nothing in his bank account. Why won't he dissapointe you and run away, is it a fine boy who can barely Carter for his own needs what will add a baby mama and her child to his expenses? Fish-brain women, they think everything is all about LOVE LOVE LOVE until reality teach them money is more important!

Since Life is a teacher, I decided to become a 'Class Prefect'

1. In Nigeria, nothing goes for nothing
2. Aside your mom, dad, wife and kids, no one else truly cares.
3. Don't be too quiet or gentle, people will always step on ur toes and think they can get away with it.
4. Do things discreetly everytime, don't share too much information with people/friends/some relatives
5. Nigerians are not honest. It's a dog eat dog world out there, everyone is looking for money to feed family at ur expense so be smart.
6. Believe in yourself, and put urself first, learn how to manage money, if you go broke nobody will come to your aid.

phillippians:
Women are all the same, all over the world. There are black, blue, yellow, white, red etc THEY ARE ALL THE SAME!

1. In Nigeria, nothing goes for nothing
2. Aside your mom, dad, wife and kids, no one else truly cares.
3. Don't be too quiet or gentle, people will always step on ur toes and think they can get away with it.
4. Do things discreetly everytime, don't share too much information with people/friends/some relatives
5. Nigerians are not honest. It's a dog eat dog world out there, everyone is looking for money to feed family at ur expense so be smart.
6. Believe in yourself, and put urself first, learn how to manage money, if you go broke nobody will come to your aid.

Women are all the same, all over the world. There are black, blue, yellow, white, red etc THEY ARE ALL THE SAME!

I also regretted studying microbiology.
Now into transportation business, which am passionate about, wanna own my own transport company in few years. None of my kids will accept any useless course in d name of having an admission! If it's not something real, have affiliations with handwork practical then no deal!