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FamilyRe: The Most Important Lessons Your Parents Taught You? by phyl123: 10:00am On Nov 18, 2012
From both parents i learnt that "a good name and reputation is better than riches"
TravelRe: Current Opinions On Arik Air Please by phyl123: 10:46pm On Nov 12, 2012
If you are looking for reliability then forget about Arik air. All the stress you will go thru to seek answers will be more than 129. And if Virgin air cancels your flight there is a guarantee they will put all their stranded passengers up in a Hotel. When Arik Air teach their staff the meaning if customer service that will be the day i will star to use them for international flights.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Jilted UI Student Drinks Bleach by phyl123: 7:30am On Nov 10, 2012
I have read most of the comments here and noticed a certain trend, the life of a human being in Nigeria has no value. This may be a cry out for help by this kid who may not have been prepared properly for the real world by those around her. Sometimes in life let us not be too quick to condem or pass judgement, the situations in the country has hardened the hearts of most people and as a result has blurred sympathetic reasoning. In the western world that is why certain charities are set up to avoid situations like this. For example the samaritans. This is because they understand in life there are times when people get to the lowest point in their lives but have someone to talk to or a shoulder to cry on, makes all the difference.

If the tables were turned and this were to be your sister,daughter, niece or friend would your comments be the same? I do not support what this young girl has done, all I'm saying is that a little bit of sympathy and support goes a long way. Trying to commit suicide is not a decision that is taken lightly. Most parents especially in Nigeria do not prepare their young ones properly for the emotional ups and downs of the real world. Maybe this should act as a warning to the rest of us.
Foreign AffairsRe: Barack Obama Vs Mitt Romney : Election Night Thread by phyl123: 6:13am On Nov 07, 2012
[quote author=Erelu_Y][size=18pt]BUT I DIDN'T WRITE A DEFEAT SPEECH...UHMNNNNNNNNNN WHAT SHALL I SAY.[/size]

https://blogs.r.ftdata.co.uk/the-world/files/2012/09/romney.jpg[/quote]PICK UP THE PHONE AND CONGRATULATE OBAMA AND THEN TAKE A LONG VACATION WITH YOUR FAMILY. grin
Foreign AffairsRe: Barack Obama Vs Mitt Romney : Election Night Thread by phyl123: 6:07am On Nov 07, 2012
Foreign AffairsRe: Barack Obama Vs Mitt Romney : Election Night Thread by phyl123: 5:42am On Nov 07, 2012
Poor guy!! At least you campaigned to last minute grin grin
shymexx: Team Romney - the Pres-select has a message for you...

Stay calm and peep this... cool



https://talkingpointsmemo.com/assets_c/2012/08/Mitt-Romney-8-9-12-cropped-proto-custom_28.jpg
Foreign AffairsRe: Barack Obama Vs Mitt Romney : Election Night Thread by phyl123: 5:35am On Nov 07, 2012
Boris Johnson now is the time to stick two fingers up at Romney after all his criticism of the London Olympics.
Foreign AffairsRe: Barack Obama Vs Mitt Romney : Election Night Thread by phyl123: 5:30am On Nov 07, 2012
Fox news are deluding themselves, saying Obama hasnt won yet.
grin
Foreign AffairsRe: Barack Obama Vs Mitt Romney : Election Night Thread by phyl123: 5:18am On Nov 07, 2012
Congrats to Obama, Americans have made their choice good luck.
FashionRe: When A Low Class Person Wears The Same Shirt With You by phyl123: 5:04am On Nov 05, 2012
We are all equal in the eyes of God. There is nothing wrong with that.

ashmanpolo: In one sentence explain how u feel running into someone that's putting on the same type of shirt you are wearing especially if the person happens to be A conductor, agbero, mechanic, mortuary attendant, agbepo, onigo etc.
Nairaland GeneralLion Trying To Eat Baby by phyl123(op): 11:47am On Nov 03, 2012

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IpBXna8qtDQ&sns=em

A video of a parent using their 4 month old baby to tease a lion. Do you think this is right or just a bit of fun?
PropertiesRe: From Paper To Brick: A Journal Of Construction Activities by phyl123: 12:34am On Nov 01, 2012
Me too.......
PropertiesRe: Building A 5 Bedroom Duplex In Ebonyi State by phyl123: 7:30am On Oct 28, 2012
spyder880: Point noted Oga, but in some places women do this work even better than the men. Go to Emene Enugu or Abakaliki town and you will see that women outnumber men in every decking concrete works. They will term me as very unfair if I had refused women from ferring concrete upstairs yesterday.


Happy Sunday everyone.
Hi Oga Spyder ive been a silent follower of your thread for some time time and ive learnt a lot, i hope in the future i will be able to use your services. I feel ive got to comment.

If the woman is the breadwinner and without that job her family will starve why not? Some women use this kind of job to train kids in the university, so oga flemmy you saying she needs to be restricted to cooking sounds patronising. The truth be told if there was a better and less manual job she could do, she wouldnt be doing this, so please let them do it as long as they are fit.
PropertiesRe: Building In Nigeria: Lessons Learned by phyl123: 10:20pm On Oct 18, 2012
Thanks Brabus

Maybe this should be an idea for a new thread, cos i know a few people who do not live in Lagos but are interested in purchasing properties in some of these areas you have mentioned. They would be interested in certain kind of information, like the crime rate,security, noise and other kinds of polution levels, road access during the raining season and nearness to basic facilities etc such a thread will be very informative in helping to make their decision.

brabus: My response:

I never said Ikorodu, Mowe, Siun etc are not nice place to live in any of my posts, I just said they were cheaper locations to consider when you have a tight budget.

However, here are my views on assessing locations for building projects.

Note: this views are generally subjective

- Does it fulfill your personal aspirations?
- Does it provide the essential ingredients that will allow you and your family to feel comfortable? (Consider the fact that commuting time is much more important than commuting 'distance')
- Does it feel instinctively right?
- Will it be incongruous with other housing in
the neighbourhood?

Assessing 'best value' for land depends largely on your NEEDS (important matters which includes the quality of local schools, leisure facilities, shopping, health centres and, of course, access to the motorway network and to public transport), the FUNDS you have available and the PLANS you have made for the future.

If Ikorodu can meet you needs, budget and future plan - Go for it!


Lesson: Find the right balance between quantity and quality as this will help you determine what you want and where you want it.
their decision.
PropertiesRe: Building In Nigeria: Lessons Learned by phyl123: 8:28pm On Oct 18, 2012
Hi Brabus

You have not answered my question.
EventsRe: What Type Of Cake For Your Upcoming Birthday? by phyl123: 6:57pm On Oct 18, 2012
Gabry: Amaka, Those Red Velvet Cake looks soo freakin delicious!!! That I look up on it~

Red Velvet Cake:

2 1/2 cups (250 grams) sifted cake flour

1/2 teaspoon salt

2 tablespoons (15 grams) Dutch-processed cocoa powder

1/2 cup (113 grams) unsalted butter, at room temperature

1 1/2 cups (300 grams) granulated white sugar

2 large eggs

1 teaspoon pure vanilla extract

1 cup (240 ml) buttermilk

2 tablespoons liquid red food coloring

1 teaspoon white distilled vinegar

1 teaspoon baking soda

Cream Cheese Frosting:

1 1/2 (360 ml) cups heavy whipping cream

1 - 8 ounce (227 grams) cream cheese, room temperature

1 - 8 ounce (227 grams) tub of Mascarpone cheese, room temperature

3/4 teaspoon pure vanilla extract

1 cup (115 grams) confectioners' (icing or powdered) sugar, sifted



Red Velvet Cake: Preheat oven to 350 degrees F (175 degrees C) and place rack in center of oven. Butter two - 9 inch (23 cm) round cake pans and line the bottoms of the pans with parchment paper. Set aside.

In a mixing bowl sift together the flour, salt, and cocoa powder. Set aside.

In bowl of your electric mixer, or with a hand mixer, beat the butter until soft (about 1-2 minutes). Add the sugar and beat until light and fluffy (about 2-3 minutes). Add the eggs, one at a time, beating well after each addition. Scrape down the sides of the bowl. Add the vanilla extract and beat until combined.

In a measuring cup whisk the buttermilk with the red food coloring. With the mixer on low speed, alternately add the flour mixture and buttermilk, in three additions, beginning and ending with the flour.

In a small cup combine the vinegar and baking soda. Allow the mixture to fizz and then quickly fold into the cake batter.

Working quickly, divide the batter evenly between the two prepared pans and smooth the tops with an offset spatula or the back of a spoon. Bake in the preheated oven for approximately 25 - 30 minutes, or until a toothpick inserted in the center of the cakes comes out clean. Cool the cakes in their pans on a wire rack for 10 minutes. Place a wire rack on top of the cake pan and invert, lifting off the pan. Once the cakes have completely cooled, wrap in plastic and place the cake layers in the freezer for at least an hour. (This is done to make filling and frosting the cakes easier.)

Cream Cheese Frosting: In your food processor, or with a hand mixer, process the cream cheese and mascarpone cheese until smooth. Add the vanilla and confectioners sugar and process until smooth. Transfer this mixture to a large mixing bowl.

Then, in the bowl of your electric mixer, or with a hand mixer, whip the cream until stiff peaks form. With a large spatula, gently but quickly fold a little of the whipped cream into the cream cheese mixture to lighten it. Then fold in the remaining whipped cream, in two stages. If the frosting is not thick enough to spread, cover and place in the refrigerator for an hour, or until it is firm enough to spread.

Assemble: With a serrated knife, cut each cake layer in half, horizontally. You will now have four cake layers. Place one of the cake layers, top of the cake facing down, onto your serving platter. Spread the cake layer with a layer of frosting. Place another layer of cake on top of the frosting and continue to frost and stack the cake layers. Frost the top and sides of the cake. Can garnish the cake with sweetened or unsweetened coconut

Makes one - 9 inch (23 cm) four layer cake.
For the red velvet cake you can substitute beetroot for the red colouring.
PropertiesRe: Building In Nigeria: Lessons Learned by phyl123:
brabus: Happy Independence Nigeria

~ Your JAMB score is 73 and you want to study Medicine to become a Doctor? That's not even enough marks to make you a NATIVE DOCTOR... Get a life! ~

~ You do not have a land and you want to purchase tiles for your dream house. That's f00lishness of highest order... Get a life! ~

~ Your house plan is for a bungalow and you want to add extra floor without due consultation? That's suicidal... Get a life! ~

~ Your build budget is N2m and you want to buy land in Festac, Lagos. That's not even enough to settle the council boys, omo onile and agents... Better look elsewhere in Mowe, Ikorodu, Siun, Agbowa, Ibeju-Lekki, Agbara, etc... Get a life! ~

~ You're 30 years old. You work in VI and you went to build your house in Agbara. That means you want to remain as a tenant till retirement age... Location is key. Nearness (to the market, church, school, work, airport, parks etc) is very important. ~

~ You just finished paying for your land and you're already bragging. Land purchase is just 5% of home ownership. In fact, shell construction (ie. Roofing stage is just 40%). Take am softly ~

Hi Brabus

Ive been a silent follower of most of your post.
I thought Ikorodu was a nice area, maybe you can advice us on the pros and cons of why you think these areas you have mentioned are not very nice, so for future home owners, we can learn because not everybody can afford to build in VI and Ikoyi. Thanks
CultureRe: The Hidden History Of White Slavery! by phyl123: 11:39am On Oct 18, 2012
In the early 60s in th UK there were signs on houses with the sayings : Rooms to let, no dogs, no blacks, no Irish. The Irish suffered a lot of attrocities too but they have since moved on. They were referred to as the "niggers of europe" This is all part of history.
EventsRe: Why Is Cake Deemed Necessary In Nigerian Ceremonies by phyl123: 11:10am On Oct 18, 2012
redsun: It is part of oyinbo influence,and it is quite detrimental to africans,because they seems to be more prone to diabetics and obesity.I wonder if our precolonial ancestors ever suffered from diabetics? and obesity
Yes they did, but the technology was not there to detect it. There are different kinds of healthcakes that can be made these days, you will be amazed at the choices available as long as you keep an open mind.
EventsRe: Why Is Cake Deemed Necessary In Nigerian Ceremonies by phyl123: 11:04am On Oct 18, 2012
Hi OP

Your assumptions are based on your personal observations which i do understand. Based on my personal observations i think there are more cakes present at events outside Nigeria than in and i think that it is a good thing that Nigeria cake decorators are catching up some are even better. Also you didnt see the cake at the royal wedding because it was a private ceremony. Luckily a fellow nairalander has shown you the picture. I think we should embrace this cake culture as it is positive, creates job opportunities and brings out the creative talents in people.
FashionRe: An Accessory You Hate Seeing On A Lady? by phyl123:
I hate the toyboys that some ladies carry as accessories.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Five Things To Never Say In A Job-Interview by phyl123: 9:27pm On Aug 27, 2012
Ozegbe: aren't you guys tired of all these 10 things, 15, 23 or 5 things you should say, dont say, do or dont do in an interview?
the only one thing i have learn so far is that, in any interview you go just be confident and speak correctly.
Dont ever get addicted to all these kind of craps, they get in your way when trying to present your speech.
JUST BE YOURSELF and remember all interviewers are not thesame and moreover they know all these things better than you.
I agree with you 100%. I once threw away a very good job opportunity because of all this after reading some interview technique ****. Every job is different, what most employers want to know is if you can do the job, your personality and if you have the right qualification. So just be yourself.
TravelRe: 10-Things You Shouldn't Do/Say Outside Nigeria. by phyl123: 4:56pm On Aug 26, 2012
Always make eye contact when speaking or it maybe assummed that you are telling lies, especially in interviews. This may be one reason why some Nigerians do not do so well at job interviews. As i know in some parts of Nigeria it may be seen as disrespectful especially when one of the parties is much younger.
TravelRe: 10-Things You Shouldn't Do/Say Outside Nigeria. by phyl123: 9:14pm On Aug 25, 2012
My own comtribution

-Ladies please try to shave your leg and armpit hairs and use deodorant especially during the summer, even if you shower regularly.
-Lots of european ladies have hair extentions, but it is not so obvious cos they take the time to make sure that it blends in with their hair colour and it is fitted properly, probably by a professional hair dresser. PLEASE Nigerian ladies do not embarrass yourselves by fixing hair extentions a different colour to your natural hair colour,it only makes you a laughing stock and also take the time to look after it properly. If you cannot afford to fit it properly, it is not a must, your uncombed natural hair looks a hundred times better.

-brush your teeth a least twice a day and use mouth wash and floss regularly also try and visit the dentish at least once a year.
-Do not use the word halfcaste as it derogatory, mixed race is more acceptable
- Do not use the word simple to describe the personality of someone. In Nigeria it may mean straight forward but in the western world it means stupid.
-In the western world especially in europe and even carribean, they try to smell food they are not used to before they eat it. If this happens in Nigeria it is seen as an insult, so dont be offended when your european friend takes your food and smells it. Difference in culture.

-Nigerian food bought outside the country from the African shops are not as fresh sometimes it smells really bad. Those Nigerians that share accommodation with other nationalities, please have mercy on your fellow house mates that stock fish smells really bad.

I will stop here for now.
TravelChaos At Benin Airport-what Is Going On? by phyl123(op):
Bleep
SportsRe: London Olympics Closing Ceremony - Live by phyl123: 11:52pm On Aug 12, 2012
Take that..nice one
SportsRe: London Olympics Closing Ceremony - Live by phyl123: 11:30pm On Aug 12, 2012
Let the Brazilians show us how to party..
SportsRe: London Olympics Closing Ceremony - Live by phyl123: 11:25pm On Aug 12, 2012
otokx: Why the national anthem of Greece?
Because the first olympics games took place in Greece
SportsRe: London Olympics Closing Ceremony - Live by phyl123: 11:19pm On Aug 12, 2012
Jessie has killed the song.... cry Her voice is not meant for rock.
SportsRe: London Olympics Closing Ceremony - Live by phyl123: 11:13pm On Aug 12, 2012
This is not Danny Boyles production. I so much enjoyed the opening ceremony but this is so boring........
SportsRe: London Olympics Closing Ceremony - Live by phyl123: 11:10pm On Aug 12, 2012
Comedy show grin

I was enjoying the punjabi dance...
SportsRe: London Olympics Closing Ceremony - Live by phyl123: 11:01pm On Aug 12, 2012
cap28: okay this is good - wonderwall - but why have the gallagher brothers changed their name to beady eye?
They dont sing together anymore, they cant stand each other

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