Studio247:
Sometimes I wonder if it's normal or is just the man I married or there are men like this I have been married now for 7 years.

And for ones my husband has never complimented me in anyways.

The funny thing is people outside will appreciate and compliment me even before him but not the man I married no Matter how much effort I put into doing anything.

Several times I spoke to him about it
But he will flare up.

And for me I feel appreciating and complimenting.
Your partner makes them happy and give them the energy to do better.

I don't know

Its a simple psychology. You are a mere housewife and bring nothing to the table.
Tell him you want to work let him ask you why... Take it from there .

Hashabiah:
Israel has just started fighting a war they cannot win. The best solution is to broker peace because Muslims are more suicidal than any other religious group out there

Eeh ya ah, you must be a very young fellow.

naijapage:
Shared with Caption ...



Source: https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10112954515429031&id=4

Some naija people be like, "can I become one of your goats, I have stayed well in the jungle and can perform better than like one".

Babinski:


Parental rights can be terminated on the basis of abandonment. If the father has not seen the child in at least 6 months and doesn't fulfil obligations to the child, it can be inferred that he has abandoned the child and doesn't have parental rights. If these steps are taken and adoption then perfected, the runaway father has no rights to give any permission or consent and cannot nullify the adoption later.

Your postulation has no legal basis. There's nothing like runaway father. Training someone else's child (a living conscious person) is a mere act of charity, though could crystallise into ownership if not proven otherwise by such biological parent however irresponsible. In other words, there's no way the biological father cannot claim the child if he wants or does not want to pay or compensate you for your alms. But if the child reaches majority and asserts your paternity, matter don finish cos at that age whoever he says is the father becomes the father and nothing more. Generally, people do this for charity and posterity. Fortunately, the child often grows up to adore you forever and that has always been the case. BTW, most of those foster or step children often grow up to be great.
AGAIN, child however, has the absolute decision to make if he reaches majority i.e 18 years in Nigeria, England and the rest.

Exodora:

Who said it won't not be granted .
There is one that happened in my community , the idiot denied be responsible for the girl's pregnancy so some couples who have been childless too care of the girl and adopted the child.
Having seen how cute and healthy the boy is cause the woman that adopts him is a nurse , the fool came back only to claim the child but then it was already late cause he got the couples arrested but they won in all the places he too them to.
The child is 8 years now all eyes is on him now.

If a DNA test gives him paternity, you can only claim the millions you spent. Thats why I said most of the time its an act of charity and service to humanity and God training the son or daughter of someone that is alive. But you know if the child reaches majority say 18, he can decide for himself and no DNA will be applicable cos whoever he says is the dad becomes the dad.

Akv666:
Good day guys,

So I've been dating a single Mom for almost 4years now and we're ready to tie the knot, but recently she came up with a suggestion of me adopting her son legally. Her baby daddy has actually been irresponsible right from start, nigga last saw his son when he was 4months old and he hasn't even bought ordinary diaper for the boy right from when he was delivered.

Now I'm being skeptical about taking him up legally, please i need advice from you guys, no insult please.

OK here you go. This is a candid advise for you are threading a familiar terrain (you know what i mean )and there is nothing absolutely wrong in your decision.
First, Nairaland is the wrongest place to seek sundry advise as the level of ignorance there ranks quite high (pls google Quora and seek such advise there).
Train that boy or girl as an act of charity and do not adopt legally cos it will not be granted if the father lives, however irresponsible he is. The child can answer your surname for the benefits that will acrue from you, better integration with your biological kids and to avert discriminations.
Train that boy as an act of love you have for the mum and humanity in general.
Finally, the position of the law is that if you train the child, hold him out as our own and do other things that show you acknowledge his paternity, he is your son under the law. So, no adoption is needed.
If he reaches majority, he is at liberty to fend for the biological dad (they seldom do that, of course), but you are the father he knows my friend.
BTW, how wise can we even be in our own eyes? this question goes to those demonizing single moms.

OLAADEX:
Asiwaju Bola Tinubu at the Holy Mosque on lesser Hajj,

May Almighty ALLAH (SWT) Accept it......

Brandishing yourself as a good Muslim will help you wrestle power from the North. charlatans

letitrainnow:
“I am N48M richer” – Peter Okoye rejoices after winning bet following Chelsea’s victory

Music star, Peter Okoye reveals how Chelsea’s victory over Real Madrid got him richer, stating the certain amount of money he won.

"I am $100k richer" - Singer Peter Okoye reveals the amount of bet he won after Chelsea's victory over Real Madrid

Chelsea put in a dominant display on Wednesday night to book a place in the Champions League final at the expense of Real Madrid.

However, the victory which means Chelsea will be facing Manchester City in the final made Peter Okoye $100k richer. The talented singer revealed this via a post on his Twitter account.

He added that he might be winning more money during the finals if Chelsea ends up victorious against Manchester City.

Peter Okoye tweeted:



https://mobile.twitter.com/PeterPsquare/status/1390059004941021187

Proud to tell the world you gamble

Gift523:
VIDEO: 29 College Students Abducted In Kaduna Regain Freedom


Watch video here

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xHcNCtJlTyM



https://www.channelstv.com/2021/05/05/breaking-29-college-students-abducted-in-kaduna-regain-freedom/amp/

See as them they form busy boddies

uzallwell12:
Ogidi youths flog a man after he was filmed flogging, boxing, and kicking his mother

Source:
https://www.instagram.com/p/COZtm6SDwZu/?igshid=1negco1wh8ruh

Watch video here

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-aaeYZcrX00

The man has been identified as Sunday Maduegbunam Kosisochukwu from Ogidi in Anambra state.

He was confronted by youths in the community after the video of him beating a woman believed to be his mother went viral. They asked him if the video was doctored and he admitted he's the one in the video and it wasn't doctored.

He acknowledged he did wrong and asked for forgiveness.

However, the youths made him have a taste of his medicine. They tied his hands and feet to a tree and flogged him too

From the events of that video, the victim cannot be his mum.

fairheart:

Why recommend me for this?

Sorry bro, I thought you could actually help his ministry but he sounded vague. He said he needed the phone money for School Application fees and i know you have been of help to folks that needed suggestions in that regards.

ijustdey:


https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/04/people-are-reporting-killings-as-if-it-had-never-happened-before-garba-shehu/

"Before" in that sentence should be replaced with "Jonathan's administration".

mrdharkchild:

Fairheart..
Waivers...
I can't bet my time on that.
Trust me, nobody knows how complex a shell is, till he looks in.
Or how complex a human is, till je/she displays character (an adage)

Are you saying he's not credible?

Northurmate:



https://www.instagram.com/p/CN_DTVylx5R/?igshid=j9geqmr9971z

Better go and contest for House of Rep. That way, you will retire well

Kani101:
https://kano-pillars.com/musa-makes-pillars-debut-in-5-2-victory-over-dabo-babes/amp/

See pitch. So his former club side in Europe will be watching him here. Chai chai

mrdharkchild:
Sow it into my life.
I need a job jare.
With that money I go use am pay application fee for admission into 6 schools abroad

You can get waivers. Look for Fairheart on NL.

JohnspeakU:
Some people are always quick to curse guys who claim to have slept with married women. But my question is, what about those married ladies that will never tell you they’re married?

So guys, have you dated a married woman unknowingly?


Let’s share!!!

NYSC Camp

This is what the law said :
Making use of your phone is forbidden while the in motion. This is under the Traffic Regulations made pursuant to the FRSC Act.

I was wrongly booked and my car roughly towed spoiling the fender and the break components cos the leg break was matched down when I was pulled over.

What happened? They were obviously on road eforcement. VIO, Civil Defense, Police and FRSC. I was a bit bored cos it was a long wait due to the obstruction they caused in the ensuing commotion of arrest of motorists with policemen and women brandishing their rifles in menacing ways.
I changed the car stereo from FM to one of my favorite songs and sang along. The FRSC guy obviously overzealous for reasons I could not immediately fathom, made straight to my car looking very livid. He just stood in front of my car while the police sorounded me. I was a bit scared and demanded for my offence. "You were making call", the FRSC guy said. I was just hearing park park park. I simply pulled off the road and before you say jack straw, my car is already hanging at the back of a crane.
They just said I should go to the VIO office at Mabushi and pay.
I paid and got back the car same day. The superior officer there said the car would not have been towed if I was not bragging that I was a lawyer.
My goodness. I tell you it is a zoo that someone called it.
I then decided that I will show truly that I am a lawyer since they vigorously demanded it.
I have demanded a refund of the wrongly billed penalty, the cost of repairs of my damaged car and damages of 10m.
I am warming up for court if they fail to comply within stipulated time
I am a lawyer but let me ask this question here again. I have gone through the traffic laws and the regulations pursuant to the FRSC Act. Are motorists forbidden from using phone while stationary and not moving but waiting for the traffic light to turn green. this is relating to a separate incident involving other Nigerians cos in my case, I did not even touch my phone, but assuming I did while waiting for the light to turn green, is it a traffic offence?
The answer is in the negative as explained above.
Please share this let Nigerians be enlightened.

Kelvin30286063:
A road safety officer just slapped me and I slapped him back. Now he is saying they will impound my car last last. He took the number Plate down.

I went to their office to submit a receipt for making payment on a booking. On getting there he came out to meet me and starting showing a lot of aggression. First he said I can't make the payment online, I need to go to the bank. I asked him what the bank use to make payments, he said remita, I said what is this receipt, he said remita receipt. I was like so what's the issue. He said he wants to see the teller.

When the argument continued, my father who was sitted in my car had to come down. He spoke to him calmly and asked what happened. He started insulting my dad. This is a guy that could actually be my younger brother. My father said consider my age, he said what's my business with your age.
I got angry and said you're stupid for that statement, before I know it, he slapped me. Then I gave me a few slaps.
All the officers in all other offices came out and it was obvious they are backing him. Things eventually died down and we were told to bring the receipt later. Apparently their boss at the office said the receipt is acceptable.

PLS what should I do could I would want to be targeted by them everywhere I go.

Almost my experience this very yesterday at the Lake Chad crescent Maitama. I don't know where yours happened. I do not know what's becoming of those guys lately. I'm a lawyer anyway, already pressing charges. I was not touched but I was wrongly booked and my car roughly towed spoiling the fender and the break components cos the leg break was matched down when I was pulled over.

What happened? They were obviously on road eforcement. VIO, Civil Defense, Police and FRSC. I was a bit bored cos it was a long wait due to the obstruction they caused in the ensuing commotion of arrest of motorists with policemen and women brandishing their rifles in menacing ways.
I changed the car stereo from FM to one of my favorite songs and sang along. The FRSC guy obviously overzealous for reasons I could not immediately fathom, made straight to my car looking very livid. He just stood in front of my car while the police sorounded me. I was a bit scared and demanded for my offence. I was just hearing park park park. I simply pulled off the road and before you say jack straw, my car is already hanging at the back of a crane.
They just said I should go to the VIO office at Mabushi and pay.
I paid and got back the car same day. They superior officer there said they car would not have been towed if I was not bragging that I was a lawyer.
My goodness. I tell you it is a zoo that soneone called it.
I then decided that I will now show truly that I am a lawyer since they vigorously demanded it.
I have demanded a refund of the wrongly billed penalty, the cost of repairs of my damaged car and damages of 10m.
I am warming up for court if they fail to comply within stipulated time
I am a lawyer but let me ask this question here again. I have gone through the traffic laws and the regulations pursuant to the FRSC Act. Are motorists forbidden from using phone while stationary and not moving waiting for the traffic light to turn green. this is relating to a separate incident involving other Nigerians cos in my case, I dis not even touch my phone, but assuming I did while waiting for the light to turn green, is it a traffic offence?

expertman:
EFCC Hands Over Recovered N67. 5m to Victim in Enugu

https://www.efccnigeria.org/efcc/news/6715-efcc-hands-over-recovered-n67-5m-to-victim-in-enugu

They should as well send personnel to guard his aged parent, wife and other vulnerable blood relatives from kidnappers who they have just invited.
Security professionals behaving like village vigilante

TheCalculator:
Source: https://www.odditycentral.com/animals/this-caterpillar-mimics-a-scary-skull-to-keep-predators-at-bay.html

How beautiful you are oh mother nature.
God is great

Xj2020:
A friend told me that a gurl they have done things together suddenly having feelings for his younger brother just by seeing his pics that he shared on WhatsApp.
She started by asking if the younger brother is actually the elder brother. When that was soughted out she then remarked by stating that he is handsome more than twice and then moved on to ask if he is married. This is a girl that has never complimented this guy in any way.
This girl is supposed to be the girl friend of this my friend.
What could be going on here.

How old is the girl? This question should have been answered before this forum is filled with child's play.

Wet in make am beat u

Please anyone close to Buhari should inform him that the exclusion of the igbos in sensitive appointments could cause a disaster that has never been imagined.
I see a second civil war. The eastern governors are pretending but they know everything that is being cooked.
Please don't delete this post.
Buhari should find a way of solving nepotisic injustice.
I am not saying that the presidency should go to the south but pls south east should be called to a negotiation table before the mantle is given to Tinubu.
Please I am not an Igbo man but I love this country.
Anarchy looms, I see war, I see war.

Please don't delete this post.

There is no ESN anywhere. Those are just experiments. The governors know all these. Please do not play with this.
I am not in the country. So I am not scared.

sarrki:



https://punchng.com/panic-as-bombs-hit-gunmens-hideouts-fg-goes-after-ipob/

I didn't see IPOB in this story

bukatyne:
@pimper24,

Eku ede geesi

Before we see avarice and avabeans,

Were you aware of your responsibilities/expectations upon getting the land? Is there someone who could have gotten it and bypassed because they thought you would 'develop' it faster?

What is the precedence of such allocations in the past?

We need to understand the basics before we can advise on an approach to resolve.

It is normal to share family lands among male children who are of certain age. There is nothing extraneous attached to it. It is expected that you develop it at your pace. It is unusual to mount pressure for such because the land rightfully belongs to the family member beneficiary.

dre11:


https://thenationonlineng.net/mtn-wants-to-drive-nigerian-smes-out-of-airtime-data-business/

I made a similar complaint early in the week and same nigerians were outing all sort of spurious defences for mtn.
https://www.nairaland.com/6479092/clearing-unexpired-data-mtn#100430810

pimper24:
I got the message below earlier this morning and was not sure what it meant:

You have 9485.69MB of expired data that "will be cleared" by 2021-03-28. Please dial *131*1# to buy a weekly or bi-weekly bundle and rollover your expired data.

I am trying to understand what "will be cleared" means. If this means that they will take away the data, please we need to push this to the front page, let the NCC and relevant authorities intervene.
Nigerians face a lot in this enclave; fuel price hike is breathing seriously while electricity tariff skyrockets astronomically.
Which way to go?

When I was asking that this thread be taken to front page it was like I didnt know what I was doing. Did you guys see the present frenzy a similar act is generating I'm Nigeria . I do not think MTN meant well for their customers in this country.

I have been busy and really stayed away from home for a while. I decided to come for the Easter and a meeting was convened solely because of me; a summon was sent from the family elders. The emissory was my mother.

After a welcome statements and a re caste of the difficulties the family grappled with to make sure I successfully completed school and even studied abroad, my eldest uncle (my dad is late) paused and asked if I wanted a drink, to which I said no.

I was really eager to have him come out clean. It was like waiting for eternity. He cleared his throat and took a colanut from a sylver platter and carefully scooped a paste of groundnut meal and pushed all into his mouth. He cleared his throat again after chewing for a while and commenced his statement.

"Its been two years since the land in Grove was allocated to you..."

He paused again and drank from a cup of water.
"we want to know what is happening",

"He hauled this igbo addage which is a rhetorics alluding the fact that I have all that is needed to excel.

"Your mates that do not have half as much education and career have turned this village around in various projects. We demand an explanation." He concluded

I simply told them I had no immediate explanation. And that I have never been lazying around except do what is reasonably expected of me as a man. That is use my income modestly as much as my needs would accomodate.

They uninanimously demanded to see my wife in two weeks time.

I have wondered if this is good intentioned or just undue pressure from the family

But my thought:

It is quite good to check on the progress of family members but, when this kind of subtle pressure accompanies it, it becomes overbearing. And could lead to avarice or some base instincts.

Obierika:


If you are the owner of the business would you allow unlimited period for rollover?

Yes. You didn't not give it free. It s not done in south Africa where they come from. God and do your findings. Why are they not doing it on call credit . it should make it time barred. When initially we complained about the issue of call credit did not remove the time bar.

benjackugo:
Nollywood actress, Regina Daniels and her husband, Ned Nwoko were seen playing with their little son, Munir while they were in a private jet, IgbereTV reports.

Regina Daniels shared the photos on her Instagram handle with the caption;


https://www.instagram.com/p/CM9hla6DeyA/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Congrats to them. May their joy know no bounds.
But celebrity women too dey wear bom bom sha

edoairways:
pimper24 that was the agreement between NCC and the service providers. Unused data has a rollover grace period of 7days.

Thats unjust. Rollover period should be unlimited. I am not sure of the agreement though