9 months, 8 months to recover then get her preggers again and another 8 or so months to recover.
The earlier the better. I will rather have healthy kids around me.

dude your math is wrong that requires 51 months for three kids , there are 48 months in 4 years .

I will take consolation in the fact that it was child-bearing that widens it. . . .better than you single ladies that got widened by different shapes of phalli.

that is a myth, frequent sex with the same partner or sex with muliple partners ,,,, it will be no wider

 Another flaming thread created to ridicule and frighten women. "SHAKES MY DAMN HEAD" This thread has been done a dozen times with the usual suspects recklessly chirping away. Did anyone read that article about Married couples going into extinction because Divorce rates are at an all time high? Go figure.

I created the thread , and i am as feminist as they come , did not realize the topic was overdone.

rofl, why do ppl take this sauron serious. Lol

trust me i stopped taking him seriously after the three kids in 4 years remark . Nah him kind go come they complain say his wifes thing is to wide after child bearing

I am 28 and i'm married with 3 healthy kids.

yeah and your wife had them back to back right , who are you kidding

It takes 9 months to make a baby.
9 X 3 = 27 months out of 25-26-27-28-29(60 months).
I don't think it's such a tough task so to be candid, i think you are the one deciphering ma comments with your ARSE.

good for you

 One can make 3 kids between the age of 25 and 29.
Why carry over till 30+?

Sauron , how old are you? and are you married? I pity your wife if you intend for her to have three kids in 4 years. All your arguments just lost all credibilty ,  as my friends will say speaking out of your A.R.S.E

i have read abt a girl that reached her menopause at the age of 20+ but its rare.

kai poor child , the newest baby at my place of work is from a 40yr woman , her first . Perfectly healthy child . its just fate

ok so trisomy is downs syndrome , you become high risk after 30 . Please note that if even if you have kids at 25 you are likely to continue having kids into your 30s so this does not only apply to people who marry at a later age

I even read somewhere menopause has dropped from mid-40s to early 30s.

Liar

But what about the risks surrounding marrying a woman that is 30+.
Who wants Trisomy-13 ridden kids? Do you?

abeg wetin be trisomy 13 , my mum and all her siblings had there kids in their 30's and my siblings and all my cousins are perfectly normal. As a woman above 25 you just need to make sure you are giving your baby the right nutrients before and during pregnancy

 because 30 is the new 20, why rush into marriage and then become a bitter divorcee or the naija woman that  gets cheated on over and over again but hey she got married before her friends

what happend to the old ovaries if 30 is the new 20  

@sauron - really? lol. But seriously tho why wud a woman start searching for a man at 30?

again nobody is 30 yet and i can only assume that most started searching after graduation at 25 . I am just saying that at 30 or close to it most are not married while most other friends that only have a college degree are.

of course it works vice versa, what woman would want to marry "chairman" who walks around with his degree on his sleeves.  

won't you be turned off by a chick who brags about her mba from devry university  

LOL at Devry university,

if that's all the person has to offer or talks about then yeah most men would be turned off.
a master degree is cool but shouldn't define u as a person.

I see your point but i am sure no one starts a conversation with I have a masters degree

Like you dunno Naija babes are braggarts.  

and naija men are not

Is that not one of the most desired traits Women seek in their partners?  
So why not vice versa?  

you would think so O  

 Most career women can not make a good wife cos they will be so carried away with their jobs other than caring for the home. I think that's the reason why men run far from them and also, most men would not  want to be under a woman for financial assistance.

hmm from a fellow woman in the 21st century , disturbing

there is man for every woman, some men dig women like that actually. Its just a matter of finding the right guy. yes some men prefers brain over beauty or good ovaries.lol [/ quote]



Well said my sister

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Men get suspicious after 28+
Just turning 30 and 30+ are the same thang but i get your drift.

The thing is, many of them place career over family. . . .The quest to boost their status hinders their social life and reh reh reh.
At the same time, potential husbands are wary of women of this calibre so they settle for the younger ones.

Ok this where perception seems to be the problem. they have had five years between 25 and 30, so its not like they just got placed on a shelf at 28 and started looking for a buyer  . Most of the peeps i know just work 9-5 jobs like every one else maybe they make a lil more. but i guess the perception is  , she has a masters degree and a good career so I won't even bother.

sad!!!

Thatz the way it rolls.
If you decide to pursue your career, other stuffs will suffer.
No sane man wants to go after babes who are 30+ and whose ovaries are weaker in comparison to babes in their early 20s.

doesn't really follow the average age in my group at the time of graduation was 25-26. five years later the oldest just turned 30 , so no one is 30 plus

nothing bad just read the nutritional value labels , brand names can be equally as bad it just depends on what you are buying

I have observed that females who have a masters degree or higher often marry later in life. I was just wondering if this applies to the people around me or if this is the general situation. My sample set is the females that I attended my MBA program with , five years later most are still single. Is it right to conclude that the decision to pursue higher education (especially outside your country of origin) should come with the understanding that you may be possibly delaying matrimony or do i just have a bad sample set.

Thanks . I was actually there this monday, expecting my new passport next week.

I must say they need to improve the information provided on the website . A lot of people there had no idea they were supposed to print both the payment slip and the acknowledgement letter.

Worth $20,000. I know value of stuff and my dear the picture of the ring on that finger can't be worth 20K

abeg i concur that ring does not look like it even reach 0.25 carat. Please how pure can it to be worth 20,000K , LMAO at Honda Ridgeline for your fiancee , does she sell lumber for a living

if he is truly your fiancee then that is a major red flag . Marry at your own risk.

But regardless of who you date , try and make you financial planning independent of your relationship. if you needed to make an emergency/ unplanned  visit to him ( dont know how it was an emergency or unplanned , as you did not indicate that he was sick or bereaved) then you discuss the financial implications before the trip and not after. How about if he wanted to pay but could not, then  you miss a payment of rent ,  the price for this will yours and not his.

The grocery issue is just extreme ,  you are the one that has set the pace by accepting that kind of silliness so either continue to live with it or break off the relatinship ( I guess I am trying to say if you call the man your fiancee you have chossen to live with it for ever, not neccesarily a bad thing but please give it some thought)

Still available as for December last year , not sure if anything has changed since then

http://health.ninemsn.com.au/family/womenshealth/689896/emergency-contraception-the-morning-after-pill

I dont use BC pills so feel free to show proof of it being taken of the market

I concur , you go fight tire and you will be eating bad soup for a month

hire a part time driver to teach her , or have her go to a driving school

LOL at poster I no even fit vex ,

"B4  become a dum backside" , please can any rational human being (obviously not our sexually confused poster)  explain what he/she is trying to say.

because the media and society conditions them to believe that younger is beautiful. And our society most of all does not frown on it

Ani lee, i thot I was dyslexic after reading this post

LOL, dont worry I am very actively plotting my return

have a nice weekend

if you are out of the country and the old passport is yet to expire are you allowed to travel or get visas issued on it? I am working on a new passport but also need to travel in the short term

Thanks

george D.

Who say i dey run , if you find me job wey go pay me 3/4 of my salary and not have me chase one yeye target . i will run home kai kai. I fit even inbox you my resume since yu are the Naija Czar , maybe you will get me what I want. Once I have the capital I need for my business the I will even name the business after you cause you made it possible    .

Postionor distrupts your menstrural cycle . It prevents ovulation and Fertilization by tricking the body , hence the early/prolonged menstrual cycle .

"Temporary disruption of the menstrual cycle is also common and may manifest as early or late periods, spotting or breakthrough bleeding, and (less commonly) missed periods. The primary mechanism of EC is delaying ovulation. Menstruation occurs, on average, 14 days after ovulation, so delayed ovulation results in delayed menstruation. Suppression of ovulation may cause anovulatory bleeding, which could manifest as an early period".

http://www.medic8.com/healthguide/articles/emergencycontraception.html

if you feel that it is longer than should be please see a doctor and confirm . The site I am consulting does not cite any cases of damage to the reproductive system from postinor use . it apparantly can not even abort an existing pregnancy (if taken on its own I know of cases where Postinor is taken with alcohol . very quick way to ruin your uterus)

You must tell him , no talk beyond that . You owe the girl no loyalty what she is doing will get you jailedin in developed countries