He is not jealous, he is a wise person. He knows the dangers that comes when a woman earns more than the man.
julie90: I have been working for this company for two years. In December 2021, there was a change in management, a new manager was assigned to my Department. Before the change in management, I applied for some jobs in November 2021 but I didn't get any response.
Things between my new manager and I developed really quickly (he is not married and he is 10 years older than me). Although we have been working together, when he became the new manager we started dating. it was mutual, it wasn't like he forced me. We liked each other and we started dating in March 2022. We kept things professional in the office. Nobody in the office knows about this even till now.
Those companies I applied to in November 2021 reached out to me for an interview. I got two offers at the same time. Both offers come with great pay (similar to what my boyfriend currently earns) and a significant boost to my career. I spoke to my boyfriend about it and being my boss he told me to reject both offers, he told me he would be able to cater for my needs that the only commitment he has now is paying for his house and once he is done paying for it, he would have more money to take care of me and I didn't need a job where they would pay me what he's currently earning and be in a role similar to his.
I told him it's not the money but it would be about moving up the ladder in my career. These are offers people do not have, now I have two, he is asking me to reject them. He told me even if I have to move the only offer I should take is the one close to the company where we work which has a lower pay compared to the second offer. I told him I would go with the second offer which has more opportunities for me. Both offers are in the same state although my preferred offer is a bit far from where I live but it is still a reasonable location to commute everyday. At one point he told me, I was too ambitious and I took it as a compliment.
I noticed he changed since then, he informed the company management that I was leaving and we began the handover process, I noticed he changed after we had the discussion about me accepting the second offer but I thought it was about him missing me. May 31 was my last day and I noticed few days to my last day he was acting strange so I asked him what the matter was. He said he doesn't feel anything for me and we should stop seeing each other.
This is a man that was really excited when we were dating, all of a sudden doesn't feel anything for me because I got a high paying job? Is it wrong for a woman to be ambitious? When has it become a crime for a woman to aim high in her career? My role will still be to support him. I have never been rude to him and I am not going to be rude to him because we now earn the same salary. I really like him and I feel disappointed that he could act this way.
It is not stress Who will be happy when you know you are doomed and chained with a fig tree who would prolly/definitely cheat on you with someone else.
He won't just cheat on you.. He will hit you abuse both verbally and physically
You have a Lil quarell he will be quick to leave the house just to cool off but end up lodging in a hotel with a sex worker.
After two years and kids for him he'd see you as old.
A useful person won't and can't be caught up in things like this. Useless gender
ExAngel007: A 19-year-old Akwa Ibom girl is currently in a bad state after she was brutalised by her alleged boyfriend in Ugboroke area of Warri, Delta State.
It was gathered that the suspect identified as Patrick Fregene met the victim on the internet and invited her to Warri. Ever since then he turned her into a punching bag.
"He has been locking her indoor and beating her continuously without his neighbours knowing," a source narrated.
"Thank God for the intervention of his elder brother who heard her crying at night and broke down the door only to discover her like this. She has been taken to the nearest hospital for treatment." the source added.
Human rights activist, Comrade Israel Joe, confirmed the incident on Wednesday, June 1, 2022.
"A quick visit this morning to the 19 years old akwa-Ibom state lady, beaten to a pulp by her boyfriend in Ugboroke, Uvwie, Delta State. There is no justification for such action against anyone and the law would take its course even if the said suspect is on the run," he wrote.
Generally, it's survival out here first before morals and the rest of them bull crap
Jmichael1: So I visited one of the brotels in my neibourhood last night to chilax as usual..
Then I got into the bar, and saw a young boy of about 3yrs dancing to one of Naira Marley songs, I was wondering 'who be dis young marlian....:
So I went to meet the bar man to get one bottle of climax and black bullect (my brand) and I asked him "guy, who be dis small boy wen dey dance like dis? And he said, nah one of my grls (olosho) pikin, she dey hustle here... I just weak once, and went back to my seat..
And several thoughts were just going on my mind like "why would a grl bring such a young boy to this kind of place,.. won't dis place affect this boy negatively and so on....
I was angry in my spirit, so i just took my drinks and left..
Because basically that's all a woman can offer to a man. Pussay should be a sacred place but unfortunately it has become a lot.
InfinityFabric: Sorry, if she does it she's the hoe. You can't change the natural order of things. There's reason why female virginity is more valued than male's.
You can shout all you want but reality will always knock you on the head.
It is said, if you want to walk fast, walk alone, if you want to walk far, walk with people, but if you want to make progress in life, fear or avoid women
robinso01: If it should be legalize in Nigeria, just forget it bro, many will die unnecessarily . You look at someone twice and the next thing you know is that you're already gunned down.
You tell someone that his football team is a shit and the next you know is you're gone already.
People wey go remain for this country no go reach half of the normal population if gun should be legalize.
Na all these vehicle inspection officers such as vio, frsc, etc I pity most, na for drivers to dey kill them once dem stop drivers.
Ferrytech: bro learn spamming thank me later. with the current economy of nigeria only thf rich get a good paying job except God _allh_ogun day your back
Onyeka90210: Abi make dey ban short knicker now or na only android users suppose dey wear short knicker. I no understand your rant at all. Abi you want make person wear suit and tie cause he dey use big phone? The way some android users dey carry iPhone matter for head sha, na una dey make the phone look like big thing. I will just advice you to focus on your studies, which one come be "worsting"
My brother, e no get better advice wey pass the one you give yourself.
Alaigbopress: Some days ago, I posted here about how my girl friend posted her ex pictures twice and I got a handful of advice, insults and very derogatory statements. Also at the same time I also got very few matured and helpful comment. I wanted to apply the advice I was given here because I was furious and that could have been disastrous.
The next day after posting here, I confronted my girl, I told her it is over between us(all was a ploy to know how much she loves me). Since that day, my Girl's mood changed, she doesn't talk to people, she doesn't laugh and even started skipping her meal. She came to my house and was crying heavily that she was sorry. That has it been she know that it will provoke me that she wouldn't have done it.
I still pretended that I will never forgive her. Just yesterday she called my female bestie and narrated to her what happened and she called me yesterday evening and pleaded with me to forgive her. Which I did and You need to see how happy this girl has been. I will send screen shot of her recent Whatsapp status.
My Advice to anyone seeking for a relationship advice is not to follow the popular comment here.
PDJT: -Don't you worry, he will be shot in the head very very soon.
-My advice; keep cool and keep doing your legitimate business. You are far better than that poor uncivilised urchin. He will not live to raise his children. Isee!
Nowadays, adults act like toddlers due to social media. Must everything be brought online
Born2winnx: The wedding is holding today and have made up my mind not to attend because the dude invited me through WhatsApp. It annoys me how children of this days has no regards or character for their elders. they are changing everything all in the name modernization.
How can someone, I know the exact date he was born be inviting me through WhatsApp, no respect at all, sending the scanned card copy there.. what happened to the hardware copy he printed? I had to tell him, he laughed it off saying bros nor vex the 500 copies he printed was not enough to share self. I didn't want to press the issue farther my mind is already made up. He won't see me there today.
When I did mine, I knew how far distance I trekked to invite his elder brothers face to face, bought several drinks.
I just hope he invited his in-laws through WhatsApp too
Let him enjoy his bliss, when he hits rock bottom all round he will learn and sort himself out. Nowadays, you have to let people learn from their own experiences no matter the consequences. Else any attempt by you to give him advice could cause a lot of damage between you two.
Supreme145: It's not in my nature to bother about people's relationships but this is happening to someone that's like a brother to me. He has been dating a girl for a year now and it's obvious this girl doesn't love him but he won't just give up. He keeps throwing money at her in a bid to win her love.
Things got messier when this girl met a particular guy some months back... This guy happens to live in the compound of my club mate so I know him well. The girl has begged my guy to free her that she's in love with someone else but this guy no gree instead he's planning to attack the innocent guy.
He confided in me that the girl has not let him touch her since she met this other guy, that's over five months now. I once overhead the guy boasting to his friends that he's a redpiller because someone else is taking care of his girlfriend while he does the knacking free of charge. He's even flexing everything that my guy buys for the girl. All pleas to my guy to free this girl has fallen on deaf ears.
My club mate told me that the girl has been with the guy for over one month now, my guy comes to town once a week to see the girl, gets her stuffs and this girl will just go back to the other boy that is even jobless.
My guy is finer and far richer than this new guy, he's planning to start a business for this girl and I've been trying to change his mind to no avail. It's no longer normal, I would've said he's charmed but the girl has begged him to free her but he refused. The guy is even the one flexing the sample of the products he sent her. Everything she has done to drive him has failed so she just relaxed and enjoying the money.
This simping is on another level, it hurts me to see my guy in this kinda situation. I've gotten him picture proofs that the girl is cheating but he won't change his mind. The girl even admitted that she's been having sex with the guy buy he's claiming its a lie and the girl is trying to drive away.
Hashabiah: The muslims of Nigeria should just come out boldly and tell us(Christians) that our presence in Nigeria is blasphemous so that we can officially divide this country across religious lines . This guerrilla tactics of hiding under blasphemy is becoming too old .
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