₦airaland Forum

Newman001:
I met her through facebook few months ago, we chatted and the rest is history. I wanted something serious with her and i told her severally because I wasn't too comfortable with the numerous calls she receives from guys.

One day a friend of mine told me that someone he knows collected her number and my so call girlfriend slept over at the guys place after just two days of knowing the guy. I confronted her, she denied initially but later owned up and apologized. I forgave her because I know no one is perfect.

Few days ago i put on auto record on her phone and this night she is at my place sleeping so i open the records and there is this particular conversation where she travel to a near by state to see another guy.
Im just confused right now. I have invested so much emotions on this gal and don't know what to do.

Despite that she is working and the little time she has, she spent it at my place she still got time to be meeting and sleeping with random men for money. I'm thinking of confronting and breaking up with her right now or just codedly place her on the level she deserves and let this slide.

Scribx:
Because hoarding the dollar equivalent of the naira would give them away. They don't care about the exchange value, they get the naira like a land flowing with milk and honey. Converting the stash to dollar might make most BDCs close shop. Our minds cannot conceive how much of our Commonwealth politicians plunder per second. If most of us knew, none would campaign for any politician.

Zonefree:
No cause for alarm. That's just a sample of the packs of pant he's planning to get for you as Christmas present. You should be glad you have a caring husband.

God bless all caring husbands!

Hoedogwu:
Yes, you're both idiots.

Lastpharoah33:
I can understand the utter disappointment on your ward. Naivety and a little touch of youthful ebullience got the better of her.

Someone mentioned lack of supervision, you saying dude should put a tracker on the girl?
Or maybe have her be on leash to be dragged along, huh?

Life happened to her, if what you wrote up there is what really transpired (as regards to your benevolence towards your ward), I really think taking her back to her mom is a good step.

But am totally against going ballistic on the nig that did put her in the family way. It's a choice thing. Either he embraces with full chest or bounce. Nature/karma will always take it's cause.

PlayMaker14:
I see the sadness in their eyes, quite painful, especially when they're evacuated back to the place they're running from.


By the way, why are those ladies in the second pics hiding their faces? Abi na the oldest profession dem dey do?

Dialpad:
Is there fake fish again?

Weirdcamila:
Since the creation of earth , before Africans marry once they are 15.

Solofresh2:
Am real bro
I swear to God!

IntelChief:
My elder sister is around 32 years and still not serious with marriage. Her only focus is on making money and she had been very successful in that aspect. She has a well paying job and is not only comfortable but also supports me financially sometimes.

But I just can't imagine why she is not disturbed about the fact that she is still single at her age. A lot of guys I know had been approaching her but she never accepts even a relationship offer from them, talk more of marriage. (And am very sure that she is not a lesbian or any of that).

As a church guy, I have seen a lot of women stock in this not being married thing and jumping from one church to the other seeking for husbands. Some of them, out of desperation, fall victims in the hands of fake pastors and sharp guys. I really don't want my sister to go through such.

Initially, I wasn't disturbed, but right now, this issue is burning not only me but also my aging mother. My mother had even stylishly urged my sister to go get married on several occasions. But she won't.

What really got me mad was when I was discussing with my sister some days back about her future plans. She told me stuffs like planning on travelling abroad for greener pastures, bla bla bla, but made no mention of marriage.

Honestly guys, I am tired. And as a man in the family, I am thinking of changing it for my sister. Am planning on threatening her that if she doesn't take the issue of marriage serious, I will go physical with her and teach her some lessons. But the issue is that she is my elder sister and I have some respect for her. And my action might end up affecting the bond in the family.

Weirdcamila:
Africans rush into marriage thinking it’s some sort of achievement.

chigoziri2403:
What is your aim of bringing him to Canada
To be your Tomboy?
Loneliness has hit you, you are now remembering the people you dumped

HarlequinLekex:
He should reduce his smoking.

Treasure17:
How is this a form of humility?

TONYE001:
Dear youths,

Please be wise.

There's much, much more to life than violence, cultism, sex and cash.

There's so much to do to keep busy. You could decide to pursue education, career, or any other positive ambition.

Dear Young Ladies, please, in 2021, begin to look for lawful and acceptable ways of making money. Be ambitious. Stop putting your bodies out there for lease.

Dear Young Men, Dear Married Men, stop encouraging prostitution. Go back to your wives. If you must have sex, seek a partner you can trust. In Christianity, that would be a legally married spouse. Shun alcoholism and drug abuse. All these are high risk habits that put your health and the safety of those around you in jeopardy. SHUN CULTISM.

Dear All, we can live life healthily and enjoy it. We can respect and love each other. We can be polite towards each other. We can be sources of strength for each other. What we have today wasn't Jehovah's intention for creating us.

At the end, it's a matter of choice. Please choose your options wisely.

Lastly, the said lady is innocent until proven otherwise by a competent court of law.

Good morning.

Maxymilliano:
Nice one ...

MatrixReloaded:
local dog...

Chizzyjforce:
Every undergraduate should get a skill; be it soft or hard skill.

It's very important, and even more important if you have plan to japa

Babysho:
All of you saying Lagos is overrated and all that should keep shut. The lack of proper drainage system that led to this flooding is on purpose. THEY'RE PREPARING THE ESTATE FOR DOLPHINS.

OyeofIkoTuN:
It's sad to see men wooing women that are married with kids,sometimes 4 to 5 children yet they are all over her dms expressing their feelings for her and telling her pleasant things..

Then talk about young girls....Oh they get those pleasantries times 1000.. even cash gifts.

True story,I've given babes cash gift online without meeting them before.

Graceunlimitedd:
my friend keep shut.
end sars youth

EmiDon11:
I dont know why nigerian girls love guys that are taller than them.

They so much love the type that when they hug him, thier hairs will be below the guy's jaw or neck.

They look down on short men so much.

If u are broke and tall, some nigerian girls will consider u.

But if u are short, come broke join, hmmmmm,
I have nothing to say.

So over to the girls,

Why una too like tall guys?

PerfectStranger:
Truth be told. Men benefit nothing from relationships with a typical Nigerian girl.

Guys, know this and know peace.

rickpat:
depression must be a normal feeling for most Nigerians by now....like a daily feeling...normal life

Le2money:
Whitney, let's go to Calabar, I will treat u well there

siofra:
Money, money, money.

That's all you think about. There's more to life than that

Have you forgotten I'm a feminazi? I'll split the bills. He won't carry the financial obligations alone.

Men and women are equal

HeadNigga:
Nawa o. Gay men stop being gay na. There are women with muscles if you like macho.

Mariangeles:
No, he's not.
Nigerians don't deserve good people, and that's the truth.

chigoziri2403:
I think you should be more concerned about what you wrote in your first paragraph

What you said there is more alarming than the maggots infested meat you bought

Alexgman1:
But why? I do love her.

fuckingAyaya:
Pure love