WannaHowzit:


Lol, Shoprite taught you the mall experience. Before then you didn't even have a single escalator in Nigeria in the 21st century😢 Back to Mama Put and her unhygienic open gutters for u with sewage all over the place😢😢😢


Secondly, remind me again how many Grammys SA has vs Nigeria. Nominated again this year if you haven't heard🇿🇦🏆. Won last year, Black Coffee and Nomcebo. Funny how afrobeats has died a brutal death coz of amapiano 🇿🇦🏆🏆🏆🤣🤣🤣🤣

Thirdly - Pep, Game, Truworths, Woolworths, Foschini, etc. All SA brands common in Nigeria. Which Nigerian brands are common in SA (well deserved poop emoji for u & your cowntry (🇳🇬💩💩💩)

ipobarecriminals:
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4KNGOATS:
4kn goat thief d bastardzzz is supposed to be stoned to death

Starboytwo:
Cant relate.


Life's good.

BOSSkesh:
They will face justice

Osoboshi:
Which kain yeye topic be dis.
Thunder fire u there,the girls tell u say Dem dey find southern guys

plaindealer:



The last thing we need is nonsensical rubbish and lectures from sit-at-home people with the poorest states, lowest revenue generation, sit-at-home and unproductive region and the most horrible leaders in Nigeria.

Save your sermon for your poor and unproductive region.

dopedan:
E shock me

Aonkuuse:
Again they brought their tribalism on the thread..... I just pity these set of people

Jewessgratitud3:
I just thought to share and again it's no bodys business what I share about myself here. I chose to do it and don't care if it sits well with anyone or not. My life, my share .

I'm sharing this just to let some ladies know that being a widower doesn't break a man and will not stop him from being an unrepentant cheat if he wants to. I used to think a widower will be more responsible and loyal to one woman considering the fact that he's now a second hand value bachelor and the death of his former wife will make him get closer and more committed to his spouse, home and family at large but I was wrong cos after my experience with one, I realized men will always be cheat men.

This happened in 2013 after staying away from relationships for a long time. So I joined Badoo ( it was the rave then, though I joined in 2012). A young man ( in his 40s then) chatted me up and I checked his profile. There he stated that he was looking for a lady for serious relationship and added he was a Christian. He was also looking very handsome and tall. We chatted and exchanged numbers.

When we got talking he told me he was a widower. It was hard to believe because he looked very young. He now told me he married very early. He went ahead and told me he has 6 children 👀👀👀. I didn't believe until he showed me their pics. 4 girls and two boys. He said the wife kept having children because she wanted a male child and died after giving birth to the last child, a male. She got home from the hospital after childbirth and started bleeding immediately and was rushed back to the hospital but never made it back. Meanwhile he was not in the country when this happened.

This made me have compassion and developed feelings for him. After a few months of inviting me over, I finally agreed to visit after he assured me the elder sister is staying with him to look after the baby ( he was already a year then but was not walking). He never liked the boy because he was always saying the boy caused his wifes death and each time the baby boy sees him, he'll be screaming due to the way he looks at the baby and I'll be telling him to stop, teasing him that it's him the boy resembles. So when I visited for the first time, I was shocked at what I saw. He actually owns the house he was living in in Sango. He built it when the going was good but after the wife's death, he came back and stayed for a whole year without a job. He just got the job he was doing as a hotel manager when I met him and his take home was not good at all. So to maintain the big house was a challenge. He could barely feed his kids. Even the two older ones were not with him. They were living with his brother just to ease him of the burden. when the sister saw me, she got angry and told him that he has not finished taking care of his children he's bringing in another lady. He told me to ignore the sister and face him. If I go there, I'll cook and serve everybody because he was always complaining of not having money but sometimes he'll give me part of the money I used.

Initially the children didn't like me and he said I should be buying them snacks. So then if I close from work, I'll go and meet him at his office and we'll go home together. I bought snacks and the children reluctantly collected the snacks. He went to work on that Saturday and I gathered the children and started telling them stories. They began to come close. When he got back he drove all of us to a football viewing center and bought me pepper soup. I thought I had found the right man. I was even saying I don't need to birth any children since he already has six. We'll just stay with his own children ( lol . small girl sense). He would tell me no, that he wants me to give him a beautiful daughter like me.

Six months into the relationship, I noticed something in his room while he was away at work. I saw a foreign prison card in his jacket I now began to connect the dots. I remembered him saying he was away when the wife died and while she was pregnant, he had problem abroad. So she developed BP. He even told me he wasn't around when his house was built that the wife supervised the whole thing before he now had a problem but be never told me what the problem was. I then discovered with the prison card, he was prolly in jail all that time. I didn't ask him anything.

Later he started telling me there's this single mother that has been begging him to marry her and she buys him stuff. I was like marry her now afterall two of una na second hand value. He'll laugh and say God forbid. That he wants chassis. The lady buys him and his children stuff. At a point I told him to stop collecting the gift or risk our relationship. He promised to stop.

One day he was sleeping and i was just going through his phone ( I never used to do that) and saw "my love". My head sparked. I woke him up with a heavy slap and showed him, he started saying its you I love. I said no! Tell me who this Is.. then I began to cry because I just knew it was over. He started begging and called his Aunty into the room. The aunty said the person is a family. I said call her. He now called the number and an elderly woman picked and he started telling her that I'm crying my eyes out here because I saw a message he sent to her. The woman spoke with me but I wasn't convinced. Throughout that night, he played "please forgive me' Brian Adams. hmm.. feeling nostalgic now. I calmed down and we continued.


After some months my chairman sacked me because I refused to go out with him and told him I'm in a relationship. After I lost my job I reduced my visits because bus fare from mainland to Sango was quite expensive and he too could not sponsor my visits regularly due to so much financial responsibilities and since I had been the one doing it when I was working. It became a once in a while thing.

Then one day, he told me to come to his office let's go home that he has missed me. I asked him, do you have money he said we'll manage. This man did not tell me we were going by train ( chai things we do for love) from his office we set out to oshodi. This man put head for train lane. I said waaaat t... I almost went back but it was already getting dark. I entered train for the first time. See me shaking. He had to hold me before one man now stood up for me to sit. Because it's been a while I've been to the house, when we got home, the aunty said you'll not stay in one place. Today you carry this, tomorrow you carry another one. I told him what the sister said and he told me not to mind her. In my mind i was like... see this second wen I dey manage too wan dey play ... I kept asking until he now confessed that the Aunt was referring to the other single mother that the lady has been forcing herself on him but it's me he wants. There and then I zeroed my mind.

After that visit, as we were going that morning, we quarreled on the way because the vehicle we borded got spoilt plus I wasn't happy after hearing what the sister said. So I was just edgy that morning and blasted the driver and some of the passengers. He got angry and left after trying to get me off the bus and I refused, saying I should run after him cos he's running late for work. I was just looking at him. I didn't get down. I waited for him to go far, I now got down and took another route to my house.

I didn't call for a week and refused to pick his calls because whats the point killing myself over a widower with six children who has refused to stick with one woman. When I eventually picked, it was my guy ( now ex) who told me to pick in the bus that day we were going to camp and he was chyking me. Oga kept calling and as usual I ignored him but the sound was disturbing our conversation so my gy told me to pick and hear him out. I picked and he was crying and put all his children on the phone to beg me. He said they are missing me and one of them is sick. I said ok, I'll call you later. That was it. I blocked him. Went to Badoo and blocked him there in fact I deleted my Badoo account. Deleted his number and ended the whole thing..

Men will always be men

saintbillion:

Ok bro. But can't remember filling form of such nature

wolesmile:

Hates kills gradually. First, depression sets in. Then mental breakdown. Before you know it, you're gone.

Puss360:
This guy talks too much..

smokinloud:

Are Arabs black?!.

WannaHowzit:


U and me know Nigerians staunchly support Israel because they ignorantly think its the custodian of christianity. And also because they're white. Nigeria and white worshipping are like 5&6.

YesDaddy1:
You call a 1-day strike a strike??
So, despite all d panel beating Ajaero received from IMO state and all d initial gragra, everything ended under 2 days??

May we not labour in vain!
I hope the brsin-resetting beatings has adjusted his brain, bcus next time if e try rubbish he will be dealt with again. Laslas e go embark on another one-day strike.

Nonsense and NLC!

LegendHero:
So far his name is not Shinedu, he can run Lagos as he wants.

We Yoruba no dey complain. Not sure why our ponu brothers dey complain.

Pappyjim:
I'm a Christian and human!
I need someone to tell me the real terrorist between Israeli occupiers and Palestinian Hamas freedom fighters?

Can someone explain the catastrophe that has been happening on a daily basis to the Palestinians on their own ancestral land?

Can someone show us the map of Israeli and Palestinian land before 1948?



Who told you that land belongs to Palestine.. type what you know Mr Islam claiming Christian

I rest my case!

favor914:
Na true, you disgruntled Labor Party Obidients https://punchng.com/elections-again-nlc-declares-support-for-obi/?amp come disobey a Court’s order, you claim that The Federal Government disobeys court orders, so you too, can disobey also, you have decided to take the laws into your own hands?

Enjoy your 15 minutes of fame.

isan:
Op is very stupid , kizz body guard will gas 30 seconds in to the fight because of too much muscles while the soldier can go for at least 30 minutes in hand to hand combat also kizz body guard is not a trained fighter his body cannot absorb pain unlike a soldier has been trained to withstand pain