Crime › Re: Raped And Been Threatened With The Police by PoliteActivist: 9:25am On Jan 21, 2023 |
dnawah: una the waist time,if una dey sure,make una carry am ok juju. Why juju no dey work for world cup and olympic games? I just dey wonder (BTW did you have to quote the entire article?? Go back and modify) |
Crime › Re: Raped And Been Threatened With The Police by PoliteActivist: 9:20am On Jan 21, 2023 |
Germanjoe: Make I ask oh abeg,one man fit rape a lady? I just wan know how possible. See this one. In primitive times that's the only way - you are horný, you overpowered a woman. Which is why women still say no even if they want do - they want to be overpowered and "forced". Sex is more fun that way - it's in animal DNA. And man is an animal! |
Health › Re: Interesting Posts On All Subjects * by PoliteActivist(op): 5:23am On Jan 20, 2023*. Modified: 11:23am On Apr 04, 2023 |
How to stop seeking validation from people
Seeking validation from others can be a common behavior that can be difficult to break. Here are some steps you can take to stop seeking validation from people:
1. Recognize the pattern: Start by acknowledging that you have a tendency to seek validation from others. Reflect on why you might be doing this and the impact it's having on your life.
2. Identify your own values and beliefs: Spend time thinking about what's important to you, what you stand for, and what you believe in. This can help you become more confident in your own decisions and less reliant on validation from others.
3. Practice self-care: Take care of your physical, emotional, and mental health by eating well, exercising, getting enough rest, and engaging in activities that bring you joy.
1. Focus on your strengths: Identify your strengths and celebrate them. By focusing on what you're good at, you'll feel more confident in yourself and less dependent on validation from others. 2. Surround yourself with supportive people: Spend time with people who support and encourage you. This can help boost your confidence and reduce your need for external validation. 3. Stop seeking approval: Make a conscious effort to stop seeking approval or validation from others. Remind yourself that your worth is not determined by what others think of you. 4. Set boundaries: Establish boundaries around what you're willing to accept from others. This can help you feel more in control of your life and reduce the need for validation from others. Breaking the pattern of seeking validation from others can take time and effort, but it's worth it for the increased confidence and sense of self-worth you'll gain.
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Crime › Re: Nigerian Woman Mourns Husband Killed By Kidnappers Despite Ransom Payment (Pix) by PoliteActivist: 11:53pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
faceLAGOS: My intuition tells me that woman is behind that sh!t.
Trust a Nigerian woman at your peril. Don't be so sure about it, but yeah, she should be the first suspect. Then again it is very difficult for a mother of young children to kill the father of those children, especially, as in this case, also their bread-winner |
Crime › Re: Lady Shares Her Story After She Was Kidnapped By One Chance In Rivers State by PoliteActivist: 4:20am On Jan 18, 2023 |
Whata story! |
Celebrities › Re: Something Different About To Make Wave by PoliteActivist: 9:38pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
PoliteActivist: My beautiful Awelewa Spells. Looks like every time I post here I get banned. Let's see what happens now Ok, looks like I wasn't banned this time |
Celebrities › Re: Something Different About To Make Wave by PoliteActivist: 9:37pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Divoc19: My Dearest PoliteActivist.. My beautiful Awelewa Spells. Looks like every time I post here I get banned. Let's see what happens now |
Family › Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by PoliteActivist: 5:35am On Jan 15, 2023 |
LagosInter: So where is the marriage requirement?[/quote
[quote author=MessiahOfAfrica post=119987895]I'm Glad You Also Asked The Confusionist. Colo, he meant there is NO marriage requirement to run for office in Nigeria, which was exactly his original point! |
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Family › Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by PoliteActivist: 9:47am On Jan 13, 2023 |
LagosInter: So where is the marriage requirement? There is NONE! I'm on your side! |
Family › Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by PoliteActivist: 3:38am On Jan 13, 2023 |
MessiahOfAfrica: Where does Our point of discussion come in play here ?
There is no place written about "marriage" or "not marriage".
However, every politician intendinv to resume office clearly understands the implication of marriage to his political career; hence - they need not be told how right to appeal to people.
Live in Reality of What it is. Not what has been long written and The people are In The Jeopardy of ZERO-SPIRITUAL-Alignment To UPDATE.
When was the last time The Constitution was reviewed to be updated to match up with Present Day Lifestyle ?
Have you participated in the amendment of any constitution since you were an adult as a citizen of your Village, State and Country ? With all due respect, you are talking like an idiot. YOU ARE NOT REQUIRED TO BE MARRIED TO RUN FOR ANY POLITICAL OFFICE IN NIGERIA!!!Full stop! |
Family › Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by PoliteActivist: 3:04am On Jan 13, 2023*. Modified: 3:33am On Jan 13, 2023 |
Here's the last page
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Family › Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by PoliteActivist: 3:03am On Jan 13, 2023*. Modified: 3:33am On Jan 13, 2023 |
MessiahOfAfrica: Show me a proof.
That's All.
Being Judgmental Should Come with Atleast A Proof - Sensibly LagosInter See below
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Celebrities › Re: Something Different About To Make Wave by PoliteActivist: 10:00pm On Jan 12, 2023 |
Divoc19: When are we having our first baby? I want kids, don't you? You know people said the earlier the better
Good morning from here 
PoliteActivist Seems I've just been unbanned right now. Let me post this and see |
Family › Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by PoliteActivist: 9:49pm On Jan 12, 2023*. Modified: 3:32am On Jan 13, 2023 |
MessiahOfAfrica: Observe things for yourself.
Which of your political leader is unmarried without a first lady?
Don't lie to yourself.
You live in the world, yet you don't know how things work yet. Except ofcourse, you are still a teenager. LagosInter He is right. You are wrong. There is no requirement that one be married b4 running for any political office in Nigeria |
Family › Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by PoliteActivist: 9:45pm On Jan 12, 2023*. Modified: 3:53am On Jan 13, 2023 |
Divoc19:
 Yeah, cooking up spicy stuff Spells mi, I was banned again for posting exactly the same thing again (see it below) I'm still banned in that section I don't understand why I was being banned for this!!!
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Celebrities › Re: Something Different About To Make Wave by PoliteActivist: 6:02pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
Divoc19: It's looking easy to me too... E dey sweet to start journey but mid way, weird thought start to set in.
Besides relationships are always sweeter when everything is new. Am I correct? Of course you are very correct Awelewa Spells mi, new relationships are so sweet - especially for a man, I think. Wonder why nature made it that way. Whereabouts in Lagos are you. I'm in the Lawanson/Ojuelegba axis |
Nairaland General › Re: Password Guessing Attack: Don't Reuse Your Nairaland Password by PoliteActivist: 5:10pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
Kasdat5: My password wen be 1234 na em dem wan guess , Lai lai My own is "password", like many people, I'm sure |
Nairaland General › Re: Password Guessing Attack: Don't Reuse Your Nairaland Password by PoliteActivist: 4:35pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
BadEnglish: Use the old one collect money for Seun hand, Da vinci Don't you see whenever someone solicits or makes a request, first thing people check is when the account was created. That's how to establish it's not a scam nor a bot |
Romance › Re: Why Do Rich Guys Like Helping Only Girls? by PoliteActivist: 4:30pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
PJtech: SAD!! I dont have p***y Why do you think "shake your money maker" is only used for a woman shaking her ass, not man |
Romance › Re: Why Do Rich Guys Like Helping Only Girls? by PoliteActivist: 4:18pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
Fallacy. Rich guys help struggling fellow guys all the time. Except there is sex or possibility of sex involved. You said that was his GIRLFRIEND. Can you be his girlfriend? |
Nairaland General › Re: Password Guessing Attack: Don't Reuse Your Nairaland Password by PoliteActivist: 4:09pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
BadEnglish: Abeg, nairaland account no get value, na to open another one within two minutes. A NEW account no get value and nobody trusts it, genius |
Nairaland General › Re: Password Guessing Attack: Don't Reuse Your Nairaland Password by PoliteActivist: 3:42pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
Obrigardo: Tufiakwa. I'll reject this if I was owner. This can't be the best of nairaland, please. Let's hear your suggestions genius |
Crime › Re: Pastor Fakes Own Kidnap Twice, Collects ₦600,000 Ransom From Members In Jos by PoliteActivist: 3:38pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
Wow |
Nairaland General › Re: Password Guessing Attack: Don't Reuse Your Nairaland Password by PoliteActivist: 3:16pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
chriskosherbal: pls we are all in love with this site ....so na to protect our crip remain oo Seconded. Seun please let any changes or "redesign" be minimal. The site is great just the way it is |
Romance › Re: Sex Romp: Is It Magun Or A Case Of Heart Attack? by PoliteActivist: 3:39am On Jan 11, 2023 |
MrPresident1: Na myocardial infarction Medical term for heart attack, in case anybody is wondering
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Politics › Re: Caption This Photo Of Buhari And Tinubu At Yobe Presidential Campaign Rally by PoliteActivist: 3:26am On Jan 11, 2023 |
seunmsg: Ok. Drop your caption. Caption: WATCH TINUBU'S LEFT HANDNotice how the guy standing next to him is stylishly holding it up |
Celebrities › Re: Something Different About To Make Wave by PoliteActivist: 2:03am On Jan 11, 2023 |
Divoc19: Ok Big Daddy So what's next Awẹ́lẹ́wà mi li'l mama, so we get to know each other. Know how we can complement each other to make life even sweeter, even more exciting |
Politics › Re: Caption This Photo Of Buhari And Tinubu At Yobe Presidential Campaign Rally by PoliteActivist: 11:33pm On Jan 10, 2023*. Modified: 3:23am On Jan 11, 2023 |
seunmsg: What’s the best caption for this picture? Easy: WATCH TINUBU'S LEFT HANDObserve how the guy standing next to him is stylishly holding it up |