₦airaland Forum

Yep, the lady is right. Husband and wife should jointly make financial decisions in the house, especially if they both contribute financially.

UjuJoan2:
I hate stingy men with a passion, God Forbid!

Shame no even catch you to say no? I just feel so sorry for the girl and her family.

If they were wiser they would flee now that it's still very early.

Tuaaaah!

And you are probably stingy and self centered, like most Nigerian ladies.

I think the EFCC have nailed Mrs Patience Jonathan. They have done a good job on her case. They should strip her of the ill gotten possessions.
When the new government comes in in 2019, they should also go after this regime. It would be interesting to know if Buhari or his wife actually stole.
The EFCC should be made independent of the presidency.

BiafraIShere:
South West now appears to be the new middle belt I thought bubu said there is an ongoing agricultural revolution but all I'm seeing is herdsmen terror revolution. These guys are really doing a swell job in dragging Nigeria back to the 16th century. One of my afonja friends was showing the map of Nigeria and said that we should be prepared for the herdsmen terrorrevolution, that once they are through with Benue then Enugu was going to be next which would be a launchpad for them to overrun the East just as they are doing to middle belt. Well, the reality now, based on herdsmen terror attacks is that these guys have gradually invaded the West & are wrecking serious havoc While these same guys had to beg us to allow them graze their cattle in the East peacefully They even came with a truce & since then, they have remained law abiding citizens in the East

Of course they come in peacefully and gradually try to take over and overpower their host. They are very clever. With the naive Governor Umahi in Ebonyi State, their launching pad in the East will probably be Ebonyi State rather than Enugu State.

millionaireman:
Any Igbo jeering at Yorubas over this is not getting it right.


What the herdsmen are doing is first intimidate the unbelievers to become soft and succumb easily to future blitzkrieg type of Jihad.

Northeast has been subdued by Boko Haram. Intimidation and softening of the Yoruba and Middlebelt follow through nomadic herdsmen.

When they come to Igboland, ehem, --- blitzkrieg.

Woe betide those Igbos who kicked against restoration of Biafra.

Igbos did not kick against Biafra. Reasonable Igbos kicked against turning the Southeast into a war zone which is what Nnamdi Kanu and the IPOB were trying to achieve. That is how the Northern elites destroyed the Northeast by supporting Boko haram.

Smarkie:
is he saying this now to prevent us from voting him out,the most incopetent gov't i have ever seen and heard of

It's just strategy for 2019.

BakireBulmaker:
So he knows...
Fulani herdsmen should relocate to the core north.
That's all!

Buhari does not care about the constitution. I would not be surprised if he does not know about the statement being credited to him. Note that it is former Senator Ita Enang that is reading the statement on his behalf. They are just trying to deceive Southerners into voting Buhari for second term. If he gets the second term, he will impose the Fulani colony on the South, of course. Southerners should not allow themselves to be fooled.

greggng:
They were carrying guns cos of cattle rustlers. No one will be happy some bunch of criminals stealing the fruit of ones effort. Whichever way you look at it, the fulani and the host communities require protection . U ntill we discover who is fuelling all this problems, Nigeria won't move forward. Right from my childhood, we 've being living peacefully with the herdsmen. In fact as a child, I use to play with their cows each time they are parading them. What has gone wrong now? This hatred has to stop

So you still have not realized that the killings are being coordinated by your President who sees himself as Fulani instead of Nigerian? Why do you think that the killers have remained invisible? And why do you think that the IGP and the Minister of Defense have been blaming the victims?

QuotaSystem:
This is the ONLY man I can vote in 2019 if I'm not voting PMB.

It's either he is re-elected as Governor next year, or he resumes at the Aso Villa.

Sai Buhari, Sai Tambuwal.

You should also add Sai herdsmen terrorists.

We should always think before we act. In retrospect, it is clear now that Obasanjo backed himself into a tight corner with the senseless public drama of tearing his membership card.
The easiest way to remove Buhari in 2019 would be for him to reconcile with PDP and present a formidable opposition. But he has already made a fool of himself with card tearing and would not like to be seen as swallowing his vomit.
Atiku acted more mature. No drama. That is why he is able to move back to PDP.
If no formidable opposition is presented, the tribal Chief Buhari will, unfortunately win a second term and then completely destroy Nigeria and invite his people from Chad, Mali and Niger Republic to come take over the remnants.

Tambuwal, as a traitor, does not deserve to be rewarded by the PDP. PDP should search for a candidate with solid and clean background. And the candidate must be an advocate of restructuring.

pally123:
Na lie o! She get who she wan marry

Of course, she has someone.

Odingo1:
I pity men who do extra ordinary things for a woman that is not their wife, many men na mumu dey worry them.
This your word is what we are talking about, dont give what you cannot let go to a girlfriend, regret await any man that does that.

Especially Nigerian men. Majority think with their dicks.

kimbraa:
Oh! You modified.

First off, from the story, they've been friends but the dude caught feelings along the line while the girl dearly loved their friendship. Giving his kidney was what a true friend would do and what she owes him in return is appreciation for giving her life back.

Secondly, from her response, she doesn't love him but like him 'cause if she did, she won't have said she wanted to think about it as she values their relationship more than marriage.

You should understand something. That you gave a lady something out of your own volition, no matter its worth doesn't mean the second you propose she has to say yes. Saying yes when there's no love will be compensating the guy for what he did and marriage where the love is unrequited is the worse marriage anyone should go into. Love is the basis on which any marriage would flourish and then we will look at compatibility in other areas. And don't forget it's a life time commitment.

I assume you're old enough to understand this.

I wonder when Nigerians started making marriage decisions based on love.

Lexusgs430:
The sex was enjoyed by both parties...... You think it's only the male species, that enjoys sexual rendezvous?

Don't mind him. That's the mentality of the average Nigerian, especially the ladies. That is why most Nigerian ladies feel they should receive money from a guy if they have sex.

AuroraB:
She didn't say 'no' entirely.
She needs to get well first and think over it.
The man should exercise patience

Of course she said 'no', diplomatically. So you expected her to verbally say 'no'?

OneCorner:
So because of ordinary kidney, u won engage d woman so u go fvck am till she grow old.
Stupid man. Goan sell d second kidney and bring d money before proposal

They were already dating before he donated. The woman is an ungrateful ingrate. I guess she feels the guy is not good enough, now that he has one kidney. Guys need to be careful with Nigerian ladies.

I doubt that you are a born again Christian. If you are, you would have resigned from Buhari's evil administration. Unless there is a new definition for born again Christian.

GMBuhari:
lol

hahahahah, i don't know you , i campaigned and will still vote for buhari because i understand the looting agents in every part of the government are the ones frustrating Buhari's effort

BTW I AM FULL BLOOD CONFIRMED YORUBA , no tribalism here

You left out the muslim part. Full blooded confirmed Yoruba MUSLIM. You guys constitute a major stumbling block for the progressive, enlightened Yoruba.

congorasta:
where is omenka

I guess the fool is too embarrassed to show face.

AntiWailer:
what madness is this ?


No military again ?

How will 4 Policemen be missing and we have not declared war yet ?

The killers are Fulani. So no problem.

So where are the Army doing the Operation Cat Dance?

Aleliberty:
I hope we are not going to vote out APC and PDP alone but vote out all the rotten leaders

We are talking about the ruling party the APC. PDP was voted out in 2015, right?

prettyjo:
its not funny.
Nigeria is really a shit hole.
like everything just happen anyhow

this competition should be strictly for Nigerians only.
am so pissed.

Why are you afraid of competition? If it's made only for Nigerians, the standard will go down. Nigerians need to train harder.

pinnket:


A Nigerian will win next years own.. Amen

Yeah right.

Big fool.

Ikechuob:
I don't speak stupidity. Biko can someone translate what this illiterate without a life is trying to say.

You should ignore the fool. He is a confused Fulani slave.

babacletus:
Notice how these tread (Yoruba vs Fulani) is filled with comments from sotherners, but not a single Fulani, speaks a lot about that group's tactics, the Igbos are learning quick sha, destroy this yoruba-fulani relationship

Well, the Fulanis act more and talk less. The Southerners talk more and act less.

HomeOfMe:
You àre very right. I was chatting with a northern customer of mine at a major market in Lagos who sells,yams.We were arguing about the price of things and I said,"Sebi na your brother be president?".he got very angry and said,me I no be Fulani,I be Hausa,he no be my brother. Let me just leave out other things he said.

And you took him serious? Do you think that all those poor Northerners shouting Sai Baba are Fulani? They are Hausa, Kanuri, Nupe, Gwari. Come 2019, they will still vote Buhari.

Kudos to the outspoken Senator. It's not easy; especially for somebody of his status as a Senator.

Useless bigot. Get ready to go back to Daura. Your people, the Fulani, need you more.

Since the video was shot by Aroms Aigbehi, I guess the location should be Edo State. The State Governor should be informed of this. He needs to take action before it is too late.