Drella:
Actually this is OP's wife.
Apparently she even wore a skimpy dress on their wedding and OP didn't talk that time o


I will take it down soon

And now he is complaining she is wearing skimpy clothes?

The OP is a clown

PlayMaker14:
Look at my last reply to her, that's exactly how you reply irritating pest.


They will flee in ten thousand ways.

I got to know she is a woman late. Regretted it

PlayMaker14:



What kind of wickedness is this...?

Mortal Kombat style

escapefromusa:


What sane wife challenges her husband?

What gives you the idea that the OP's wife challenged him?

Ishilove:

Note how he shifted from 'you will enter 30 without marriage' to "he will leave you with kids". Very useless boys we have in this generation.

Madam. How are you today? Any man yet? Oh! I forgot you have a bad attitude that will last long. Keep it up, Shiloh will soon write you letter of rejection

yorubarere:

I got to know she is a woman late. Regretted it

Most of these frustrated ENP's we have here disguise alot, but experience will always come in play to expose them.



Kriss216 my very good friend here will equip you with some steps on how to avoid such evil demons.

I just gave you the first step.

meritadavize1:
OG next time don't lock her out, rather lock her in the toilet, that's how I punish girls

that's also bad and is a crime.

yorubarere:

Madam. How are you today? Any man yet? Oh! I forgot you have a bad attitude that will last long. Keep it up, Shiloh will soon write you letter of rejection

LMAO! Every woman who does not agree with you is automatically single and searching. You really are senseless.

Beloved3:


What gives you the idea that the OP's wife challenged him?

Disrespect is a challenge.
1. Fought him on the issue of skimpy clothes and walked out on him (imagine).

2. Go out to church when the husband called for talks. Thinking what will he do?

Well, op had done his worst.

yorubarere:

Mortal Kombat style

You sef....

Beloved3:


What gives you the idea that the OP's wife challenged him?

H: Don't wear short skirts to church again!
W: Walks out of the house , stays out for 1hr.
W: Going to church again , 'wearing short skirt'
H: Madam don't go anywhere let settle this marra
W: I will go
H: Okay give your house key
W: Agrees
W: Wife goes to church twice in one day wearing a short skirt.
H: Leaves the house , lodges in hotel

Do you want me draw a picture? Seems to me your slow.

Ishilove:

LMAO! Every woman who does not agree with you is automatically single and searching. You really are senseless.

Another insultive woman. How do you guys do this? Senseless? Really? Well, that is why you will remain single for a long time.

yorubarere:

Another insultive woman. How do you guys do this? Senseless? Really? Well, that is why you will remain single for a long time.

And who told you I am single? You see that single sense you don't have in your hollow skull? You are shouting 'single' upandan like someone suffering brain damage without making any reasonable contribution to the discourse.

360degreess:
Typical feminists way of thinking, that's why most of you are suffering in marriages.The husband is the head of the house, accept this reality and have peace of mind.. What he did was absolutely right.Infact, she can get worst treatment from other men.

The husband is the heard of the house, hahaa

PlayMaker14:
Most of these frustrated ENP's we have here disguise alot, but experience will always come in play to expose them.



Kriss216 my very good friend here will equip you with some steps on how to avoid such evil demons.

I just gave you the first step.

I can't laugh o

yorubarere:

Another insultive woman. How do you guys do this? Senseless? Really? Well, that is why you will remain single for a long time.

Abeg leave Ishilove oh, she's my friend, though her point of view on this issue differs, but she's a nice lady.

Ishilove:

And who told you I am single? You see that single sense you don't have in your hollow skull? You are shouting 'single' upandan like someone suffering brain damage without making any reasonable contribution to the discourse.

No wonder people ridicule you here. But I won't engage you on insults sha.

But wait, have you finally hooked a simp? I guess the guy will soon run again. Bad attitudes is like a smoke, u can never cover it up

PlayMaker14:
Abeg leave Ishilove oh, she's my friend, though her point of view on this issue differs, but she's a nice lady.

So far, she hasn't bin nice to me. We had an encounter on one thread like that and since then, she has bin chasing me as if I am her next bf

yorubarere:

Disrespect is a challenge.
1. Fought him on the issue of skimpy clothes and walked out on him (imagine).

2. Go out to church when the husband called for talks. Thinking what will he do?

Well, op had done his worst.

1. She didn't fight him on the issue of the skimpy clothing. She disagreed with him.

What if the clothing really wasn't that skimpy and she was right?

2. Be sincere if it was you in the lady's shoes, would you skip an important meeting because your partner is nagging on a tiny issue?

yorubarere:

So far, she hasn't bin nice to me. We had an encounter on one thread like that and since then, she has bin chasing me as if I am her next bf

Okay, nor vex, but you see Ishilove, she's a nice girl if you get to know her, though she can be provoking in some of her comments here but she's 10x better than most ladies in this forum who vent their frustrations on guys here.

yorubarere:

So far, she hasn't bin nice to me. We had an encounter on one thread like that and since then, she has bin chasing me as if I am her next bf

You mean victim!

Nacoss25:
Good day my people. Ignore my wrong sentences please.
It all started like this.
On Sunday my wife wore a dress am uncomfortable with and which is unexpected of a married woman(I mean the gown was too short), when we came back from church I told her never to where such dress again to church she then picked offence that I always complain about her dress being too short, (My wife love skimpy dresses alot which I don't like) I was still talking she walked out on me went and stayed outside like someone who was chased out of the house, she stayed outside for about an hour and later came in and started dressing up to go for an evening program in church, I then told her not to go to anywhere in need us to talk, why I told her not to go is so we can settle the issues. She insisted that she must go that I can't stop her, I repeated my statement telling her not to go that I want us to talk she insisted on going. While she was about to leave I forcefully siezed the house keys from her and let her go, this happened around 5.30pm.
I love seeing my woman in short dresses but not wearing them to church.
On reaching the time she is expected to come back home around 7.30pm I left the house without dropping the house keys anywhere to a hotel and lodged there, she waited outside still around 10pm and sent me a text that do I want to sleep outside I did not reply her, she now called Me i picked and told her to go and sleep where she went to since she has the guts to disrespect mess her husband that am in a hotel at the moment to pass the night there and ended the call she called till 11pm and also sent text messages begging for forgiveness, she then called my younger brother who then called me too begging me to go back home I never picked her call and I switched off my phone.
I came back home around 5am only to discover that she slept on a bench in the veranda.
My people I want ask a question.
Don't I as a husband have the right to tell my wife not to dress certain way or don't I have the right to tell her not to go out, mind you am not the authoritative kind of husband but on this one I need to stamp my authority as the head of my family.
My wife is a good woman and I love so so much, I just needed to discipline her.
Our marriage is two months old.

. My brother just two months you're already doing this...haha ... do you think marriage is a bed of roses? The attitude she has been living with since from her parent house... You're the one that want to change her abi? This is why its important to observe well well before you ask that life long question " WILL YOU MARRY ME" because the thing is, you can't change anybody that doesn't want to change.



What am saying @ Op is, if you continue like this sooner or later you will develop hypertension due to insecurity In marriage. You ought to know who you married bruh.



On this ground all i can say to you is ... MAY GOD HELP YOU CHANGE HER IF SHE'S ONE OF THOSE THAT DO NOT TAKE MARRIAGE AS ANYTHING.


Peace.

PlayMaker14:
Okay, nor vex, but you see Ishilove, she's a nice girl if you get to know her, though she can be provoking in some of her comments here but she's 10x better than most ladies in this forum who vent their frustrations on guys here.

Okay Baba... Let's hope she won't target me on another thread

escapefromusa:


You mean victim!

You are wicked

escapefromusa:


H: Don't wear short skirts to church again!
W: Walks out of the house , stays out for 1hr.
W: Going to church again , 'wearing short skirt'
H: Madam don't go anywhere let settle this marra
W: I will go
H: Okay give your house key
W: Agrees
W: Wife goes to church twice in one day wearing a short skirt.
H: Leaves the house , lodges in hotel

Do you want me draw a picture? Seems to me your slow.

This post has fallacy in it.

Fallacy number 1: You didn't see the skirt, so you can not conclude it was short. Perhaps the lady was right. She deserved a fair hearing, they were supposed to dialogue it out, and the dialogue should not be at the detriment of important meetings or appointments.

There are cases like this that when you wade into them to settle between the couple and you sight the skirt yourself, you suddenly realize that the hubby had been crying wolf over nonsense and nothing was really wrong with the skirt.

Women (wives) are humans too, they deserve fair hearing and proper dialogue on issues. You should hear their argument and opinion and not necessarily try to dominate or force yours on them

Some quick question for you:

If that lady was your sister, what would be your reaction towards the husband.

I expect your honest response.

yorubarere:

Okay Baba... Let's hope she won't target me on another thread

She won't.

Trust me, before one Yr, beating, then she will die in his hands.

This is a very narcissistic person she is dealing with.
His type make others weak to feel strong cos they are lacking and void inside.
The thing is they don’t know when to stop.
I will gladly walk out of this union while alive than carried out dead. I love my life
Check background before you marry.
It is important.
Most people here grew up in hostile environment.

yorubarere:

Madam. How are you today? Any man yet? Oh! I forgot you have a bad attitude that will last long. Keep it up, Shiloh will soon write you letter of rejection

Go and look for any job and engage yourself.
247 on the Internet when real men are out there doing what men ought to be doing or are you a yahoo guy?

I can easily contact efcc on You behalf.
Lazy Nigerian youth.
From page one till here.
Lazy but greedy Nigerian youth.

descarado:

Go and look for any job and engage yourself.
247 on the Internet when real men are out there doing what men ought to be doing or are you a yahoo guy?

I can easily contact efcc on You behalf.
Lazy Nigerian youth.
From page one till here.
Lazy but greedy Nigerian youth.

K

You guys did court before getting married right? Why don't you tell her you don't like your woman in skimpy dress to church? And you punishing her by locking her outside is a No No, as a man part of your duty is to protect your woman. Do you even think of what might happen to her that day you locked her outside? If anything should happen to her that day you would be held responsible. So next time find a reasonable way of making your wife to realize her mistake and also she's not a child, if you love her you won't punish her that way.

Idiots are already calling out females that disagree with Op, also calling them evening newspaper while some sensible guys also disagree with Op too, but because it is coming from females, it hurts them so bad they have to gnash their teeth and throw spittle everywhere, that is how dense, dumb, immature, and insecure they are, dolts.

escapefromusa:


You mean victim!

And you are claiming female, what happen, bobrisky in the making or you're ashamed of being a man?