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I can't remember "chasing" any lady per say. But the highest I have shown interest is 1 month. And that was way back. Now if I like you, I tell you and give us time to work it out. You show no interest or tell me you will think about it, I aren't gonna ask you again.

SmartyPants:
And all of them are just waiting for you to pick and choose abi?

Be realistic.

Though I agree with your initial point, it is of course better to go for women who are already attracted to you.

The Law of positive attractions.
Someone can be endeared to you by the positive feedback they get from your aura.
Except you're a freak of nature, there's someone out there attracted to you by way of sight or verbal interactions.
You don't have to chase after people always, sometimes they meet you halfway.

yeah i once chase a girl for 3 years and 6 months in uniben, she only accepted the day i graduated....though as a street guy i was doing many babes behind the scene and pretended to be a Vee like her so she can accept me, omon when she finally gree....the match no be here...the wait was worth it, my ever first vee girl....was more like a trophy to seal up my school escapades.....her error of judgement made her to lose the chance for the alter but we are still kool but not intimate any more....

SportsHD:
Chasing a woman seems like a fruitless effort to me. Get them attracted to you instead. They're over 100 million women in Nigeria at the moment.

i swear, I can never chase a woman in my life.
Before I woo you, it means that I have seen all the green lights. The light sef don blind me

Why waste valuable time chasing a girl that doesn’t want you in the first place when many will gladly accept you?

mad guy

Gadafii:
i no dey chase girls. i know what i am worth, and i know the games of how to get girls

my current girl friend, i started talking to her the first day i saw her at jamb lesson 2015, we were friends for like 2 months before i jokingly asked her to date me, and we have been together since then, we separated at some point tho.

but other girls i have had things to do with, i didnt chase them oo, i just simply make dem laugh their livers out, by the time payints go shift, he be like jokes

Lilsameey:
Almost a year, It was during the pandemic, after the pandemic, things changed and I did not feel the same connection as the one during the pandemic.

Your love na pandemic love

For me, once you say no the first time, I move no time to check if....
That's why I take my time knowing the pros and cons of the outcome of our meeting before I come closer.

nijaomegacode:
Me 2years.

Me I don't even know how to chase.

I invite you on a date, tell you my mind.. If you say there is no prospect, I move on.. If you say let's be friends first I see it as a green light and if you say we should give it a go then we move.

Ssoil:
a guy chased me for 4years yet nothing come outside. As a demisexual if i don’t like you I don’t like you

you think too much of yourself.

SmartPolician:
I rarely chase after girls, but I have never chased and lost. That's probably because I do my due diligence and ask questions before I squeeze the trigger. Before I ask her out, I make her my friend. Once she's my friend, it becomes easy to woo her. If she's not my kind of girl, I will keep her as a friend. This strategy works for me.

Same here!

Still on her...

you forgot to mention your current age tho

MondayOsunbor:
money is my girl friend simple been chasing it for ten years now

Chasing a girl is a waste of time plus money , I

I once chased this sales girl in our market
And she told me that she has a boyfriend
I told her that am only interested in having sex with her not dating, she picked offense and said all sorts of things to me , I didn't mind her. not up to a month she came to my shop and said she has considered what I said and ask me where we're to meet ,I named a hotel date and time she came , gave me what I asked for and I paid her ,. No time for emotional attachment

One year, in my Uni days, this girl so won my heart over that I couldn't get over it.

We were different in every way you can imagine. I was poor, rough, bearded, smoker, atheist, olodo student and older. She was cute, small, very churchy, booky, from a rich home and such a nice person generally.

She always said no, but in such a pleasant way that I couldn't go. My chase was for 4 full semesters plus all of the holidays in between! I drifted off when she eventually got this pastor boyfriend from a wealthy home too.

As life goes, I can't even rem her name today and may not recognize her if she stands right in front of me. We all move on in life eventually!!!

20 years and still counting.


I know, and I am certain that one day I shall have it all to myself.

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D guy for kuku complete d course collect HND

Drella:
If I ask you out, you must reply me the next minute.No wasting time,I got other girls to woo too!

Says by a weak Man disguising as a Female.

Nah matter wey my eyes no see I wan dey poke-nose.

Nine whole years off and on but i no give up. i finally got her when she was hungry and down on her luck and smutted her out yahoo boy style for recreation a few times. fair babe with real big (*) (*) like cossy and roman goddess o. it was worth the wait time. I have since repented my ways.

40 seconds

Once I know or feel you ain't interested, I quit ASAP. no time to waste on these specie of humans. The less time wasted, the less drama

SmartPolician:
I rarely chase after girls, but I have never chased and lost. That's probably because I do my due diligence and ask questions before I squeeze the trigger. Before I ask her out, I make her my friend. Once she's my friend, it becomes easy to woo her. If she's not my kind of girl, I will keep her as a friend. This strategy works for me.

We're together on this....once she's ur friend, u can easily ask her out .... either she agrees or not ....
You're on a safe path

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Never and I will never chase any girl till Jesus comes.

4 months ago, Ciri no dey stay one place , Witcher 3 things

Because say woman na money abi? No go hustle o, dey there dey chase problem

Workch:
i swear, I can never chase a woman in my life.
Before I woo you, it means that I have seen all the green lights. The light sef don blind me

Why waste valuable time chasing a girl that doesn’t want you in the first place when many will gladly accept you?

What's the trill that come with the hunt if the game is tied to a tree already?

The funniest part is that when that girl that is doing you shakara see you with another babe she go dey vex.No be every guy patient.That is why I go tell you say make I give you 3k make we go romance.It is left for her to say yes or no.No time for toasting.

4 days

dangoteinlaw:
you think too much of yourself.

Wait! Is it every girl that likes you that you date Abi you just want to mention me?

me that cannot keep relationship for 6months go woo girls....I will be ur friend with all the possibility of removing pant,after that,I move on to the next available one....who relationship help!

Normally e no dey pass 1 week, I have ladies still expecting me to ask them how far about the proposal because they told me they would think about it or still thinking about it or they want to study me first before accepting but I don move on and they are still acting/being nice to get me to ask again.
I don't think I have asked a lady out and get turned down, it is always successful. That is the reason I don't waste time on one.

But there is this lady I broke that rule for, you all know there must always be an exception. I waited for a month or so for her to give an answer. It's because she worth and deserve it and also she is a very busy person.
She said yes and we are currently in a relationship.

PS: I don't chase girls/ladies, I am referring to asking a lady out for a relationship.

[color=#990000][/color] Two seconds
Nigga like me no dey last too long chasing bitch
We chase the bag never chase a bitch