pocohantas:


You’ll be fine. Don’t forget to change your pillowcase regularly. They are a breeding ground for bacterias, even without teary moisture.

#PocoCares

Iyaebe:
kikikiki you don't like truth abi?Well,I already know my future husband's people will not like me so I'm prepared and patiently waiting. As for me I'll always be alert so that I will not be caught unawares

Victerica:
Please, let us allow women to rest.

Any man that said, he will not have sense, go use him head, carry am...

Time will tell

pocohantas:
No devil entered them. It is who they are. The signs are always there. Some people are not family oriented or accommodating.

I generally have a problem with people that do not respect my space or rules, given that I have chronic OCD. That is my problem with guests. But if you give me my way, mind your business and help in your own little way to take care of the home, we have no problem.

Truth is, Nigerians are very bad guests and they don’t know. The ones from the man’s side tend to be the worst. No disrespect intended .

Tallesty1:
Some taken..... And I will beat you later. Every sin must he punished.




Okay, let me get this straight.
Assuming you're right on the @Emboldened, so if I visit my married sister, I am good since the woman's side tend to be more good but if I visit my married brother I will become bad?

What am I missing?

Timekeeper:


Long story but we push him aside.. We don't even communicate with him again...

Tallesty1:
Way to go.

Nah men dey allow that rubbish. I remember sitting down with my two brothers, younger one and immediate elder one that just got married. We were to discuss a family project but oga said that it's got nothing to do with him because he's a married man now and his family and the wife's family come first.

We shock.

But I and my younger one played him two aside in everything. It was like he stopped to exist.

Last last when the pepper in his wife ripped, no be person tell am to find us.

pocohantas:


You are missing the fact that if you go to your sister’s house and she tells you she is tired to cook, you will go into the kitchen and cook for her sef.

If you go to your brother’s house and his wife tells you the same thing, you will enter night bus direct to Enugu. Once you get to Enugu, you'll call the whole umunna. They need to know the Owerri woman your brother married is starving him. Lil wonder his head is now bigger than his body.

Only 0.002% would act differently.

Tallesty1:
You this lawyer.

Many married women will not allow their husband's siblings to come near their kitchen. I think it's in the op. I have seen people, women, complain online that their husband's siblings entered kitchen to fetch food for themselves.

You're just trying to rope it on men and its not right so let's keep blood relations aside since we are going to be bias in it.


Why do married men find it more difficult to settle their apprentices "boy boy" than the married ones?

Perhaps this will shed some light on what the OP is on about.

Boys who serve married men suffer more, starve, get beaten more, are likely to go home empty handed than those that serve single guys.

Why is it so?

pocohantas:


You’ll be fine. Don’t forget to change your pillowcase regularly. They are a breeding ground for bacterias, even without teary moisture.

#PocoCares

folake4u:



Poco why are you like this?
Hei gawd!

pocohantas:


Lol. Raalsalghul is someone after my heart and I am quite convinced that beyond all the NL bickering- he loves me.

pocohantas:
No devil entered them. It is who they are. The signs are always there. Some people are not family oriented or accommodating.

I generally have a problem with people that do not respect my space or rules, given that I have chronic OCD. That is my problem with guests. But if you give me my way, mind your business and help in your own little way to take care of the home, we have no problem.

Truth is, Nigerians are very bad guests and they don’t know. The ones from the man’s side tend to be the worst. No disrespect intended.

folake4u:


It must be True love then.

pocohantas:


Never felt something so true…

OluwaJohn77:
You are correct, i lost my Job around March 2021, my sister invited me for Easter celebration in which I turn down, but I later visit them after Easter celebration, few months later my sister now begin to show me some negative attitude in which I clear her On how I invested my time, energy and resources on their wedding but the husband didn't want me to leave their vicinity; that is woman for you they believe they have arrived......I don't like visiting in-law home

Mariangeles:


You probably overstayed your welcome.

Timekeeper:


Man's side? Probably yes bcox they aren't really familiar wth the woman unlike the wife siblings Dt knows her in & out...

But ladies shud accomodate their in laws

pocohantas:


You are missing the fact that if you go to your sister’s house and she tells you she is tired to cook, you will go into the kitchen and cook for her sef.

If you go to your brother’s house and his wife tells you the same thing, you will enter night bus direct to Enugu. Once you get to Enugu, you'll call the whole umunna. They need to know the Owerri woman your brother married is starving him. Lil wonder his head is now bigger than his body.

Only 0.002% would act differently.

pocohantas:

Because contrary to popular opinion, men are not smart. They DO NOT have sense.

pocohantas:


Because contrary to popular opinion, men are not smart. They DO NOT have sense.

pocohantas:


Because contrary to popular opinion, men are not smart. They DO NOT have sense.

StreetFight:


Yet, men are pulling every woman's pants and spreading the legs. Tell me where the women's sense dey.

Timekeeper:
I think there is a evil that reside in a lady once she gets married... As in, some married women are so selfish and wicked... S
Let me give these instances;
1. Their own brothers and sisters come to her husband home and there is no issue.. He/she (wife siblings) has unrestricted access to everything in the house since it's her sister's husband house.. But when the husband siblings come, they have restricted access to some things in the house.. Any attempt to go futher, the wife start bringing up attitude towards them..

2. The wife mother comes and she is free to stay as long as she wants but if the husband mother comes, the selfish wife is already asking the husband when will mama leave for her place....

3. The husband sends money to her family, no problem, the husband sends to his family, then there is need for him to be accountable for the money sent to his own parents oooo..

4. Husband sponsors wife siblings to school and all is fine.. Husband sponsors his own siblings and the wife develops hatred automatically towards the sibling bcox she thinks they are draining her husband resources..


Some married women are wicked soul in disguise. Bad enough, you wunt see these attitudes in them until they are married.

I still wonder and ask; why are some married woman so selfish and demonic in nature?


Cc: Hathor5 imalma1 pocohantas cococandy pochestmina chii8


Cc: Iyaebe stay off this thread.. Not for people like you... Tanchu

Timekeeper:


I can't even say.. I hardly go to any of my Married siblings house.... Infact it's been long I saw them, no time for anybody...

But for one, my brother's wife... She encourages my brother to spend money on her family than us.. It ended terrible for him as marriage turned sour.. My brother does as if he just won a jackpot anytime his wife family are around but for we, long thing..

Long story but we push him aside.. We don't even communicate with him again...

StreetFight:


Yet, men are pulling every woman's pants and spreading the legs. Tell me where the women's sense dey.