Bluezy13:
Congratulations !

The boy is now a Man

Something he should have done since when he was forming one kind yeye brother

That's how I wasted my time reading this useless and irrelevant bullshit

Bluezy13:


I understand the economy has rendered you wretchedly demented.

Ignore the Block-headed Pig, bro. He isn't worth the attention one bit.

Pride

thesicilian:
What's it with you guys and sex?

Bluezy13:
Congratulations !

The boy is now a Man

Ishilove:
I don't understand this story. Op sees the girl in question as a sister, but he got mad when she went on a date with another man. Since you don't have any intimate dealings with her why are you now upset that she is being intimate with other men? Were you catching feelings??

Abi na me no read the story well?

She took him for granted and made a fool of him.
She made him cancel his plans, telling him that she was coming over, only to give the guy's address to some stranger who came and took her out.
She was playing some kind of game.
She probably wanted op to see what he was missing, since he only saw her as a friend/sister.
She was too obvious.

Comrade don finally wise up!

Coronavirus123:
Your mates are thinking of better things this year while your new year resolution na Bleep. OP receive sense

Problems different, your own na to make money abi? Maybe the one wey him dey make dey ok with him na wetin be him problem he pose so ,so let him be.


I wonder why Una go always dey think say everybody problem na to build house,buy car or make more money

Goalnaldo:
Good. Keeping a female friend or bestie is usually one sided or parasitical. The guy plays the role of a boyfriend with almost nothing in return. How many girls can come through for their male bestie if he needs financial help?

God bless u..

fattprince:

You didn't read it well. Going out on a date wasn't the problem but making the guy cancel out his own plan. She did it to gain control of the guy without giving him sex. To consider the girl is younger shows how dangerous this peeps can be.

Okay.

Ishilove:
I don't understand this story. Op sees the girl in question as a sister, but he got mad when she went on a date with another man. Since you don't have any intimate dealings with her why are you now upset that she is being intimate with other men? Were you catching feelings??

Abi na me no read the story well?

Loool, I was thinking if I read another story.

You see her as a sister, she sees you as a brother you are vexing, I just don't Gerrit.

Anyway maybe he needs validation from the romance section boys.

mutantninja:

Nah he wasn’t interested in her obviously but when her female nature started playing out he realized you can not do the bromance guys-type friendships with girls … you’ll get disrespected and burned without gaining anything so he decided to switch sides too.. what’s wrong with that? I see most of the guys in Nairaland had weak father figures in their lives so they support women actions or troll on fellow guys … you think you’re immune to female bullshit? Lol

I really do not understand your whole point. The topic of the thread was " What i did to a female friend who brother zoned me" and in the first paragraph he revealed he had no feelings and saw her as a sister. He SISTER ZONED her and placed himself in the BROTHER ZONE by himself. Whether he realized later or not that he was deceiving himself or weak father figure kaza kaza...is not the point.

He created the boundaries

22o62021:


I don’t have a problem with her going out with another man but she made me cancel my plans for dat day because she told me she was coming to spend the day in my house and she don’t want me to go out

But she came, controlled another man to my house and went out with him barely 20 minutes after she came. I was angry because she knew that what she was doing was bad and still went ahead to do it.

Na see finish na

Now I understand. Na see finish, indeed. People tend to take friends for granted until you shey werey for them.

Did you tell her that her behavior is the reason why you're cutting her off?

PrinceMajestic:
Na idiot guys dey keep these bitches as friends. Imagine bitch when many niggas dey hang anyhow, even dey run 3some with her then later on na you be mumu impotent goat when go follow her do brother/friend relationship. Forget about the bitch completely, that's the only way you can retrieve yourself some respect you lost to her. I no dey talk to bitches except I want to fhuck the bitch.

Exactly man !!!! I recently blocked a btch today … this girl walked away from me after drinking in a restaurant on excuse that she was sick … I don’t care what she does to herself because I’m done !

Dreytonisback:
There's nothing wrong in keeping female friends
I have more female friends than guys bc female friends are the realest than guys

Life is not all about fvcking toto upandan
Many guys out there need females friends with no strings attached to just be chilling together.

I could remember about 4weeks back when I visited a beach in Lagos island called Elegushi beach
After enjoying myself, me and my guys decided to smoke some Canada loud at the other end of the beach where they're less people .
While smoking my blunt , this locally looking bit*ch who must've had enough to drink just hit her leg against mine
And I have this hatred for ladies who bleaches their skin, she was the type
Instead of this Bit*ch to apologize she still insulted me for no reason lol
Afonja girl for that matter, and this same girl was giving me some blue light ever since we were inside the bar but I frowned at her instead bc she's far from my type , besides she came with guys naw

"Now here's the moral of my story"

There's no way I could beat her up bc I'll be blamed despite everyone knows that she's wrong , call it strength of a woman
If only I had a female friend with me , she would have dealt with that girl for insulting me.
You Gerrit? If you don't Gerrit forgetabourrit

Lights up my kpoli in peace

What is the meaning of female friends are more real than male friends .....
Oga e be like say you get brain cancer..

Like can you imagine, since when did woman start being realer than guys..

Omo, you are pussy cat

Ishilove:

Now I understand. Na see finish, indeed. People tend to take friends for granted until you shey werey for them.

Did you tell her that her behavior is the reason why you're cutting her off?

No need for closure.., let her feel the pain

Akakanfirstclass:


What is the meaning of female friends are more real than male friends .....
Oga e be like say you get brain cancer..

Like can you imagine, since when did woman start being realer than guys..

Omo, you are pussy cat

Don’t mind this online larpers and weak men this days … ignore them if you can

22o62021:


I don’t have a problem with her going out with another man but she made me cancel my plans for dat day because she told me she was coming to spend the day in my house and she don’t want me to go out

But she came, controlled another man to my house and went out with him barely 20 minutes after she came. I was angry because she knew that what she was doing was bad and still went ahead to do it.

Na see finish na

But it's a sibling relationship according to both of you though it seems wrong, a brother would over look it as since you both see each other as siblings it not supposed to be a major issue. Except there's something else you are not telling.

Bluezy13:

Calm down, brother.
I understand the economy is bad but don't let it affect your temperament.

Na v*gina be that nor be man o

mutantninja:

You did the right thing.. next is to block her everywhere and move on with your life .. from what you’ve described you seem like a really genuinely nice guy for you to keep friendships with girls without strings attached… you deserve better it’s just that you don’t know what you deserve because you’ve been a f00l.. Block her everywhere and don’t speak with her ever again

Blocking her will be petty and taking too far.

Dreytonisback:
There's nothing wrong in keeping female friends
I have more female friends than guys bc female friends are the realest than guys

Life is not all about fvcking toto upandan
Many guys out there need females friends with no strings attached to just be chilling together.

I could remember about 4weeks back when I visited a beach in Lagos island called Elegushi beach
After enjoying myself, me and my guys decided to smoke some Canada loud at the other end of the beach where they're less people .
While smoking my blunt , this locally looking bit*ch who must've had enough to drink just hit her leg against mine
And I have this hatred for ladies who bleaches their skin, she was the type
Instead of this Bit*ch to apologize she still insulted me for no reason lol
Afonja girl for that matter, and this same girl was giving me some blue light ever since we were inside the bar but I frowned at her instead bc she's far from my type , besides she came with guys naw

"Now here's the moral of my story"

There's no way I could beat her up bc I'll be blamed despite everyone knows that she's wrong , call it strength of a woman
If only I had a female friend with me , she would have dealt with that girl for insulting me.
You Gerrit? If you don't Gerrit forgetabourrit

Lights up my kpoli in peace

that your foot wear though

NoToPile:


Loool, I was thinking if I read another story.

You see her as a sister, she sees you as a brother you are vexing, I just don't Gerrit.

Anyway maybe he needs validation from the romance section boys.

Seriously??
You didn't see anything wrong with what she did?
She made a fool of the op.

It is very clear from your post that you are a very young man.
And in your post you contradict yourself by saying that you can not have sex with her that she is just like your younger sister, only for you to later became jealous when you found out that she is going out with another guy.
Another things that baffles me about you is how you gather crowd around yourself. You said she came to you when you were with 2 guys and she explained the issue and they blame her, she later came to the shop and she explained the issue again and they also blame her. Young man what is this explanation all about, if you want the lady why don't you tell her straight ahead?

My advice for you is not to be indecisive in the issue of friendship and love affair. Always be a man when it come these issues

Most girls are not qorth keeping as friends in this country. That is just the plain truth. They will just use the opportunity to make you their benefactor.

Mariangeles:


Blocking her will be petty and taking too far.

I like hitting back harder than who hit me first .., I’m a good man and good men like me fight evil from this world .. we use our power to teach people lessons they’ll never forget till the day they die…. Let her go ahead and find a replacement guy and move on if it’s easy.. next time she’ll think before she act.

Mariangeles:


Seriously??
You didn't see anything wrong with what she did?
She made a fool of the op.

I didn't in all honesty

He claims to see her as a sister, a brother would not be vexed his sister is going out on a date with another guy even after he has made plans to stay with her all day. A brother will even encourage her to go on the date he will just vex small for canceling his appointment and it will end there, he's not supposed to be this pained.

Except it's not a sibling relationship which he's portraying here.

Dreytonisback:
There's nothing wrong in keeping female friends
I have more female friends than guys bc female friends are the realest than guys

Life is not all about fvcking toto upandan
Many guys out there need females friends with no strings attached to just be chilling together.

I could remember about 4weeks back when I visited a beach in Lagos island called Elegushi beach
After enjoying myself, me and my guys decided to smoke some Canada loud at the other end of the beach where they're less people .
While smoking my blunt , this locally looking bit*ch who must've had enough to drink just hit her leg against mine
And I have this hatred for ladies who bleaches their skin, she was the type
Instead of this Bit*ch to apologize she still insulted me for no reason lol
Afonja girl for that matter, and this same girl was giving me some blue light ever since we were inside the bar but I frowned at her instead bc she's far from my type , besides she came with guys naw

"Now here's the moral of my story"

There's no way I could beat her up bc I'll be blamed despite everyone knows that she's wrong , call it strength of a woman
If only I had a female friend with me , she would have dealt with that girl for insulting me.
You Gerrit? If you don't Gerrit forgetabourrit

Lights up my kpoli in peace

you always wear this shoe and jean when smoking, is it for smoking?

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From ur write up, no mention of u having feelings for her or u asking her for a relationship. Yes, her action was totally wrong wrong on the said day, but u trying to make her a Bleep mate is petty, immature and baseless. Is this how u intend building ur bruised ego this 2022?
Guy, e show say u get serious low self esteem problems.

Ten06:
It is very clear from your post that you are a very young man.
And in your post you contradict yourself by saying that you can not have sex with her that she is just like your younger sister, only for you to later became jealous when you found out that she is going out with another guy.
Another things that baffles me about you is how you gather crowd around yourself. You said she came to you when you were with 2 guys and she explained the issue and they blame her, she later came to the shop and she explained the issue again and they also blame her. Young man what is this explanation all about, if you want the lady why don't you tell her straight ahead?

My advice for you is not to be indecisive in the issue of friendship and love affair. Always be a man when it come these issues

Damn your low IQ is reeking in this post… OP
Would not sound so contradicting if she didn’t start contradicting their friendship first ? Do you even understand English? Lemme make you understand: She disrespected OP and OP thought enough is enough , he’s a man and has feelings too so he wants to get a fair share of her so they’ll be even since she obviously does not value the friendship and respects his decision.., do you understand now? Or are you a transexual? Or a female behind this username? Because you seem to lack understanding of a man…

22o62021:


I don’t have a problem with her going out with another man but she made me cancel my plans for dat day because she told me she was coming to spend the day in my house and she don’t want me to go out

But she came, controlled another man to my house and went out with him barely 20 minutes after she came. I was angry because she knew that what she was doing was bad and still went ahead to do it.

Na see finish na

It could be that she likes you and wanted to make you jealous.

TimeTraveller:
Once I meet a girl I want to shag, I let her know right away that I want to shag her. If she do anyhow, I move. No time for bullshit and buy me airtime.

As par broda shaggy wey you be na.

NoToPile:


I didn't in all honesty

He claims to see her as a sister, a brother would not be vexed his sister is going out on a date with another guy even after he has made plans to stay with her all day. A brother will even encourage her to go on the date he will just vex small for canceling his appointment and it will end there, he's not supposed to be this pained.

Except it's not a sibling relationship which he's portraying here.

Oops another moronic post here… are they related by blood? Why are you so dum,b? It’s not a real brother and sister relationship, will you treat your sister badly because of a girl? Will you cancel plans with your sister because of a girl? You’re broke mentally and physically.. typical Nigerian..