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Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Candidlady: 10:04pm On Mar 14, 2022
ProDigitals:



When you begin to entertain guys to explore the counts, you can find out the figures yourself undecided

Prodigits do have a lovely night

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Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Vinnie2000(m): 10:05pm On Mar 14, 2022
Preshieben:
Never!!

All of ya just want to phuck and run
Why are you ladies lyk dis? claiming its Men dat like sex and u guys dont need it at all. I bet if you meet a brother who dates you for 1 year and adopt a No-Intimacy policy, u would start complaining, wailing and finally quit d affairs!

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Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Popjoan1: 10:06pm On Mar 14, 2022
Candidlady
Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by ProDigitals: 10:07pm On Mar 14, 2022
Candidlady:


Prodigits do have a lovely night




Stop listening to the take recorder in your own brain, and you may gain true wisdom

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Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by imagrg(m): 10:08pm On Mar 14, 2022
All men want in a woman is sex first before love.
I'm a man...And let's face it, it's true.

But through sexual relationship, love can later develop. I think that's why sex is termed, 'love-making.

You may not get married if you continue to nurse that mentality.

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Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by rickpat(m): 10:10pm On Mar 14, 2022
Candidlady:



You made sense with you post


But sir how many real men do we have?

Ihave seen like ten threads this year alone if not more than.. How they met Jan asked her out same Jan and smash same month... Na wa o

All in the name of love!! Kai
real men are few..just as real women are few too...about meeting on Sunday and having sex on Monday morning..is between the guy and the girl...she has a right to say NO..right?..the thing is just don't let anyone force you..it must be your will and consent...I have seen cases where a girl tells a guy no sex and sleeps with other guys...I have seen cases where a girl sleeps over in a guy's house and no sex...the girl would go and mock this guy in front of her friends...the thing is just have standards..make friends,relate with people,you will surely separate the goats from the sheep...trust me

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Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Candidlady: 10:10pm On Mar 14, 2022
ProDigitals:



Stop listening to the take recorder in your own brain, and you may gain true wisdom

True wisdom bout what exactly ? Please miss me with that bs
Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by imagrg(m): 10:11pm On Mar 14, 2022
Believe me, if I phurk you, I won't run...I swear!
Preshieben:
Never!!

All of ya just want to phuck and run

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Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by GooodHardDick: 10:11pm On Mar 14, 2022
Vinnie2000:
You want her to become an Old Spinster, abi? If u dont want husband, Leave other ladies to hustle for diers! OverSabi pundit!

That girl wey you dey quote so dey 18 Years, she's a teenager and a small girl. I'll urge you to ignore her because she's extremely rude and highly disrespectful.

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Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by GooodHardDick: 10:13pm On Mar 14, 2022
Preshieben:
what are you even saying?? undecided

Of course he is right!

There's nothing special about your pussy!
You only have that mindset because you felt your pussy was the only thing you could offer a man in a relationship, which of course is 100% true!

So continue until you turn to evening newspaper. Your types full Shiloh dey Find husband

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Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by ProDigitals: 10:14pm On Mar 14, 2022
Candidlady:


True wisdom bout what exactly ? Please miss me with that bs


I can tell your number one, young. Two, inexperienced. Three, just talking out of assumed knowledge. Four, never tasted true love.

You should be taking notes. Not talking. When you begin to hush like you know nothing and begin to listen more, then your heart will be filled with understanding. The bitterness,anger and darkness in your soul will give way from cynicism to peace, improved new habits and a better life


May peace find you dear. You deserve the love you crave

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Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Kobojunkiee: 10:16pm On Mar 14, 2022
imagrg:
All Nigerian men want in a woman is sex first before love.
I'm a Nigerian man...And let's face it, it's true.

But through sexual relationship, love can later develop. I think that's why sex is termed, 'love-making.

You may not get married if you continue to nurse that mentality.
Let's be honest.... others aren't like us. lipsrsealed

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Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Deicide: 10:17pm On Mar 14, 2022
@op is it that you also don't enjoy sex? If they want you for sex want them for sex to Na. You can even make them pleasure you while you give them None in return grin

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Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Nobody: 10:29pm On Mar 14, 2022
GooodHardDick:


Of course he is right!

There's nothing special about your pussy!
You only have that mindset because you felt your pussy was the only thing you could offer a man in a relationship, which of course is 100% true!

So continue until you turn to evening newspaper. Your types full Shiloh dey husband
Another depressed fellow embarassed

Ohh shiiit

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Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by GooodHardDick: 10:32pm On Mar 14, 2022
Preshieben:
Another depressed fellow embarassed

Ohh shiiit

This is why you Nigeria girls are so stupid.

Instead of telling us categorically what you can offer a man in a relationship apart from your over used pussy, you Nigeria girls will end up insulting every guy!

Everyone knows apart from your over used pussy, there's absolutely nothing else to offer a man in a relationship. Shiloh await you!

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Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Nobody: 10:33pm On Mar 14, 2022
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
I'm so surprised this is coming from the specie who's got nothing to offer to any guyman apart from her pot of beans wey go don exceed it's breaking limit shocked
Thank God your mom and sisters are of this specie too

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Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Nobody: 10:33pm On Mar 14, 2022
MoneyGoDrop:
Like someone above me rightly pointed out, there's nothing special about you or your pussy but you can continue ghosting guys without first knowing their intentions till you find yourself in Shiloh 2040, shouting I RECEIVE GOOD HUSBAND!!!
grin cheesy

Not funny bros

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Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Nobody: 10:35pm On Mar 14, 2022
GooodHardDick:
There's nothing special about your pussy! angry
You only have that mindset because you felt your pussy was the only thing you could offer a man in a relationship, which of course is 100% true!

So continue until you turn to evening newspaper and then start attending Shiloh yearly looking for husband!

Meanwhile the lady above my comment is a complete foool. Make sure you ignore her!
no one's giving you the attention you're craving for sir

Look somewhere else please grin

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Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Nobody: 10:37pm On Mar 14, 2022
Vinnie2000:
Why are you ladies lyk dis? claiming its Men dat like sex and u guys dont need it at all. I bet if you meet a brother who dates you for 1 year and adopt a No-Intimacy policy, u would start complaining, wailing and finally quit d affairs!
stop generalising sir

Definitely,not everyone

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Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Nobody: 10:38pm On Mar 14, 2022
imagrg:
All men want in a woman is sex first before love.
I'm a man...And let's face it, it's true.

[/b]But through sexual relationship, love can later develop. I think that's why sex is termed, 'love-making.[b]

You may not get married if you continue to nurse that mentality.
you're actually lying @the bolded

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Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by ufotty2001: 10:39pm On Mar 14, 2022
But ur kpekus smells all over the places anytime u open it.

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Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Nobody: 10:40pm On Mar 14, 2022
GooodHardDick:


This is why you Nigeria girls are so stupid.

Instead of telling us categorically what you can offer a man in a relationship apart from your over used pussy, you Nigeria girls will end up insulting every guy!

Everyone knows apart from your over used pussy, there's absolutely nothing else to offer a man in a relationship. Shiloh await you!
I don't think I have this energy to argue over anything with you

I'm soooo drained
So please, have a lovely night

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Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Nobody: 10:41pm On Mar 14, 2022
Deicide:
@op is it that you also don't enjoy sex? If they want you for sex want them for sex to Na. You can even make them pleasure you while you give them None in return grin
Are you listening to yourself at all?

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Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by GooodHardDick: 10:42pm On Mar 14, 2022
Preshieben:
no one's giving you the attention you're craving for sir

Look somewhere else please grin

You created a thread, people are trying to help your life. You're still been stupid ontop!

Oya tell us just 10 things you can offer a man in a relationship apart from your over used pussy? That is, if you even have anything at all to offer other than your over used pussy.

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Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by GooodHardDick: 10:43pm On Mar 14, 2022
Preshieben:
Are you listening to yourself at all?

STFU!

Everyone knows apart from your over used pussy, you have absolutely nothing else to offer a man in a relationship!

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Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Deicide: 10:44pm On Mar 14, 2022
Preshieben:
Are you listening to yourself at all?
What don't you understand? Or are you a Kid?

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Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Ximenez(m): 11:15pm On Mar 14, 2022
Preshieben:

Omoh...
I know I'm not supposed to be worried but I have to

Whenever a guy approaches me,no matter how nice and lovely he looks,
All I think is,he just wants to explore my pussie and move on..and gbamm I'll just ghost him and this goes on with every guy I meet.

I've had failed relationships, infact the last one ended when I discovered my ex bf was cheating on me with my cousin that I'm four years older than and I'm sure that I've moved on completely but I don't seem to trust any guy any longer

The way I reject men who approach me cos all I think is "he only wants to fvck you, nothing else" is sooo alarming, and I fear if I continue like this,I may not marry

How do I change this mentality?
How do I change my mindset about men abeg?
It's fine, you don't need to change your mentality. You need not marry.

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Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by qtguru(m): 11:41pm On Mar 14, 2022
Preshieben:

Omoh...
I know I'm not supposed to be worried but I have to

Whenever a guy approaches me,no matter how nice and lovely he looks,
All I think is,he just wants to explore my pussie and move on..and gbamm I'll just ghost him and this goes on with every guy I meet.

I've had failed relationships, infact the last one ended when I discovered my ex bf was cheating on me with my cousin that I'm four years older than and I'm sure that I've moved on completely but I don't seem to trust any guy any longer

The way I reject men who approach me cos all I think is "he only wants to fvck you, nothing else" is sooo alarming, and I fear if I continue like this,I may not marry

How do I change this mentality?
How do I change my mindset about men abeg?

You could always date women

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Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by SandraIkuboR(f): 11:45pm On Mar 14, 2022
Preshieben:

Omoh...
I know I'm not supposed to be worried but I have to

Whenever a guy approaches me,no matter how nice and lovely he looks,
All I think is,he just wants to explore my pussie and move on..and gbamm I'll just ghost him and this goes on with every guy I meet.

I've had failed relationships, infact the last one ended when I discovered my ex bf was cheating on me with my cousin that I'm four years older than and I'm sure that I've moved on completely but I don't seem to trust any guy any longer

The way I reject men who approach me cos all I think is "he only wants to fvck you, nothing else" is sooo alarming, and I fear if I continue like this,I may not marry

How do I change this mentality?
How do I change my mindset about men abeg?
That's the same way I felt until I met a nice guy during my 100 level Uniben, he's name was Uyi..
Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Kobojunkiee: 11:53pm On Mar 14, 2022
Ximenez:

It's fine, you don't need to change your mentality. You need not marry.
Is marriage like some sort of life achievement for you that you think the reason she wants to date has to do with marriage? undecided

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Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Ximenez(m): 11:58pm On Mar 14, 2022
Kobojunkiee:
Is marriage like some sort of life achievement for you that you think the reason she wants to date has to do with marriage? undecided
Lol
Did you read her post before quoting me?
She said she's scared her present mentality might prevent her from getting married.

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Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Kobojunkiee: 11:59pm On Mar 14, 2022
Ximenez:

Lol
Did you read her post before quoting me?
She said she's scared her present mentality might prevent her from getting married.
Ok undecided

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