marsman:
Your mum is your mum no matter what. People without mothers higher private investigators just to feel that connection. I am not in your shoe and i don't know what you have gone through, but believe me, that woman sacrificed something when she choosed to have you.

Its an obvious human psychology to always focus on the Negative side of the matter than the positive.

Raalsalghul:


The usual sentiments and manipulations.

Acidosis:


Of course. People say trash about fathers everyday but the world does not care. It's beginning to look like fathers are expected to fail and be stupi.d by default.

Knowing the world we live in, where "mothers will always be mothers" even in the face of paternity fraud and harlotry, you shouldn't have used certain words on your mom.

It's OKAY to be a hypocrite.

Palema007:
Na people like you wey dey form hard guy dey cry pass at una Mama's funeral.

jumper524:
bros the world aint fair, it gave a lot of advantage to some and disadvantage to others. Please respect your mom atleast in public not for her sake but for your daughters sake or brothers daughter sake..

Raalsalghul:

The usual sentiments and manipulations.

Raalsalghul:


Na you know. The woman wey born the Op is not worthy to be called a mother or mama if his stories are true.

Lol... Funny enough, op never even open up to what the mother did to him personally. I read about her bringing men to the house and not paying his Sister's school fees. What she did to him gan gan we don't know.

Well same could be said of deadbeat fathers.

Magnoliaa:


Orishirishi something, my sister. Wahala no dey finish for this life o. Kai!

I'm just being thoroughly entertained at this point.

Stargurl20:

Every woman on this forum should pray never to bear the pregnancy stress, Labor pains(second worst pain on earth. Being burn alive is the first), nurturing child's pain and stress just to end up giving birth to an ungrateful, callous, useless child that could have being flushed along with menstrual blood away from the body. It's a vital prayer that no mother should handle lightly.

Raalsalghul:


Sentiments! Sentiments! Sentiments!

What is his business with if she cried in the Labor room for seven days and seven nights? How is it Op's problem exactly? Did he ask to be brought into this world?

She was the one that decided to be pregnant and should be responsible for proper nurturing of that child in the right atmosphere.

Failure to do that and she should make peace with whatever treatment is meted out to her.

Same message goes to men too. Every aspiring parent should think twice before releasing fluids and bringing in another being.

Smiles. Birds of a feather.
I wasn't talking to u. I was referring to all women seeing my comments. So pls, stay off my comments.

Raalsalghul:


Sentiments! Sentiments! Sentiments!

What is his business with if she cried in the Labor room for seven days and seven nights? How is it Op's problem exactly? Did he ask to be brought into this world?

She was the one that decided to be pregnant and should be responsible for proper nurturing of that child in the right atmosphere.

Failure to do that and she should make peace with whatever treatment is meted out to her.

Same message goes to men too. Every aspiring parent should think twice before releasing fluids and bringing in another being because me I'll be the last person to remind them that you are related by blood or you spent a month gnashing your teeth at Gbagada general hospital.

TheGidRedpiller:
Females can continue trolling, thats their purpose in TheGidRedpiller's thread. CONTINUE!

Raalsalghul:


You are deflecting from the issue, I had to go back to his previous post and re-read this line;

"If you followed me from scratch, you would know that this is the same wh0re of a mother that would fvvck another men in her matrimonial home after the death of her husband, this is the same selfish biittch that would put herself first before the interest of any of her children, she literally made my sister cry over her education, but my sister watched her change wardrobe every week!"



Yes we know there are enough deadbeat dads to go around but now it comes to an deadbeat mom and suddenly everyone remembers she birthed him with the usual whatnots that follow.

Why do you find it hard to believe that women can be Bleep ups as parents?

Stargurl20:

Smiles. Birds of a feather.
I wasn't talking to u. I was referring to all women seeing my comments. So pls, stay off my comments.

Don't mind that one, jare.

@Rascoghul, say persin no ask me to start business no mean say I no go pray against loss, abi? Abi that I choose to fly plane no mean say I go wish for death and crash?

Be kamming dan, ehear? Try to understand her point. No be everybody dey give the OP face here.

Raalsalghul:


Sentiments! Sentiments! Sentiments!

What is his business with if she cried in the Labor room for seven days and seven nights? How is it Op's problem exactly? Did he ask to be brought into this world?

She was the one that decided to be pregnant and should be responsible for proper nurturing of that child in the right atmosphere.

Failure to do that and she should make peace with whatever treatment is meted out to her.

Same message goes to men too. Every aspiring parent should think twice before releasing fluids and bringing in another being because me I'll be the last person to remind them that you are related by blood or you spent a month gnashing your teeth at Gbagada general hospital.

Palema007:
Lol...nah.. I'm not deflecting just wondering the personal issue op got with his Mom. Reading your reference I still see no personal issues either. Op is just demonstrating an inherited hatred here. Yes he can be angry with her for her deeds but not this hatred he bears for her. No right thinking child would like his mom bringing men to her matrimonial home but Op has gone overboard with his apathy for his mother.

The right question any sane being who would want to help and not crucify will ask is, has she been that way before she lost her husband? Who knows like Op, she may be a person who doesn't handle loss or situations well. This is not to justify her act but to redeem her.

To me, Op is one of those people who expect so much from others that they feel so bitter when these people fail to reach their expectations. He expected his mom to just move on with life normally and uprightly after the loss of her husband failing to realize people differ and some need extra help.

Op expected her to be a MOTHER without realizing that MOTHERHOOD is far beyond naturally imbed attributes but deliberate effort through sacrifices, mistakes, experience, lessons and so on. Not that I blame him but he shouldn't have allowed her failure get so much to him.

Ahhhhhhhh I know there are deadbeat mothers, they are not common but they exist. But my point is Op can do better jare.

tayo60:
God bless you for helping her, your own children too will help you.

patosky55:
in as much as I might not totally agree with what op wrote but let me make some corrections for the gullible ones here, no woman on earth can either bless a man or curse someone. the only person that can bless u or curse u is only your FATHER and that is if he is doing his responsibilities well, now to the people quoting bible tell me a verse in the blible where a woman blessed or cursed someone. am waiting

Acidosis:


Of course. People say trash about fathers everyday but the world does not care. It's beginning to look like fathers are expected to fail and be stupi.d by default.

Knowing the world we live in, where "mothers will always be mothers" even in the face of paternity fraud and harlotry, you shouldn't have used certain words on your mom.

It's OKAY to be a hypocrite.

Palema007:
This isn't true. Nigerians are very protective of Elders. As a matter of fact, in our culture " Elders can never be wrong". No matter what wrong an elderly person has done,a younger fellow is not in the place to correct such elder. The younger one is expected to sulk it in or lay complains respectfully. That's for Elders, someone who may not really be a relative how much more PARENTS. People we literally worship in Africa.

If Op has used such unprintable words on his Father, he would have gotten same reaction from Nl users.

If a Lady had described her father in such awful ways, she would have gotten more backlash too. This isn't about being a "Woman"

It is the culture, which is not matter how angry you are there is a limit you can go with parents, TheGidpiller overstepped that limit yesterday and got what he ought to get.

"Aja o kin sinwi, koma mo oju olowo ehn", A dog can not be mad to the extent of not recognizing it's owner!

TheGidRedpiller:
My post got to front page yesterday, it's still in my profile if you want to re-live it.

Let me tell you something real quick, learn to count your blessings accurately, if you come out of a very warm and functional family, you are BLESSED beyond deserved! Some of us wished we never even surfaced because it's obviously better than having to go through what we are going through on the daily basis!!

I posted yesterday out of sheer ANGER, RESENTMENT AND VENGEANCE. I was insulted yesterday, of course, what was I expecting anyways Everybody just started emphasizing on the curse she was spewing at me and the fact that I do not have a choice but to be degrade myself to her every demand simply because she is my mother, but absolutely nobody paid attention to what I have achieved, I clearly stated out where I helped my immediate younger brother to good heights with his artistic processes!!

It looked as though my mother's curse on me was more important than the impact I'm making to everyone around me simply because she is my mother, I will not hesitate to add that I know all this support is very tagged to the fact that my mother is a WOMAN!! And as such, she should be more important than every other thing I have to say! Nobody cared about ME, my wellbeing, nobody even wanted to pay attention to the awful things she has done which I clearly mentioned too though, nobody paid attention to the fact that I helped my brother gather connections in the US, UK and currently INDIA, NOBODY!!

That's exactly what the world looks like gentlemen, if you are a man reading this, you should know the take aways you should do!!

Still Typing...

Truvelisback:
Bravo!!!