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Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by TheNiceGuy(m): 6:46pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
Dude is a retarrd already You need psychological care seriously, it's not your fault, it's what you went through. May God help you out TheGidRedpiller: |
Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by TheNiceGuy(m): 6:48pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
What transpired TheGidredpiller Why did you become like this? TheGidRedpiller: |
Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by marsup: 6:49pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
socialmediaman:He doesn't need therapy, he needs to stop smoking weed, or whatever he's on....and stop trying to sound woke. The only thing, I have taken out of all these rants, is lack of proper upbringing. |
Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by Kobojunkie: 6:50pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
TheNiceGuy:His choices are to blame for who how he turned out. |
Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by Octobertwentysix(f): 6:51pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
Socratiz: Exactly I grew up without my mom, never knew her and was never really loved, my dad tried his best he was my best friend but there's little he can do he was torn between his wives and his daughter, his last wife was a Jezebel I ran away from home for three days didn't have any where to go cos I had no friends so I will hang around when everyone had gone to bed then will sneak into the compound and sleep early morning I will run out again, my first step mom was very harsh and her actions lead to me getting raped at 17 life was hard I am grateful to her though it was her effort the got ma admission to the university even if going through school was hard cos lack of funds, but what made me change towards her was she taking over my responsibility after my dad's death for that am still grateful and have forgiven her. Growing up in a toxic home is not easy, today I try my best for my children, I got married and left my state to start afresh even when I had better opportunities in my state I left it all so that I can heal,my children are being raised in a loving environment and as long as I live will do everything to protect them from such experience God helping me. 1 Like |
Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by Kobojunkie: 6:52pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
marsup:This ain't no issue of proper upbringing. Even kids who were eventually solved off by both parents into childhood slavery don't turn out this bitter. This is a deep-seated bitterness and hatred...you don't teach this in any school or home. |
Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by lebete3000: 6:53pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
Be like sey the guy don go do RedPiller for hin mama, the mama come change am for am. I'm presently locked up in Psych ward now battling alcohol and cigarette addiction. They're just waiting for me to get some withdrawal symptoms so they can step in. I've been smoking and drinking alcohol for like 10years now. I've been here since 10am yesterday. Na only God know when them go free me... |
Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by motymop: 6:53pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: your environment and parental upbringing determines the way you will turn out dont expect someone who was abused all his or her life to turn out all nice and without hatred and contempt 1 Like |
Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by Freemasonry: 6:54pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
We take it for granted that just because a woman gave birth to someone, she can get away with just about anything. Believe it or not, lots of people are not lucky to have good mothers. In fact, what they have as mother's are demons...this might sound harsh but it's the reality for some people. Thank God for the kind of mother God gave me. The kindest, sweetest soul. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by lebete3000: 6:56pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
Socratiz: Here's my mail, shydoki@gmail.com I need your help too... |
Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by fof1: 6:57pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
TheGidRedpiller: Pls Advise of Elders and Reasonable Fellows...Do not Revenge any Persons Hurting Stance on You. While there is Life, there is hope of a Change for Good and Repudiation of Past Misdeeds. Any Human Can Err Deliberately or ignorantly...But Learn to Forgive and Leave d Rest in d Hands of God. I assure you that, No Curses of Human Stands or Sticks forever. Curses of any type against You can be Broken by urself b4 the Lord of All...if U know...U Know,Pls. So De-escalate any Grievances with ur Mother,Pls...and Early enough to Overcome ALL. |
Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by Justice4Toto: 6:59pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
TheGidRedpiller: Friend may God bless you I do understand a little about Ur predicament It's well with Ur soul |
Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by Kobojunkie: 7:02pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
motymop:Having hatred and contempt towards your actual abuser is one thing, but spewing bitterness and hatred towards those who had absolutely no connection to your abuse is instead a choice you consiously make as an individual and has nothing to do with with upbringing. There are lots of people out there who were not raised in abusive homes who then go on to abuse other people in their adulthood. One famous example of such is Hitler. 1 Like |
Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by ebubenmuo(f): 7:04pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
Please give love a chance, yes she must have hurt you badly that you only have hatered to offer. Try visit a mental psychologist to help you. You'll bounce back |
Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by Nobody: 7:05pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
@Gidredpiller The truth is 99% of the ladies spitting gibberish sees nothing bad in what you mother did, which means they will likely do the same. It shows the level of damage in women in our society. Also, the true redplillers will not make comment because they perceive you're bitter and Redpill ain't fill with bitterness. Now to you, I used to say this "every man's journey is peculiar and nothing changes destiny save the man himself." There are events that changes a man's destiny for life. It changes perception about reality. The fact that you may not be privileged to enjoy some benefits, loss of parents(especially the father) and an abusive or an unloving loved one(siblings or parents). This things affect one psychologically and it not funny at all. A major decision I made when I find myself in such situation is to excuse that environment for a long time. It's very therapeutic. It enable to move on quickly. Also, there's a spiritual inclination to these occurrences. It doesn't matter your faith; know that you're a spiritual being. You have to have spiritual fortitude to move on if not you'll be drain mentally, psychologically and spiritual. I pray you find healing and be able to forgive cos this sh*t is hard. But you can overcome. P.S: I didn't read you your first story and all I said was deduced from the first page of your post. 2 Likes |
Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by Kobojunkie: 7:06pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
Freemasonry:Lots of people, believe it or not, don't have good parents. However, they are not in anyway to blame for your choices as an adult. |
Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by HRSweetness(f): 7:06pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by Kobojunkie: 7:07pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
Paygram:None of this has anything to do with his mother. The OP instead attempt and fails even on this thread to post his mother as justification for his bitterness and hatred is what this is all about. 1 Like |
Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by Kobojunkie: 7:08pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
HRSweetness:Still chatting on nairaland as before. |
Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by jaxxy(m): 7:21pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
Jennyclay: He is against women and u are against men. What’s the difference here? 2 Likes |
Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by Mjjh22: 7:32pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
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Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by superCleanworks(m): 7:34pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
TheGidRedpiller: You have to understand that most people here are mostly sentimental than realistically analytic. Most people here have never WORKED WITH PEOPLE going through things in their life and even when they do, they cloud the whole matter with sentiment. I have met a few people who genuinely hate their parents, i wish i could call names but i can't. Just to remember what the parents of such kids did to them gives me nightmares. I am indifferent about the fact that you dropped the cash. I do believe you did it because you can and not out of pressure from ghost 3rd party Nairaland people. Finally, I hope you find your healing before the seed of pain and anger grows into a fire that consumes something you don't mean to burn. Peace. |
Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by OlawaleBammie: 7:34pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Check his writeup |
Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by OlawaleBammie: 7:34pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
mastermaestro: Orie lodaru |
Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by Kobojunkie: 7:37pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
OlawaleBammie:Where to begin? I have only read his last two threads and I didn't get the impression that he was in anyway molested by his mother. In the one he called her bitch for moving on right after his dad's death, accused her of putting her needs before those of her kids, and making his sister cry. No mention of molestation.. 1 Like |
Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by OlawaleBammie: 7:39pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:i tink he mentioned it in his thread today |
Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by MrRemedyAlagbo(m): 7:43pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
Some mothers are manipulative I can feel your pain....you still don't have choice than to support her and see her as your mother no matter what your mother is still your even if she's the head of all witches and witchcraft....just make sure you dey on guard and no loose guard.... remember 9months no easy but relate with her with patient,wisdom,tactics and sense,don't let her predict your next move,even if you don't like her don't show it...e get why God will see you through |
Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by Ilovelife4sure: 7:55pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
I didn't comment on this fellow's post yesterday because I actually think he is mentally unstable, all he need is help, I am just scared he might not get the help he needs before getting married to someone's daughter there by subjecting her and her female children to hell with such venom and hatred towards the opposite gender. Dude you are not normal and no amount of cheering can change that. Get some help before you destroy your own life with your hands. 1 Like |
Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by NamelessOGBENI(m): 7:58pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
TheGidRedpiller:I'd love to have a copy of your book but I keep on getting this error message, I believe it has a thing to do with my region. I don't know if there's another way to get it. I really would love to read it. :You cannot purchase this product as this region is currently not supported. Any bundle discounts associated with this product will not be applied in this purchase' |
Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by toprealman: 8:02pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
You guys should hear him out first. Don't be in a hurry to judge. |
Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by TheGidRedpiller(m): 8:05pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
NamelessOGBENI:Did you use vpn? |
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