Wittyduchess:
I have seen karma play out ,maybe it wasn't karma maybe the universe just wanted to make an example out of these people ,maybe it was just a coincidence, but hey they still got their rewards.

I saw the lady become lean, she lost her smile even though she was still coming to work ,I could see the pain in her eyes. She probably wet her pillow with tears every night too.

For what? For something that wasn't her fault, her tribe. The boy's parents knew her all along,they knew her tribe.

Infact when the guy came begging he said she was faultless and he didn't know why he went with his parent's decision.lol. Humans can be so funny and they only realize they hurt someone only when they get hit by consequences

melayemi:




He doesn’t want and they are blackmailing him my brother.

Not that he didn’t try talking to her, He did but did she change ?

Thumbs up bro for going after what you want, personally I say thumbs up �

Have her for keeps until a better option comes along.

He didn’t waste her time, she waste her own time subconsciously.

I go like register for this guy party �

TkhGuy:
It's hurtful, I don't know which side of the coin you guys want to follow but, she came that day, uninvited like she use to & know I have to tell her when she starts touching me & reaching my sensitive zone, I held her hands for a while & broke the silence,

I did tell her that we aren't going anywhere after noticing how flirty she is from first 1 month of our date, but she kept coming back, I have broken up with her prior to this, but she still comes to my place uninvited,

She is curvy & seductive, she is beautifully personified,
I don't have time to chase after girls due to the nature of my job, so, she has been the only girl I have all along,


I have carefully made my choice, ladies you all need to learn this cos most Nigerian guys will not tell you this or force it on you..

I can't marry a girl who doesn't trust me, or projects condom forward just at the point of having Bleep with her,

I can't have a girl who can't cook as a wife but gf yes,

I can't harbor a girl who questions my authority as my wife, but as gf yes

I can't take a girl who challenges me even to point of picking up a fight with me as a wife, but as girlfriend, yes

I can't take a girl who disobeys me as my wife, cheating will be nothing to her,

I can't marry a girl who is unapologetic, for girlfriend, yes but not a wife

I can't marry a girl who's 80% contact is raging with boys, even if there are all her cousin, or she doesn't sleep with them I don't care,

I can't marry a girl who wears make up 247 when coming and going and always on a tight body revealing clothes, what that means is she is not done advising herself to highest bidder

This are the conditions & challenges that i tried hard to stop my girlfriend from but she wouldn't let go,

We have dated for more than 3 years but this attitude never changes,

I found someone whom all this came from without me pushing for it, now she is crying out her eyes,

franchasng:
The evil men do now lives with them no longer after them.



Some people believe all is well with evil politicians that did all sorts of evil to be in power, these politicians give them encouragement to also become evil. But most don't know what they pass through even in their family life.



In life, always show empathy

wisdomkid:



AMEN FIRE For 3 years? You didn;t tell her you see no future with her if she continues like this?

CAPSLOCKED:
IT'S CALLED HAVING STANDARDS AND NOT SETTLING FOR LESS. ANY PUBLIC OPINION YOU TAKE AGAINST YOUR OWN FAVOR WILL ALWAYS RUIN YOU LONG TERM BECAUSE IT'S CLEAR FROM ALL THAT YOU CAN SEE THAT THE PUBLIC'S OPINION WILL ALWAYS BE INCLINED TOWARDS PITYING WOMEN. OUT THERE IT DOESN'T MATTER IF SHE HITS YOU EVERYDAY OR HAVE STABBED YOU IN THE EYES. YOU'RE CONSIDERED THE DEMON IF YOU EVER DREAM OF LEAVING A NAGGING WORTHLESS LAZY WOMAN. BUT SHE'S FREE TO LEAVE YOU ANYWAYS EVEN IF YOU'VE GIVEN HER THE UNIVERSE. DOESN'T MATTER. ONLY HER HAPPINESS DOES. THIS IS THE REASON WHY YOU MUST DO THE OPPOSITE OF WHAT THE PUBLIC WANTS YOU TO DO ESPECIALLY IF YOUR SANITY AND GOALS AREN'T BEING CONSIDERED. IT'S NOT A CRIME TO HAVE STANDARDS. UNFORTUNATELY, MOST MEN HAVEN'T REALIZED THIS AND STILL FALL FOR THE PITY BLAME GAME.

TkhGuy, PUT YOURSELF FIRST. ALWAYS. EVERYTIME. 500 TIMES EVERYDAY. IT'S ONE OF THE FEW SECRETS OF LIVING A HEALTHY AND HAPPY AND LONGER LIFE.

TkhGuy:
It's hurtful, I don't know which side of the coin you guys want to follow but, she came that day, uninvited like she use to & know I have to tell her when she starts touching me & reaching my sensitive zone, I held her hands for a while & broke the silence,

I did tell her that we aren't going anywhere after noticing how flirty she is from first 1 month of our date, but she kept coming back, I have broken up with her prior to this, but she still comes to my place uninvited,

She is curvy & seductive, she is beautifully personified,
I don't have time to chase after girls due to the nature of my job, so, she has been the only girl I have all along,


I have carefully made my choice, ladies you all need to learn this cos most Nigerian guys will not tell you this or force it on you..

I can't marry a girl who doesn't trust me, or projects condom forward just at the point of having Bleep with her,

I can't have a girl who can't cook as a wife but gf yes,

I can't harbor a girl who questions my authority as my wife, but as gf yes

I can't take a girl who challenges me even to point of picking up a fight with me as a wife, but as girlfriend, yes

I can't take a girl who disobeys me as my wife, cheating will be nothing to her,

I can't marry a girl who is unapologetic, for girlfriend, yes but not a wife

I can't marry a girl who's 80% contact is raging with boys, even if there are all her cousin, or she doesn't sleep with them I don't care,

I can't marry a girl who wears make up 247 when coming and going and always on a tight body revealing clothes, what that means is she is not done advising herself to highest bidder

This are the conditions & challenges that i tried hard to stop my girlfriend from but she wouldn't let go,

We have dated for more than 3 years but this attitude never changes,

I found someone whom all this came from without me pushing for it, now she is crying out her eyes,

Wittyduchess:
Na your mama be the motherfvcker.

Such mannerless untrianed fellow. Is that how your mother told you to behave?

harqinhola:
blah Blah Blah ! And she's good enough for u to Bleep ?? God purnish u my brother ..

Wittyduchess:
I still dey pray for the op. A person who sees a lady insisting on condom as lack of trust has issues . Make I nor talk . Goodluck to the op.

AntiAPC2023:

Mynd44 Seun Dominique Justwise OAM4J Dragnet Lalasticlala rule 2

Wittyduchess:
So you didn't see where I was insulted first? For all we know it could be my nephew's age mate behind that moniker.

AntiAPC2023:
explain that to the mods.
Enjoy your ban and when your ban elapses you'll learn how to control your mouth on a public forum.

TkhGuy:
It's hurtful, I don't know which side of the coin you guys want to follow but, she came that day, uninvited like she use to & know I have to tell her when she starts touching me & reaching my sensitive zone, I held her hands for a while & broke the silence,

I did tell her that we aren't going anywhere after noticing how flirty she is from first 1 month of our date, but she kept coming back, I have broken up with her prior to this, but she still comes to my place uninvited,

She is curvy & seductive, she is beautifully personified,
I don't have time to chase after girls due to the nature of my job, so, she has been the only girl I have all along,


I have carefully made my choice, ladies you all need to learn this cos most Nigerian guys will not tell you this or force it on you..

I can't marry a girl who doesn't trust me, or projects condom forward just at the point of having Bleep with her,

I can't have a girl who can't cook as a wife but gf yes,

I can't harbor a girl who questions my authority as my wife, but as gf yes

I can't take a girl who challenges me even to point of picking up a fight with me as a wife, but as girlfriend, yes

I can't take a girl who disobeys me as my wife, cheating will be nothing to her,

I can't marry a girl who is unapologetic, for girlfriend, yes but not a wife

I can't marry a girl who's 80% contact is raging with boys, even if there are all her cousin, or she doesn't sleep with them I don't care,

I can't marry a girl who wears make up 247 when coming and going and always on a tight body revealing clothes, what that means is she is not done advising herself to highest bidder

This are the conditions & challenges that i tried hard to stop my girlfriend from but she wouldn't let go,

We have dated for more than 3 years but this attitude never changes,

I found someone whom all this came from without me pushing for it, now she is crying out her eyes,

SIRTee15:
I think it's high time we introduce couple common law into this country. Some men no just get sense in this country.
U just wasted 3 years of a girl's life n all u even have the gut to justify it.
How can u sit on someone's destiny for 3 good yrs without any remorse of your wickedness.
Do u know how many potential suitors she would have refused because of u.
Where do u want her to start from? or u think it's easy for women to carry themselves and initiate another relationship like that.

mabea:
And that's the only thing you could pick from the whole article.

franchasng:
While putting your interest first, always have empathy if you truly want to live a fulfilling life free of later predicaments.
Life is mysterious more than most of you believe.
Nobody said the op should marry a girl that didn't meet his standards, but while doing your standards, apply wisdom and empathy. He ought not to have allowed the relationship to have lasted for 3 years, he should have cut tiies completely with her months ahead to minimize the pains

talk2hb1:
Dunno why everyone is castigating the guy, he doesn't want something. Now everybody is trying to blackmail the guy emotionally

TkhGuy:
It's hurtful, I don't know which side of the coin you guys want to follow but, she came that day, uninvited like she use to & know I have to tell her when she starts touching me & reaching my sensitive zone, I held her hands for a while & broke the silence,

I did tell her that we aren't going anywhere after noticing how flirty she is from first 1 month of our date, but she kept coming back, I have broken up with her prior to this, but she still comes to my place uninvited,

She is curvy & seductive, she is beautifully personified,
I don't have time to chase after girls due to the nature of my job, so, she has been the only girl I have all along,


I have carefully made my choice, ladies you all need to learn this cos most Nigerian guys will not tell you this or force it on you..

I can't marry a girl who doesn't trust me, or projects condom forward just at the point of having Bleep with her,

I can't have a girl who can't cook as a wife but gf yes,

I can't harbor a girl who questions my authority as my wife, but as gf yes

I can't take a girl who challenges me even to point of picking up a fight with me as a wife, but as girlfriend, yes

I can't take a girl who disobeys me as my wife, cheating will be nothing to her,

I can't marry a girl who is unapologetic, for girlfriend, yes but not a wife

I can't marry a girl who's 80% contact is raging with boys, even if there are all her cousin, or she doesn't sleep with them I don't care,

I can't marry a girl who wears make up 247 when coming and going and always on a tight body revealing clothes, what that means is she is not done advising herself to highest bidder

This are the conditions & challenges that i tried hard to stop my girlfriend from but she wouldn't let go,

We have dated for more than 3 years but this attitude never changes,

I found someone whom all this came from without me pushing for it, now she is crying out her eyes,

TkhGuy:
It's hurtful, I don't know which side of the coin you guys want to follow but, she came that day, uninvited like she use to & know I have to tell her when she starts touching me & reaching my sensitive zone, I held her hands for a while & broke the silence,

I did tell her that we aren't going anywhere after noticing how flirty she is from first 1 month of our date, but she kept coming back, I have broken up with her prior to this, but she still comes to my place uninvited,

She is curvy & seductive, she is beautifully personified,
I don't have time to chase after girls due to the nature of my job, so, she has been the only girl I have all along,


I have carefully made my choice, ladies you all need to learn this cos most Nigerian guys will not tell you this or force it on you..

I can't marry a girl who doesn't trust me, or projects condom forward just at the point of having Bleep with her,

I can't have a girl who can't cook as a wife but gf yes,

I can't harbor a girl who questions my authority as my wife, but as gf yes

I can't take a girl who challenges me even to point of picking up a fight with me as a wife, but as girlfriend, yes

I can't take a girl who disobeys me as my wife, cheating will be nothing to her,

I can't marry a girl who is unapologetic, for girlfriend, yes but not a wife

I can't marry a girl who's 80% contact is raging with boys, even if there are all her cousin, or she doesn't sleep with them I don't care,

I can't marry a girl who wears make up 247 when coming and going and always on a tight body revealing clothes, what that means is she is not done advising herself to highest bidder

This are the conditions & challenges that i tried hard to stop my girlfriend from but she wouldn't let go,

We have dated for more than 3 years but this attitude never changes,

I found someone whom all this came from without me pushing for it, now she is crying out her eyes,

harqinhola:
blah Blah Blah ! And she's good enough for u to Bleep ?? God purnish u my brother ..

medriano:


You are a terrible human being. She’s not good enough to be a wife yet you kept stringing her along. You should have called it off a long long time ago, but no you had to wait 3 years to do that. Confronting her the way you did about marrying someone else is very low of you.

Blunttruth:


Why date who you have no intention of settling down with. Pray it ends at just crying.

harqinhola:
blah Blah Blah ! And she's good enough for u to Bleep ?? God purnish u my brother ..

PericomaNwankwo:
People that are hating on the writer, did you guys not read where he stated that he pointed out these dislikes earlier on to the girl and yet she couldn't adjust??