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Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by Nobody: 1:32pm On Apr 19, 2023
Rokiat:


So if you had cristiano ronaldo kinda money would you still be faithful to one woman?

He who's faithful in little shall not misbehave whilst handling much! That's the Bible way of saying it.

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Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by yemmie(m): 1:33pm On Apr 19, 2023
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Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by tholhusomhie: 1:35pm On Apr 19, 2023
Grace of God and determination not to go bad.
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by EkiranAlexmedia(m): 1:37pm On Apr 19, 2023
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Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by emerged01(m): 1:39pm On Apr 19, 2023
Naturally,there are some women men are afraid to cheat on. When you cheat on that type,your conscience wont even allow you to sleep in peace.
A woman wakes up in the morning while you are snoring,praying for favour to God on your behalf. Understanding the assignment of praying against strange woman in your life. No body go tell you before you go rebuke that evil spirit.

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Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by RIDOO: 1:39pm On Apr 19, 2023
Paramount01:



You spoke my mind

Who get time to dey do hide and seek

Disease plenty and I hate condom

Even the sex things I am tired of it , my wife keeps thinking I am cheating because if she don't beg me I no dey do


I received this grace for hubby too o .Make l dey beg him bf he do.One man's food is another man's poison.This life no balance.

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Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by Fedrick100: 1:40pm On Apr 19, 2023
Rokiat:
I would like to believe there are still men that are faithful To their women in relationships. And despite the narrative not all men cheat.

So faithful Men of nairaland, how do you manage to remain faithful?

I’m a one woman guy, I found it difficult to cheat on my woman, that’s why before you can be my girlfriend you’ll be my type in all round both in dress code and other stuff and beautiful too so that I won’t look at other girls
Cheating is a stressful stuff to me. It’s pains me that after being faithful to the girls I’ve dated they’d always leave when I’m in sh*ts

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Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by chivic(m): 1:41pm On Apr 19, 2023
Rokiat:
I would like to believe there are still men that are faithful To their women in relationships. And despite the narrative not all men cheat.

So faithful Men of nairaland, how do you manage to remain faithful?



Alot,Fear of God,Principle ,commitment , discipline and just for the pride of it.

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Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by Prenonjebose: 1:41pm On Apr 19, 2023
Rokiat:
I would like to believe there are still men that are faithful To their women in relationships. And despite the narrative not all men cheat.

So faithful Men of nairaland, how do you manage to remain faithful?
I can't really say. Probably my faith or more likely my late dad's admonishment and lifestyle. He was married to his wife for more than 50 yrs, and there was no story from my mom any other person concerning unfaithfulness on his part. Definitely exhausting at times, though.
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by Bostin(m): 1:41pm On Apr 19, 2023
Fear of God ,even when such men pray God hear their voice quickly . Self discipline to be a good example to your children . True love but all this I've done in the past but got betrayed , abandoned and rejected . But still won't change who I choose to be with the right person .

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Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by wintergold(m): 1:43pm On Apr 19, 2023
Fear of God, commitment and the vow never to be like my dad in that aspect
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by adexoramo(m): 1:45pm On Apr 19, 2023
There's nothing like faithful men bcuz every man cheats. If you are married and not cheating it is because you are not yet ready or you are a broke man.

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Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by xynerise: 1:46pm On Apr 19, 2023
-When you start seeing your wife as the most beautiful woman on the planet.

-Slow to anger and good sense of humor.
- Fear of God is important too. Pray for God's direction and wisdom
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by bayor99(m): 1:46pm On Apr 19, 2023
Fear of infection, make them no shorten my life

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Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by xynerise: 1:46pm On Apr 19, 2023
adexoramo:
There's nothing like faithful men bcuz every man cheats. If you are married and not cheating it is because you are not yet ready or you are a broke man.
Speak for yourself
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by Royalty83(m): 1:47pm On Apr 19, 2023
For me it's the harsh economy..
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by Prenonjebose: 1:48pm On Apr 19, 2023
bigsmoke2:
My mum cheated on my dad and even had a bastard child for her lover my father was a good man and didn't deserve such. it destroyed our home and made me have an underlying dislike for my mum. Even though we have a relationship things not quite the same. I have never really forgiven her and it has made me develop a very very strong hate for people that cheat on their spouse as I have seen first hand what it can do to families .The thought of becoming what i strongly despise is what keeps me from cheating even though I am not happy in my marriage.
This is deep. Pouring out ones mind can help ease such burden. It can be painful to be unhappy in marriage. Stand strong, look for things to distract or occupy your mind in the midst of such challenges

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Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by owoshuyi(m): 1:49pm On Apr 19, 2023
Love and fear of God, and love for my wife

It is wickedness to cheat on your spouse

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Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by Idaytesj29(m): 1:50pm On Apr 19, 2023
suckmedownthere:
For some it's financial constraint so instead he does a hand job...... my opinion as a lady

Financial contract does not stop a man from extra marital affairs. That point is not entirely true. Some women don't need your money.
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by remzytimer: 1:50pm On Apr 19, 2023
The fear of God!

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Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by Stevenbright(m): 1:52pm On Apr 19, 2023
1. Purpose (living a purposeful life).

2. Self-respect and self-love (knowing that the consequences of the do like STDs, unnecessary expenses ......) are on you not your partner.

3. God's grace

4. Considerations for your love ones.
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by nicej2: 1:54pm On Apr 19, 2023
Before you claimed been faithful try make money first to see if you will still remain faithful . Don't argue with me. Unles you have tested money. I mean really money. Man is polygamous in nature. This western culture that Africa women are driving into our society is not our thing. Allow your man to marry as many he can care for.

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Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by Rokiat(f): 1:57pm On Apr 19, 2023
nicej2:
Before you claimed been faithful try make money first to see if you will still remain faithful . Don't argue with me. Unles you have tested money. I mean really money. Man is polygamous in nature. This western culture that Africa women are driving into our society is not our thing. Allow your man to marry as many he can care for.

Wtf
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by professore(m): 1:58pm On Apr 19, 2023
chikachike86:


1. Fear of STD's and STI's. So much junk out there. Sex in marriage is skin to skin and if you try am outside, na you know. The worse is infecting your innocent partner. That's the height of evil.

2. Emotional stress. Some bitch calling at odd hours.

3. Cheating is expensive. Waste of resources for few minutes enjoyment.

4. Stress of building a new family because of divorce. Etc.

your response is not bad at all

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Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by osothermal(m): 1:59pm On Apr 19, 2023
I fear God
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by suckmedownthere(f): 2:00pm On Apr 19, 2023
Idaytesj29:


Financial contract does not stop a man from extra marital affairs. That point is not entirely true. Some women don't need your money.
I said some not all, you also said some, no sweat...... cheesy
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by sirjamesjnr(m): 2:01pm On Apr 19, 2023
Rokiat:
I would like to believe there are still men that are faithful To their women in relationships. And despite the narrative, not all men cheat.

So faithful Men of Nairaland, how do you manage to remain faithful?
.1 Fear of what Drfumi will do to me, 2. fear of what her sis will say to me. 3. Fear of the unknown. 4. Fear everywhere. 5. My family is saying we won't recognize anyone else. 6 I won't throw years of investment away. Some minutes of pleasure does worth the stress.
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by bunminikan(m): 2:01pm On Apr 19, 2023
Intentional commitment and fear of God.
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by code9(m): 2:02pm On Apr 19, 2023
Rokiat:
I would like to believe there are still men that are faithful To their women in relationships. And despite the narrative not all men cheat.

So faithful Men of nairaland, how do you manage to remain faithful?

When you realize that the birth canal is a homogenous product and that the law of diminishing returns applies to all homogeneous good, then it will be wiser to remain faithful

If you must cheat, please ask your partner first for consent. You may be surprised that your proposal may be approved. grin

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Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by maryalloy(f): 2:07pm On Apr 19, 2023
Discipline and Morals
Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by lexikul(m): 2:09pm On Apr 19, 2023
suckmedownthere:

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Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by Lionize: 2:11pm On Apr 19, 2023
Rokiat:
I would like to believe there are still men that are faithful To their women in relationships. And despite the narrative not all men cheat.

So faithful Men of nairaland, how do you manage to remain faithful?

Before I left Nigeria, I went to the altar in church, in the full glare of church members, and vowed to God I'll never cheat on my wife while away (not that I ever cheated since we got married). I've been without her for almost 2 year now, I never kiss another woman. When the temptation come, some silly girls acting up around, I simply remind myself "if you try it, you're gone. He is watching you". Omo, I go just mellow dey pursue wetin dey pursue me.

And it's like my wife self trusts more than I trust myself because one day like that something told me, after a girl was in.my place late in the night (we.went out to see the fireworks), do it and ask God for forgiveness.

But Las Las, I am an example that it is possible le.to remain faithful even while away from your wife (this seems impossible to Nigerian men).

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