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Re: After Years Of Sleeping With His Girl, He No Longer Sees Her As A Wife Material by Missmossy(f): 10:34pm On Mar 06, 2015
Chai!

Vanity upon Vanity, all is Vanity sad
Re: After Years Of Sleeping With His Girl, He No Longer Sees Her As A Wife Material by Nobody: 10:35pm On Mar 06, 2015
I think the solution here is simple, let's abstain from premarital sex.

Ladies stop sleeping around. And males stop messing up.
Re: After Years Of Sleeping With His Girl, He No Longer Sees Her As A Wife Material by Nobody: 10:35pm On Mar 06, 2015
OREMUSSANCTUS:
It will never be well wif dat goat, dat sleeps and useless a lady and tells her shez not a wife material. May d person be useless for ever and ever. Its a crime against God and humanity, wen ya dhe chop d cookies ya no know buh after ya don scatter d alabunka ya wan leave her? Fvck boiz, cos real men don't do such!
I only blame grls dat fall to cheap for guyz, and ya wonder if dis small guyz don't ve sisters or won't give birth to ladies. All sin will never go unpunished, thou shall pay for thy sins!
cheesy GBAAMM
Re: After Years Of Sleeping With His Girl, He No Longer Sees Her As A Wife Material by dasrackhor(m): 10:37pm On Mar 06, 2015
asdfjklhaha:
U give them sex, the wuld say you're cheap, talk about how de slept wit u to their friends and won't respect u.
U don't giv them sex, they wuld say you don't lov them or care about their feelings.
What do guys want, why do so many men in their early, middle and late 30s still behave like teenagers?
Tell ur cousin dat he's a heartless bast.ard.
take a chill pill..u r taking ΐτ̅ personal oooooo
Re: After Years Of Sleeping With His Girl, He No Longer Sees Her As A Wife Material by veraiyke(m): 10:38pm On Mar 06, 2015
Tell ur cousin to marry her n dat if he no longer find her ppealing he will do so once dey r married cince him love her. Warn am o sha mke e no evn tink of not gettin married to her. Him no fit chop food wey sweet finish sey e no sweet n attractive agn n he cnt vomit wat he has bn eatn since 1900
Re: After Years Of Sleeping With His Girl, He No Longer Sees Her As A Wife Material by coolfredo(m): 10:38pm On Mar 06, 2015
Iamfrank:


Am pretty sure he loves ha, cz up to dis moment sh neva lacks anytin, he gives ha everytin sh wants
my guy e sure me die na u be that ur cousin

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Re: After Years Of Sleeping With His Girl, He No Longer Sees Her As A Wife Material by Nobody: 10:39pm On Mar 06, 2015
happyjuliet:
Men shaaaaaaaaa, after he don finish all her juice, he com dey talk rubbish undecided... We ladies self should try and b keeping ourselves 4 d right man.

Charity begins at home. Your body no go gree you keep yourself na.

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Re: After Years Of Sleeping With His Girl, He No Longer Sees Her As A Wife Material by onadana: 10:39pm On Mar 06, 2015
Your cousin should be burnt alive from his balls.

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Re: After Years Of Sleeping With His Girl, He No Longer Sees Her As A Wife Material by kelobestline(m): 10:39pm On Mar 06, 2015
he never called it a problem' when he was enjoying her pu**y, don't worry! Just get married to her and trust me' you'll certainly rediscoved jingling days wit her.
Re: After Years Of Sleeping With His Girl, He No Longer Sees Her As A Wife Material by LewisO: 10:39pm On Mar 06, 2015
Iamfrank:


Am pretty sure he loves ha, cz up to dis moment sh neva lacks anytin, he gives ha everytin sh wants
[size=15pt]Guy! Stop defending yourself for the silly thing u did. undecided[/size]
Re: After Years Of Sleeping With His Girl, He No Longer Sees Her As A Wife Material by dinachi(m): 10:39pm On Mar 06, 2015
Tell your counsin, he does not owe that over sexed girl of his nothing! I get angry when obviously silly women come here and talk as if she did him a favor by sleeping with him. Until you sillys dump your ridiculous sense of entitlement, una no go ever get sense. Was she raped? Wasn't she part and parcel of the sex? Abi she no enjoy em so! Tell your cousin to bolt if he is tired. #NOTIME#

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Re: After Years Of Sleeping With His Girl, He No Longer Sees Her As A Wife Material by LadyAmaka(f): 10:40pm On Mar 06, 2015
Whtever seed we are sowing now, lets remember we will reap it. She is someone's daughter and he will have daughters. Hope he will be happy when someone asks this question as regards his daughters?

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Re: After Years Of Sleeping With His Girl, He No Longer Sees Her As A Wife Material by emitheo(m): 10:40pm On Mar 06, 2015
*SINGING* don't u wish ur gf was sweet like mine (2x) don't u?
Tell ur cousin he's a confused fella (coughs)...pardon me
If he's tired of touchlightin her,he shud perhaps travel out 4 sometime..he'll be revived 2 touchlight her again & again...but seriously its wrong of ur cousin 2 want 2 dump her now after all said & down
Re: After Years Of Sleeping With His Girl, He No Longer Sees Her As A Wife Material by pecothecash: 10:41pm On Mar 06, 2015
but why now
Re: After Years Of Sleeping With His Girl, He No Longer Sees Her As A Wife Material by Nobody: 10:41pm On Mar 06, 2015
[size=22pt]and one unlucky guy will go and carry that chaff of a girl to marry, and untop that sef, he will even waste his hard earned money to pay a hefty bride price. [/size]

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Re: After Years Of Sleeping With His Girl, He No Longer Sees Her As A Wife Material by imeba2k3(m): 10:41pm On Mar 06, 2015
The lady should use the man for RITUAL (blood money). I believe God will support her


Clearly that man has no conscience
Re: After Years Of Sleeping With His Girl, He No Longer Sees Her As A Wife Material by Thespecialone(m): 10:42pm On Mar 06, 2015
A few points to note :

1. It's the OP that's involved not any Phantom "cousin"

2. This just shows that the heart of man is desperately wicked.

3. I'm no advocate of Pre marital sex and I encourage the OP to amend his ways because if the lady decides to "swear" for him, it will so affect him.

4. This experience should be an eye opener to some ladies. This is what you get when you tell a guy you are worthless.

Selah.

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Re: After Years Of Sleeping With His Girl, He No Longer Sees Her As A Wife Material by Edusouls(m): 10:42pm On Mar 06, 2015
asdfjklhaha:
U give them sex, the wuld say you're cheap, talk about how de slept wit u to their friends and won't respect u.
U don't giv them sex, they wuld say you don't lov them or care about their feelings.
What do guys want, why do so many men in their early, middle and late 30s still behave like teenagers?
Tell ur cousin dat he's a heartless bast.ard.
yes you are very right, african man has this crazy mentality that if he gets sex,he is the winner and he feels on top of the world..my dear girl, thats why they say african mentality too bad and backwards, as you said men still behave like teenagers, and it is so unfortunate...
Re: After Years Of Sleeping With His Girl, He No Longer Sees Her As A Wife Material by adellam16(f): 10:42pm On Mar 06, 2015
Iamfrank:
Please, I need mature advice only sad

My cousin have been dating his girl friend since secondary school, he is now graduated and have a good job.....

But the problem is, he has slept with this girl like a thousand times and doesn't even enjoy her in bed any longer. He said he has enjoyed all marital privileges with her and now he is scared of getting married to a girl he doesn't have sexual pleasure with.

He is really confused right now as he doesn't know wat to do because he loves her.

Please, mature advice is needed.
. Ooookkkkkkaay! Den wen he gets a fresh purrie, and marries her and sleeps with her and gives her belle a thousand times, he will say d woman is not a child bearing material abi! Oponu cousin of urs,
Re: After Years Of Sleeping With His Girl, He No Longer Sees Her As A Wife Material by 190theclown: 10:43pm On Mar 06, 2015
That your cuzin is pouring out his heart

I think he has loosened that vag walls of that girl nothing remain grin

Tell you cuz to take to his heels abeg!

make another man carry her problem grin grin

No time grin

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Re: After Years Of Sleeping With His Girl, He No Longer Sees Her As A Wife Material by Isaacmacdon(m): 10:45pm On Mar 06, 2015
Hmmmm.... after reading d comments .... I understand where everyone's coming from.... As for d topic... well I believe someone else problem z a lesson for us all... Dats y we were instructed to stay outta sex till marriage... I pray Ur cousin makes a right decision Wich wouldn't haunt him later in d future... Let's build d foundation of our lives on a solid ground ... wateva u do now bear it in mind someday Ur generations wud either enjoy or suffer from it... #be wise
Re: After Years Of Sleeping With His Girl, He No Longer Sees Her As A Wife Material by Abdujapha(m): 10:46pm On Mar 06, 2015
Help me tell them.
After all, there is no law that says you must marry a girl you wayad for several years.
Heart breaks and disappointments are very very normal.
Girl in question, sorry oo. sad

zeb04:
What's the big deal!
Please move on after all she enjoyed the sex too.



That's why you shouldn't engage in all the meningless sex during dating,not all r/ship leads to marriage.

Finally,Nigga dosnt owe her nothing,it was a symbiotc r/ship.

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Re: After Years Of Sleeping With His Girl, He No Longer Sees Her As A Wife Material by GeenAc(f): 10:46pm On Mar 06, 2015
Beamborla:
He shouldn't marry the poor girl out of pity only to start cheating on her or maltreating her. He should leave her, biko. We are talking about a life time contract here...

At least he didn't put his signature there. It wound be painful to her but It's for her own Good. Some other cool dude would come along eventually.
SECONDED! Conditional marriage is a hell nomatter what, besides one man poison is another man's meal, a man who will consider dat channel a brandnew will come...

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Re: After Years Of Sleeping With His Girl, He No Longer Sees Her As A Wife Material by Nobody: 10:46pm On Mar 06, 2015
Thespecialone:
A few points to note :

1. It's the OP that's involved not any Phantom "cousin"

2. This just shows that the heart of man is desperately wicked.

3. I'm no advocate of Pre marital sex and I encourage the OP to amend his ways because if the lady decides to "swear" for him, it will so affect him.

4. This experience should be an eye opener to some ladies. This is what you get when you tell guy you worthless.

Selah.
4. Sadly most will believe that their boyfriend is "different" until it happens to them.

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Re: After Years Of Sleeping With His Girl, He No Longer Sees Her As A Wife Material by Edusouls(m): 10:47pm On Mar 06, 2015
Khabuqi:
He loves her but he is tired of sleeping with her. Ermmmm undecided

Okay he doesn't love her anymore, he is just used to her. Since he is fed up, he should just dump her and move on.
No biggie.
you are a senseless and ruthless zombie, dump her for who,after eating the whole food you drop empty plate for who to eat the plate? If he dumps her, a curse follows him through out life,that's exactly how his whole daughters will be used and dumped..dont even try nature cos it consumes you fast...

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Re: After Years Of Sleeping With His Girl, He No Longer Sees Her As A Wife Material by Rockstar07: 10:48pm On Mar 06, 2015
Beamborla:
He shouldn't marry the poor girl out of pity only to start cheating on her or maltreating her. He should leave her, biko. We are talking about a life time contract here...

At least he didn't put his signature there. It wound be painful to her but It's for her own Good. Some other cool dude would come along eventually.

Exactly that's what may eventually happen. Tho it's Very bad on the part of the guy o cos I'm very sua She must've aborted for him countless times as they've done it thousands times but every disappointment could be a blessing for the lady. Who knows that might not be her destined guy. Many things under this world only God know best.
Re: After Years Of Sleeping With His Girl, He No Longer Sees Her As A Wife Material by sammily(m): 10:50pm On Mar 06, 2015
As heartless as I may sound, I think he should separate with her because there is no need forcing him to marry the said lady he surely has no love for again, If he does go ahead and marry her out of pity, he will surely start cheating on her openly and mistreat her badly and that is far worse than the heartbreak the lady will experience if he break up with her now. At least she can pick up herself and start again and can be lucky to find someone that will love her even more.

That is just one of the sad experiences of life. it doesn't have to be the end for the lady.

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Re: After Years Of Sleeping With His Girl, He No Longer Sees Her As A Wife Material by negbenebor(f): 10:51pm On Mar 06, 2015
Iamfrank:

I dnt tink any curse will folo him..... Beside dey both enjoyed demselves.... My cousin alwz gives ha cash
oga y re u seeking advice wen u already av in mind what to do,i c d way u rebuke advice contrary to wat u want to her...pls stop wasting Nairalanders tym...cousin ke cousin ni

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Re: After Years Of Sleeping With His Girl, He No Longer Sees Her As A Wife Material by fromnigeria(m): 10:51pm On Mar 06, 2015
Your cousin is a nama for rendering someones elses wife almost useless.
Did He not know the implication of Over-doing?
Anyways i blame the cheap girl...

Hope this helps!!!

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Re: After Years Of Sleeping With His Girl, He No Longer Sees Her As A Wife Material by Abdujapha(m): 10:51pm On Mar 06, 2015
make love not war grin cheesy

jemimaa01:
cheesy GBAAMM
Re: After Years Of Sleeping With His Girl, He No Longer Sees Her As A Wife Material by ddaammyy(f): 10:52pm On Mar 06, 2015
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Accordin to him he has spent almost half a million on ha....... He is tinkin seriously. So because of half a million, ordinary 500 hundred thousand of since how many years now? Since secondary skul abi? that is why he has used her nd turned her to rag? Nd now she is no longer sexually appealing? If to sey she dey do ashawo she for don build her life wit the money. Nonsense
Re: After Years Of Sleeping With His Girl, He No Longer Sees Her As A Wife Material by Edusouls(m): 10:53pm On Mar 06, 2015
Beamborla:
He shouldn't marry the poor girl out of pity only to start cheating on her or maltreating her. He should leave her, biko. We are talking about a life time contract here...

At least he didn't put his signature there. It wound be painful to her but It's for her own Good. Some other cool dude would come along eventually.
brainless girl, a man uselessled your fellow woman and this is the best advice you can give, if it is your sister that he used recklessly and dumped, you will tell her to cool down and wait for another dude you created and kept that will come and pick her.? You see that women are one of the most stupid things alive, on this planet.

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