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Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 11:04pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
Nigerian men like awuff if you spend ones you become his meal ticket and your money will go into taking care of another girl. 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 11:06pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by jeamah1(m): 11:06pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
What a question?? |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by KomonSense: 11:08pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
[quote author=ivyicey post=47949752][/quote] I would love to hear ur own opinion on this subject matter |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by goingape1: 11:08pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
Benita27:that's why una go old dey Chase men up and DOWN. MUMu women! una no won spend but want make we dey spend for una abi! thank God he make were una dey deteriorate quickly. old age go catch you for NAIRALAND! |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 11:08pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
brightalo1010:I no fit buy man recharge card, make him use call another girl. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Msquare220: 11:09pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
Sorry op but seriously you sounded like a frustrated dumped side chick! |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by flokii: 11:10pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
If she has.. Fine! Buh make sure it doesn't become a bad habit else he might turn out lazy |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Askseek(f): 11:14pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
This is a non issue in my opinion, but This is your opinion, is flawed. You have a very narrowed definition for a man. A man must be defined by more than his ability to provide financially for a grown woman and vice versa for a woman. A relationship is a 2 way street, love and consideration for your partner should move you to participate in your relationship financially, emotionally, physically and any way needed to foster said relationship. Like I said at first though, this is a non issue cos everyone will do what works for them. 7 Likes |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by abuaudu(m): 11:15pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
Nothing bad |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by jojothaiv(m): 11:15pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
Think it's time to make some Nairaland ladies happy! |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 11:16pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
Benita27:what is your background like?? I didn't want to comment until I read this post. Beyounce didn't do this, Rihanna did this bla bla does not in anyway change your status. You are not them neither do you know what they do for their spouses in secret. Each to his own. If a woman wants to spend on her man let her be. Don't give advices based on your sordid background. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Msquare220: 11:16pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
Sorry op but seriously you sounded like a frustrated dumped side chick! |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by vchykp(m): 11:19pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
Benita27: its not bad for a lady to spend on a guy, but she should get the message that its not about the money, its about d luv, so before she spends, she should be sure of an everlasting relationship, in my own case am so lucky ladies spend recklessly on me, the fone am typing with now, a lady gave me 40k to buy it, i accepted it in good faith, but when she tried helping me with money for buisness, i refused bluntly because i know that will be a kind of chain that i must marry her, so my point is that i can accept the money if its for material things, or flexing, but for buisness/land etc, i wont accept if i cant marry d person in question |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by brightalo1010: 11:20pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
Benita27: I swear I go feed ur type at least 5 till eternity.go my facebook alobright1010 write on my wall and ask about me. I dey offshore and deals with bigger ladies who has no such time to cry over recharge card money as you're doing here. Na broke ass villager like u still dey talk about boyfriend girlfriend spending, Na only poverty made you create the thread to know if the guy that dumped you where into Yahoo just because he bought just 1 tokumbo car.You wanted the guy to remained poor but you're not God. 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by harsysky(m): 11:23pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
I remember a day I ask my girlfriend for money. The way she walked and slip the money in my hand like one big OGA with so much pride, I had to vow within me never to ask a girl for money again in this life. It doesn't just fit women to take care of guys' need. Infact, Women can't handle it. Instead of deriving that joy in helping out, theirs is pride 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 11:24pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
majekdom2:You don't need to knw wat my background is like, trust me!, i'm comfortable. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by abbeyboy2o15(m): 11:26pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
Askseek:thanks for the reasonable comment hopefully they change there way because it is too mypoic and not broad at all. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by dokunbam(m): 11:26pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
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Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by habsydiamond(m): 11:27pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
any guy out there that is waiting for his girlfriend to do everything for him including she should poo poo for him. I pray u receive brain sharply. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by hardbody: 11:27pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
Benita27: Most silly post I have come across in recent times. Truth be told, no sane man will want to live off a woman if he can fend for her, but to have a mentality that it is ONLY the man that has a duty and obligation to give you is to say the least silly and greedy. What gives the woman a better right to always receive? you receive gifts, you receive fvuck, you receive compliments, you just receive but if the guy has any challenge, you remind him it is his business to provide. God is faithful, HE will never lead me to your type. Babes who know that to give and receive is reciprocal are getting the best guys and having the fun of their lives living happily, stay there and be concocting stories from kids below 12. What am i even saying, i might be responding to a teenager yet to know what the world has on offer. Sorry 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by hollamanng(m): 11:28pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
Benita27:You better thank your God if guys sought after you |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by eddyroyal(m): 11:29pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
JustHere2Observ:Bless you dear,you're on point. Seriously,i don't know why ladies do have this conviction that it is the responsibility of a guy to do everything in a relationship. Forgetting that they also have roles to play for the betterment of the relationship which is Not just by cooking,washing of clothes,and sex. But at least once in a while try to surprise him with gifts,even pay for meals atimes when you guys are out eating. It helps build relationships. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by brightalo1010: 11:29pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
Benita27:Nne stop making noise because you're too broke that's why I left u on the recharge card level,but is now clear u can't even afford recharge card. Let me tell u when you get to a certain level of richness that ur brain dulled by poverty will open and you'll start thinking normal. I remembered Years back when I said I can't spend a certain amount of money just to buy one shirt or jean or even give a lady huge amount of money,Then na poverty they talk not me.immediately God picked my calls my mentality changed.I pray God to pick ur calls so you will start thinking normal. 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 11:30pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
On nairaland, everybody dey form wealthy. even the one wey dey type frm one slump. I am nt jobless to check on u on facebook, u're behaving, just keep it up. brightalo1010: |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Minemrys: 11:31pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
Benita27: How abt not demanding heaven and earth fr0m a guy she's just dating? |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 11:33pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
Benita27:This is not the answer I expected. I am asking life experiences and exposure. Some people don't recover from some experiences and silly upbringing, teaching they may have had while growing. You don't have to be comfortable to make sacrifices for your partner even he/she does not need it. That is love and why it is called a relationship. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by OBITHAMONARCH(m): 11:33pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
mizzbouqui:It is your type that guys use anyhow and treat you as oringos! SMH! Pls stop making Naija gals luk cheap and lazy abeg! |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by banmee(m): 11:34pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
Benita27: And you want to be treated equally right? Newsflash, equality entails equal responsibility. If you don't want to be treated like a slave, you might want to change that mentality. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by brightalo1010: 11:35pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
Benita27: Then shut up and tell me nothing about Job because ayam not there with u to cry from PDP government to APC.You're jobless and broke so stop wailing about what the guy that dumped is doing.Na only jobless broke ass girls like u dey create such threads. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by hardbody: 11:36pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
https://www.nairaland.com/3246211/advice-needed-please#47844774 This post is yours, the only other post you have on NL, you must be a hustler or very ostentatious, or worse still a scum of the earth. Get some self worth, it helps. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Telkings(m): 11:38pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
Benita27: My fucking dick 2 Likes |
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