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Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by sayittome(m): 3:51pm On May 05, 2017 |
HerPov:I think you need to learn to control your thoughts. This you can achieve when you occupy yourself with good activity. Personally, i read a lot, especially when i am angry, worried, confused or depressd. It helps me control my emotions/thoughts and makes me stable and calm. So, i am able to respond rationally to many circumstance/issue. Moreso, dont make relationship the hallmark of your life. Most people miss this. They dont work on /develop themselves. Try to be disciplined and focus on your life's goal. What are your goals in life (daily, wkly, monthly and yearly. Goals make us focus and helps control what we do, how we act and when we act. It makes you temperate and patient. Can i ask you few questions? What are your goals ( in your career, educationally, in your relationship and in terms of developing yourself?). You must learn to lead a meaningful, stable and secure life whether you are in a relationship or not. Learn to be happy and secure at all times. Its not easy but you have to try. Personally, i think you are jst being emotionall now. Should your guy accept you again, i'm sure you'll still breakup with him. In order words dont just pursue him now but focus more on dealing with your inherent weaknessess- fear, insecurity, anger, lack of self control and temperance, etc. Am jst wondering how succesful you will be in life when you allow yourself to be controlled by your emotions and thoughts. What your are experiencing in your relationship tells me alot about how unstable you will be, even at work. Its serious dear. Work on yourself. Moreso, you need to build a relationship with God and ask him for help. Stay secure. Bye 2 Likes |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Vicyace: 3:54pm On May 05, 2017 |
HerPov: You might need to make peace with yourself @ the bolded. Maybe a part of you tells you he takes you for granted every time you guys have issues. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Nyksbry(m): 3:56pm On May 05, 2017 |
my dear ,i think u are a very temperamental person.learn how to control your anger.i bet u kno reasonable man will take u serious with this your habit.so swallow ur pride go bck and ask for forgiveness..goodluck |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by sarutobie(m): 3:56pm On May 05, 2017 |
Reminds me of someone I once knew...good riddance. |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by joyjoomla(m): 4:01pm On May 05, 2017 |
HerPov: It is a simple thing to do dear. Surrender all and give your life to Jesus. Holy Spirit will control you. You will be amazed by the new you the way your old self will be taken away. It is not a lie when Bible says if any one is in Christ, he is a new creature old things are passed away, all things become new. Sincerely that is all you need. You won't have to struggle for a change. And I will advice you do it now so this habit will not affect your marital future 1 Like |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by wepsycheyou: 4:02pm On May 05, 2017 |
my dear, you need help you did not only suffer from low self-esteem or insecurities your major problem is anxiety, which most translate to fear of the unknown. You need to step out of any relationship and seek help to rid yourself from this mental torture. I used to be like you too but after seeking help and on medication for some time, my brain was able to process things and respond to issue with a clear head. I suffered from mental and physical abuse when I was younger. If you look carefully you did not only do this with your boyfriend, it happens with people close to you. Your brain can not process chaos, so per time, you take the easiest route to flee every time you found yourself in a situation you can not control. Please seek help with either a psychologist or a counselor. From there you will know what next to do.My five cent. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Lordkratus(m): 4:02pm On May 05, 2017 |
yomi007k:T.K.O lmao |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by mixter(m): 4:03pm On May 05, 2017 |
Well, you need to get your emotions and anger issues in check. Sincerely, my only advice at the moment is to read a book by Tim Lahaye "Why you act the way you do". I think it will handle your issue if you put what you read to practice. In addition, get someone to call trust and always talk to about your insecurities. Someone honest should be able to build your confidence back. Ensure you read the book. GOODLUCK. |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by iamrealdeji(m): 4:03pm On May 05, 2017 |
HerPov:I see a woman within that age range must be insecure and have low self esteem cos she's already on her expiry date and menopause is knocking. An old girl must not come my way o,I'm in need of a fresh blood in her late teens or early 20's. na play I dey o,but you caused it all by thinking all I mentioned above towards your man, thinking you're too old for your man and blah blah blah,thinking he'd go for younger girls. don't kill yourself madam. its true that women have expiry date,men don't but you have to realise that confidence and composure is the sexiest thing in a woman,don't be the horse that was chained to a plastic chair and can't run away,you're suffering from delusion,negative one at that that makes you see yourself as inferior. always compare yourself with sexy celebs in your age group or older and similar physical features as you,and always read the good things about them and see yourself like then or better than them. stop making yourself feel sad cos your parents are knocking it to your brains that you must marry blah blah,don't settle for less too |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by yomi007k(m): 4:05pm On May 05, 2017 |
Lordkratus: |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Yeligray(m): 4:08pm On May 05, 2017 |
In tekno's voice "yawa go d". |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Jaabioro(m): 4:11pm On May 05, 2017 |
dozofavour:O'boy you must be a genius ..i like your language arrangements.. top up. keep on. don't be like me.. na money language I know .. |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Juliearth(f): 4:15pm On May 05, 2017 |
HerPov: You are obviously not the only lady who experiences MP inspired hormonal imbalance,but what you lack is CONTROL. I dont think you have lost him,I am sure he will take you back....try to walk away or take a glass of ice-cold water when angry or hurt, speak less when angry...infact make it a habbit not to say a word when angry(communicate only when you get a grip on your emotions....above all, PRAY! 1 Like |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by fufuNegusi(m): 4:16pm On May 05, 2017 |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Juliearth(f): 4:19pm On May 05, 2017 |
HerPov: Work on all these downsides. |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by dozofavour(m): 4:19pm On May 05, 2017 |
Jaabioro: e get who hate money? |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Acos925(m): 4:20pm On May 05, 2017 |
So my ex get twins sister in you. We dated for close to 9months and for no just reasons, she usually walks away. Like 5 times. I only offended her on the 4th break up. So i usually talk to her dt tnz r not done dis way by occasional breakups by her. She pleaded and we forget about it. Den 5th time. Dis time around i help her to make sure that there is no way back. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Jmodel: 4:24pm On May 05, 2017 |
After all u pple will talk of gender equality. So if u were d president of a country you will make decision that will tarnish the image of d country and den blame it on ur period abi? Gender equality my foot 2 Likes |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by jordinsparkles(f): 4:31pm On May 05, 2017 |
Your matter get k+bow leg |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by jacoik(m): 4:31pm On May 05, 2017 |
yomi007k:lolssss I swear u dey madddddx |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Jaabioro(m): 4:32pm On May 05, 2017 |
dozofavour:Honestly the way and manner legit way wey I dey take now it pass yours.. have a lovely weekend ..maybe I would pm you.. |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by dozofavour(m): 4:35pm On May 05, 2017 |
Jaabioro: you too enjoy your weekend. thank God its friday |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Klington: 4:35pm On May 05, 2017 |
NubiLove:you're absolutely right........ Butt if she has learnt her lessons this time, they could still square it up..... Women like inconsequential wahala Shaa |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by jaxxy(m): 4:36pm On May 05, 2017 |
HerPov: How old r u exactly So i can know how to advice |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Jaabioro(m): 4:37pm On May 05, 2017 |
dozofavour:You are welcome |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Seun(m): 4:42pm On May 05, 2017 |
HerPov:Doctors can give you medications to control or completely stop your period, if it is the primary cause of your behaviour. Also, his blanking behaviour is as unacceptable as your monthly breakup, so if he won't change and you can't change, it's time for both of you to move on. |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by 88natzy(m): 4:52pm On May 05, 2017 |
HerPov:Hope it isn't a coincidence. Did or number end with 1307? |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Ifebazz(m): 4:59pm On May 05, 2017 |
HerPov:I would graciously dump your unstable emotional arse. |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by chamboy(m): 5:10pm On May 05, 2017 |
Raine80:apparently, my ex left me for same reason. well, a guy confused her and she dates him now. Atm, i feel all ladies r d same |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by omemero(m): 5:28pm On May 05, 2017 |
HerPov: HAVE YOU TRIED TREATING HORMONAL IMBALANCE....? |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Tonymegabush1(m): 5:33pm On May 05, 2017 |
yomi007k: Dude una go kill person 4 here oooo which 1 cum b typhoid abi toilet infection ni the babe neva set 2 do relationship tinx |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Nobody: 5:43pm On May 05, 2017 |
chamboy:You have met all the ladies to generalise like that? I could argue all men cheat but I won't as that not accurate. |
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