Tell him...if na me n i realise u knew her we ho get probs.

Youdondeymad:
Good morning peeps, I have been pondering about this issue since last week.

I was chatting with my nephew on whassapp few days ago,while we were chatting, I observed something strange. He is planning to settle down with his fiancee very soon, I was surprised when I saw the picture of his fiancee but I pretended as if I don't know her. I have dated this babe before (to be honest), I dated her after I broke up with my first love few years ago. We dated for 2 years and 3 months, I don't really know what to do. I don't want to burst my nephew's bubbles because he is so much in love, I don't have any problem with their union but I'm planning to avoid the marriage.

Am I right or wrong, please no bashing or insults, thank you all.

Mynd44:
For me, the guy code comes into play.

T[b]he only way, I can try this of get past having "stirrings" towards her is after express permission by my friend[/b].

Forget Love or her being sexy, the code comes first

What do u mean by the bolded, sounds incoherent

U r very close n he did not kno the woman u datef for more dan 2 years?? U huys r not very close!!

Youdondeymad:
I don't have any problem with their union but is it normal to tell my nephew about our past escapades.
We are very close and I'm afraid he might not forgive me if I ignore his invitation.


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I noticed many Nigerians can't keep secrets.

Dont tell your cousin about it because he might not be able to handle the situation especially now that their wedding is close. Attend the wedding if you have the chance and whenever you see the girl, just Boone as if nothing has ever happened between both of you. And if she later tell your cousin about you, you have not committed any crime neither. Just face ur business

There is absolutely nothing wrong with it. Tell your nephew about it.An ex remains an ex.

JeffreyJamez:


If I was you, I'll just pretend like nothing ever happened until he introduces her to me and from her reaction I'll know what to do.

Your reply is the smartest one here. The truth doesn't always set you free, OP. Wait for Nephew to introduce you to her then play along with how she reacts to seeing you. But my bet is she'll say something along the lines of, "Oh hey. Your Nephew has told me alot about you..."

Just play along forever, Bro.

Well the Toto stays in the family...what is good for A is good for B. She has two engineers that has read her manual in the same family...so servicing wont be a problem.

SIRmanjar:
Pls don't try it o,they might continue from where they stopped behind your back..It has happened to so many people that married there junior brothers ex.They will continue especially if the guy is good in bed ad richer than you along the line.
Apart from that how you go marry woman wey your brother or frend don see,use her body finish..NEVER!

a typical Nigerian with low sense of reasoning .....mtchewwwww

Op are you married?

Youdondeymad:
Thanks


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Don't tell your cousin anything.

Just be looking and attend their wedding.

Beside the lady was not your wife. Even if she's your wife what's the big deal.

There's no issue here abeg....

Youdondeymad:
I don't know what to do,he has my pictures in his phone,I don't know what the lady would tell her about me.You know love is crazy,I don't want family wahala.


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WTF bro? There's no biggie Atall bro. No need telling your bro. WATS buried is buried + there's no reason whatsoever why u shouldn't attend cmon

Left to me I will just keep quiet....and let their love continue

For me, it's simple; No! No!! No!!! and Hell no!!!!

[quote author=CountDooku post=56258388]Well the Toto stays in the family...what is good for A is good for B. She has two engineers that has read her manual in the same family...so servicing wont be a problem.[/quote
its important we think before we talk and not talk before thinking. maturity no be age.

Youdondeymad:
Good morning peeps, I have been pondering about this issue since last week.

I was chatting with my nephew on whassapp few days ago,while we were chatting, I observed something strange. He is planning to settle down with his fiancee very soon, I was surprised when I saw the picture of his fiancee but I pretended as if I don't know her. I have dated this babe before (to be honest), I dated her after I broke up with my first love few years ago. We dated for 2 years and 3 months, I don't really know what to do. I don't want to burst my nephew's bubbles because he is so much in love, I don't have any problem with their union but I'm planning to avoid the marriage.

Am I right or wrong, please no bashing or insults, thank you all.

What is "Strange" about the relationship?

Op, youdondeymad?

NO

CountDooku:
Well the Toto stays in the family...what is good for A is good for B. She has two engineers that has read her manual in the same family...so servicing wont be a problem.

its important we reason before we talk and not talk before reasoning . maturity no be age.

Ask your nephew dis same question, nd hear him out, den u can now deside what to do through his reply

never

ovadozes:

What do u mean by the bolded, sounds incoherent

Edited. Sorry

More like u snatched the babe. Come on man speak da truth n shame di devil!!

nkwuocha1:


I married a friend's ex

Youdondeymad:
He is the son of my uncle(my mum's elder brother).I'm not jealous(never) but I'm just trying to play safe.I don't know what would happen if I attend the wedding,we've not seen each other since we broke up.

so u dnt knw d diff btwn nephew and cousin as old as u are

as for me ,i cant！except i wasnt aware n we've gone in soo deep dat derz no turnin back as ur case may be！u can keep quiet about it but u hav to maintain dat distance frm them. women dont forget tins easily b4 her emotions strts actin up n u both find ur selfs doin things all ova again！bangin a girl for two yrs is a long time i jst cant ooh

Nothing wrong if you must attend the wedding. But first visit her in company with your nephew and see her reaction. she might be the one to tell your nephew about you, if you are lucky, you may not be 'enemy of progress' to your nephew.

Sex is what you can't take back frm a guy!

heee! "dream that can never be fulfilled" It leads to generational CURSE

What is capital of Edo

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C-bDkXvdyoM

Never! I will never carry my friends' 'left-over' unless i didn't know about their affair.

sorepco:
More like u snatched the babe. Come on man speak da truth n shame di devil!!

Lol. Didn't snatch no babe. He got married before I did.