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Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Nobody: 10:29am On May 06, 2017 |
Youdondeymad:Another question. People marry Widows of dear friends as a good way of paying back to families, Crippled..... People even marry 5th hand women, so what's all these |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by tjskii(f): 10:30am On May 06, 2017 |
It would probably feel weird,but I can convince myself eventually,not to see it as a big deal 3 Likes |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Otapipia: 10:30am On May 06, 2017 |
Youdondeymad:You've got to let him know. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by BlaQWolf: 10:30am On May 06, 2017 |
Mynd44: Mynd I don't think I can concur to your assertions ... They dated yes and it didn't work out so what? The guy code will only involve him letting his nephew know they once had something and it should end at that... Them getting married is totally none of his biz andnhe should just get over it and attend the wedding and even wish them well... The past is the past for a reason unless he wants to say something deeply wrong about the girl.... Dude is just jealous ...QED 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by MzJin(f): 10:31am On May 06, 2017 |
Youdondeymad: |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by sepalapen(m): 10:31am On May 06, 2017 |
somebody' s future is at stake here . if you love your cousin you have to tell him and if the lady in question is a good material then advice him to go on . just sit your cousin down talk to him not on phone or chat . |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Fourwinds: 10:31am On May 06, 2017 |
Youdondeymad:y are u afraid of him settling down with d girl.? it is simply because u don bang her well well |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by kidgenious(m): 10:32am On May 06, 2017 |
Youdondeymad:Follow ur instincts bro....if the babe is a nice chick, tell him. if otherwise let him know. what's done's done already. i think if your revelation affects his decision to marry then he wasn't probably sure of the babe before. either wish u luck 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by eph12(m): 10:32am On May 06, 2017 |
My friends? I'm not sure o. They go don smash her scatter. Well there are some calm ones among them sha. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Nobody: 10:33am On May 06, 2017 |
Youdondeymad:bro I always believe in that word called destiny. although we may reshape it but trust me we can only shape about 30% and 50% is the will of God and 20% may be our negligence or jealousy, coincidence . what am saying is, bygone be bygone and let the past be the past, don't spoil someone's else happiness. let your nephew pray over it and know if she's his destined wife and if yes they are good to go. its just in Nigeria that once you breakup with your partner, both of you won't cross one line. its absolutely none of your business now. God doesn't make mistakes. 3 Likes |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Youdondeymad: 10:35am On May 06, 2017 |
nkwuocha1:Are you still communicating,what was his reactions?I'm very sorry for being inquisitive. 3 |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Lexusgs430: 10:35am On May 06, 2017 |
Youdondeymad: Just look away ..... Your Wife/girlfriend would be someone else's ex ....... We are all recycling ourselves, directly or indirectly ....... |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Fourwinds: 10:36am On May 06, 2017 |
Kondomatic:now u are talking...d OP was too economical with d truth |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by amuijiji: 10:36am On May 06, 2017 |
There is every possibility the gal knows you re her fiancée cousin nd she ain't bothered, so why killing ursef The only problem I see here is YOU, kill the hate u ve for ur Ex so that when u see her u can hold conversation not to arouse the suspicion of ur cousin that there is bad blood somewhere. She is already pretending not to know you, do same niccur.. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Nobody: 10:37am On May 06, 2017 |
Mynd44: I just hate you for no reason |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Nobody: 10:37am On May 06, 2017 |
That she once dated you does not mean you guys will continue your relatiobship. I think you should tell your nephew to invite her so you both can have a private chat. I am sure she will be shocked to know that you are a relative to her fiance. Tell her she is safe getting marrried to your nephew, but encourage her to inform her fiance about your past relationship with her or you can inform the guy yourself. But let her be aware of it first. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Youdondeymad: 10:38am On May 06, 2017 |
Lexusgs430:I know but I won't date any of my friend or sibling's ex. 3 |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by VERDA: 10:38am On May 06, 2017 |
Bumbae1: Left over??,I am sure you have an Ex, are you his leftover?? ,I understand it might be somehow getting married to someone a friend or brother has dated but calling them leftover is taking it too far. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Nobody: 10:38am On May 06, 2017 |
Mynd44:Morning ! Yes guess you are right but i meant that asin you know the person history .. we are all leftovers except bolded.. but at least we dont know their history or relationship antics (friends) you know each other so kinda weird |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Nobody: 10:38am On May 06, 2017 |
This is why every woman should really evaluate the emotional intelligence of a man before dating him. If he's happy and she's good to him, what exactly is your business? In what world is it solely your responsibility to divulge that information when it was something that happened between 2 people? (You and the girl) I take it that you do not have much going on for you else you wouldn't obsess so much about who your cousin is with to the extent of bringing it here. MIND YOUR BUSINESS. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Motolank: 10:39am On May 06, 2017 |
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Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Nobody: 10:39am On May 06, 2017 |
VERDA:It's like .. pls read it properly Figure of speech .. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Fourwinds: 10:40am On May 06, 2017 |
SIRmanjar:u misunderstood the content of d text...pls go and read it again.....ur responds is weird |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by tragergeorge(m): 10:43am On May 06, 2017 |
Youdondeymad:the way you DE talk so e be like say your emotions don wake up for the girl o abi d marriage DE pain you, I understand how you feeling bro, even if na outsider she DE marry and your hear you gonna have dis strange feeling unless you nor love the girl before, u even say since una break up u nd her never see(How's dat possible?) so I'm not surprised with your feelings, ND e com go be ur cousin, eya sowie BUT MY BROTHERS IT'S NOTHING OK, unless the girl is a bad person den it's a big deal if not I see nothing here, telling him or not no change anything, d girl fit don even tell am about you sef, they are already getting married and I believe dem don pass through better challenges yet DE are still SAILING, abi u get girl wen be Virgin for ur cousin? 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Vicolan: 10:44am On May 06, 2017 |
I'm not seeing anything big here...Tell him for Christ sake, if it God's wish they shd be together no matter what you tell him will change God's plan.. Thanks |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Youdondeymad: 10:44am On May 06, 2017 |
Fourwinds:Naaaaa,I don't want to attend the wedding because I want them to be happy.But what would happen if my cousin discover the truth from another source.Their union is none of my business,I have moved on 3 |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by merxi55(f): 10:45am On May 06, 2017 |
Off course you should mind your business.. .so long she's no more your girlfriend. Let them be. She's your ex doesn't mean she can't get married to someone that deserves her, makes her happy and would wanna stick to her forever. If she the girl isn't bothered, why do you have to stress yourself. Please if you can't add to their lives,do not put asunder. She deserves better Biko. If you were busy, you won't even have such time...find something doing. Wish them well and think about your own life and how you'll get married to someone's ex. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Lexusgs430: 10:46am On May 06, 2017 |
Youdondeymad: What about not realising their historical dating history ? You are married to a lady, 10 years down the line, you accidentally bump into an old friend. WOOLAH, you wife was his 1st girlfriend ..... Would you divorce your wife ? |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by mickeymimi: 10:48am On May 06, 2017 |
abeg....if that person has dated your siblings ......NO ...not advisable to date them .......how can you feel comfortable with that?.....are you going to put your family relationship at risk ........ when there are billions of people in the world to choose from...... ..........even if you don t get along with your sibling..........It can create a lot of resentment that will be permanent in the family.......they might no longer want you to visit them again ......especially women......they could be sacred of you sleeping with their husbands.... If that person has dated your Friends.......It is likely to destroy the trust and the relationship you have with that friend.....when coming out of a relationship, a friend should be there as a strong supportive shoulder. If they begin to date the woman you were seeing, it can feel like an extra knife in the back, particularly if you were in a long term relationship............... The best thing to do with the friend is .....Have a talk. Even if it hurts your pride, check with the friend ....if that it's OK.......but then some people will just part ways with the friend..............and put their affection or love first........Friends are just social group .......while relationship is more stronger....... |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by mecc: 10:48am On May 06, 2017 |
Amebo |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by dokiOloye(m): 10:48am On May 06, 2017 |
Bumbae1:You are probably a male hiding under a female moniker or U wouldn't have called your fellow woman 'leftover' as if a human being created by God can be likened to something like grocery. Shame on U,even if U are a male. So if U see a good guy/girl who your cousin was foolish enough to let go due to his own immaturity or misbehaviour, u will not marry him/her cos of that childish reason? The person U will eventually marry,is he/she not someone else's 'leftover' according to U? Nairaland really needs age restrictions on certain topics. |
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