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Re: Wife Not A Virgin On Wedding Night As Claimed, What Will You Do? by Adeoluwa7070(m): 10:07am On Jun 13, 2017
ikbnice:
not that, it's on agreement. But if she isn't, I will drill another hole and conquer another territory. If all territories have been conquered beforehand. I will leave my dickprint as a as a symbol that I was there.
guy u get problems
Re: Wife Not A Virgin On Wedding Night As Claimed, What Will You Do? by ApBlaze10: 10:08am On Jun 13, 2017
Well, as a christian the Bible says if anyone be in Christ old things are past away and behold all things are become new. if she told you the truth about herself (that is she is no more a virgin) before your wedding, fine, but if she didn't and allow you to discover at your wedding night, man at first I will blame myself for failing God. I talk in line with the Bible... the Bible says "I will instruct thee and teach thee in the way which thou shalt go, I will guide thee with mine eye" (Psalm 32:cool. As a man of God, God should be the one to guide me.

well all I'm trying to say is this...anyone who is led by God would always get to His destination. Want good marriage? a good relationship with Jesus Christ would give you a good marriage and a good home. God bless you all!

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Re: Wife Not A Virgin On Wedding Night As Claimed, What Will You Do? by MzJin(f): 10:25am On Jun 13, 2017
[quote author=oyonu post=57463016]
first of all, I don't have any relation that would tell that magnitude of lie. why should you lie when we all know that's hard to see a virgin? also the man in your quote above didn't tell a lie. He has a child out of wedlock that makes him perfectly single cause He's not married. No man would deny his child cause he wants to marry at least I for one

Weldone Sir
Re: Wife Not A Virgin On Wedding Night As Claimed, What Will You Do? by MzJin(f): 10:26am On Jun 13, 2017
safetyInspector:
My Dear no matter how you are trying to defend this, let it be known to you that dishonesty and marriage don't walk together. Be it on the side of the man or the woman, it is very wrong. I believe it wasn't a case of been virgin or not but that of trust. I married my wife as a virgin but she had over four ex boy friends yet I got married to her. So Sis. Dishonesty is no good in marriage.





Tnks Sir .....ur opinion ......but still ppl can change i beliv....men lie too .......n virginity is priceless to me i know but wuldnt b a reason to break a vow....
Re: Wife Not A Virgin On Wedding Night As Claimed, What Will You Do? by MzJin(f): 10:31am On Jun 13, 2017
Loop1:



I hope you have not been lying to your boyfriend that you are virgin while you are not .

Someone like me will end the marriage immediately I find out because I must have ask you several times during the relationship to come out clean so that I can stop expecting to see a brand new pus.sy.

And yes I am not getting married to her virginity , I am getting married to her integrity .and if your wife failed integrity test just in one night of your marriage it is better you exit such marriage before it becomes too late ..





Em so sorry why shuld i lie.......besides not all women get deflowered out of mere consensual sexual activity. .....besides av met virgins who kip up via masturbation n pure ones as well.....its by luck for some folkes toooo.....but i still of d opinion dat somr issues can b overlooked 4 life to move on.....we all are imperfect m weak at some point......not like em defending d lady.....but little act of love can bring out d best in ppl.....
Re: Wife Not A Virgin On Wedding Night As Claimed, What Will You Do? by MzJin(f): 10:32am On Jun 13, 2017
Loop1:



I hope you have not been lying to your boyfriend that you are virgin while you are not .

Someone like me will end the marriage immediately I find out because I must have ask you several times during the relationship to come out clean so that I can stop expecting to see a brand new pus.sy.

And yes I am not getting married to her virginity , I am getting married to her integrity .and if your wife failed integrity test just in one night of your marriage it is better you exit such marriage before it becomes too late ..





Em so sorry why shuld i lie.......besides not all women get deflowered out of mere consensual sexual activity. .....besides av met virgins who kip up via masturbation n pure ones as well.....its by luck for some folkes toooo.....but i still of d opinion dat somr issues can b overlooked 4 life to move on.....we all are imperfect m weak at some point......not like em defending d lady.....but little act of love can bring out d best in ppl.....
Re: Wife Not A Virgin On Wedding Night As Claimed, What Will You Do? by MzJin(f): 10:33am On Jun 13, 2017
Tiffbuxas:
he said he's single he didnt lie... He might be a single father...


Buh the bottom line is that she's not a sincere person and she will always lie in the marriage... Only God knows the lies she has been telling all tru d relationship.

All the sisters conference she was attending all the switching off fone @ night Ah!! Men have suffer ooo



Besides not all women get deflowered out of mere consensual sexual activity. .....besides av met virgins who kip up via masturbation n pure ones as well.....its by luck for some folkes toooo.....but i still of d opinion dat some issues can b overlooked 4 life to move on.....we all are imperfect n weak at some point......not like em defending d lady.....but little act of love can bring out d best in ppl.....

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Re: Wife Not A Virgin On Wedding Night As Claimed, What Will You Do? by Daniel2289(m): 10:41am On Jun 13, 2017
bonifieldstun:
lol my guy I sight u thoo but that lie is before the weeding and u found out after, the lie is just a prelim or should I say its just the beginning of a blissful marriage of lies
I understand u quite well bro.
Re: Wife Not A Virgin On Wedding Night As Claimed, What Will You Do? by Daniel2289(m): 10:43am On Jun 13, 2017
MzJin:




Besides not all women get deflowered out of mere consensual sexual activity. .....besides av met virgins who kip up via masturbation n pure ones as well.....its by luck for some folkes toooo.....but i still of d opinion dat some issues can b overlooked 4 life to move on.....we all are imperfect n weak at some point......not like em defending d lady.....but little act of love can bring out d best in ppl.....
Nice one. One like for you.
Re: Wife Not A Virgin On Wedding Night As Claimed, What Will You Do? by Daniel2289(m): 10:54am On Jun 13, 2017
Soft band:
you are playing tumbo tumbo with your life
Bro C'mon. You want to leave her just because the Hole in not intact?? That is to say, u didn't even loved her in they first place. GO AND READ THIS BOOK "Where is Love, when it Hurts".
Have it in mind that not all are Blocked at first. She can use her hand to widen the Hole, and still b a vir.gin.
Besides, you have also bursted many holes. So why will you eat your cake and have it?? So take it as you see it.
Re: Wife Not A Virgin On Wedding Night As Claimed, What Will You Do? by Loop1: 10:56am On Jun 13, 2017
MzJin:






Em so sorry why shuld i lie.......besides not all women get deflowered out of mere consensual sexual activity. .....besides av met virgins who kip up via masturbation n pure ones as well.....its by luck for some folkes toooo.....but i still of d opinion dat somr issues can b overlooked 4 life to move on.....we all are imperfect m weak at some point......not like em defending d lady.....but little act of love can bring out d best in ppl.....


I insist this time around .if at any time a man or a woman finds out the person he/she is getting married to made known to him/her a false stand .such marriage should be discontinued .

There is a yoruba addage that says ."oku ki fi ara pamo fun eni tomasin" .meaning a dead body has nothing to hide from someone who would clean him/her up .

We all have our imperfection ,yes I agree but one should never overlook infidelity from someone who we are to spend the rest of our life with .someone who directly represent our halves . Love is built on trust .You can only love someone you trust .

If your to be husband lied about having 30 billion and he never deem it fit to tell you the truth before sworing the oath of marriage .seek for a divorce or you will regret it for the rest of your life .let stop deceiving ourselves with the forever and ever statement .

Forever and ever only is based on the terms and condition we both agreed on before marriage .

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Re: Wife Not A Virgin On Wedding Night As Claimed, What Will You Do? by MzJin(f): 11:06am On Jun 13, 2017
Daniel2289:

Nice one. One like for you.



Tnks Mr. Dan for this .....life is simple without making a hill out of a mole.......tnkks....i rest my case
Re: Wife Not A Virgin On Wedding Night As Claimed, What Will You Do? by MzJin(f): 11:08am On Jun 13, 2017
Loop1:



I insist this time around .if at any time a man or a woman finds out the person he/she is getting married to made known to him/her a false stand .such marriage should be discontinued .

There is a yoruba addage that says ."oku ki fi ara pamo fun eni tomasin" .meaning a dead body has nothing to hide from someone who would clean him/her up .

We all have our imperfection ,yes I agree but one should never overlook infidelity from someone who we are to spend the rest of our life with .someone who directly represent our halves . Love is built on trust .You can only love someone you trust .

If your to be husband lied about having 30 billion and he never deem it fit to tell you the truth before sworing the oath of marriage .seek for a divorce or you will regret it for the rest of your life .let stop deceiving ourselves with the forever and ever statement .

Forever and ever only is based on the terms and condition we both agreed on before marriage .




Oga u like reasonable reasoning pass fight. .....life is simple wen u dnt make hell out of a mole......i live u to ur own opinion. ........i rest ma case at dis point Sir.....
Re: Wife Not A Virgin On Wedding Night As Claimed, What Will You Do? by Loop1: 11:16am On Jun 13, 2017
MzJin:





Oga u like reasonable reasoning pass fight. .....life is simple wen u dnt make hell out of a mole......i live u to ur own opinion. ........i rest ma case at dis point Sir.....

Enjoy your day Madame .
Re: Wife Not A Virgin On Wedding Night As Claimed, What Will You Do? by EngrBello(m): 11:19am On Jun 13, 2017
bolinjkezzy:

Have never for ones value you being a virgin(though it does have its advantage)...I believe that wouldnt make you an ideal wife

you've quoted a wrong person,Man

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Re: Wife Not A Virgin On Wedding Night As Claimed, What Will You Do? by Originalsly: 11:20am On Jun 13, 2017
1StopRudeness:


What are u sitting her down to figure out? A woman u dated for years or months, went to marriage counselling with u in front of religious pple, saw ur parents, family friends,she had several opportunities to tell u d truth, but ddnt, conscience ddnt even worry her.

this kinda deception is the type that makes a man feel a that woman never loved him Cos he is bound to find out on that same Saturday night, these are the kinda of women that have "nothin go happen" kinda attitude, ready to tell another lie to cover the initial lie. Having the "After all,we we just fight and settle it notion" ....
how on earth do u feel wateva will come out of that hole on her face called mouth will now be the truth?
All these pple above saying I will send her packing, u think it's virginity that's worrying them? It's trust issues thats the problem now.
Bro.... a woman can lose her virginity and don't know. If you're dealing with women then you should learn about them.... knowledge is now at our fingertips.
Re: Wife Not A Virgin On Wedding Night As Claimed, What Will You Do? by Nobody: 11:23am On Jun 13, 2017
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Re: Wife Not A Virgin On Wedding Night As Claimed, What Will You Do? by ikbnice(m): 11:25am On Jun 13, 2017
Adeoluwa7070:
guy u get problems
big ones
Re: Wife Not A Virgin On Wedding Night As Claimed, What Will You Do? by oneape: 11:51am On Jun 13, 2017
ujudiaz:
I have 2 kids,and I'm in my husbands house chilling,come and beat me!
did yoy marry him a virgin? undecided

Will beat you if you keep talking rubbish
Re: Wife Not A Virgin On Wedding Night As Claimed, What Will You Do? by oyonu(m): 12:17pm On Jun 13, 2017
[quote author=MzJin post=57473343][/quote] Thank you ma!
Re: Wife Not A Virgin On Wedding Night As Claimed, What Will You Do? by Nobody: 12:36pm On Jun 13, 2017
Originalsly:
Bro.... a woman can lose her virginity and don't know. If you're dealing with women then you should learn about them.... knowledge is now at our fingertips.

Go and allow woman to be deceiving you with knowledge....

women that their hymen somehow break due to rigorous sport exercise conditions is not a regular occurrence...and when it actually does happen, the vaginal opening doesn't look and feel like a free way....the difference is usually that they don't bleed ....cos a partial rupture had initially taken place cos of their sport life....it doesn't mean a complete 100 percent collapse of hymen skin fold...

You think nature that put that thing there during life formation doesn't know what he's doing...go and allow retired Olosho to scope with previous sport life, or accidental breakage of hymen....

#ayaf year you

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Re: Wife Not A Virgin On Wedding Night As Claimed, What Will You Do? by Originalsly: 1:37pm On Jun 13, 2017
1StopRudeness:


Go and allow woman to be deceiving you with knowledge....

women that their hymen somehow break due to rigorous sport exercise conditions is not a regular occurrence...and when it actually does happen, the vaginal opening doesn't look and feel like a free way....the difference is usually that they don't bleed ....cos a partial rupture had initially taken place cos of their sport life....it doesn't mean a complete 100 percent collapse of hymen skin fold...

You think nature that put that thing there during life formation doesn't know what he's doing...go and allow retired Olosho to scope with previous sport life, or accidental breakage of hymen....

#ayaf year you
Didn't I say almost... almost always the woman had sex before?...your comment still basically says every woman ...every woman that claims she is virgin and found not to be is a liar.
Re: Wife Not A Virgin On Wedding Night As Claimed, What Will You Do? by Maccoy507: 1:51pm On Jun 13, 2017
tosyne2much:
Hahahaha.. It's not going to be funny sha cheesy


Below is my judgement
hahahahhahah I can't stop laughing. you off all people I thought u were team mature minds.
Re: Wife Not A Virgin On Wedding Night As Claimed, What Will You Do? by isahsalee: 1:53pm On Jun 13, 2017
Are your yourself a virgin? if your answer is yes, then don't go on with wedding but, if otherwise, you have no choice than to continue.
Re: Wife Not A Virgin On Wedding Night As Claimed, What Will You Do? by singlejay01: 1:56pm On Jun 13, 2017
,,,,lol.she is going back home o. deceit at its height

Re: Wife Not A Virgin On Wedding Night As Claimed, What Will You Do? by singlejay01: 2:04pm On Jun 13, 2017
deceit..........

Re: Wife Not A Virgin On Wedding Night As Claimed, What Will You Do? by Chrisjordan2015(m): 2:05pm On Jun 13, 2017
The problem gets worse as science advances. A hymen can be scientifically re-engineered to replace tge lost one. In this scenerio, even an olosho can claim she has never kissed before!
Re: Wife Not A Virgin On Wedding Night As Claimed, What Will You Do? by Maccoy507: 2:06pm On Jun 13, 2017
Daboomb:


Stop acting dumb!
Do you even understand the meaning of the phrase Virginity?

Do men have any Hymen that is broken, the first time they have sex?
Have you even ever wondered why God/nature made it so?

Do you wonder why it is women that carry pregnancy ....and men dont, even when it is both of them that had the sex leading to the pregnancy?

It is men that need protection, from devilish women like you! grin grin
grin
Daboomb:


Stop acting dumb!
Do you even understand the meaning of the phrase Virginity?

Do men have any Hymen that is broken, the first time they have sex?
Have you even ever wondered why God/nature made it so?

Do you wonder why it is women that carry pregnancy ....and men dont, even when it is both of them that had the sex leading to the pregnancy?

It is men that need protection, from devilish women like you!
grin grin haba Bro u no get chil at all. Do you want her to have nightmares. Hagrin grin
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That marriage will be annulled sharpish o! No dulling, no shaking, plenty moneymaking! cool cool cool

But on a more serious note, there is no way on God's green earth that I would stay in that marriage.

Some will think that this is a high-handed action, even possibly invoking marital vows "...for better, for worse..." or even extolling Christian values of forgiving and moving on. However, such people are missing the point: This is a major breach of trust and it is not just as simple as lying; the lady in question would've been in a relationship with you for a considerable period of time, even a number of years, where the guy will have to accept her not wanting to be intimate at all, forming 'toosh', no major intimacy etc., the man would have to deny himself and essentially be celibate (assuming he's faithful).

Furthermore, not that I am firm on the idea of paying bride prices etc., factors such as being a 'virgin' will inflate the price. When you consider aggregate of sacrifices that would be incurred on the groom's part, you now realise just how much of betrayal that this would be.

It may sound extreme to say this, but if a lady can lie about her virginity, it raises the question of what other important lies she has told you or even will tell you. What other skeletons are in her closet? etc. As you can see a Pandora's box will now open.

So hopefully you can see why I believe that the marriage would be dead henceforth.

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Re: Wife Not A Virgin On Wedding Night As Claimed, What Will You Do? by Nobody: 2:31pm On Jun 13, 2017
Originalsly:
Didn't I say almost... almost always the woman had sex before?...your comment still basically says every woman ...every woman that claims she is virgin and found not to be is a liar.

Have u even ever had sex with these categories of women before..? Cos to me it seems like u are just talking based on medical hymen facts

Becos if u have...you don't need to sit a lady that her hymen truly broke due to sport activities or accident to ask her what happened after u penetrated her...the difference is too clear and cannot be mistaken for lady that has had hundreds of sexual experience scoping u to cover up the initial virgin lie...

This lie is a lot common than u think especially when ladies meet guys that are virgins.....there was a time I usually scope ladies that i'm a virgin back in campus cos I notice SOME ladies usually give in easily when they feel you are a virgin guy and the idea you want to chop and clean mouth is not easily noticed..
I can tell u from my experience 5 out of every 6 girls I met either say they are pure virgins or they broke their hymen with candle or finger by mistake in high school or they have only had sex just once...becos they just felt I won't be able to tell the difference....i just yinmu at them...
Re: Wife Not A Virgin On Wedding Night As Claimed, What Will You Do? by poik(m): 2:33pm On Jun 13, 2017
Daniel2289:
If God can forgive, who then is me that can not forgive. like one person post here that we all have a past, and which is through. So, I will still forgive her. But I will have to scold her very well, for lying to me.


Line of license. I am sure the ladies will like this a lot. Just supposing the guy kept himself nko? It will be too disappointing and painful. To say forgive is easy when its not you. By the Scriptures, that man is allowed to put her away. God is the truth and what God has joined together nothing can put asunder. when its a lie nko? A woman MUST tell her husband all she did with her body before meeting him, if he can take her,fine, if not, it ends. else, if he finds out in the marriage, he is Scripturally free to free her.

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