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Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by tosyne2much(m): 8:35am On Jul 20, 2017 |
SACI:I understand the fact that the man violated his marriage vow but then, the side chic too has to take a fair blame nah 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by monex(m): 8:37am On Jul 20, 2017 |
ibkayee: If na Marriage then I will agree with the bolded. However, the lines of a relationship are blurred. Most ladies guys toast and go out with were probably in a relationship with some other guy. sometimes one party thinks the relationship is still on while another party thinks it is ended or hasnt begun etc. |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by cococandy(f): 8:42am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Martin0:You do know a woman can get a suitor who she's not dating right? It's left for her to agree to consider him for marriage upon which they enter into dating also known as courtship. Right? You do know that she may know this person on a superficial level but they may not be dating or even friends when he makes his wish known. I feel like I'm talking to a child. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by FRANKOSKI(m): 8:42am On Jul 20, 2017 |
All chillies are hot, all women are jealous. What do you see when you change clothes.. ...even in church? Gosh! 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by monex(m): 8:43am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Asorockqueen: you are not getting it. the world is an evil world and side-chick owes the wife no favours. However, the man is obligated to uphold his marital vows. He is the prime antagonist in the story. truth is most men do not cheat because they do not respect their wives. We cheat because we lack the discipline/self control needed to be faithful. So lets bring up our boys to embrace mortification and self-control and hopefully, the next generation of boys will be better than our generation. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Martin0(m): 8:51am On Jul 20, 2017 |
cococandy:yeah and you are trying to tell me you can aswell be going out with a married man without knowing his married right? @20 you can't distinguish btw Date,courtship,or walking out as u said?hmmmm na wa ooo U said you felt he was up to something right? Then why still going out with him even when u are suspecting him? Now u said the wife called on one faithful day,probably giving you warnings right,? Now what were you words to her at that moment to justify you innocent? |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Barzinime(m): 8:54am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Who is he cheating with? Bobrisky? Another girl that knows that he is married..you girls are the cause of your problems pocohantas: 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Lionessza(f): 8:56am On Jul 20, 2017 |
sunshineG: Oh !please stop with the bulsht already . Those are minority cases compared to the overwhelming cases of men deliberately having affairs. I have first hand experience and so do some close friends. I have been approached by men whom I found out were married. Did I bewitch them ? Nope . So what you are saying is pure crap son . For instance we have white people here that don't believe in the voodoo thing , yet their husbands have affairs left right and center. Are their sidechicks using muti ? Gtfoh with that bs 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by ddjay: 8:56am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Asorockqueen:and etc.....; |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Blackhawk03(f): 8:57am On Jul 20, 2017 |
monex: I love you, love you, love you, love you.
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Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Nobody: 8:57am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Was i talking to you? No time for nosy idiots abeg. Aye101: |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by riyanxeally(f): 9:10am On Jul 20, 2017 |
frst n foremost those women re fools secondly if he cheats mke him regret it..hes d one at fault not d byatch most times the men lie to side chics that thy are unmarried n open up wen its complex n d gal is in love...some of those gals too ve no ties watever wt d men just dir money..some men too just take advantage of d gal too fr diff reasons..its a complex wrld but all in all..the side byatch shldnt be d target..xcept she crosses my territory den she ll know there re ways to get away wt murder |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Nobody: 9:19am On Jul 20, 2017 |
frenzyduchess: i'm quitting the forum but i'll drop this before i leave.... yes we have weaknesses..we grow to control them daily..n not all of us are promiscious despite weakness... plus...it's women we cheat on not men...whose fault is it..? if there are no sharpeners, pencils would remain blunt... Good luck |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Nobody: 9:20am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Blackhawk03: Before i deactivate my account and quit the forum, please how many guys did you say you turned down ? |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Nobody: 9:21am On Jul 20, 2017 |
RaggedyAnn: \ Bye guys.... catch ya'all later |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Blackhawk03(f): 9:22am On Jul 20, 2017 |
connectpoint: Hafar Over ten guys |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Nobody: 9:22am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Thanks, i get the full gist RaggedyAnn: |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Nobody: 9:22am On Jul 20, 2017 |
1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by InMyOpinion(m): 9:24am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Because most of the wives today were also side chics - a little bit of Karma. Sad truth! |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Blackhawk03(f): 9:24am On Jul 20, 2017 |
connectpoint: Buhbye Baeby. Take care of you and keep it real. |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Nobody: 9:35am On Jul 20, 2017 |
sunshineG: Diabolical means meaning juju? Smh. People aren't just plucked out of thin air for that sort of thing (for those that believe it). Otherwise some girl in Eket might have tied herself to Dangote. In fact, he would be a target for countless women, and he would be running from side chick to side chick, never getting any work done and hemorrhaging money on designer shoes and hair extensions. No. They would still need to make contact with him first. Too many married men put themselves in compromising positions and leave themselves vulnerable to this; often because they had questionable motives themselves. And blackmail? How did she get something to hold over your head if you didn't get caught doing something you shouldn't be doing? Take responsibility for your actions. The first time a married man toasted me I was a very naive fourteen years of age. I didn't own anything even remotely slutty or provocative and there was no blackmail or juju involved. Just a bored, irresponsible man with no respect for the home he was building. I have never condescended to indulging these kinds of people, but there's no denying that there are a lot of them out there. And because of the harsh economic realities or individual greed, some young girls compromise themselves for financial gains when such men offer it. And now, since you changed the subject...... Being dissatisfied in the sack is no justification for cheating. For either spouse. A woman who has sex outside her marriage is just as much to blame for putting the marriage in peril as a man would be if the situation were reversed. If you aren't being taken care of sexually, you owe it to your spouse to communicate with them; and where all efforts fail, you can decide to get separated from each other, or even have an "open marriage" (where sexual promiscuity is sanctioned by both spouses). I would never agree to this; I'm too primitive for it, but there are emotionally evolved people who can manage that for the sake of other gains in the relationship. It's not 'cheating' if there is consent and no secrecy. By the way, that thread was about encouraging women to be vocal about their needs without slut-shaming them for it. They're as valid as the needs of men. |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by MissRaine69(f): 9:40am On Jul 20, 2017 |
There are some women that forget the age old phrase " once a mistress is married a vacancy is created" There are women who despite knowing that a man is in a relationship will not decline the advances from the man, then there are wives who will accept the presence of side chicks as long as the man keeps her in the luxury she is used to. Then you have mother in laws who will encourage their sons to replace the women they are married to because they don't like the daughter in law. Best friends who will sleep with their best friends husbands yet offer a shoulder to cry on when she is distressed. Just look at the so called celebrities side chicks fighting with wives on social media It's almost acceptable now to be a "side chick" but my point of view is yes you might get the man but you will forever be pleagued by insecurities because you lose then how you get them most times. Yes it takes two to cheat but one of you has to be responsible. |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Nobody: 9:41am On Jul 20, 2017 |
connectpoint: You! Why are you running away? Come back and say what's really on your mind. |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Nobody: 9:42am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Lionessza:whether minority or not It proves my piont that ladies are their own worst enemy Why will a lady try such Plus where did you get your info that they are in the minority |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Aye101: 9:42am On Jul 20, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:oh sorry, I forgot this was your father's house. |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by MissRaine69(f): 9:43am On Jul 20, 2017 |
InMyOpinion:True |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Nobody: 9:46am On Jul 20, 2017 |
sekem:I have this silly man whose office is in the same complex as mine. From the first day I started working he came asking questions of which I answered. I noticed he didn't stop coming or looking at me while passing by my office to the next. So last week he came again; called me out, and said he likes me and would like us to date. I laughed 'cause judging from his age to looks he should be married if I wasn't mistaken. I asked him if he was married, he smiled and said have I seen him with a woman before not to talk of wife. I simply told him "Sir!, I think you should go back to your wife. It's wrong of you to be chasing after girls when your wife is at home". He stopped talking, smiled, became uncomfortable and walked away. I still greet him, call him sir and never stopped talking to him but I can't date him 'cause my conscious dares not. Those of you saying, the men never told you they were married; did you ever ask?. Or 'cause you saw something flashy you felt you could dive in. Women are very sensitive, and a relationship between a single guy to that of a married man who's hiding his status can't be the same. Spare me the crap of I had no idea; you chose not to have an idea. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Nobody: 9:47am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Asorockqueen:Lolz |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by babanez: 9:47am On Jul 20, 2017 |
monogamy was never an african thing...we are geneticaly codified to be polygamous. |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by boiz2men(m): 9:51am On Jul 20, 2017 |
cococandy: k |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Nobody: 9:52am On Jul 20, 2017 |
RaggedyAnn:bravo You used your case to generalize, now like I have said a million times men are not innocent Your case is not the reasons for my assertions So you are saying you haven't heard of ladies snatching husband without any attempt from the man in the first place You haven't heard of ladies going to parties just to use diabolical means to snach an unsuspecting men ? Really About dangote, do you know how many wives he has, I am not passing judgments here, but some might have just used diabolical means One can be too sure I am glad you don't support infidelity of any kind But you didn't answer my question Will you blame the wife alone, If she finds satisfaction outside the marriage Say for example she didn't want to end the marriage |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Nobody: 9:58am On Jul 20, 2017 |
RaggedyAnn: You're too intelligent...Ann ... The forum is too much work abeg.. it's worse than labour..can't cope...The forum isin good hands if your clique are around..just take it easy on my brothers plz |
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