AHCB:
How can they know. Dude, if you take a look at the set of humans who scream about this self love of a thing, you'll get to understand why they really scream about self love. Many of them don't even know what it means to love another person. Then again, how can they love another person when they're busy loving themselves

It is just like those chronic masturbators. They spend all their time fvcking themselves they totally don't know what it means to fvck another... Like how can they truly know the joy of fvcking a girl when they spend all their time fvcking themselves

It is just like those chronic masturbators. They spend all their time fvcking themselves they totally don't know what it means to fvck another... Like how can they truly know the joy of fvcking a girl when they spend all their time fvcking themselves grin cheesy


This is absolutely hilarious. You cracked me up with this one. Anyways, love is internalized and then externalized. Self-love is just a faulty logic, when ever we come up with new dogmas, i tell myself it's a hoax

tessygirl:


are you scared that I would open up our history? I won't darling till you provoke me to do it. I wouldn't mind to entertain Romance land with our Drama. No one has seen me except you, but I know you have so much friends and the shame would be on you. #Idiot.

Spill the tea, please let our fellow sisters be cautioned

trustyshoess:
I know you're here for my head but hear me out first. So in the space on an hour, I have come across two threads relating to feminism. This is not a counter or anything as everyone is entitled to their own opinion. However I can't help but put my 2 cents in.
I seriously believe that feminism is highly misunderstood

First things first, let's define feminism; it is the advocacy of women's rights on the ground of the equality of the sexes. Notice it doesn't say feminism is a drive towards matriarchy? Well that's simple, it's not.

There are many different types of feminism but I won't be discussing all of them as that will take too much time so I urge you to use good old Google!
So I think that the kind of feminism that people think of when they hear Feminism is Radical Feminism-: Radical feminism is a movement that believes sexism is so deeply rooted in society that the only cure is to eliminate the concept of gender completely or for females to dominate.

Now that's not the kind of feminism I'm talking about. Another type of Feminism is Liberal Feminism. Liberal feminists strive towards gender equality in all areas of life. Gender equality includes men too!

So why am I a feminist? Or why do I believe in gender equality? No, it's not because I believe that men and women are equal or because I'm against submissiveness or because I want female world domination (although that would be pretty cool)
I believe in gender equality for the same reason I believe in racial equality, tribal equality and anything that has to do with fairness in general.

Of course men and women are not equal, physicality being the main difference but they're both humans and both deserve to be treated equally as a result.

Believe me there's soo much more to say, but I don't want to make this too long. Feel free to ask questions, let's see if I can get you to see why feminism isn't all that bad

Give Femism a chance, it's not as bad as people make it out to be. We all should be feminists, we all should be striving towards equality

We can never be equal mehn...Just take your second position to man and live in peace.

If you think gender equality will solve all your problems then by all means continue with your chants for it...

I stand with BiafranBushBoy

Marry husbands that agree with your point of view and stop forcing these views on us as if we getting married to your husbands for you...that way everybody goes home happy,smiling and fulfilled

Doctormarvin:
Marry husbands that agree with your point of view and stop forcing these views on us as if we getting married to your husbands for you...that way everybody goes home happy,smiling and fulfilled

True talk Doc

Safiaa:
Spill the tea, please let our fellow sisters be cautioned

Can you just read your statement again and listen to yourself...

Smh... Unfortunate tho.

BiafranBushBoy:


Can you just read your statement again and listen to yourself...

Smh... Unfortunate tho.

Hahaha


Brov go beg her offline oh

ChiefPiiko:
I stand with BiafranBushBoy

Hehehehe... Stand with me for where? Space no dey again ooo

This is why I don't call myself a "feminist". I just identify as an advocate for gender equality. ABSOLUTE gender equality, yes. People should be judged purely based on their ABILITIES. Gender is IRRELEVANT! Women are not "weaker vessels" that need "protection" as far as I'm concerned. We're equal. Oh, maybe the average man is PHYSICALLY stronger than the average woman. But why should physiology count? I've met fellow men who are PHYSICALLY STRONGER THAN ME. But you can't tell by these guys are superior to me, "by nature". You'll have to be mentally ill.

And what is "nature", by the way? Take a trip to the jungle if you want to see how nature handles things, then come back to human society to appreciate the fact that ALL the ideologies, beliefs, and orientations we live by are all MAN MADE, and none is Holy Writ or natural. They can all be CHALLENGED! They can all be CHANGED!

The word "feminist" just created 8 pages of pointless bickerings and headless discussions that have no precise direction!

Most of the people here were attacking MISANDRISTS and HYPOCRITICAL IDIOTS [who claim to be feminists, but ARE they feminists?], thinking they're attacking feminism. I could come out and call myself NAPOLEON, but would that make me Napoleon?! It would only mean I'm confused and deluded---or even mad. People can claim to be anything. It's their actions that determine WHAT THEY ARE.

I hate misandrists too---as much as I hate misogynists, but equating feminism with misandry is pure cretinism.

NightHound, I see you.

Jupxter:



Hahaha


Brov go beg her offline oh

Fact is that I don't know what she is talking about.

She don dey insult me since, and I don't really have that time with her.

Feminists are frustrated.......PERIOD
Don't extend this ur useless crusade to the good girls we have biko

Extend your frustrations to the fùck boiz who have used you

BiafranBushBoy:


Fact is that I don't know what she is talking about.

She don dey insult me since, and I don't really have that time with her.

Brov you have biz interests here oh, the Bible says agree with the judge on the way to the court, go pet her offline biko nu. Before she does what you won't like

Donaldduke2019:
Feminists are frustrated.......PERIOD

Don't extend this ur useless crusade to the good girls we have biko


Extend your frustrations to the fùck boiz who have used you

@ Extend your frustrations to the fùck boiz who have used you

QuietHammer:
Good afternoon bro. Are you a musician?

Yeah man. Why do you ask?

You want to walk alone

BiafranBushBoy:



Hehehehe... Stand with me for where? Space no dey again ooo

BiafranBushBoy:


Can you just read your statement again and listen to yourself...

Smh... Unfortunate tho.

Lol are you really taking me serious? You need to chill honestly.

IamiKayJayCee:
This is why I don't call myself a "feminist". I just identify as an advocate of gender equality. ABSOLUTE gender equality, yes. People should be judged purely based on their ABILITIES. Gender is IRRELEVANT! Women are not "weaker vessels" that need "protection" as far as I'm concerned. We're equal. Oh, maybe the average man is PHYSICALLY stronger than the average woman. But why should physiology count? I've met fellow men who are PHYSICALLY STRONGER THAN ME. But you can't tell by these guys are superior to me, "by nature". You'll have to be mentally ill.

And what is "nature", by the way? Take a trip to the jungle if you want to see how nature handle things, then come back to human society to appreciate the fact that ALL the ideologies, beliefs, and orientations we live by are all MAN MADE, and none is Holy Writ or natural. They can all be CHANGED! They can all be CHALLENGED!

The word "feminist" just created 8 pages of pointless bickerings and headless discussions that have no precise direction!

Most of the people here were attacking MISANDRISTS and HYPOCRITICAL IDIOTS [who claim to be feminists, but ARE they feminists], thinking they're attacking feminism. I could come out and call myself NAPOLEON, does that make me Napoleon?! It only means I'm confused and deluded---or even mad. People can claim to be anything. It's their actions that determine WHAT THEY ARE.

I hate misandrists too---as much as I hate misogynists, but equating feminism with misandry is pure cretinism.

NightHound, I see you.

How many years ban were you given? If you lie you'll go to hell . I'm serious I'll send you there myself

It's truly sad that someone can't say I'm a feminist because people have refused to see that feminism has only one definition, but the point you guys have is valid, it's seems it's better to say to say you're for gender equality or people won't give you a listening ear, I find that sad.

NightHound:
@OP, You're on point with this, sweetheart. You don't actually have to call yourself a feminist to be a feminist, if you don't want to. Maybe being subtle about labels is even better for the collective struggle. The important thing is that women out there are thinking like you, and that it gets the job done.

kozmicity:


Ah Kant beliv it!!!

I've yet to met an unconfused feminist. They have a mixture of pride, arrogance, depression, confusion with choices and well defined standards, they can't, even the most brilliant feminist can'tboldly give a clear and defined declaration about what feminism means and stands for

AHCB:
There's something called 'selflessness', I'll have you know. You can be worthy of another only if you truly love that person. Remember, true love isn't selfish, it is selfless.

Only greedy, self righteous, hypocritical cretins with bitter life experience scream about self love.

Thereby leaving the definition of your worth in the hands of another?
Only those without a sense of self, autonomy and will to self-actualize reason like you do. Loving oneself is holding onself accountable and not being subject to the whims and caprices of others. It is about taking ownership.

IamiKayJayCee:
This is why I don't call myself a "feminist". I just identify as an advocate for gender equality. ABSOLUTE gender equality, yes. People should be judged purely based on their ABILITIES. Gender is IRRELEVANT! Women are not "weaker vessels" that need "protection" as far as I'm concerned. We're equal. Oh, maybe the average man is PHYSICALLY stronger than the average woman. But why should physiology count? I've met fellow men who are PHYSICALLY STRONGER THAN ME. But you can't tell by these guys are superior to me, "by nature". You'll have to be mentally ill.

And what is "nature", by the way? Take a trip to the jungle if you want to see how nature handles things, then come back to human society to appreciate the fact that ALL the ideologies, beliefs, and orientations we live by are all MAN MADE, and none is Holy Writ or natural. They can all be CHALLENGED! They can all be CHANGED!

The word "feminist" just created 8 pages of pointless bickerings and headless discussions that have no precise direction!

Most of the people here were attacking MISANDRISTS and HYPOCRITICAL IDIOTS [who claim to be feminists, but ARE they feminists?], thinking they're attacking feminism. I could come out and call myself NAPOLEON, but would that make me Napoleon?! It would only mean I'm confused and deluded---or even mad. People can claim to be anything. It's their actions that determine WHAT THEY ARE.

I hate misandrists too---as much as I hate misogynists, but equating feminism with misandry is pure cretinism.

NightHound, I see you.

Chief!

shaybebaby:

Thereby leaving the definition of your worth in the hands of another?
Only those without a sense of self, autonomy and will to self-actualize reason like you do. Loving oneself is holding onself accountable and not being subject to the whims and caprices of others. It is about taking ownership.

Let me help out. Self Mastery

when y'all come to a set conclusion about feminism then I let me know abeg .. thank you

trustyshoess:
I know you're here for my head but hear me out first. So in the space on an hour, I have come across two threads relating to feminism. This is not a counter or anything as everyone is entitled to their own opinion. However I can't help but put my 2 cents in.
I seriously believe that feminism is highly misunderstood

First things first, let's define feminism; it is the advocacy of women's rights on the ground of the equality of the sexes. Notice it doesn't say feminism is a drive towards matriarchy? Well that's simple, it's not.

There are many different types of feminism but I won't be discussing all of them as that will take too much time so I urge you to use good old Google!
So I think that the kind of feminism that people think of when they hear Feminism is Radical Feminism-: Radical feminism is a movement that believes sexism is so deeply rooted in society that the only cure is to eliminate the concept of gender completely or for females to dominate.

Now that's not the kind of feminism I'm talking about. Another type of Feminism is Liberal Feminism. Liberal feminists strive towards gender equality in all areas of life. Gender equality includes men too!

So why am I a feminist? Or why do I believe in gender equality? No, it's not because I believe that men and women are equal or because I'm against submissiveness or because I want female world domination (although that would be pretty cool)
I believe in gender equality for the same reason I believe in racial equality, tribal equality and anything that has to do with fairness in general.

Of course men and women are not equal, physicality being the main difference but they're both humans and both deserve to be treated equally as a result.

Believe me there's soo much more to say, but I don't want to make this too long. Feel free to ask questions, let's see if I can get you to see why feminism isn't all that bad

Give Femism a chance, it's not as bad as people make it out to be. We all should be feminists, we all should be striving towards equality

Your last paragraph though,I'm a humanist and I also believe in equity but I have issue with radical feminism because it is the most extreme form.I'm not against liberal,cultural and socialist feminism but I'm against pretence and hypocrisy.A lot of feminists are liars and pretenders,most of them don't know what they want.

makydebbie:
Okay sir, I'm now a wife material. It's the prick I want.

for a moment you got me asking "who does this woman think I'm keeping my black rooster for"?

you ever listen to J Holiday - Bed? those are the kinda things I wanna be doing to your sexy ass_

IamiKayJayCee:
This is why I don't call myself a "feminist". I just identify as an advocate for gender equality. ABSOLUTE gender equality, yes. People should be judged purely based on their ABILITIES. Gender is IRRELEVANT! Women are not "weaker vessels" that need "protection" as far as I'm concerned. We're equal. Oh, maybe the average man is PHYSICALLY stronger than the average woman. But why should physiology count? I've met fellow men who are PHYSICALLY STRONGER THAN ME. But you can't tell by these guys are superior to me, "by nature". You'll have to be mentally ill.

And what is "nature", by the way? Take a trip to the jungle if you want to see how nature handles things, then come back to human society to appreciate the fact that ALL the ideologies, beliefs, and orientations we live by are all MAN MADE, and none is Holy Writ or natural. They can all be CHALLENGED! They can all be CHANGED!

The word "feminist" just created 8 pages of pointless bickerings and headless discussions that have no precise direction!

Most of the people here were attacking MISANDRISTS and HYPOCRITICAL IDIOTS [who claim to be feminists, but ARE they feminists?], thinking they're attacking feminism. I could come out and call myself NAPOLEON, but would that make me Napoleon?! It would only mean I'm confused and deluded---or even mad. People can claim to be anything. It's their actions that determine WHAT THEY ARE.

I hate misandrists too---as much as I hate misogynists, but equating feminism with misandry is pure cretinism.

NightHound, I see you.

Oh, it's you!!!
No wonderrr!!!!!

sirfee:
Your last paragraph though,I'm a humanist and I also believe in equity but I have issue with radical feminism because it is the most extreme form.I'm not against liberal,cultural and socialist feminism but I'm against pretence and hypocrisy.A lot of feminists are liars and pretenders,most of them don't know what they want.

Besides Shayebaby, i owe no feminist here any respect, they lack clear definition about what they want and can't say what they really want

trustyshoess:

wow, I knew it! I knew there was no way that I the only one who thinks like this
I'm also concerned about the next generation, thats why i try to encourage women to be independent and raise their future kids to be independent too.
Yea from what I can see, the term FEMINIST is a real trigger.
thanks hun

Ah it is a noble effort on your part and don't fret too much. There is this platform amongst others but the best way to achieve this is to SHOW them what it can be like.
I attended an event on Tuesday and there was this lady there. She was there to receive an award, she is a mother to three grown children, the first disabled.
Yet she built successful businesses, raised her family and you may have heard of her, she forced parliament to have a vote on triggering article 50.
It was all about her and what she achieved as an individual. I was inspired.
So for you, me, and others that is what we must do too.

Daeylar:


How many years ban were you given? If you lie you'll go to hell . I'm serious I'll send you there myself

Was I banned? Now judge for yourself.

Let me return to my new shell.

It's truly sad that someone can't say I'm a feminist because people have refused to see that feminism has only one definition, but the point you guys have is valid, it's seems it's better to say to say you're for gender equality or people won't give you a listening ear, I find that sad.

Well, that's what happens when Misandrist elements have hijacked the movement, and are more RADICAL and PASSIONATE in promoting their ideologies than most of the actual feminists who, although not exactly passive, are not as active either; just floating somewhere in between, like a baby in the Catholic Limbo.

Jupxter:


Let me help out. Self Mastery

Thank you bros.
Yup, you got to invest in yourself first. Garbage in, garbage out.
Put love of yourself in, then you can give quality love out.

shaybebaby:

Ah it is a noble effort on your part and don't fret too much. There is this platform amongst others but the best way to achieve this is to SHOW them what it can be like.
I attended an event on Tuesday and there was this lady there. She was there to receive an award, she is a mother to three grown children, the first disabled.
Yet she built successful businesses, raised her family and you may have heard of her, she forced parliament to have a vote on triggering article 50.
It was all about her and what she achieved as an individual. I was inspired.
So for you, me, and others that is what we must do too.

You know i love this part, it caught my attention " article 50 " Cheers to the lady, Happy Brexit-ing