samyfreshsmooth:



do you think the said lady (op) would have cheated (twice sef) if the guy "had a lot of money at his disposal"


lets face it, the girl's a whôre!!! (like most ladies in relationships)

LifeofAirforce:


Low level because the boyfriend is jobless

High level because the new guy got little change you don't know the source I guess ..


That's how your likes end up in the hands of money ritualists.

greiboy:


How can an average girl with a decent source of income (shop) cheat on her bf twice and still contemplating doing it again.

The girl na Aristo i beg

Dillusionist:

oh shut up.
stop shielding laziness.
for complete 3years,a man like you is busy prancing his streets with dreadlock and empty pocket just like you prance romance section with eggs and milk.

the lady didn't even made mention about his hustling ,cos had it been he's a hustling guy,it would have given the op hope,but he's been jobless for 3years.
what happened to engaging in teaching job or something and keep waiting for better choice;he just folded his alms to be fed like a bad.
cut the seal of ritual cos you don't even know the said customer.

I'm not supportive of her cheating on him,but what's the probability that the said bf will still marry her after these wasted years.
let's tell ourselves the truth abeg.

pocohantas:


It happens,which is why I don't see need accumulating male friends when I am in a defined/serious relationship.

I don't want confusion in my life.

The people she cheated with, are most likely someone's BF too. It starts from just a friend, till it progresses to something else.

lefulefu:

yea she would still have cheated on him but on a more coded levels

lefulefu:

cos that op"s customer is loaded she dey look for way to ditch her broke boyfriend.i know that this her customer is riding a Venza and her eyes don dey do chuku chuku for the guy ride.now she wants to dump her broke unemployed boyfriend for this rich guy but guilty concience is already affecting her hence her coming here for so called advice.all wetin she dey look for here na to get enuf encouragement to dump her broke bf.but weda we bash ooo..or we support her she will still dump her guy for the rich customer.her mind don already dey made up .

LifeofAirforce:

I don't read long stories
Keep it brief if you must quote me

samyfreshsmooth:



well yes, thats highly probable (girls will always be girls afterall)


but do you agree he could also have forgiven her twice if he was rich and she still cheated?

greiboy:
hmmm
I guess you are working to avoid it because your are decent

A lady that is soliciting for a " bestie customers" like op (op no pun intended) should have worked to avoid it too.

The fact that despite his alleged " good boy behavior" the op is still entertaining the idea of cheating on him the third time is alarming

donstan18:
Argh! what are you waiting for?

Say YES to him nh, when you see another closer customer, say YES to him again, If another customer comes close, say another YES and on and on like that.

Just keep saying YES to customers like an OH YES member, even if na mad man, just say YES to him, just keep saying YES to anything that has preeeq, even your neighbor's goat

Then when they are done pounding your body like fufu, by 40 you'll end up in church, shouting "Satan die by fire" "Die by fire" "Die by fire"


Nonsense and ingredient! .....C'omon will you get out of here and go get your PVC

pocohantas:


Because you shouldn't forgive cheats. It leads to see finish!

LOL @ bestie customers. If you're in a job/business that makes you talk with customers a lot, you will meet lots of temptation.

See, OP's boyfriend has stopped being mysterious. There is no respect again and his condition only makes it worse.

Dillusionist:
samyfreshsmooth seen.


yes,sure.


but that's if you are sure that it is leading to somewhere.
ops bf is very clueless and jobless.


I can never trust the love a broke guy,you don't know what the person has in turn for you after he must have made it in life.

op knows what's best for her,and ain't supporting her in anyway,I'm just being real.

thanks for your points.

lefulefu:

he would have dumped her long ago if he had dough

pocohantas:


Nah, he isn't nice. He is broke and it has obviously affected his self-esteem. Men are not magnanimous enough to forgive a cheat and not bring it up later. This is the reason I would break-up with him, if I were you. You're definitely not going to start a marriage with him, having that in mind. That's me assuming you guys will marry, which is highly unlikely, considering the pressure ladies face and how long it takes a young man to stand on his feet.

You both are definitely going to part ways, LATER.
So, why not now?


If you like the other guy, give it a shot(with your head). It's a vicious cycle. Some young guy has to lose his girlfriend for an older financially stable guy to get married

But this your title sha @ jobless boyfriend. Looks like his joblessness is a problem o. Try not to cheat on your next.

samyfreshsmooth:




ahan!


if "he would have dumped her long ago if he had dough", how are we now sure or now assume that she would still have cheated even if "he had dough"


or are you saying THE girl would have rtill cheated girls (or the op is/) are naturally promiscuous and would cheat regardless of how rich or poor their male partner is?

pocohantas:


Nah, he isn't nice. He is broke and it has obviously affected his self-esteem. Men are not magnanimous enough to forgive a cheat and not bring it up later.

lefulefu:
i already know hw dis film will end

Cynie42:
Fellow nairalanders. I am confused please, i own a supermarket and v been in a relationship with my current bf whoz not yet working after his Nysc, we v been dating for 3 years now and it has been going well even though I v cheated on him twice, but he forgave me, hez nice. My problem now is that I v a customer, we are extremely close to the extent that we do discuss everything together. am even now closer to him than my bf, hez like a bestie.

But hez now asking me out and pple are telling me to answer him saying its advisable to date ur best friend than anyone else and I don't want to hurt my bf anymore and I don't want to hurt this guy too, he has bin nice to me...pls what's ur take on this, what do you advice i should do?

No insult plz

lefulefu:

abegii its not about weda her guy is broke or rich.some girls are just natural cheats..its in their blood.even if they get married to bill gates they will still cheat but codedly.its only when such ladies are with broke jobless men that they are confident in flaunting their cheating ways at him knowing there"s nothing he can do and if he also has low self esteem.all these sugar mummies that fuk small small boys and have lovers....hope u know most of these sugar mummies are married to senators,rich top class business moguls etc.they collect hefty sums of money from their wealthy husbands and lavish it on their younger lovers .ur money cant stop a woman cheating on u.she will only do it discretely to avoid ur wrath .

Draei:

Oh really, is that the best you could come up with for the male gender? Speak for the male folks underneath thesame roof you came out from.

At times, the way some of you NL teletubbies make hasty generalization bothers me.

pocohantas:

What's the generalisation there?
Isn't he broke?
With no self-respect?

If you wanna speak for your brothers, by all means do. I ain't gat time for this dude...

Cynie42:
Fellow nairalanders. I am confused please, i own a supermarket and v been in a relationship with my current bf whoz not yet working after his Nysc, we v been dating for 3 years now and it has been going well even though I v cheated on him twice, but he forgave me, hez nice. My problem now is that I v a customer, we are extremely close to the extent that we do discuss everything together. am even now closer to him than my bf, hez like a bestie.

But hez now asking me out and pple are telling me to answer him saying its advisable to date ur best friend than anyone else and I don't want to hurt my bf anymore and I don't want to hurt this guy too, he has bin nice to me...pls what's ur take on this, what do you advice i should do?

No insult plz

pocohantas:


It happens,which is why I don't see need accumulating male friends when I am in a defined/serious relationship.

I don't want confusion in my life.

The people she cheated with, are most likely someone's BF too. It starts from just a friend, till it progresses to something else.

samyfreshsmooth:



wow! see revelation


thank you boss for this timely unveiling of the truth


wetin man go con do now cos man must still marry later.............................or make we just ahbolish marriage?

pocohantas:


They can love o, their loyalty is what you should never trust.
Not just broke guys, but broke ladies too.

She even tried to date him. I won't and that's me being realistic.
Finished NYSC 3yrs ago? I can already tell his average age range.

The young man is trying to build his life, his wife is in SS2 now.

Cynie42:
Fellow nairalanders. I am confused please, i own a supermarket and v been in a relationship with my current bf whoz not yet working after his Nysc, we v been dating for 3 years now and it has been going well even though I v cheated on him twice, but he forgave me, hez nice. My problem now is that I v a customer, we are extremely close to the extent that we do discuss everything together. am even now closer to him than my bf, hez like a bestie.

But hez now asking me out and pple are telling me to answer him saying its advisable to date ur best friend than anyone else and I don't want to hurt my bf anymore and I don't want to hurt this guy too, he has bin nice to me...pls what's ur take on this, what do you advice i should do?

No insult plz

pocohantas:


That's the sad reality.
Personally, I don't do things with my age group.

Men marry down: it protects their ego
Women marry up: it tames their ego.

(exceptions apply).