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Dear ladies, if you meet a young promising guy who is earning a monthly salary of N60,000 and wants to marry you, would you accept to marry him if he really loves you?

Some men who are earning far less than that have beautiful wives.Though,they nag when the allawee is meagre.

Not the salary dat matas, does he give happily? He can earn one billion and can not give

Depending on the type of man he is. If he's the honest, straight-forward and frugal one, why not?
With good planning, understanding and focus, higher level is achievable..... not to forget that the woman too should not be idle.

I as a man cant get married wit a 60k income...

I ll jst be managing my singleness...even if it means nt getting married 4 d rest of my life...

Mcy56:
Depending on the type of man he is. If he's the honest, straight-forward and frugal, why not?
With good planning, understanding and focus, higher level is achievable..... not to forget that the woman too should not be idle.

Wow! so a lady can say this. Good news for men like me.

Some earn less and are married happily.

why not. so far they understand themselves and the wife is also bringing in money too.

people earning 35,36&38 are married and living happily.

if you have plans and your wife is not that kind slay queen with heavy makeup, you can enjoy your life with less than 50k..

sisters slay with your brain and good behavior not with heavy makeup... plz

Dvin:
Wow! so a lady can say this. Good news for men like me.

I'm really surprised at their comments tonight

Some of them will come and lie on this thread but don't believe all of them.



Guys, if you are earning five figures, don't marry. I repeat, don't marry unless you have savings northwards of a million after the wedding and new house rent. God has blessed us, as a guy, you can marry even in your 40s. Don't rush into commitments that will make you cash strapped for a long time.


You want the best for your kids, don't settle for less. 60k is perfect for a bachelor. Unless your woman is boxed up, don't try it!

Earthbound:
Some of them will come and lie on this thread but don't believe all of them.



Guys, if you are earning five figures, don't marry. I repeat, don't marry unless you have savings northwards of a million after the wedding and new house rent. God has blessed us, as a guy, you can marry even in your 40s. Don't rush into commitments that will make you cash strapped for a long time.


You want the best for your kids, don't settle for less. 60k is perfect for a bachelor. Unless your woman is boxed up, don't try it!

And when he marries in his 40s and friends don dey give children in marriage in their fifties and you still dey take kids to creche....
Na humble beginning sure pass

Yes,,, with my own earnings, we r good

EliteMike:
And when he marries in his 40s and friends don dey give children in marriage in their fifties and you still dey take kids to creche....
Na humble beginning sure pass

Good luck with that.


Never measure your existence by someone else's. Why should you time your life on another person's clock?

SureBozz:
Dear ladies, if you meet a young promising guy who is earning a monthly salary of N60,000 and wants to marry you, would you accept to marry him if he really loves you?

Promising guys are guys whose current status is below their long term potential.

Never. That's a suicide attempt. Even if I earn all the money in the world, I will never settle for less. I used to believe in starting small, but as it is now, I've re-strategized. Some men are just too complacent to step out of their comfort zone. We have to be very comfortable to get married. Marriage isn't a child's play.

Earthbound:
Good luck with that.


Never measure your existence by someone else's. Why should your base your life on another person's clock?

Siddon there

I want to build an empire with him. Yes, from the scratch.

Reason most of my friends think I'm crazy. Despite the well to do guys coming around me, I despise them.
The ones receiving meagre money I find attractive that I want to build my world with despise me.

What a world.
I think something is wrong with me really.

The speed on how I changed the subject matter whenever my girlfriend talks about marriage and kids.

Angy55:
I want to build an empire with him. Yes, from the scratch.

Reason most of my friends think I'm crazy. Despite the well to do guys coming around me, I despise them.
The ones receiving meagre money I find attractive that I want to build my world with despise me.

What a world.
I think something is wrong with me really.

Empire kor Power ni
Build an empire with him and then when he’s made, he will Ubi Franklin u and dump u after one kid to be sleeping around
Better marry rich n invest when he still has money so u can dump his sorry ass when he’s broke cos most of them are wasteful modafokaz in Nigeria!

OboOlora:
Empire kor Power ni
Build an empire with him and then when he’s made, he will Ubi Franklin u and dump u after one kid to be sleeping around
Better marry rich n invest when he still has money so u can dump his sorry ass when he’s broke cos most of them are wasteful modafokaz in Nigeria!

Angy55, whatever you do, don't follow this advice from all these aunties that their time has passed and all they have to show is a fat vagina i.e obo olora as selling point.

Earthbound:
Angy55, whatever you do, don't follow this advice from all these aunties that their time has passed and all they have to show is a fat vagina i.e obo olora as selling point.

U r dead if I catch u!
Better change ur name to GraveBound

Ayam here to read lies... Both truthful lies and lieful Lies

OboOlora:
U r dead if I catch u!
Better change ur name to GraveBound

Nice word play. I'm earthbound in space. I'll let you know when I breach earth's atmosphere.

to some 60K is more than enough , and to others with "folie des grandeurs", not even a 1M per month will quench their deluded state of mind.

SureBozz:
Dear ladies, if you meet a young promising guy who is earning a monthly salary of N60,000 and wants to marry you, would you accept to marry him if he really loves you?

How many times will you guys ask this question?

You guys amaze me sometimes,when did a salary of 60k become too small to run a family?

Keep waiting till you receive 1million monthly before you get married. Kids everywhere!

Mtcheew.

If you're earning 60k and your wife is earning above 45/50k what else do you need?
Or you want to marry a jobless lady?

dollytino4real:
Not the salary dat matas, does he give happily? He can earn one billion and can not give

So marriage is now about giving? I dey learn new thing today.

No to the Nah to the No No

dollytino4real:
Not the salary dat matas, does he give happily? He can earn one billion and can not give

give give every time.....what can you offer

phemmyfour:
give give every time.....what can you offer

u can not love without giving

MajorJeffery:
So marriage is now about giving? I dey learn new thing today.

giving everytin u hear time cash toto prick