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Angy55:
I want to build an empire with him. Yes, from the scratch.

Reason most of my friends think I'm crazy. Despite the well to do guys coming around me, I despise them.
The ones receiving meagre money I find attractive that I want to build my world with despise me.

What a world.
I think something is wrong with me really.

Do what you just wrote, follow your heart, it shall be well with you.

Can the guy himself handle it? Or he will turn to a nag when life hits him.

I could date a guy like that but not marry especially if i don't have a better income. We could get married when our finances get better.

I know how much baby food and diapers are. And babies must eat and poop. I don't want a husband that will start negotiating the baby's diapers, food, etc.

Besides, for the sake of the man's ego, he should earn better first.

ImaIma1:
Can the guy himself handle it? Or he will turn to a nag when life hits him.

I could date a guy like that but not marry especially if i don't have a better income. We could get married when the finances get better.

I know how much baby food and diapers are. And babies must eat and poop. I don't want a husband that will start negotiating the baby's diapers, food, etc.

Besides, for the sake of the man's ego, he should earn better first.

Insightful.

Yes I will, at least I'm not idle. But the man in question must be honest and straightforward no be when him cm hammer him brain go cm twist

Zinny25:
Yes I will, at least I'm not idle. But the man in question must be honest and straightforward no be when him cm hammer him brain go cm twist

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Zinny25:
Yes I will, at least I'm not idle. But the man in question must be honest and straightforward no be when him cm hammer him brain go cm twist

Beautiful... Tiri kizzes for you wife material 100yards

Of course. That's only if he knows how to manage it. Not the one that will share his salary on the way and co e honey empty. Some earn less and have happy homes. Others end more but can't do much to keep their home running. It's not about the amount, it's about how it's budgeted.

SureBozz:
Dear ladies, if you meet a young promising guy who is earning a monthly salary of N60,000 and wants to marry you, would you accept to marry him if he really loves you?

Guys on minimum wage are getting married and you are asking about 60k?

Even truck pushers get married.

Mcy56:
Depending on the type of man he is. If he's the honest, straight-forward and frugal one, why not?
With good planning, understanding and focus, higher level is achievable..... not to forget that the woman too should not be idle.

CORRECT GYAL

Useless naija women using the amount of salary of a man to determine marriage. What if he eventually gets sacked, you'll divorce him? Naija girls are one set of useless liabilities.

MajorJeffery:
So marriage is now about giving? I dey learn new thing today.

You never price pampers abi

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Some earn less and are married happily.

I sent the stuff and it wasn't going. Did you block me?

NO

UyaiIncomparabl:
Never. That's a suicide attempt. Even if I earn all the money in the world, I will never settle for less. I used to believe in starting small, but as it is now, I've re-strategized. Some men are just too complacent to step out of their comfort zone. We have to be very comfortable to get married. Marriage isn't a child's play.

shut up there. Unam ikot

Mcy56:
Depending on the type of man he is. If he's the honest, straight-forward and frugal one, why not?
With good planning, understanding and focus, higher level is achievable..... not to forget that the woman too should not be idle.

Wow this is wonderful.

Such a man doesn't deserve to fvck someone's daughter.

Please don't be push to the wall by the so called ladies. With less than 60k you will have a good home. Just pray for the right woman.

Why not, I have people around me whose allowance is just 15k n they are happily married with beautiful wives n kids. What is most important is starting

See this Mumu

UyaiIncomparabl:
Never. That's a suicide attempt. Even if I earn all the money in the world, I will never settle for less. I used to believe in starting small, but as it is now, I've re-strategized. Some men are just too complacent to step out of their comfort zone. We have to be very comfortable to get married. Marriage isn't a child's play.

chiommy123:
why not. so far they understand themselves and the wife is also bringing in money too.

Can u? Not they

Well Civil servants don't earn that much.

But let me educate you guys (Using Lagos as example):

1. A self contain is around N200k
2. A TV is around 60k.
3. Gas is 4k to refill.
5. Baby food is around 2k.
6. Diapers is around 5k.
7. PHCN around 4k monthly.
8. Utility bills go dey.
9. Average TP daily is 1k.
10. Half kilo of chicken is 500 at 5 pieces.

Without any kids, it can be managed but changing clothes, eating what is okay, will be difficult. You may have to trek a lot of times.

You guys may not even be able to contribute at church and most women see it as being hurtful. So yes it's doable but it's challenging.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Never. That's a suicide attempt. Even if I earn all the money in the world, I will never settle for less. I used to believe in starting small, but as it is now, I've re-strategized. Some men are just too complacent to step out of their comfort zone. We have to be very comfortable to get married. Marriage isn't a child's play.

Well it's good to be comfortable.

But know that you have no right to dream about rich men if you're not rich yourself,it doesn't just make any sense.

If you're broke and you're looking for a rich man then something is wrong.

This same question has been asked over and over again because there's no suitable or one approach answer to it

Waiting this one dey talk self, u think is every married man that earn that kind of money in a month, some don't even earn half of that money self yet they are happily married, everything for this life na packaging my guy.. Again good planing is what matters..

This is not difficult, they would only not live above their earnings.

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Earthbound:
Some of them will come and lie on this thread but don't believe all of them.



Guys, if you are earning five figures, don't marry. I repeat, don't marry unless you have savings northwards of a million after the wedding and new house rent. God has blessed us, as a guy, you can marry even in your 40s. Don't rush into commitments that will make you cash strapped for a long time.


You want the best for your kids, don't settle for less. 60k is perfect for a bachelor. Unless your woman is boxed up, don't try it!

you are right, this economy is too harsh for a married man to be earning such low amount

SureBozz:
Dear ladies, if you meet a young promising guy who is earning a monthly salary of N60,000 and wants to marry you, would you accept to marry him if he really loves you?

Funny you eight years back I was earning just 70k.me and my wife planned my marriage a yeat.well that is history now as I'm no more a salary man but a millionaire.yeah N.a. God.

Guy salary no determine love.what gave me courage was that I saw palmwine tappers in the village marrying with less than 30k.luckily I met my wife.
Hey marriage is not meant to be expensive but if you copy cat it becomes.
Bye
Nairalander since da

DaddyGngeess:
Waiting this one dey talk self, u think is every married man that earn that kind of money in a month, everything for this life na packaging my guy.. Again good planing is what matters..

those that earn that kinda money you know the amount of debts they are owing?, you know the kinda struggles they face every time?, nobody can be comfortable earning low like that, every one just they cover up

Ifakiland:
fish brain, una own no pass can he give...broke ass girls.

Angy55:
I want to build an empire with him. Yes, from the scratch.

Reason most of my friends think I'm crazy. Despite the well to do guys coming around me, I despise them.
The ones receiving meagre money I find attractive that I want to build my world with despise me.

What a world.
I think something is wrong with me really.

.. From scratch.

I can