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Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Amberon: 5:06am On Sep 15, 2018
Because he has a diick...Lmao cheesy
Sheggy13:

See what you're saying.You can't give up your church for her but she should be the one to do that for you. On what basis?
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Amberon: 5:09am On Sep 15, 2018
Why are sunnis vs shias killing themselves all over the world? Have you ever heard that Pentecostals were killing Catholics?
zolajpower:

Who is this ?
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Amberon: 5:10am On Sep 15, 2018
Can you tell us what verse of the Bible says so?
OkaNaUbe:
Oh Christians, why are you your enemies


A man's church is what a 'wife' should follow her husband to and not the other way round. If she pleads that you wed her in her church before joining you, its about communication.
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by eyinjuege: 5:12am On Sep 15, 2018
OP,
Pls Let her go .
Break up the relationship as none of you is ready to shift ground. Let her know you can't leave your church to marry her.
I'm sure there are many single ladies in your church that you can go for, and manybsingle guys in her chuch too.
I know 4 years is a long time, but stop wasting each other's time please

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Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Nnemuka(f): 5:12am On Sep 15, 2018
Today is your church, tomorrow your siblings, next your parents and before you know it she will chase away your lineage because she thinks as Catholics they are fetish.

Don't start what you can't finish. Your dad didn't leave his church to join your mum and her own dad didn't do same.

I ended a 2 years relationship because I can't marry a non Catholic. Those people worship their pastors. Their pastors interfere in their marriages while milking them dry in the name of tithes and seed sowing.

You cannot be a shame to your family because of one girl. Don't yield to her demand ever

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Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by aragon4realz(m): 5:16am On Sep 15, 2018
Treasuredlove:
why be confused? You already have the answer to your planned proposal. Better save up the money for ring and party for someone whom you guys align your difference quite easily with. Incase you don't know, this church thing is just the starting point of your differences and once you guys get married, more stuff like this will crop up and it will really be one hell of a problem to be in
thoughts are not always actions so am taking the risk to find her actions
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Amberon: 5:16am On Sep 15, 2018
And who told you Christianity is not a do or die affair ? Didn't Christ die for it? Didn't all of the apostles except one die for it?

You're calling Pentecostalism a business center but Catholic church is the richest church so which one then is the biggest business center? Hypocrite.
giles14:
see them fooling themselves .
Catholic this Catholic that.
all you Pentecostal business centres .

who do your think preserved and nourished the Christian faith .
I would rather be a pagan or atleast a non practicing Muslim than change my denomination.

and for you OP better make your choice afterall we Catholics don't practice the do or die brand of Christianity.

Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by alexola20(m): 5:17am On Sep 15, 2018

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Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Nobody: 5:20am On Sep 15, 2018
aragon4realz:

thoughts are not always actions so am taking the risk to find her actions
well, take your risk with wisdom and have a good sit down talk with her about all these and not just about church, but about a lot of other things like her beliefs, morals, traditions, raising babies, expectations etc. Just a kindly advise
Proposal, wedding is just ceremony. deal with the elephant in the room first and you can move on from there

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Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Amberon: 5:21am On Sep 15, 2018
The Bible says "men love your wives even as Christ loved the church and gave himself for it". So since he can't give up his church, he doesn't love his wife.

Let's be quoting since you want to take the Bible out of context.
giles14:
where in the bible do you see a good wife dishing out instruments to her husband?

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Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Nobody: 5:22am On Sep 15, 2018
Religion was made by man for man and has absofuckinglutely anything to do with God. It does not matter where you Wed. Pick a neutral church if that is such a problem or buycott church marriage effectively and do just court and trad. For me it does not matter where I Wed cuz I don't care really. I dey my house every Sunday dey lounge. Allow her to go to any church she chooses after marriage. If you have kids, make sure it is a church that enforces decent dressing that they go to to avoid giving them idea. For all the fucking church we attend we are still poor, backward corrupt and crime ridden. Netherlands in contrast has just 20 churches and the most peaceful country to live in. Crime rate is zero. Give urself brain. It is the same God. As long as she is not gonna force you to attend anyone or have your kids attend if it one of these crappy churches that allow people to dress anyhow then u r good. Else leave am for her ppl.

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Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Nobody: 5:35am On Sep 15, 2018
aragon4realz:

it's not always about the s3x...it's all about compatibility and commitment...but the truth is I can't give up my church for her, she should be the one doing that for me
but u said u can do anything for her, now u can't give up your church for her. Oga aragon, u need delivery from confused.
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by ireneidiva(f): 5:40am On Sep 15, 2018
aragon4realz:

this is my biggest problem right now so am still reading....this is one of the best advice I have received thanks...I will go ahead and propose to her and also make it clear that we will be wedding in the Catholic Church when the time comes,if she says no,I move on
You want to force her to be a Catholic after marriage and you are still insisting that the marriage takes place in your church. Oga leave this girl alone and marry your catholic sister.

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Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by aragon4realz(m): 5:43am On Sep 15, 2018
ebony111:
but u said u can do anything for her, now u can't give up your church for her. Oga aragon, u need delivery from confused.
can you deliver me...I think I need it
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Nobody: 5:46am On Sep 15, 2018
aragon4realz:

can you deliver me...I think I need it
what u need is delivery to move on. can u tell us what she dislike about your church.
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by aragon4realz(m): 5:50am On Sep 15, 2018
ebony111:
what u need is delivery to move on. can u tell us what she dislike about your church.
she didn't give reason....all she said was that she don't like my church
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Nobody: 5:55am On Sep 15, 2018
aragon4realz:

she didn't give reason....all she said was that she don't like my church
OK. i know is hard for u, the best thing u can do now is MOVE ON. Peace
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by jonadaft: 5:58am On Sep 15, 2018
zinnydan:
She doesn't love you,unless she attends jw
ughs
wetin consin u and jw?

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Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Didov1(f): 6:00am On Sep 15, 2018
This is one problem I have with some Christians........ Op, just let her go ,your happiness matters. Think about the future, if you force her into marrying you now , it might be hard for you in future.

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Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by jonadaft: 6:00am On Sep 15, 2018
HRHQueenPhil:
i have d same stance for catholic church, dat lady is a real christian.
.if u dont stand for something, u fall for anything
.do u know i went to mulumba and david cath. church on invite and the moderator was reminding dem of a youth thing dey are having saying comedians and whiz kid is coming..dey shld buy tickets.. whiz kid in church..and chanting THRU mary our mother, we succeed..i agree with ur future wife, i hope u will wake up
Wrong!!!!!!!!!
Life is not so rigid...

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Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by MobilityExpress: 6:05am On Sep 15, 2018
Marry into Catholic Church shocked ?

Me ... *runs away faster than Usain Bolt

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Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by jonadaft: 6:09am On Sep 15, 2018
SBL28:
My first question, why did it take you guys so long to visit the topic

Yoruba people will say "if you won't eat something, don't even raise it to your nose to smell it".

I can't marry a Muslim so I won't date a Muslim. I can't marry a JW so I won't date one. It is as simple as that.
But you continue fuck1ng muslim dicks...
Gos is watching you...
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by jonadaft: 6:11am On Sep 15, 2018
SBL28:


Yes I know, all I'm saying is, don't date someone you can't marry.
Hypocrites!!!!!!!!!!!

This is very shameful as you people still call yourselves christains, believe in the same book and jesus.
WHAT A SHAME!!!!!!!!
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by MobilityExpress: 6:12am On Sep 15, 2018
ireneidiva:

You want to force her to be a Catholic after marriage and you are still insisting that tje marriage takes place in your church. Oga leave this girl alone and marry your catholic sister.

smiley Exactly! There are countless single Catholic ladies. He should pick one that shares the same ideology with him. Me personally, in a relationships context, if I meet a Catholic girl, I RUN grin. But beyond relationships (business, work, socializing etc) I don’t judge people based on religion but their actions.

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Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by jonadaft: 6:13am On Sep 15, 2018
aragon4realz:

it's not always about the s3x...it's all about compatibility and commitment...but the truth is I can't give up my church for her, she should be the one doing that for me
And who the hell are you to think that?
Are you are father?
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Tonalphs(f): 6:17am On Sep 15, 2018
I don't think church should be something to deliberate upon if you're marrying a woman who's ready to submit under your authority. Obviously if she's submissive, she obviously should know that Christ is the head of the church and you are the representative of Christ (as her husband). Ephesians 5.

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Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Shugavee(f): 6:20am On Sep 15, 2018
citadels:
they can't pray together and they say family that prays together stays together. So they would be division.
they can. They won’t only if one has a rotten mind. I am a redeemer but hv catholic relatives .. we all pray together when we go to the village.. if there is love,, praying together is no problem, we serve one God through Jesus Christ

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Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Shugavee(f): 6:28am On Sep 15, 2018
Amberon:
The Bible says "men love your wives even as Christ loved the church and gave himself for it". So since he can't give up his church, he doesn't love his wife.

Let's be quoting since you want to take the Bible out of context.
i totally disagree with this!!! I feel it’s really stupid telling someone to leave their church not because they want to, but because of you!!! No one should put anyone in such situation! Church is family, ur home. No one will do it if they hv a good n strong relationship with their church!! The only person that will do that is someone that’s has no church persay.
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Shugavee(f): 6:31am On Sep 15, 2018
Nnemuka:
Today is your church, tomorrow your siblings, next your parents and before you know it she will chase away your lineage because she thinks as Catholics they are fetish.

Don't start what you can't finish. Your dad didn't leave his church to join your mum and her own dad didn't do same.

I ended a 2 years relationship because I can't marry a non Catholic. Those people worship their pastors. Their pastors interfere in their marriages while milking them dry in the name of tithes and seed sowing.

You cannot be a shame to your family because of one girl. Don't yield to her demand ever
really?? U Catholics r worshiping idols. N I worship God n not any pastors, I only respect my pastor n listen to some of his advice
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by scarface04(m): 6:32am On Sep 15, 2018
HRHQueenPhil:
i have d same stance for catholic church, dat lady is a real christian..if u dont stand for something, u fall for anything.do u know i went to mulumba and david cath. church on invite and the moderator was reminding dem of a youth thing dey are having saying comedians and whiz kid is coming..dey shld buy tickets.. whiz kid in church..and chanting THRU mary our mother, we succeed..i agree with ur future wife, i hope u will wake up
Ozour undecided
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by missyojo(f): 6:42am On Sep 15, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
I thought weddings usually takes place in the lady's church?

Yeah it does, but there after she has to follow the guy to his own church. Which the lady is against now
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Shugavee(f): 6:42am On Sep 15, 2018
aragon4realz:

it's not always about the s3x...it's all about compatibility and commitment...but the truth is I can't give up my church for her, she should be the one doing that for me
no!! She can’t give up nothing for you!!! U both can only negotiate about it..

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