Saffi:
Good. Don’t ask girls for sex. Don’t ask girls for anything and then no babe will ask you for anything. Fools.

XhosaNostra:


The bolded is very important & empowering.

kunleweb:


You're forceful, hence you're not getting the perspective and objective of the thread. It's not about not getting your haves and needs met, but the entitlement mentality

Guest007:
I hate hungry chicks who want the privileges that feminism provides, but they won't take on the responsibility

You can't sit at our table while a man still pays for the clothes your back and the food in your belly!

Husband wife owe each other and are entitled to each others things (to an extent) but if you are a girl, then please pussy is no longer a commodity... so find something else to trade

Saffi:
Can men stop feeling entitled to a woman’s body once they start dating?

Can men stop feeling entitled to a woman’s food once they start dating?

Can men stop demanding women to clean, do domestic chores for them when they’re not even married?

The fact is that you men can dish it but you can’t take it. Day in and day out, the average naija man will not even be in a common relationship let alone marriage with a babe who cannot provide sex, food and domestic services for him. Yet the minute a babe feels entitled to a mans money, she is a leech and beggar. Jam one correct independent babe and automatically she becomes a feminist and intimidating. You men are so stupid it makes me sick. Better left for you to date each other, at least you men reason on the same level of stupidity, a match made in heaven.

Guest007:
I hate hungry chicks who want the privileges that feminism provides, but they won't take on the responsibility

You can't sit at our table while a man still pays for the clothes your back and the food in your belly!

Husband wife owe each other and are entitled to each others things (to an extent) but if you are a girl, then please pussy is no longer a commodity... so find something else to trade

Mariangeles:
Why do most ladies feel entitled to special treatment from guys ?

Most of them feel they're entitled to receive calls, texts, gifts, attention... IT'S ANNOYING LADIES!
If you miss someone, make that damn call even if it's a guy .
If you think of something nice to say, just say it!
It won't make you look cheap.
You don't have to wait to receive a message from someone you're dying to receive their message, send the message! YOU NO GO DIE !
When you say "I'll call you back" MAKE THE DAMN CALL!

Don't keep enieleni anticipating for a call you promised to make !

Most ladies would need something, instead of getting it themselves, they'll look for someone (especially a guy) to extort just to get it . IT'S ANNOYING LADIES!


If you want something, get it yourself!
Prove you're an independent woman!
Stop depending on guys for stipends. IT'S DAMN ANNOYING LADIES! YUCK!
DON'T GIVE YOUR BODY FOR CHEAP GIFTS !
IF YOU DON'T HAVE A JOB, START A BUSINESS!

STOP BEING LEECHES!
When you go on dates, go with cash!
You don't want unfortunate, embarrassing situations!
Propose to share the bill!

Buy your own clothes!
Pay for your hair and accessories!
Be a BOSS-LADY!

TOO MANY GUYS ARE SAYING THE SAME DAMN SH!T ABOUT Y'ALL HAVING ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY!

IT HAS TO STOP!

If you're an independent woman, say I

Guest007:


I take pride in the fact that I could look after myself and those that I love. When I am without I am never short of helpers. I would trade his money for independence, and respect. No one can tell me anything, I don't owe anyone anything, this is priceless!

You bitches better bow down and worship the man that feeds you because it's not an entitlement, it's charity!

XhosaNostra:


Speaking of married couples, Wendy filed for divorce!

I agree with the rest. We should all thrive for financial independence. There's vulnerability in depending on a man for your livelihood. Some people learn this the hard way, when they're stuck in a dead-end relationship of convenience with nowhere to go.

Preshy561:

Some ladies who come online to preach those rubbish actually date low lives.

They wanna make sure every lady date stingy and unrepentant entitled men like they do.

MhizzAJ:


That's my point, most of them date low lives,i can't even stand ladies like that....how can someone come online and be dictating how a lady should live her life, what and what not to do...I'm not understanding how I would be the man and woman at the same time in a relationship.....

Any man that isn't ready to provide yet should go and work harder....
Nigerian men are so extra...They like free things, they would never stay on their lane.Instead of them to go for their class, they will want to go for high maintenance and when she starts demanding, they will say they can't deal cos she has this "entitlement mentality"

Guest007, I don't reply slowpokes, you are only deceiving yourself online including the poster.

MhizzAJ:


That's my point, most of them date low lives,i can't even stand ladies like that....how can someone come online and be dictating how a lady should live her life, what and what not to do...I'm not understanding how I would be the man and woman at the same time in a relationship.....

Any man that isn't ready to provide yet should go and work harder....
Nigerian men are so extra...They like free things, they would never stay on their lane.Instead of them to go for their class, they will want to go for high maintenance and when she starts demanding, they will say they can't deal cos she has this "entitlement mentality"

Guest007, I don't reply slowpokes, you are only deceiving yourself online including the poster.

Guest007:


Did she really? You know she'll be paying him alimony

Babe, they don't understand the dangers they're opening themselves up to... for what? A wig and a phone!

kunleweb:


You're forceful, hence you're not getting the perspective and objective of the thread. It's not about not getting your haves and needs met, but the entitlement mentality

Guest007:


I take pride in the fact that I could look after myself and those that I love. When I am without I am never short of helpers. I would trade his money for independence, and respect. No one can tell me anything, I don't owe anyone anything, this is priceless!

You bitches better bow down and worship the man that feeds you because it's not an entitlement, it's charity!

XhosaNostra:


Yes, she did. She served him the papers at work & then hired extra security for protection! Peace of mind is worth more than chump change in alimony, I'd say. At least now she can live a stress-free life.

Girl, I'm telling you! Imagine having no say-so in the relationship because he knows you're basically nothing without his handouts. No different from a bedbug if you live off other people
Money makes relationships easier, no doubt (no financial stress on top of everything else), but for your own sanity, have your own so you don't have to reduce yourself to a glorified welcome mat that tolerates nonsense all in the name of retaining a lifestyle.

Guest007:


Bed bug's life matters as well

When I am in need, I feel so small when I ask another able-bodied human being like myself to feed me! I work harder to not put myself in such position again, and some girls have made begging their full-time job.

Now they want to convince us that it's their right

Saffi:
Good. Don’t ask girls for sex. Don’t ask girls for anything and then no babe will ask you for anything. Fools.

Ginalex:
A billion likes for you bro

Guest007:
I hate hungry chicks who want the privileges that feminism provides, but they won't take on the responsibility

You can't sit at our table while a man still pays for the clothes your back and the food in your belly!

Husband wife owe each other and are entitled to each others things (to an extent) but if you are a girl, then please pussy is no longer a commodity... so find something else to trade

MhizzAJ:
And to every lady on this forum, once you are in a relationship, don't disturb your family members for money, channel the disturbances to the guy you re dating....why is he in your life if he can't render any form of assistance... it's better to be single than be in some kind of weird relationships...There's no need forming good girl or independent lady for a man that will still cheat on you...Some of them will still not value you....All these women coming online to preach, you people are just too much.

BLUEJAYY:
Shout out to all the women on here advocating and striving for financial Independence and security. I see you're strong proponents of the high self-esteem culture, just like myself. I celebrate you all.


It's a sad situation OP, particularly in our country. I've always said that if we've got more young women involved in job creation, economic development, and 'hustling' to make money just like men, instead of sitting around popping babies and waiting for men to provide, our economy would have a positive change as it is in the West.

It's such a shame most young, healthy women are hardwired to the dependency culture and as such becoming ideologically, financially and economically useless, contributing nothing to improve our economy.

More saddening is the fact that these kinds of people make up majority of the female populace and are also likely to pass on this unproductive mentality to their young ones going forward instead of raising strong, independent and productive young women as it were.

Guest007:


Bed bug's life matters as well

When I am in need, I feel so small when I ask another able-bodied human being like myself to feed me! I work harder to not put myself in such position again, and some girls have made begging their full-time job.

Now they want to convince us that it's their right

MhizzAJ:



My dear some would never ask if you need anything.
Don't you know some men can be very parasitic in a relationship too? Men are natural providers, let them remain that way.


I don't know why this topic keeps coming up, everybodys relationship can't be the same.
If any woman wants to be in a relationship with any man and be forming independent and getting her stuff herself, it's her own business...No woman should come online and tell other women how to act in their relationships..If the guy isn't tired of giving, why drink panadol for another woman's headache.


As long as a man is in a relationship with any lady, it's part of his responsibility to take care of that lady, the lady should be better than the way he met her.It's not about entitlement mentality.. If he can't take care of me, then what I am doing with him...i cant be with a weakling... it's very annoying

BLUEJAYY:
Shout out to all the women on here advocating and striving for financial Independence and security. I see you're strong proponents of the high self-esteem culture, just like myself. I celebrate you all.


It's a sad situation OP, particularly in our country. I'm always of the opinion that if we've got more young women involved in job creation, economic development, and 'hustling' to make money just like men, instead of sitting around popping babies and waiting for men to provide, our economy would have a positive change as it is in the West.

It's such a shame most young, healthy women are hardwired to the dependency culture and as such becoming ideologically, financially and economically useless, contributing nothing to improve our economy.

More saddening is the fact that these kinds of people make up majority of the female populace and are also likely to pass on this unproductive mentality to their young ones going forward, instead of raising strong, independent and productive young women as it were.

MJBOLT:

one would think ladies should strive for financial independence but some brainless re.tards have turned it to a sex issue because that's the only thing they can offer.just in case,you dont know,men have deep respect for ladies who are financially independent.

Saffi:
Can men stop feeling entitled to a woman’s body once they start dating?

Can men stop feeling entitled to a woman’s food once they start dating?

Can men stop demanding women to clean, do domestic chores for them when they’re not even married?

The fact is that you men can dish it but you can’t take it. Day in and day out, the average naija man will not even be in a common relationship let alone marriage with a babe who cannot provide sex, food and domestic services for him. Yet the minute a babe feels entitled to a mans money, she is a leech and beggar. Jam one correct independent babe and automatically she becomes a feminist and intimidating. You men are so stupid it makes me sick. Better left for you to date each other, at least you men reason on the same level of stupidity, a match made in heaven.

MJBOLT:

one would think ladies should strive for financial independence but some brainless re.tards have turned it to a sex issue because that's the only thing they can offer.just in case,you dont know,men have deep respect for ladies who are financially independent.

Mariangeles:
You want to render them powerless by taking away the only power they have ?

You're bad!