eduman365:
@computergeek

LOL you were looking for Italian skin, do you have Italian skin yourself? You ladies and absurd fantasies sha... That's why you all get deceived easily.

computergeek:
Don't take everything so seriously and start dishing unsolicited advice. Young girls are allowed to dream and evolve.

InvertedHammer:
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It is always good to have standards.

But can you attract your standard?

Will the man with the standards you desire find you interesting enough to date? That's the puzzle that reality throws at selective ladies.

A lady can only have a man she can attract; a man can only have a lady she can afford.



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eduman365:


Oh no, I didn't mean it that way jare. Just had to point out the fantasy side leading to deception. I admire what you shared actually, don't take it personal.

computergeek:
"That's why y'all get deceived easily" seemed like a pretty straightforward derogatory statement to every woman on this thread.

Bbbwings:

So he even knows the way to a church
He has tried jare.

pocohantas:
Lol, I never had those high expectations. I was just okay with love. I always loved them sensible, I have a very soft spot for engineers and a softer one for people in IT, good-looking, respectful...etc, nothing extraordinary.

I wasn't into romantic books, neither did I watch such movies or even listen to love songs. Found them predictable.

Now that I am older, my physical and character expectations in a man is very much the same- but the financial part is a whole lot strategic. Don't tell me you love me or have potentials, Jesus loves me too. So, I need to see how he is going to compliment me. I also need him to have some money. We would meet halfway.

Every man requires a level of submission/respect from his wife. If I am going to be doing that, it has to be worth it.

The days of "what are you wearing?" and "shey you will not come and know my place" is long gone.

1Sharon:
I want a guy that can lift me up..that's sexy as hell I'm 5 ft 3

ruffDiamond:
olosh0,,lot I see everyday on my street , banking hall, ATM .. church . mosque shopping mall,(, Window shopping,market etc looking for maga to m UI mumu! forget it !all most guru want is comfort and money without much sweat and of course at the expse of their dirty smelly wide pussy.
damn?,naija gals don't deserve any love from any sane mind! use them . fucck them well and post the sextape on porn site but marry outside the country?

pocohantas:
Lol, I never had those high expectations. I was just okay with love. I always loved them sensible, I have a very soft spot for engineers and a softer one for people in IT, good-looking, respectful...etc, nothing extraordinary.

I wasn't into romantic books, neither did I watch such movies or even listen to love songs. Found them predictable.

Now that I am older, my physical and character expectations in a man is very much the same- but the financial part is a whole lot strategic. Don't tell me you love me or have potentials, Jesus loves me too. So, I need to see how he is going to compliment me. I also need him to have some money. We would meet halfway.

Every man requires a level of submission/respect from his wife. If I am going to be doing that, it has to be worth it.

The days of "what are you wearing?" and "shey you will not come and know my place" is long gone.

ibkayee:
I had this weird obsession with him having natural bags under his eyes like this lool, like this was the standard and there was absolutely no settling for less

yusluvad:
Nice thread

LosC:
If you truly love someone, you won't know why you love that person. True love doesn't allow you state the reasons why you love that person. You can't just tell why.
If you love someone because of what he has or probably, you saw what you've been searching for in him, that love may not last because the very day that 'reason' vanishes, that love dies and unknowingly or knowingly, you lose interest and the moment you see the 'reason' why you loved that person in another fellow, you'll begin to desire that person.

Everything you see may not last forever. There's this peace you get when you meet the right person. In all, let's always pray for a partner that'll help you actualize that Destiny you never knew.

1Sharon:
I want a guy that can lift me up..that's sexy as hell I'm 5 ft 3

Mariangeles:

...and cocked eye too ?

Asour:



Hahaha!

Are there really dumb personalities ? Or just people with whom you don't have shared interests.

It's funny how we Nigerians tend to reduce intelligence to being able to "hold conversations on International politics/economics".

What if that is not my Kettle of fish? I become dumb?
What if my interests are in Deep sea exploration or Big data analytics or even recent developments in cancer research ? Can you also have meaningful conversations on those?

Some see International politics/economics as pretentious conjectures, where everyone is an expert — while the subject discussed is completely outside the control of the discussants.

Ego may be what's at play sometimes.
It forces some of us to indulge in interests we don't really care about deeply.

It always seems nice being able to make "contributions" to public discussions on int'l politics but it shouldn't mean those who can't/don't are dumb.

Intelligence is not as effective as people imagine though. I would always prefer resourcefulness.


God help us.

Riele:


Males stay off !

Lalasticlala , how's your day ?