AmTruth is a real niggar in Tissuepaper's voice



I can't even revolve my mind with a lady telling me who to visit in a home I owned or paying the rent, na that day she go returned back to her parent house


for the fact that my woman must be respected, she must definitely knows her limit because my blood brothers means a lot to me, they're there when things was tough, in challenges.


so one lady will now come because she had Pussy in the middle of legs to be dictating who to visit my house? she won't stay less than 24hrs in that house

AshiraWealthy:
To come and stay as what? Do these relatives not have their own homes? I for one find I difficult staying with couples or another family.
We should respect other peoples privacy. I dont like people invading my privacy even as a single talk more as a married couple.
Come visit and go that very day. If by error, you stayed till late, by next morning you should be off.

Your husband go suffer

AshiraWealthy:
To come and stay as what? Do these relatives not have their own homes? I for one find I difficult staying with couples or another family.
We should respect other peoples privacy. I dont like people invading my privacy even as a single talk more as a married couple.
Come visit and go that very day. If by error, you stayed till late, by next morning you should be off.

Why not stay unmarried?

Dont turn your back on your relatives who saw you through before you got married. However, some women are fond of making their husbands turn their back on his relatives.

bigiyaro:
OP u are very correct, after ur blood family have finished raising and molding u, one woman will enter and start forming 'my husband' while she was never there in the beginning. some migth even leave when the going gets very rough but ur blood family will still be dia for u, they were around when u have nothing and will still be around when u have everything, a woman was complaining about soup in one thread because of the Hubby's brother, what if it was her own Darling junior brother? Let us beware of such stingy and self-centered women.

GraGra247:


I don't agree with the later part of your comment. That woman's complaint in the other thread is 100% genuine. It is total and utter unacceptable disrespect to a man and his wife if the man's younger or even elder brother has to stoop so low to dip his hands in the woman's pot of soup.

It is completely inexcusable and should be condemned massively and in totality.

What does that even mean? So he should starve until one little girl gets back from wherever she goes to daily and scoops the most wretched pieces of fish for him with loads of water, when he sponsored his brothers life in one way or the other? Lol. Stoop so low to eat. All right.
Women who hate their in-laws are to be hated with ten times the venom they issue. Her family are sacred, but his are pests; just because he married her.

Influential101:
Women must tolerate ? really ? tolerate nonsense in her own home?

I hope when your wife's siblings also have misunderstandings with you, you'll tolerate so you can also have a happy home?

Yes, as a real man he will definitely tolerate them and real lasting understanding will come.

AshiraWealthy:


I'm not marrying any of you two. So I owe both of you no explanation.

God bless your future...
Leave those people alone

Na for this kind thread u distinguish between real men and the woman-rapper

I agree with you OP.

You don't want to know how much I love my dad and only brother. These are the two men that have supported me every step of the way. I can't imagine one FOOLISH husband saying they shouldn't visit or stay in our house or even thinking he comes before them.

It is my father first, mother and siblings, my kid, before my husband.

You can always get another husband, but never another family.

A father is the only man that will spend on you without asking for submission or anything.

My dad reigns supreme in my heart. I can take a bullet in the head for that man, but NEVER will I attempt it for a husband. You see how much I love him?

For that reason, he can come live with us. All my siblings can come, alongside my husband's own.

One big happy family.

Marriage is not for everybody.

You will be making noise about the glamour of wedding day and won't allow your friends to rest. Sorry, marriage is not about 'wedding day'. You are becoming part of someone who is the direct blood of some other people. Let that sink in and adjust yourself or simply avoid marriage so you can comfortably live the boyfriend/girlfriend no commitment life. It's allowed.

You'll see those I don't want family kind of women fantasizing how they want their son's wife to relate well and care for them..........ewu Gambia

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Agreed. But I still find it weird that a man whose in-laws are free to come to his house and stay will be scared to allow his own siblings to come around due to what the wife will say or how she will react.

Those are sissy men who couldn't put their feet down from the start .

Some of us are private people, I like my space. Even while single I don't enjoy people in my space like that esp if I can avoid it.

Elliot2:
Why not stay unmarried?

The worst thing that can happen to a man is to marry such wife

pocohantas:
I agree with you OP.

You don't want to know how much I love my dad and only brother. These are the two men that have supported me every step of the way. I can't imagine one FOOLISH husband saying they shouldn't visit or stay in our house.

It is my father first, mother and siblings, my kid, before my husband.

You can always get another husband, but never another family.

A father is the only man that will spend on you without asking for submission or anything.

For that reason, he can come live with us. All my siblings can come, alongside my husband's own.

One big happy family.

It's usually women who have hatred for in-laws. Most men don't really care provided they are not a drain on family finances.
Women: what do they want? They scooped my food. They sweated in the wrong place.
Man: how much will this cost?

My fiance understands that I'm not letting his siblings live with us, not even his mum. I don't want headache.

Nobody should quote me, you don't know jack about anything or my decision so mind your motherfucking business.

seniormallam:
You'll see those I don't want family kind of women fantasizing how they want their son's wife to relate well and care for them..........ewu Gambia

That's our people for you.

Mumu People full this thread especially page 0.

Your relatives can't have their own homes abi. They must come and live with your wife and impose stupidd expectations on her.

You forget that the family you create with her will bear forth Children, your own Children.This is how some of you die young, creating unnecessary problems for your families in the guise of being 'men'.

No one is saying that you should stop relating with your parents and siblings. After all your wife has them too but there must be boundaries.

Your Mother as well as all of your siblings have their marriages to face and see as priority. You have to prioritise your own marriage and family otherwise you would be making grave mistakes.

If you say your siblings suffered with you, didn't her own siblings suffer too. This is the lamest line of reasoning I ever heard. Was she eating sand before you met her?

Many of you are better unmarried and I pity the unfortunate women that end up with you

BRATISLAVA:

It's usually women who have hatred for in-laws. Most men don't really care provided they are not a drain on family finances.

Very true. That is why my own will come too. I guess his own family do not drain the family expenses. We will all live together.

Meeyankee:

I tire for those selfish living things. When 90% of them only know man when the going is fine and money is involved.once money finish them go jap efcc, but the man and his family has been together for more than 30 years managing life. One thing that really gave lesson about woman is the way they treat their maid, they way they treat others people children living with them. Whenever you gets to woman house the first throng you notice is how she treat other people’s children living with her. Woman treat others people children like trash and give them oversized clothes to wear.

most women are not worthy to be termed humans.
If you see any sign of this wickedness,run for your life.
At the beginning,they will always ask a about your mum,as if they care,you won't know they are worried about her influence in your life.
If you allow them get away with treating everyone like trash because you think you are the darling husband.
You will be dealt with at last when there is no one else.
She can leave when things get worse.
Or worse still,kill you to inherit all your labor.
I supported my brother that helped me during my school days with small cash when he was having small challenge and my wife be like, don't give him our money because she thinks am a pussy lover,I was laughing,where is love when I have no job?
Women are funny.
She do gragra and finally she left now she is begging to come back but I have been seeing other women,now I know the difference,I won't give her the chance to come back.
Most of them are evil personified,you forgive them,they ruin you in revenge

If a woman viciously doesn't want her husband's relatives around or visiting, abeg what business does the man have marrying her. These things work both ways, you have no business with a human who does not love those you love, those who have been your support system through life. That's a RED FLAG! Run!

pocohantas:


Very true. That is why my own will come too. I guess his own family do not drain the family expenses. We will all live together.

If yours aren't a drain, then his will not be a drain. Everyone can live peacefully though married. Everyone's family matters.

Brightgem:
If a woman viciously doesn't want her husband's relatives around or visiting, abeg what business does the man have marrying her. These things work both ways, you have no business with a human who does not love those you love, those who have been your support system through life. That's a RED FLAG! Run!

Stay blessed!!!

BRATISLAVA:


What does that even mean? So he should starve until one little girl gets back from wherever she goes to daily and scoops the most wretched pieces of fish for him with loads of water, when he sponsored his brothers life in one way or the other? Lol. Stoop so low to eat. All right.

Did you even read the entire story? The young man gets his portion of food like everybody else in the house but yet chooses the appalling nasty habit of yet going to dip hands in the pot.

Even the man that owns the house doesn't do this.

My friend its madness and utter disrespect no matter how you look at it. It is not allowed anywhere in decent African culture.

Only rogues and hooligans allow such among themselves and even at that, it comes at a heavy price.

But anyway I know there are people that will even excuse the devil even if the devil himself fully agrees he's wrong.

BRATISLAVA:

If yours aren't a drain, then his will not be a drain. Everyone can live peacefully though married. Everyone's family matters.

More reason we would live with all of them in one house ehn. They can bring their gfs and their bfs over. Maybe in our three bedroom flat sef. So lovely.

AmTruth:
The house is not MY HOUSE but OUR HOUSE in the first place.
Wish you could truly define what you mean by DISTURBANCE. Now my relations or yours are now Disturbance to your Life.
Really!!! Disturbance?
When they were making me be the one you called your own, they were not disturbing and now they would never be DISTURBANCE.

Calm down not all of us want a zoo in the house, my family knows I don't enjoy excess crowd in my house. The thought of seeing too many people in my house is a no no for me. I get cranky and extremely temperamental, even in my mothers house I would make sure I dont entertain excess visitors. My family minds their own business. We are that fortunate

pocohantas:


More reason we would live with all of them in one house ehn. They can bring their gfs and their bfs over. Maybe in our three bedroom flat sef. So lovely.

If yours are comfy, his are comfy, too. No big deal in that. Sounds lovely. Not like they will live there forever. Probably a week or three a year

I av an elder brother his a multi millionaire he build house for is inlaw bt neva build for is biological father and he neva want to meet any of is family member

These things are easy to accept once you open up your heart.
It's also about respecting boundaries.

ITbomb:
No one, not even my brother and sister should put hand in my pot of soup and take out meat, it is courtesy and family ethics.
For someone like me brought up with this mentality, I can't even stand it be you who

it's not courtesy or any ethics,you are just a selfish and self-centered greedy food lover especially meats and fish.

Tell them.