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I live in the west, I'm single and in my late thirties, I work independently I have a store/cybercafe/gamehouse where I sell electronics like home sound system, games, pads, phone accessories, mobile phones etc and I also have a cyber cafe and a game house in the same building.

I have about 6 workers that run the place with me cos I can't be everywhere at all time and the shop is a little big. Among my workers is a very beautiful 22 year old undergraduate that works for me when she gets off school and during holidays. I like all my workers and I treat them right but I'm not really a guy that gets personal with people so they know I have boundaries, but this girl is exceptional. She takes her work diligently makes even more sales than me in the shop most of the time cos she is good with people.

This girl is very attractive and she dresses nice too. She doesn't wear revealing clothes. She's modest, all calm. I used to buy food from restaurants to eat in the shop before because I don't really like cooking but she told me I don't need to do that, she can make my food and bring it over to the shop for me. Like she will bring me food in the morning before school and afternoon and she refused to collect a dime from me.

People are starting to feel a certain vibe among us cos she smiles whenever she looks at me and even my workers do call her oga's wife jokingly.

In truth I like the girl but I don't know if asking her out might cause a problem to my business.

Advise me please.

What you want to do is in your mind already... don’t ask us just do it

I didn't bother to read all that u wrote but I know one thing for certain



It will always end in tears.

Pls guys, share this post incase of next time


He will come back to talk abt how a lady ruined his business..

Who has watched Money heist?

Professor mixed business with pleasure and things turned upside down...

The truth is whenever u mix business with pleasure, pleasure takes over... Emotion isn't a good thing for a good business man



thanks...

Let me hear from others

I read the first five lines and got tired cos u only mentioning ur achievements, Goodluck to whatever made u create the thread

Annie001:
Inferiority complex
Is he suppose to mention your own achievement
Yeye

seriously?
Are u mentally ok?
I got tired of reading cos I never saw what I was looking for after reading the first five lines and u call it inferiority complex? I was expecting the highest insult to be lazy youth or something close.

Some of u ehn, ur stupidity is overwhelming

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dukeprince50:
I read the first five lines and got tired cos u only mentioning ur achievements, Goodluck to whatever made u create the thread

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Sisijetue:
What you want to do is in your mind already... don’t ask us just do it

Suegbe

Ode

FreQ:
Suegbe

Follow your heart,I HV a friend that got married to her employee and his business is doing fine,pray and ask for God direction

dukeprince50:
I read the first five lines and got tired cos u only mentioning ur achievements, Goodluck to whatever made u create the thread

Lol

dont date her, that's only when it ends in tears;
you have all it takes to monitor her, seeing how she already works with you, she's close. know all you need to know about her and if you still like her; only ask to marry her, then do it as soon as she accepts. otherwise tongues will wag till doubts sets in and she gives up

just gave my advice from experience. that's exactly what happened where my friend worked.

If you never marry n you think she can be a good wife, you can do proper findings about her and if you are satisfy with the information you gathered, you can go on to let her know your plans for her. You will have to restrict the public activities to a reasonable level in order to guide her against hatred n jealousy from others ( I mean you need maturity to handle it). Do your findings well before jumping into decision cus human are pretentious in nature.

All these men wey no fit separate business and pleasure. Shame

OP allow that small girl rest.

Even if she no like you small, she'll still accept you for the fear of losing her job.


Guy you no dey see girls outside apart from shop?

dukeprince50:
I read the first five lines and got tired cos u only mentioning ur achievements, Goodluck to whatever made u create the thread

I assure you that was not my intention

xendra:
dont date her, that's only when it ends in tears;
you have all it takes to monitor her, seeing how she already works with you, she's close. know all you need to know about her and if you still like her; only ask to marry her, then do it as soon as she accepts. otherwise tongues will wag till doubts sets in and she gives up

just gave my advice from experience. that's exactly what happened where my friend worked.

Ma'am she's an undergraduate and I'm very sure she has a lot of admirers asking her out already, what if the window of my opportunity close

Sisijetue:
What you want to do is in your mind already... don’t ask us just do it

I know what I want, but at the same time I want to thread carefully that is why I brought the matter here so I can get advice from people.

This is how some of us end up losing good girls.

Ekakamba:
OP allow that small girl rest.

Even if she no like you small, she'll still accept you for the fear of losing her job.


Guy you no dey see girls outside apart from shop?

Your point is valid,but the girl is showing some affections,like sometimes she'd rather help me in the shop that go out with her friends even when it is her time out,so I don't want to betray that and at the same time I do not want to overstep my boundaries

Monitor her very well without her knowledge and if satisfied marry her. My brother getting a good wife now is becoming difficult. If you see one don't let anything stop you.

nwaimoroseyaho:
Monitor her very well without her knowledge and if satisfied marry her. My brother getting a good wife now is becoming difficult. If you see one don't let anything stop you.

Exactly bros,that is what I'm thinking I'm not getting younger and I've met a lot of girls in my life but this girl is quite different, the only thing is that she's like 13 years younger than me.

Ishitinyourlife:
Exactly bros,that is what I'm thinking I'm not getting younger and I've met a lot of girls in my life but this girl is quite different, the only thing is that she's like 13 years younger than me.

Forget the age bro.

The most important is the compatibility.

Oga Emeka...!!!


So na wetin you and Felisha dey do be dis ??

Karleb:
Forget the age bro.

The most important is the compatibility.

Thanks bro

Ishitinyourlife:
Exactly bros,that is what I'm thinking I'm not getting younger and I've met a lot of girls in my life but this girl is quite different, the only thing is that she's like 13 years younger than me.

I repeat do not let anything stop you

my brother this message is not for you ooo. So ignore if your feelings say you should.


Hmmm!!! Women! Women! Women! always on a mission to hunt a Beta(Gamma) provider....Hmmm! Women their Modus Operandi is to first act as if they are not with you for your money....try given or paying for something on her behalf,she will decline as if she's not interesting in your money....wait till she go for the kill when make you fall in love....you're trapped (screams) Gbeseeee!.....come and see the way she go start Demand from her Maga left to right knowing fully well Brother wey mumu don fall in love no where to go.

nwaimoroseyaho:
I repeat do not let anything stop you

My HOD in school married a girl from the department, they are now have 5 kids and counting, also, the lady now works in the same department.

My Project supervisor did the same.

No matter your choice, people are going to talk. So just do what's best for you.

Undergraduate girls might not be as bad as NL paint them, at least I know few of my colleagues (girls) that are now married, many are seriously engaged (according to them).

You said she makes more sales than you then that means she corroborate with your spirit and business with her good marketing skills and that’s an added advantage to you, just monitor her like some people said and instead of dating her just propose and marry her immediately that way you both are good.

I second this u shud really consider this

xendra:
dont date her, that's only when it ends in tears;
you have all it takes to monitor her, seeing how she already works with you, she's close. know all you need to know about her and if you still like her; only ask to marry her, then do it as soon as she accepts. otherwise tongues will wag till doubts sets in and she gives up

just gave my advice from experience. that's exactly what happened where my friend worked.

What the girl is doing; seems like acting a role of a wife material to get into ur head-she knows you are due for marriage.
Do a background check,to find out whether caring is really her nature,and every other thing she does.To know if its an act or true character and when you are satisfied with what u see.Take a shot! Descent girls are scarse

xendra:
dont date her, that's only when it ends in tears;
you have all it takes to monitor her, seeing how she already works with you, she's close. know all you need to know about her and if you still like her; only ask to marry her, then do it as soon as she accepts. otherwise tongues will wag till doubts sets in and she gives up

just gave my advice from experience. that's exactly what happened where my friend worked.

Thank you very much, this got me thinking

Sisijetue:
What you want to do is in your mind already... don’t ask us just do it

Hahahaha... Abi... OP just go ahead...