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Lazy youth in all ramifications,cooperate and low key olosho!

What rubbish are you saying. You're supposed to be entitled to your broke dad's money. Do not suffocate that hustling guy trying to build his wealth.

Liliantalks:
u think I am going to deny anything or be defensive? See I am entitled to my mans money !! Yes I said it

Continue with your talk, in 10 years time, you will regret and become sobber

Go and make YOUR own money and stop calculating how someone else should spend theirs on you. These are the mindsets that promote transactional relationships.

Liliantalks:
u think I am going to deny anything or be defensive? See I am entitled to my mans money !! Yes I said it

Your man is entitled to your support and money too you can't just be jobless or keep your money aside because you have a man that's being stingy. Opening leg widely isn't the main thing we both are enjoying it.

Liliantalks:
The difference is that she’s fucking only you

See a stingy guy is a stingy guy , a man is supposed to be a giver even to his friends and acquaintances. If a guy is stingy to women dating or not ,, he’s more stingy to his male friends

You have no right to command how a guy spend his money. What do you mean by 'a man is supposed to be a giver'? Like seriously? Are girls this dumb? Are you even married or you are a fun/sex peddler? When will girls drop this entitlement mentality? If the girl must have lots of guys because the boyfriend is stingy, then, the girl must never question the guy's decision to have multiple girlfriends. She must not be jealous
Relationship is give and take. Both hands must wash each other to be very clean. Please, don't be bias on issues like this. Girls too have a lot to do.

uboma:
It is not about being broke but about breaking [b]the entitlement mentally most ladies have toda[/b]y. I am not under obligation to pay for your hairdo and buy toiletries for you. I can do any of these and more when and only when I want to.

It is wrong of you to compare our times with that of our mothers. Our mothers had the decency not to burden a man with their needs all in the name of dating. The ladies with entitlement mentality whom we have today are of a different breed....

Also, women are not entitled to give men sex when dating, so men shouldnt act like they are entitled to sex like most do, thinking it is their birth right.

ikh777:
wow.... pls help us define the LIMITS...

if you are dating for marriage, what and what should the guy NOT PAY FOR YET till after wedding

If you are dating for sex and fun.... AND he has to take care of those things that you would have naturally taken care of by yourself without a man.... THEN WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN YOU AND A CALL/RUNS GIRL?


See, all these things you said actually goes both ways. IF IT IS TRUE LOVE.... both parties are equals and should spend on each other according to their heart. RELATIONSHIP is not ADOPTION.

FACT 101: CORRECT Guys will always spend more on a lady who has more to offer beyond sex and gist.

Abeg locate the nearest bar to your house.
Tell them make them give you too cold Heineken.
Na me send you... Ngwa

Liliantalks:
u think I am going to deny anything or be defensive? See I am entitled to my mans money !! Yes I said it

the quarantine is just hitting hard on this one, don't worry dear, Las Las you go dey alright


abeg shift joor

Liliantalks:
u think I am going to deny anything or be defensive? See I am entitled to my mans money !! Yes I said it

Is he entitled to your money as well as your body?

Liliantalks:
u think I am going to deny anything or be defensive? See I am entitled to my mans money !! Yes I said it

and what posession of yours is he entitled to??

So women like this still exist.
A woman that cannot take care of her basic needs.
Relationship Don turn adoption.
I be your papa ni.?
You lack home training @OP.

I don't have time to monitor any girl, that's why they always complain and call me a player. You monitor dem go complain, you nor monitor dem go say you dey double date nai make you nor care......




As for me anytime wey she visit me nai I recognize her as my bae, once she step outa my house I nor care who she straff.

Liliantalks:
I can never understand the ideology of you doing nothing financially for me and you are trying to checkmate me, want to see who I am talking to and getting jealous all the time.

Am I supposed to stop talking to other guys, because I am dating a guy like you who can’t even take care of the basic needs of a woman, her hair and toiletries? Of course I am doing it myself, but there is absolutely nothing wrong with my man doing it for me. If you are broke and do nothing for your babe give her some space.

She knows you don’t have and trying to cope with you but don’t choke her up, especially now when you have nothing to offer.

Ps: if you are stingy as a man, you are not a man, you have no value. I didn’t say broke I said stingy. If you can’t do in little you won’t in much.

then what are you still doing with him? At least you guys are not married so you stand a chance to live.

Well is bad to be stingy... But ladies should not demand much from dia guys..

Since I understood that a pussy is not owned by ine man and she must have been getting a hot knack before you met her. Just come your own knack and if she has good character to marry her, marry her shikena. Looking after who a girl ks talking to is a sign of joblessness. If the girl even notice you have time she will be using it again you.

Men who understand the nature of women don't have problems in their marriage.

Swtbabyvee:
well said . A stingy man is a disgusting man

Another olosho spotted, u can easily identify them cos of their insatiable appetite for monetary items whereas they are lacking in value except for sex thats all.

Swtbabyvee:
well said . A stingy man is a disgusting man

My friend said I should ask you , “what of a stingy woman”

Liliantalks:
u think I am going to deny anything or be defensive? See I am entitled to my mans money !! Yes I said it

since u like money,quote me with ur number,i want us to do trade by barter,during this lock-down

Liliantalks:
u think I am going to deny anything or be defensive? See I am entitled to my mans money !! Yes I said it

Girls like this are a no no for guys because when that money they claim are entitled to finishes she will run unto the next man......

Lesson 102: guys watch out for girls like this (madam entitlement).

Baseless!

Only armed robbers would do that..

I repeat, the stupid armed robbers...



Lastly, not impressed with this stupid thread!

Liliantalks:
I can never understand the ideology of you doing nothing financially for me and you are trying to checkmate me, want to see who I am talking to and getting jealous all the time.

Am I supposed to stop talking to other guys, because I am dating a guy like you who can’t even take care of the basic needs of a woman, her hair and toiletries? Of course I am doing it myself, but there is absolutely nothing wrong with my man doing it for me. If you are broke and do nothing for your babe give her some space.

She knows you don’t have and trying to cope with you but don’t choke her up, especially now when you have nothing to offer.

Ps: if you are stingy as a man, you are not a man, you have no value. I didn’t say broke I said stingy. If you can’t do in little you won’t in much.

are you not broke too?

Liliantalks:
think about it , whenu strike a girl n u feel she has nothing to offer you than sex u dump her ,, but let’s be realistic , many men r married to their women cause of sex , and many women r married to their men cause of money , the others is a relevant plus . Sex and money brings both sex together

Bitter truth

Oluromantic:
So in your mind now. There's wisdom in what you said. Lol you shd be ashamed of yourself. If your father cannot help your financial desires, then zip up the burden. Romance is not trade by barter. Get some understanding before going public biko. You won't be young forever.

bro you should understand that olosho business has been somehow for the past few weeks now, so now, na their bfs they want to pour their frustration on. They never see anything

Shakaranews2020:
Beautiful.
Meanwhile, see the moment Mercy Johnson was delivered of a baby boy
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LghCnuQ2xkA

It's a baby girl!

Liliantalks:
I can never understand the ideology of you doing nothing financially for me and you are trying to checkmate me, want to see who I am talking to and getting jealous all the time.

Am I supposed to stop talking to other guys, because I am dating a guy like you who can’t even take care of the basic needs of a woman, her hair and toiletries? Of course I am doing it myself, but there is absolutely nothing wrong with my man doing it for me. If you are broke and do nothing for your babe give her some space.

She knows you don’t have and trying to cope with you but don’t choke her up, especially now when you have nothing to offer.

Ps: if you are stingy as a man, you are not a man, you have no value. I didn’t say broke I said stingy. If you can’t do in little you won’t in much.

no b the same two hands he get u get why wait for him to buy u stuff na bad thing if u do same, if he wan chk ur pone chk him own no noize please.

stay safe 2 love

Oluromantic:
They said if a person wants to give you a shirt, the most commonsensical thing to do is look at the one he/she's wearing.

How many people have you helped financially in your lifetime. Even Dangote who has changed the life of many won't call someone stingy

You have the right to call someone stingy only when you're richer and a better giver than that person. And not because he didn't meet up with your personal and selfish needs. Your needs are your responsibilities first before he gets involved so don't get entitled to anything or call someone stingy. That word is bigger than your mouth.

There's more honor in going out your way to bless someone else, guy or girl than expecting that someone will come and spend for you..that's a loosers delusion. What stops you from seeing urself as someone who can help him than expecting to be helped

Well said.

Rants of a self entitled weeding hoe...

Now let me put this straight to those sissy "nice guys" who assumed spending on a woman makes them a "a man", r in reality slaving away thier 'mane' just to pleasg a woman! Who in turn gets disgusted when ever you go broke.

For me I can’t date a girl who has a kid or who is not hardworking he has to be focus so that we going to be able to plan together for our future

I have told my now gf... I can't assure you marriage.
These girls looking for a successful guy to connect a sucking pipe on....
Do you know what it takes for a man to leave home everyday all in the name of hustle.

Biko ladies try to understand.

Theundertaker:
when I was a guest I see threads like this and just laugh , men boosting up and down , ladies arguing! What’s money for hair ? If I am going to shoprite to get stuffs we go together, almost every month. It’s nothing to me , if her hair is messy I know , she doesn’t need to ask , I know she would make her hair twice a month , we share sub , we share Netflix. I don’t even regard it as money , I won’t spend more than 20k a month or 30k if there is any special need , and I hv her Pusey any day any time , u get a runs babe and pay her 10k a night, lol Na wah for Una argument o

Ahem,bro's ecomomy bad ooo, no level. coro takeover.

Liliantalks:
I can never understand the ideology of you doing nothing financially for me and you are trying to checkmate me, want to see who I am talking to and getting jealous all the time.

Am I supposed to stop talking to other guys, because I am dating a guy like you who can’t even take care of the basic needs of a woman, her hair and toiletries? Of course I am doing it myself, but there is absolutely nothing wrong with my man doing it for me. If you are broke and do nothing for your babe give her some space.

She knows you don’t have and trying to cope with you but don’t choke her up, especially now when you have nothing to offer.

Ps: if you are stingy as a man, you are not a man, you have no value. I didn’t say broke I said stingy. If you can’t do in little you won’t in much.

Ashawo giving advise.

Is your boyfriend your father? Are you in the relationship to be a financial leech or to enjoy companionship. All these useless ashawo when full everywhere.

To guys, who love policing their babes, you are all mad. Op believes you need to take care of her to checkmate her ashawo spirit but you shouldn't do it unless a girl let's you. Policing a girl is just you fooling yourself because she will still knack indiscriminately if that's what she wants to do.

Energy you will use to think and make money, you are using to think how to police a girl that's not your wife. Policing your wife is even foolish.

All the hustlers out there better make money and marry the ashawo you're most comfortable with.

For those that are fortunate to meet a rare gem of a lady, I wish you the best and godspeed.

Anywhere you see girl with ashawo spirit, pay her and Bleep her. No fail to discharge her. No dull yourself.