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Re: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by professore(m): 12:45pm On May 26, 2020 |
tyup:You are talking from experience. |
Re: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by michaelponle(m): 12:46pm On May 26, 2020 |
I have been reading all comments. Bros she is scared of the unknown, ladies are like that, the part she don't know about you is getting her worried, in her head she is thinking of different things. Sit her down and talk, I mean real talk, if you have to get her upset for you guys to talk, pls do. If she doesn't talk u have to look for a way. All the best bro. 1 Like |
Re: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by oneTIMEman(m): 12:46pm On May 26, 2020 |
Bro, nawa for you ooo |
Re: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by brightalo1010: 12:46pm On May 26, 2020 |
I'll be the last person that will pacify or beg a lady for her own wrong deeds. They no born her well. What will the begging be like? Oh baby sorry for the way you offended me or what? Begging to please her stupid nonsense ego or what sef? |
Re: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by sisisioge: 12:47pm On May 26, 2020 |
CaseSensitive: The ears are sensitive jooor 1 Like |
Re: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by dbanjj1629(m): 12:47pm On May 26, 2020 |
Op, in my opinion this is not an issue. It simply means you haven't known her enough. You need to understand that this is her make up and you have to love her with this. You duty is to study her and relate with her as such. This is not enough to call off the wedding. Focus on her strength. Goodluck bro Donbabaj: |
Re: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by Omooba77: 12:47pm On May 26, 2020 |
Donbabaj:You don dey sleep for the same room before wedding? Typically what we call; ehun fa Ese lese (Drawing the leg of the Devil) |
Re: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by mechanics(m): 12:47pm On May 26, 2020 |
It's wrong for you and her to even be sleeping on the same bed since you have told her already that no sex before marriage, for her character keep advising her to change, I can't advise you to cancel the wedding since it's not a serious issue, she will change with time. |
Re: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by MondayOsunbor(m): 12:47pm On May 26, 2020 |
dingbang: OGA 3 weeks INTO MARRIAGE YOU ARE GETTING TIRED KNOW YOU KNOW THAT MARRIAGE LAST FOR A LIFE TIME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
Re: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by Heavengained1: 12:48pm On May 26, 2020 |
Brother, you're sounding like Adam. You remember his " the wife you gave me" phrase directed at God in the garden of Eden. Your marriage is just about to ride, and you seem to be harbouring some concerns about the fact that a matchmaker somewhere brought you two together. That's a faulty ground to site in the event your relationship runs into some speed bumps(it's a given except both of you r Angels)in the future. You should by now have buried the circumstance that brought you together and weighed in on weather you both are compatible and willing to take the ride along together. If you feel otherwise, it's never late to call it off instead of regrets and resentments while you're already married. 1 Like |
Re: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by Ndinweobodo: 12:48pm On May 26, 2020 |
Bro. Honestly, the feedback you would get from this platform won't really make the decision for you. Relationship or marriage is most sorted out by the individuals involved. Honestly, I'm not married, but have had my own experience from what you said. Trust me, the real heat is yet to come anyways, (Truth) is either you buckle up now to face the wind or move on. (Your happiness matters alots) Secondly, I would tell you not to expect less from other women either, everyone of us is structure to have our good and bad sides. Hers might be the hood side of the other person and the other person good side might be her bad. Lastly, don't go into marraige with a mindset pleasure. Marraige is buit for acceptance, understanding, accommodating, fight, and learn from every happening to move onto the next. Be ready bro, because women would always be women. Just open an account for Nagging, disrespecting, shouting, ignoring and repeating correction. Then, for you as the man... Develop a silence and walk away strategy that could last 24hrs max. My 10cents. 3 Likes |
Re: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by exboyolu: 12:48pm On May 26, 2020 |
Dear You are exposing yourselves to too much temptation. Why sleeping in the sqme room when you are not legally married? That is not correct. Look, ladies might take time to develop sexual feelings but when she finally does it is very difficult for her to surpress that urge. Therefore, she is sexually frustrated. You are not suppose to stay in the same closed place without a third person else satan will tempt you both. And when it comes to satan temptation on sex issue females are easily used. You guys need to understand the book if God. You should not open the way to temptation. How can you sleep with q lqdy on the sqme bed and you are then saying no sex? Which scripture are you using? Things does not work like that please. Please try to keep distance till you get married. Contact me privately for further family related guide. Wishing you all the best. A professor and Family advising specialist 3 Likes |
Re: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by Danniedpastor(m): 12:50pm On May 26, 2020 |
AccessME: You need Jesus |
Re: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by Prenonjebose: 12:51pm On May 26, 2020 |
"When it comes to marriage, love is not enough. There is tolerance, patience, good sex to orgasm, contentment, understanding and respect for each other”. Absolutely true. This is the "Maggi and salt" of a long lasting relationship. |
Re: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by Akojaewe(f): 12:52pm On May 26, 2020 |
I was once like her, when I got married 8 years my brain reset when my hubby showed me his true colour. If u truly love her go for her and you will see how she will change. My Opinion |
Re: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by SkgeeBoss(m): 12:52pm On May 26, 2020 |
Donbabaj: Op sorry to say Is she an igbo girl? |
Re: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by Lawxen: 12:52pm On May 26, 2020 |
dingbang: It’s obvious you can’t read and understand. Didn’t you read where he said “jokingly”? |
Re: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by FX2BROWN: 12:53pm On May 26, 2020 |
My advice, pray before you venture into marriage. It's never palatable, when there is issues in marriage. Ask those have problems in marriages. A word is enough for the wise. |
Re: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by AlphaStorm: 12:54pm On May 26, 2020 |
OPristical OP...!!! Dis ur case is meristematically olympotic. D way am seeing this, na 50/50. It may end in tears or not. Just pray u dont have to created a new account on NL to ask us for Advice later on. #shalom |
Re: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by tegrianonigltd(m): 12:54pm On May 26, 2020 |
Ningen: Very very important and Vitamin L and Vitamin S, she is mentally and sexually frustrated, Wetin go come pain am pass na if them marry and the idiot na indomie not rice or beans, |
Re: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by phylshan: 12:55pm On May 26, 2020 |
You two have been patient for a whole year. You just have three weeks left just hold yourself brother. But to be honest I think there is something sinister about the whole thing. I know what women can do. Well you will understand what I'm saying in due course. |
Re: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by gonkin(m): 12:57pm On May 26, 2020 |
Donbabaj: No worry, just F.cuk her once her mood swing will change she'll love u so much you'll wonder if you've got candy on ur magic stick |
Re: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by Sagay212: 12:57pm On May 26, 2020 |
Donbabaj: Oga keep quiet! Biblical man. Go and marry holy Mary na. You dey touch woman for sensitive part because you just want to give her attention yen yen yen. Your pri.ick nor stand as you touch bobbi? Some of you people can be annoying with your holier than thou attitude. I can sense the kinda person you are and how annoying you will be with your holy holy attitude. You are frustrating the yound lady with your bull.shit. may be you should look for all those holier than thou deeper life women like you so that you can be dulling yourselves together. I wish say I fit get neighbour like you. I go phuck your wife scatter while you go dey form no kissing and no touching... 1 Like |
Re: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by wizzyarts: 12:57pm On May 26, 2020 |
She has no problem at all but you're just the problem. As a Christian u claimed to be, why will u ask a lady u haven't get married to come and live in same room with u And u keep touching her everyday and u think she isn't sensitive. Is romance not a sin? Maybe she might be doing this to see and know how faithful you are in maintaining your words. She can as well be thinking "why will two of us (about to wed)sleeping in the same bed with less romance and no sex?" 1 Like |
Re: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by mattfeuter(m): 12:57pm On May 26, 2020 |
Donbabaj: Young man , give that girl the damn D or somebody else will ASAP if them fvck her now , you will come and open another silly thread on nl about how girls are evil. |
Re: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by GamalNasser: 12:57pm On May 26, 2020 |
DanseMacabre:Trust me he is a one minute man |
Re: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by MicaiahOgorry06: 12:58pm On May 26, 2020 |
There's always an impending consequence to any sin that is deliberately committed. Sex before marriage is ungodly, it's evil, it's not of God and is not Biblical. God bless you and have a nice day! |
Re: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by apexx596: 12:58pm On May 26, 2020 |
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Re: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by tyup(m): 12:59pm On May 26, 2020 |
professore: Lol nahh....i cut off from Toxic ladies anytime I notice any trace of toxicity Anyways I've since shifted to a Serbian |
Re: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by kimjessey2019: 12:59pm On May 26, 2020 |
She is doubting if you can perform. I mean she want know exactly what she is about to own. I mean Bleep HER!!!!!! |
Re: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by Munzy14(m): 1:00pm On May 26, 2020 |
Donbabaj:After reading through, I found out u guys are not sexually compatible and probably in some areas. Her type of woman want you to dominate her, but it is not happening.....She is frustrated and as well lost in thoughts. |
Re: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by Seventy7kings: 1:00pm On May 26, 2020 |
Sisijetue:Donbabaj, you should've resisted the urge to shalaye |
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