tyup:


Nothing annoys me more than weaklings like you who always go pacify a lady after every disagreement either ur at fault or she is

That's an outrageous mumuish attitude from you...shit u should have ur pride

From my predictions she would one day disgrace and embarrass you Publicly n you'll still be the one to beg n this would continue for a very Loooong time till u get frustrated n shattered and she wouldn't care

You are talking from experience.

I have been reading all comments.
Bros she is scared of the unknown, ladies are like that, the part she don't know about you is getting her worried, in her head she is thinking of different things.
Sit her down and talk, I mean real talk, if you have to get her upset for you guys to talk, pls do.

If she doesn't talk u have to look for a way.
All the best bro.

Bro, nawa for you ooo

I'll be the last person that will pacify or beg a lady for her own wrong deeds. They no born her well.

What will the begging be like? Oh baby sorry for the way you offended me or what? Begging to please her stupid nonsense ego or what sef?

CaseSensitive:


You weren't kissing or touching sensitive part. Wait...when you said you were touching each other, what in particular were you touching? Her nose and ears?

The ears are sensitive jooor

Op, in my opinion this is not an issue. It simply means you haven't known her enough. You need to understand that this is her make up and you have to love her with this. You duty is to study her and relate with her as such. This is not enough to call off the wedding. Focus on her strength.

Goodluck bro

Donbabaj:
I could be happy now but the next minute, she changes mood all of a sudden. We dated for over year after someone match make us but this mood swing things continued overtime so sometimes I get confused even as i really tried managing the pressure. She's a nice girl, takes good care of me, buys clothes, cooks, always wants me to look good but the problem is the rate which she switches mood easily.

Financially, we are both average earner but I think she earns better pay than me.

For instance, recently we got a new apartment - 2bedroom flat but whenever I say something she doesn't like or she doesn't want to hear, she just reacts like why would I say such a thing. All the while we were dating, we never stayed with each other as we stayed in our parents house. Fast forward* most times, as the man, after switching mood, I try to pacify her by petting and apologising but she doesn't just want to listen.

Just today, we were playing with each other on the bed, touching each other (not sensitive part) and she wanted me to kiss her. So I told her jokingly that "but you know this is not biblical" as an advocate of no sex until after marriage. I have never had sex with her either. The next thing she said, "why are you talking like this" she stood up, went straight to the sitting room and slept there. I went to meet her there to pacify her again but she wouldn't listen.

Please note that I have not and can never beat or abuse her cos I'm a Christian.

I'm just tired. She's really getting on my nerves. Our wedding is 3 weeks time but I dont just know what to do. People, friends and family are already aware of the impending marriage but I'm afraid that if a lady can switch mood like this, who knows what will happen tommorrow. I cant sleep in peace...

Please advice. This is happening right now.

Donbabaj:
I could be happy now but the next minute, she changes mood all of a sudden. We dated for over year after someone match make us but this mood swing things continued overtime so sometimes I get confused even as i really tried managing the pressure. She's a nice girl, takes good care of me, buys clothes, cooks, always wants me to look good but the problem is the rate which she switches mood easily.

Financially, we are both average earner but I think she earns better pay than me.

For instance, recently we got a new apartment - 2bedroom flat but whenever I say something she doesn't like or she doesn't want to hear, she just reacts like why would I say such a thing. All the while we were dating, we never stayed with each other as we stayed in our parents house. Fast forward* most times, as the man, after switching mood, I try to pacify her by petting and apologising but she doesn't just want to listen.

Just today, we were playing with each other on the bed, touching each other (not sensitive part) and she wanted me to kiss her. So I told her jokingly that "but you know this is not biblical" as an advocate of no sex until after marriage. I have never had sex with her either. The next thing she said, "why are you talking like this" she stood up, went straight to the sitting room and slept there. I went to meet her there to pacify her again but she wouldn't listen.

Please note that I have not and can never beat or abuse her cos I'm a Christian.

I'm just tired. She's really getting on my nerves. Our wedding is 3 weeks time but I dont just know what to do. People, friends and family are already aware of the impending marriage but I'm afraid that if a lady can switch mood like this, who knows what will happen tommorrow. I cant sleep in peace...

Please advice. This is happening right now.

You don dey sleep for the same room before wedding? Typically what we call; ehun fa Ese lese (Drawing the leg of the Devil)

It's wrong for you and her to even be sleeping on the same bed since you have told her already that no sex before marriage, for her character keep advising her to change, I can't advise you to cancel the wedding since it's not a serious issue, she will change with time.

dingbang:
You sef.. But you were touching her and you didn't tell yourself it wasnt biblical too abi.

OGA 3 weeks INTO MARRIAGE YOU ARE GETTING TIRED


KNOW YOU KNOW THAT MARRIAGE LAST FOR A LIFE TIME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Brother, you're sounding like Adam. You remember his " the wife you gave me" phrase directed at God in the garden of Eden. Your marriage is just about to ride, and you seem to be harbouring some concerns about the fact that a matchmaker somewhere brought you two together. That's a faulty ground to site in the event your relationship runs into some speed bumps(it's a given except both of you r Angels)in the future. You should by now have buried the circumstance that brought you together and weighed in on weather you both are compatible and willing to take the ride along together. If you feel otherwise, it's never late to call it off instead of regrets and resentments while you're already married.

Bro.
Honestly, the feedback you would get from this platform won't really make the decision for you. Relationship or marriage is most sorted out by the individuals involved.

Honestly, I'm not married, but have had my own experience from what you said.

Trust me, the real heat is yet to come anyways, (Truth) is either you buckle up now to face the wind or move on. (Your happiness matters alots)

Secondly, I would tell you not to expect less from other women either, everyone of us is structure to have our good and bad sides. Hers might be the hood side of the other person and the other person good side might be her bad.

Lastly, don't go into marraige with a mindset pleasure. Marraige is buit for acceptance, understanding, accommodating, fight, and learn from every happening to move onto the next.

Be ready bro, because women would always be women.
Just open an account for Nagging, disrespecting, shouting, ignoring and repeating correction.

Then, for you as the man... Develop a silence and walk away strategy that could last 24hrs max.

My 10cents.

Dear
You are exposing yourselves to too much temptation. Why sleeping in the sqme room when you are not legally married? That is not correct.
Look, ladies might take time to develop sexual feelings but when she finally does it is very difficult for her to surpress that urge. Therefore, she is sexually frustrated.

You are not suppose to stay in the same closed place without a third person else satan will tempt you both. And when it comes to satan temptation on sex issue females are easily used.

You guys need to understand the book if God. You should not open the way to temptation. How can you sleep with q lqdy on the sqme bed and you are then saying no sex? Which scripture are you using? Things does not work like that please.

Please try to keep distance till you get married.

Contact me privately for further family related guide.
Wishing you all the best.
A professor and Family advising specialist

AccessME:
Op If I were u I will give her good sex that's obviously what she needs.

Forget all this biblical talks, be a man for once and act as one.

Na Hard F*ck she need!

You need Jesus

"When it comes to marriage, love is not enough. There is tolerance, patience, good sex to orgasm, contentment, understanding and respect for each other”. Absolutely true. This is the "Maggi and salt" of a long lasting relationship.

I was once like her, when I got married 8 years my brain reset when my hubby showed me his true colour. If u truly love her go for her and you will see how she will change. My Opinion

Donbabaj:
I could be happy now but the next minute, she changes mood all of a sudden. We dated for over year after someone match make us but this mood swing things continued overtime so sometimes I get confused even as i really tried managing the pressure. She's a nice girl, takes good care of me, buys clothes, cooks, always wants me to look good but the problem is the rate which she switches mood easily.

Financially, we are both average earner but I think she earns better pay than me.

For instance, recently we got a new apartment - 2bedroom flat but whenever I say something she doesn't like or she doesn't want to hear, she just reacts like why would I say such a thing. All the while we were dating, we never stayed with each other as we stayed in our parents house. Fast forward* most times, as the man, after switching mood, I try to pacify her by petting and apologising but she doesn't just want to listen.

Just today, we were playing with each other on the bed, touching each other (not sensitive part) and she wanted me to kiss her. So I told her jokingly that "but you know this is not biblical" as an advocate of no sex until after marriage. I have never had sex with her either. The next thing she said, "why are you talking like this" she stood up, went straight to the sitting room and slept there. I went to meet her there to pacify her again but she wouldn't listen.

Please note that I have not and can never beat or abuse her cos I'm a Christian.

I'm just tired. She's really getting on my nerves. Our wedding is 3 weeks time but I dont just know what to do. People, friends and family are already aware of the impending marriage but I'm afraid that if a lady can switch mood like this, who knows what will happen tommorrow. I cant sleep in peace...

Please advice. This is happening right now.

Op sorry to say
Is she an igbo girl?

dingbang:
You sef.. But you were touching her and you didn't tell yourself it wasnt biblical too abi.

It’s obvious you can’t read and understand. Didn’t you read where he said “jokingly”?

My advice, pray before you venture into marriage. It's never palatable, when there is issues in marriage. Ask those have problems in marriages. A word is enough for the wise.

OPristical OP...!!! Dis ur case is meristematically olympotic.
D way am seeing this, na 50/50. It may end in tears or not. Just pray u dont have to created a new account on NL to ask us for Advice later on.

#shalom

Ningen:
Do not bail on her for this.

Her “mood swings” aren't even exaggerated. It's very mild and subtle. With good communication and effort from both parties, it can be managed.

Guy, I can tell she's also sexually frustrated.
Vitamin D is important for her mental health.

Once you've seal it off, dominate that “swing”.

Very very important and Vitamin L and Vitamin S, she is mentally and sexually frustrated, Wetin go come pain am pass na if them marry and the idiot na indomie not rice or beans,

You two have been patient for a whole year. You just have three weeks left just hold yourself brother. But to be honest I think there is something sinister about the whole thing. I know what women can do. Well you will understand what I'm saying in due course.

Donbabaj:
I could be happy now but the next minute, she changes mood all of a sudden. We dated for over year after someone match make us but this mood swing things continued overtime so sometimes I get confused even as i really tried managing the pressure. She's a nice girl, takes good care of me, buys clothes, cooks, always wants me to look good but the problem is the rate which she switches mood easily.

Financially, we are both average earner but I think she earns better pay than me.

For instance, recently we got a new apartment - 2bedroom flat but whenever I say something she doesn't like or she doesn't want to hear, she just reacts like why would I say such a thing. All the while we were dating, we never stayed with each other as we stayed in our parents house. Fast forward* most times, as the man, after switching mood, I try to pacify her by petting and apologising but she doesn't just want to listen.

Just today, we were playing with each other on the bed, touching each other (not sensitive part) and she wanted me to kiss her. So I told her jokingly that "but you know this is not biblical" as an advocate of no sex until after marriage. I have never had sex with her either. The next thing she said, "why are you talking like this" she stood up, went straight to the sitting room and slept there. I went to meet her there to pacify her again but she wouldn't listen.

Please note that I have not and can never beat or abuse her cos I'm a Christian.

I'm just tired. She's really getting on my nerves. Our wedding is 3 weeks time but I dont just know what to do. People, friends and family are already aware of the impending marriage but I'm afraid that if a lady can switch mood like this, who knows what will happen tommorrow. I cant sleep in peace...

Please advice. This is happening right now.

No worry, just F.cuk her once her mood swing will change she'll love u so much you'll wonder if you've got candy on ur magic stick

Donbabaj:


You know at times you just want to please these ladies at times and give them attention. But not with my faith.

Oga keep quiet! Biblical man. Go and marry holy Mary na. You dey touch woman for sensitive part because you just want to give her attention yen yen yen. Your pri.ick nor stand as you touch bobbi?
Some of you people can be annoying with your holier than thou attitude. I can sense the kinda person you are and how annoying you will be with your holy holy attitude. You are frustrating the yound lady with your bull.shit. may be you should look for all those holier than thou deeper life women like you so that you can be dulling yourselves together.

I wish say I fit get neighbour like you. I go phuck your wife scatter while you go dey form no kissing and no touching...

She has no problem at all but you're just the problem. As a Christian u claimed to be, why will u ask a lady u haven't get married to come and live in same room with u And u keep touching her everyday and u think she isn't sensitive. Is romance not a sin? Maybe she might be doing this to see and know how faithful you are in maintaining your words. She can as well be thinking "why will two of us (about to wed)sleeping in the same bed with less romance and no sex?"

Donbabaj:
I could be happy now but the next minute, she changes mood all of a sudden. We dated for over year after someone match make us but this mood swing things continued overtime so sometimes I get confused even as i really tried managing the pressure. She's a nice girl, takes good care of me, buys clothes, cooks, always wants me to look good but the problem is the rate which she switches mood easily.

Financially, we are both average earner but I think she earns better pay than me.

For instance, recently we got a new apartment - 2bedroom flat but whenever I say something she doesn't like or she doesn't want to hear, she just reacts like why would I say such a thing. All the while we were dating, we never stayed with each other as we stayed in our parents house. Fast forward* most times, as the man, after switching mood, I try to pacify her by petting and apologising but she doesn't just want to listen.

Just today, we were playing with each other on the bed, touching each other (not sensitive part) and she wanted me to kiss her. So I told her jokingly that "but you know this is not biblical" as an advocate of no sex until after marriage. I have never had sex with her either. The next thing she said, "why are you talking like this" she stood up, went straight to the sitting room and slept there. I went to meet her there to pacify her again but she wouldn't listen.

Please note that I have not and can never beat or abuse her cos I'm a Christian.

I'm just tired. She's really getting on my nerves. Our wedding is 3 weeks time but I dont just know what to do. People, friends and family are already aware of the impending marriage but I'm afraid that if a lady can switch mood like this, who knows what will happen tommorrow. I cant sleep in peace...

Please advice. This is happening right now.

Young man , give that girl the damn D or somebody else will ASAP if them fvck her now , you will come and open another silly thread on nl about how girls are evil.

DanseMacabre:
I hope she won't find out in the next three weeks that you're a one minute man.


Anyway to be honest with you the way things are going there is every likelihood of it ending in tears.

Trust me he is a one minute man

There's always an impending consequence to any sin that is deliberately committed. Sex before marriage is ungodly, it's evil, it's not of God and is not Biblical. God bless you and have a nice day!

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professore:

You are talking from experience.

Lol nahh....i cut off from Toxic ladies anytime I notice any trace of toxicity

Anyways I've since shifted to a Serbian

She is doubting if you can perform. I mean she want know exactly what she is about to own. I mean Bleep HER!!!!!!

Donbabaj:
I could be happy now but the next minute, she changes mood all of a sudden. We dated for over year after someone match make us but this mood swing things continued overtime so sometimes I get confused even as i really tried managing the pressure. She's a nice girl, takes good care of me, buys clothes, cooks, always wants me to look good but the problem is the rate which she switches mood easily.

Financially, we are both average earner but I think she earns better pay than me.

For instance, recently we got a new apartment - 2bedroom flat but whenever I say something she doesn't like or she doesn't want to hear, she just reacts like why would I say such a thing. All the while we were dating, we never stayed with each other as we stayed in our parents house. Fast forward* most times, as the man, after switching mood, I try to pacify her by petting and apologising but she doesn't just want to listen.

Just today, we were playing with each other on the bed, touching each other (not sensitive part) and she wanted me to kiss her. So I told her jokingly that "but you know this is not biblical" as an advocate of no sex until after marriage. I have never had sex with her either. The next thing she said, "why are you talking like this" she stood up, went straight to the sitting room and slept there. I went to meet her there to pacify her again but she wouldn't listen.

Please note that I have not and can never beat or abuse her cos I'm a Christian.

I'm just tired. She's really getting on my nerves. Our wedding is 3 weeks time but I dont just know what to do. People, friends and family are already aware of the impending marriage but I'm afraid that if a lady can switch mood like this, who knows what will happen tommorrow. I cant sleep in peace...

Please advice. This is happening right now.

After reading through, I found out u guys are not sexually compatible and probably in some areas.

Her type of woman want you to dominate her, but it is not happening.....She is frustrated and as well lost in thoughts.

Sisijetue:
Shalaye FC ko necesstry

Donbabaj, you should've resisted the urge to shalaye