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Re: Should The Man Pay It? by kalvoken(m): 10:15pm On Jun 15, 2020

Re: Should The Man Pay It? by Zeinymira(f): 10:15pm On Jun 15, 2020

That lady and her family are Shameless leeches

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Re: Should The Man Pay It? by Uyi168: 10:15pm On Jun 15, 2020

....
All these concocted Twitter stories sef..
Believe them at ur own peril...

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Re: Should The Man Pay It? by yesloaded: 10:16pm On Jun 15, 2020

Whats the title of this movie? I wanna watch it o YouTube to know where it ends

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Re: Should The Man Pay It? by gambia(m): 10:16pm On Jun 15, 2020

This is a Nollywood movie titled "IN LAWS FROM HELL"

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Re: Should The Man Pay It? by raphroye: 10:16pm On Jun 15, 2020

The husband made the right decision.... After forcing him to pay 580k, your father still want him to contribute 120k huh

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Re: Should The Man Pay It? by iCauseTrouble: 10:16pm On Jun 15, 2020

Re: Should The Man Pay It? by Nasir123(m): 10:17pm On Jun 15, 2020

You won kee the man?
Na wao!

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Re: Should The Man Pay It? by Nobody: 10:17pm On Jun 15, 2020

Jeffrey12:
Nairalanders, What's your take on this?
What would have been your reaction towards this matter, If you were the husband?

https://twitter.com/SmartAtuadi/status/1272275117280759810?s=19[/quote]How many times will I read this on nairaland?

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Re: Should The Man Pay It? by philips007(m): 10:17pm On Jun 15, 2020

The day he made that huge sum of payment to your family. I believe he has contributed to all your family future problem.

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Re: Should The Man Pay It? by bmdmixer: 10:18pm On Jun 15, 2020

when ur husband divorce u hope ur useless parent can pay back the money as tradition demands useless she goat of a wife stupid father useless mother n mumu brother, inshort that man put head for useless family

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Re: Should The Man Pay It? by tfash96(m): 10:18pm On Jun 15, 2020

Is he gay servicing your brother that he should participate in his life affairs or is he servicing your brother's wife that he should sponsor their wedding.. If he wants to do it willingly FINE and if he doesn't it's not duty.. Tell your brother to man up

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Re: Should The Man Pay It? by VirginSearcher(m): 10:18pm On Jun 15, 2020

I was very certain this will be brought here, saw it on Twitter grin

Re: Should The Man Pay It? by frozen70(f): 10:18pm On Jun 15, 2020

Your family would have understood that they have eaten once what they need to eat for the rest of their lives in the case of your relationship

Just get a job doing and make any contribution given to him because he has already settled them and won't give a dam even if you want to leave

It's best for you to support your husband than fighting him in this instance

Let your family learn how to over look him as he will not yield to them

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Re: Should The Man Pay It? by tydi(m): 10:19pm On Jun 15, 2020

I didn't read through, no strength!!

I only saw 70k monthly and wife...

But somebody help me tell the husband it will definitely end in premium t_______ssss for him.

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Re: Should The Man Pay It? by Nobody: 10:19pm On Jun 15, 2020

Why are you guys not spending within your means

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Re: Should The Man Pay It? by oluwatomisin93(m): 10:19pm On Jun 15, 2020

This man is a real nigga. But on a more serious note, is he suppose to contribute for ur brothers wedding. Let ur bro go out there and find his way out.

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Re: Should The Man Pay It? by tonididdy(m): 10:19pm On Jun 15, 2020

really...

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Re: Should The Man Pay It? by loadedvibes: 10:19pm On Jun 15, 2020*

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Re: Should The Man Pay It? by mordred44: 10:19pm On Jun 15, 2020

Dis na d type of wife dat wil nt want her husband family to kum around...

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Re: Should The Man Pay It? by fergie001: 10:19pm On Jun 15, 2020

DominusPrime:
Before I say anything when your husband wanted to get married which of your own brothers contributed to the wedding? Now your own brother, a full grown man like your husband wants to get married and they want to bill him another 120k? A man who is managing 70k salary? Anyway I blame your husband. You are earning 70k per month and you went to marry from a poor family. Their demands will definitely be higher than you can afford. Like I always say poverty dey kill love!!! It is better to cut your coat according to your cloth than deceive yourself to marry with poverty hugging you because you are in love. Sheybe the love dey help una fit una bills nah? Even if the wife gets a job things will never be the same. Even if the man gets a higher well paid job they will either hate him for the previous way he treated them or milk him more as money don come...

Flesh and blood have not revealed this to you...

You are a wise man....OP, here lies the answer.

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Re: Should The Man Pay It? by MrMcJay(m): 10:20pm On Jun 15, 2020

Useless family of beggars. Don't you and your family have sense, shame or work? Because your husband married you, all of you want to wreck him. Is it bad luck to marry from your family?

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Re: Should The Man Pay It? by Nobody: 10:20pm On Jun 15, 2020

This is the problem with marrying someone from a poor home and trust me when i say over 90% of these girls are.

Once you get married to them they move all their family responsibilities over to you. Beware of leeches

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Re: Should The Man Pay It? by oluwasegun007(m): 10:20pm On Jun 15, 2020

The truth and bitter truth is that he doesn't love u...

When you love a woman, you love everything about her which includes her people.

Re: Should The Man Pay It? by NaijaRoyalty(m): 10:21pm On Jun 15, 2020

You're a stupid woman and a stupid wife

No man deserve a stupid woman like you for a wife

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Re: Should The Man Pay It? by Victory2222: 10:21pm On Jun 15, 2020

Let your brother work hard as your husband did. Wetin concern Car with aeroplane....?

Re: Should The Man Pay It? by samwash(m): 10:21pm On Jun 15, 2020

thorpido:
Well your husband does not have a responsibility to send money monthly to your parents.He could but he is not obligated to.
Your husband also does not have an obligation to contribute to your brother's wedding.It is your own obligation as the sister.He could do that however as an inlaw.
I guess the problem with your husband is that your family did not treat him well when he wanted to marry you because of the list he was given.
You both need counsel from wise elders.

Case closed, Broda u spoke my mind.
It's not the responsibility of her husband to contribute to her wife's brother wedding .
Also he doesn't own his inlaw anything or to be sending them monthly allowance.
My inlaw nor fit try these to me Sha !!!

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Re: Should The Man Pay It? by Nobody: 10:22pm On Jun 15, 2020

All these fake stories though.
If this is actually a true life story then madam you're..... Let me keep quiet lipsrsealed

If your brother is not capable of bearing the cost of his marriage rites, let him chilax. Your hubby performed his marriage rites on you without dragging anyone into it. So why drag him into this by force?

Mtchew.

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Re: Should The Man Pay It? by pek(m): 10:22pm On Jun 15, 2020

thorpido:
Well your husband does not have a responsibility to send money monthly to your parents.He could but he is not obligated to.
Your husband also does not have an obligation to contribute to your brother's wedding.It is your own obligation as the sister.He could do that however as an inlaw.
I guess the problem with your husband is that your family did not treat him well when he wanted to marry you because of the list he was given.
You both need counsel from wise elders.

I beg to disagree. He doesn't need to see any elder. How would you obligate him to a contribution of ₦120,000 to his brother in law's wedding? Sounds outlandish and beyond comprehension! He doesn't also owe his in laws any monthly stipend.

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Re: Should The Man Pay It? by meetme01: 10:22pm On Jun 15, 2020

The lady should be ashamed of her self and her parents. They are disgusting, shameless nonsensical fellow.

580K for trad wedding? Feeding, clothing, rents and other bills on meager 70k and you bring forth 120K extra bill for an inlaw.

Your husband deserves a standing ovation while madam needs brain reset.

Iru kileyi gan sef..Iru pete ni oo.

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