oluwasegun007:
The truth and bitter truth is that he doesn't love u...

When you love a woman, you love everything about her which includes her people.

I feel so so sorry for you

Sha don't come on nairaland to seek for marital advice when you marry such over demanding wife

The husband deserves an award

Make I just comment on this matter

As it stands, the only thing he owes Ur family is greetings and maybe calls once in a while to check on them. Once he asks of their well being and dem no sick, babu wahala.

Even Pharaoh no wicked reach Ur father. Someone who earns 70k per month, Ur father collected over 8 months equivalent of his salary from him as Ur bride price. It's nott even like u are a PHD holder and Ur dad feels he should get compensated for giving out in marriage the hand of a scholar: /future professor .

See ehn, Ur husband does not owe Ur family anything like he rightly said, in fact he is entitled to every dish they will serve in Ur brother's wedding sef. He has paid in full. Make Ur papa go liquidate part of Ur bride price he invested in bit coin na

Donald3d:


The way people think sef, and their disgusting entitlement mentality

Coming from a woman who doesn't work .

So if he pays the 120k, who would fend for the home ?

120k is almost his salary for 2 months .

Instead of her to be fighting for him to save and be prudent to better their lives, she is making unreasonable demands.

Your bride price list alone took about 8-9 months of his salary, not to talk of the other wedding expenses.

The oga is still probably paying debt from the wedding.

No matter what you do folks, never marry someone who has the mentality of a child !!!
Never marry into a family that always feel entitled , even if you do, make sure your spouse doesn't think like them.
I detest things like this

120k?
Is it my responsibility?
I can willingly give my inlaws money buy i will never allow being forced to make donations,
did they donate for my wedding?
Why are some inlaws so selfish laidis?

This story is very dumb.. and it shows the lady's family HV a low self esteem, in which they see their female children as investment and survival .
If you no marry, won't Ur brother pay his own marriage list.. this is a foolish thinking..
And what has the husband, with her brother.. what is the relationship btw weyrey and Asinwin .
If Ur family needs a means of survival, then the father shud go out and work . Don't drain another man's son dry.
As I start reading, I know na Igbo tribe..
U kule kuku kill him.
Fools everywhere, .. u think it is easy

Mstick:
What kind of shameless family is this? Since your brother doesn't have money to sponsor his own wedding isn't it obvious that he shouldn't be getting married?!

Calling your husband irresponsible because he refused to bear your brother's responsibility shows that the entitled mentality of your family is hereditary.

A man who cant foot his tm Bill's has no biz getting into marriage

Fake story joor. Cos it's even goats reason beta dan some girls

And you believe this story....

"bride price" can't just be that expensive.

You meant "wedding ceremony"

Lalasticlala, kindly check the FP heading of this post. Bride Price is part of wedding/wedding expenses.

Kikikikiki wonders shall never end! This one wants to turn her husband to her extended family ATM. Women and problem are like 5 & 6. If dem neva create problem, dem no deh dey ok

i know the tribe tht sale there daughter just for Bleep sake to giv them grandkids .


n still want there husband to send money to her parents as if na his birth right.
stupid women. u think say na all men charm they work on. why must u tell the world how much ya man earns.
if he divorce u tomorrow don't run come here o. because u be big fool.

How I wish I can see u one on one to tell u my mind idiot gal. Is he part of ur family or ur husband don't u know that he has his family, wch he need take care of and u plus ontop.

Ah! Jeeeeeesssssuuuuuuuu! Women and their ignorance. But wait o! What tribe are you? Eh! Do you want to kill him? How do you expect him to cough out conveniently 120k from 70k monthly. Do you want to starve? After that you will tell him gas has finished, rice remains 2 cups , you want to fix your hair & so on and so forth & you are jobless. You had better wise up.

Anuoluwa1234:
This story is very dumb.. and it shows the lady's family HV a low self esteem, in which they see their female children as investment and survival .
If you no marry, won't Ur brother pay his own marriage list.. this is a foolish thinking..
And what has the husband, with her brother.. what is the relationship btw weyrey and Asinwin .
If Ur family needs a means of survival, then the father shud go out and work . Don't drain another man's son dry.
As I start reading, I know na Igbo tribe..
U kule kuku kill him.
Fools everywhere, .. u think it is easy

Anu calm down na ...kilode

I support ur husband. If u like no respect him wish

He doesn't owe her family anything. He married her, not her parents.

Sounds like the culture of the inhabitants of a certain erosion-ravaged, landlocked, padlocked, jampacked, mudland hellhole who infest and constitute nuisances in other people's homelands like mendicant gypsies and homeless refugees. Useless people!

Anuoluwa1234:
This story is very dumb.. and it shows the lady's family HV a low self esteem, in which they see their female children as investment and survival .
If you no marry, won't Ur brother pay his own marriage list.. this is a foolish thinking..
And what has the husband, with her brother.. what is the relationship btw weyrey and Asinwin .
If Ur family needs a means of survival, then the father shud go out and work . Don't drain another man's son dry.
As I start reading, I know na Igbo tribe..
U kule kuku kill him.
Fools everywhere, .. u think it is easy

Why bring tribalism into this?
now watch them come for your head.

Very STUPID TALK!!!!

Does he owe you or your family that?


Since He paid your bride price in full, he don't owe your family s**t.

He is YOUR HUSBAND. Financially responsible for his nuclear household ONLY.

He is not YOUR FAMILY'S EVENT SPONSOR. So your brother who is old enough to marry, should also be responsible enough to fend for his own

wedding event.

Madam it is only God that can forgive you.


Like seriously, did I just read this nonsense?

Some people self don craze since
Otolo saa gi na that ur brother.
Ndi ala

Tell your husband ....I said that he should quickly as a matter of urgency place you for sale in okirika or tokunbo market cos your are of no value both in brain and wits......you don't have any plan and agenda.

This lady and her father's family are inconsiderate and very selfish. Why can her brother, parents and other extended family rally to cover the cost of wedding

It’s like this one is mad mtchww

Jeffrey12:
Nairalanders, What's your take on this?
What would have been your reaction towards this matter, If you were the husband?

https://twitter.com/SmartAtuadi/status/1272275117280759810?s=19

When we tell men not to marry broke girls they think we don't know what were saying.... So your papa Sabi collect full brideprice but when e reach your broda turn him dey share contribution, contribution kee am for there....that man na real gee.... Na my kinda nigger him be. Both you , your dad and broda are mad togeda

Lol... My special kind of man
Greedy family...They should help your brother to contribute money for his marriage, what rubbish....!!

This is an eye opener for all aspiring guys planning to get married, If the girls family decides to extort you in the name of marriage, if you can pay it, just pay, but after that they shouldn't receive any shi-shi from you anymore since they sold their daughter...

elektra:
You and Your family are a bunch of entitled clowns.

Why should your husband be paying your parents salary? Are they his employees? What are they doing for him? Your mouth did not even heavy you to ask, seeing as you are a not bringing in any income. Your head is not correct at all.

Your father sef! When he was insisting on >500K he did not think of the future. Now the same fate has befallen his son. Shame did not catch him to demand money from his in-law? Your father is a shameless man.

You harsh oooooo, haba