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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by samwillyco1(m): 6:10pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
lightangel65i: Wickedness ooooo |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by gwininfo(m): 6:15pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
mine is about 15 years of severe addiction......i am always wishing I could stop |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by samwillyco1(m): 6:17pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Mine was even more than that, get yourself a good girl and be fucking her hard, but get the one you like in case of pregnancy, don't forget to go for a medical checkup with her before banging her and pray she will be having sex alone with you 1 Like |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Nobody: 6:17pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
stop feeling guilty accept the fact that u are a masturbator but u will control how often you do it. then u will stop it but now that u are so depressed and frustrated about it i swear you cant even go 2days without it JUST RELAX AND ACCEPT IT START ONE ONE DAY INTERVAL MASTURBATE TODAY DONT TOMORROW KEEP GOING LIKE THAT FOR ATLEAST A MONTH THEN START 2DAYS INTERVAL WITHIN 6MONTHS TIME IF YOU DIDNT STOP IT COMPELETELY YOU WILL REDUCE IT TO THE LOWEST 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Aplaudez(m): 6:19pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Abouwaza: Are you married?? If yes, how many kids now? |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Pharaoh94(m): 6:24pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Chat up this line on whatsapp, they can help you with your addiction. 07058890113. It's an organisation that help people with this kind of issues. |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by OA01: 6:41pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
You can stop masturbating. In fact, you are in the process of stopping it. You had taken the first step by exposing it. Now, count your losses for the time being, that is, all the things, it had stolen from you and the blockage it had erected. Masturbation always destroy one's life gradually or terminate it eventually. Give your life totally to Jesus Christ, He will guide you. Next thing you need to do is to develop very strong and growing Love for God. The love for God will always retrace your steps back to God. This last step is very powerful because it requires a sealed heart. It's that point where you make that decision and statement of ' if I die, I die '. This stage requires making a Vow with God. You must understand what a vow means before during it. Masturbation is evil and spiritual. When masturbating, it open your life for any agent of darkness (demons) to stroll in. It's very easy for any demon to enter in but not easy for them to go out. But, if you follow these steps, you will overcome: * Expose the demon ( e.g the demon of masturbation ) * Accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior * Love God with all your heart * Make a vow to God. Note, the must understand the condition of a vow. May God help you in Jesus name. Amen 1 Like |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Nobody: 6:42pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
lightangel65i: This is the worst advice I have ever seen. The very worst. 1 Like |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Nobody: 6:43pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Blackurglyboi: Your problem is idleness not masturbation. Lazy yoots 1 Like |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Klechman(m): 6:47pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Jesus � Abouwaza: |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Apktotheworld: 7:05pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Blackurglyboi:OP lemme tell you something ehn. You need to stop seeing masturbation as a sin against God. Rather, decide to not do it on the basis of sheer morality and deep seated resolve. I Stopped since March and its September already man. Didn't factor in any religious or spiritual help to it. The moment you begin to realize that maturbation is like every act which when done perpetually becomes a habit and is difficult to jettison, the sooner your solution approaches. For me, I made a register which I firmly resolved to tick in the negative every day since March and it's worked for me. Finally OP, drop the notion of girlfriend solving the problem and also realize the fact that you have the will over it. Bless you bro. 2 Likes |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Onelove508: 7:09pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
[quote author=QDubz post=93987430]Man wish we could talk more privately, been down this pit before and very well understand your fears and pain... You need to stop counting the number of days you've been off masturbation cause it constantly keeps your mind on the act itself. Your lack of erection/gf is caused by extreme self doubt, low self 'estimation', lack of confidence and low testorone due to jacking off often. I could suggest some books that helped and some tricks I can't share here lol... But fact is, all this wouldn't work if you are not ready to take action. I'm interested please. |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Christiano25(m): 7:27pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Kindly add me please lightangel65i: |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Nobody: 7:32pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Ghost8889: Ghost8889: Ghost8889: It's simple,you just have to try to skip it regularly,for instance try not to do it daily and don't force it OK,anytime you fall for it,just do it and afterwards continue with the plan which is to stop doing it regularly.Also try not to think about negative things OK |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Firstandonly(m): 7:32pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Ghost8889:read one of my topic on "how where u able to stop ur addiction" people shared some encouraging advice there |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Joseb007(m): 7:44pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Slawormir:u say what Can u hear urself very well |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Joseb007(m): 7:47pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Until u become angry with the demon of masturbation, u can't stop it.
i repeat, until u become angry with the demon of masturbation, u can't stop it.
u are a slave to the demon of masturbation 1 Like |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by johngreatogah: 7:49pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Download "Claws of Masturbation" by Akande Olatunji Moses and thank God that you did. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Joseb007(m): 7:49pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
samwillyco1:you are trying to compound his case |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Nobody: 7:52pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Chii59:Don't tell me you don't too |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Joshdboss(m): 7:56pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Joseb007:Exactly. Dats wat I said before. It's like some of these guys don't know this thing has a stubborn demon behind it. Make God open una eye small. |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by chibuzorAbia: 8:20pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Rubbish!!!!!!! I have been doing it for forty (40) years and I am PROUD of it. It has a lot of advantages!!! And the satisfaction is just as intense and deeper than sex with a woman. And no woman on this planet can mess with your head or use you for money. It is fabulous!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by donifez(m): 8:37pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
GreenKalada: I think it makes one not last when having sex? |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by budebanty: 8:38pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
My bother, you will sure come out of it... what you will do now is to start listening to REFLECTIONS with Mark on Maxfm 102.3 Lagos. You will be glad you did because that is going to be the end of your problem. However, if you are not in Lagos download the app. Just make sure you listen to the program. Everything 4a.m Monday to Friday. Peace 1 Like |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Emmaomotob(m): 8:42pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Blackurglyboi:Fool 1 Like |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by TexZy6562: 8:43pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Mr.man is only jesus that wil deliver you. cee knel down and pray jesus is the answer Don't allow anybdy 2 deceiv u pls. ma own was 14 good yrs JESUS IS THE SECRET IF U LIKE |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Dueprince: 8:44pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Blackurglyboi:this is what i have to say, first one step you have to take in order to quit, is that you have to feel guilty always when ever this urge comes and to know all the consiquences which come with it, those physical harm which you have experience since u have being doing it, this will help also. Then you have to pray evertime, you have to restrict your self from internet for long time because even if ur mind wont be there, when online. once u are there u may tend to visit the site. Always keep your self busy pray always, pray against spirit of masturbation and lust, pray for spirit of control to come upon you because when you get outside you see them and lust. that is why u should also pray for the whole armor of God to come upon you and you will see the hand of God in your life. Avoid sleeping late this will also give you time to lust. and avoid flooding your mind with lustful things. Bad company currupt good character so avoid bad company to avoid hearing rotin words that will stimulate your lust and you be be delivered . Pray for direct deliverance from above bless you. |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by PrettyNengiBBN: 8:45pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Diffen: 8:50pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Worry no more, brother. The fact that you have accepted it's evil and crying out for Deliverance , everything becomes easy. I will recommend a few testimonies books that have rescued thousands of people from any kinds of sexual sin. ✓ Life in Gene- Ah - Kingdom by Opeyemi Akintunde . ✓ Freedom from Masturbation by Dr John S. Balogun ✓ The Destiny Polluter : Pornography by Great Omole ✓ Repercussion from Sexual Sins by Frank Hammond ✓ Overcoming Sexual Immorality by Bill Rudge And so many others. Try and get one of them especially that no 1. They are all in downloadable format.free . We're waiting for your testimony. Shalom. 1 Like |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Gentlebuka(m): 8:53pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Ghost8889:Around 15th September 2018, I posted my own story here on nairaland (account deleted for other reasons). Just like you, I was desperate for a change and I got what I wanted. Someone here recommended me a webiste called Nofap. I joined the website and you know, the things they said there made lot of sense. It's dedicated to addicts who wish to recover. It's been 2 years and 1 day today and I think I've only 'beat my meat' twice. Join the website and be dedicated to the goal, you'll come out a greater person. |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by biggy26: 9:00pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
lightangel65i:Not a good advice, he isn't a sex offender. He needs all his homones intact, not artificially suppressed. 1 Like |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Tillatalk: 9:00pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
izuswift:this man videos changed my Life completely 2 Likes |
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