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tfash96:
Just drink poison and end your misery.. This life that girls are all over the place you're there thinking about pussy someone is fucking. May God give u wisdom

wait o.. I'm like d op ,na true u yan o..all dis while, Im missing my ex some other guys are shagging, just see d topics...damn

It's a thing of the mind.

lacruz12:
This is what happens when you give your all and expect your partner to do same. You were the drive behind the relationship and she was just a passenger hoping to alight when due, you gladly pick her up whenever she loses interest regardless of her sins.

You gotta move on bro, she doesn't deserve your love one bit. You know quite well you are never gonna be 'perfect' even if she comes back to you, so kill the feelings and see the light in your new girl.

Stop stalking her, start steering your life in the right direction. There's more to life than meets the eye, you are wasting precious time. Invest your energy and time into improving yourself. What's wrong with you is just inferiority complex.... Thinking you ain't gonna find another like her. My guy na lie

Build your self esteem and confidence, think about the lies and cheating and tell yourself you don't deserve a filth like her. No better revenge than being successful, give her reasons to see she lost a gem

LA Cruz LA smart ....

Nice comment man

Pathetic

Meanwhile, Davido, who posted photos and videos of his newly acquired Lamborghini, has surprised his wife, Chioma, by handing over the key of the brand new car to her.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ihVxJz52d70

I hope you are still a teenager or in your early 20s.
This not something you do when you are older. I guess this is your first heartbreak, unfortunately you are going to get more of them along the way, The good news is that, every new one is easier than the previous one.
In any case, stop stalking her, she is long gone. The earlier you stop yourself from seeing her in any social media, the faster for you to move on.
Also try to get yourself a new girlfriend.
The advice I just gave you is not something you learn in schools, so go figure.
Goo luck in trying to heal yourself.

Mugu move on.

tobechi74:
Simp


When Nollywood actor Pet Edochie fumed at the young men kneeling before a woman, he was backlashed. Pet was comparing happenings in his youthful age against  the youth in this generation. The traditional Igbo man is highly placed in the society. During traditional wedding,the woman kneels down to propose to the man.The one who kneels begs the other for a favor.A typical Igbo man hardly kneels for his fellow man talkless of a woman . He only kneels for the gods who he recognizes as more powerful than he is.

Pet is  not alone. Many men have noticed a decline in the masculinity of men. The Alpha male movement and redpill movement are attempt to correct this imbalance.When did thngs change? When did man begin to loose his ego to stoop so low to kneel before a less powerful being. Was the change sudden or gradual?

Women were seen as irrational and emotional.Men were the rational and strong willed. Men were taught to act like men They had to suppress their emotion close to their heart. Men should never cry in public.  Expression of vulnerability  is a sign of a weak man.  Men are closed minded, rigid and structured. He should not seek fun .Men. Should always be in power, strive for control, compete.They lack empathy necessary for effective communication and connection.

In early days, male children joined their fathers in the river fishing or the forest haunting. Female spent their time with the mothers cooking. Each gender know his role. You hardly see a man in the kitchen or a girl hunting. Men learnt to act like men and women learnt to act like women.Then came the industrial era. Lands meant for farming and hunting was taking over by the government to build factory. The owners of the land were jobless.To offer compensation, the men were integrated as workers in this factory. Their male children were not allowed to follow dad to work.son stays at home with the mum while Dad went to work. Father leaves home as early as eight and comes home by six. He is exhausted, he sleeps to get strength for the next day. Fathers became absent in their son’s life. The role of dad in son life began to reduce while the role of mum in son life began to rise. Mummy passes over her feminine qualities to growing son.

Then came education. Female involvement in  education at an early age especially science and  law improve her reasoning abilities (masculinity) . Female take part in competitive games like the male counterpart. This improves their aggression.These women ended up as heads of organization.They took  decision and gave instructions . These women began to have a thirst of power . Their masculine qualities were awoken.

Girls  who enjoy highly competitive games with a desire to win also increases their aggression (masculinity). We tag such women names like Tomboy. They are ladies with highly developed masculine side and poorly developed feminine side.. Such masculine girls are attracted to  the beta guys. If a man is more masculine in nature,he will be attracted to a very feminine woman who will compliment his energy. Balance men prefer neutral women.. Masculine girls at attracted to a feminine guy or sisi or beta guy . Such guys are few as society teaches guys to wear the Alpha mask. She can only find solace among her fellow feminine women. This is the origin of homosexuality- . Heterosexual are no different from homosexual as both seek balance .

Society has widened this energy balance over the years. Civilisation is bring closing the gap. Homosexual are closer to achieving balance compared to heterosexual. Yet, Homosexuals feel guilty for not complying with society expectation. . There is nothing wrong with homosexuality, for it IS what is. However, we need to bear in mind that society at this time is traumatized due to so many centurie conditioned to comply with that. DO we want to fit in? Until WHEN? We need to learn to Love who we are, while allowing others to be what they want to be. Acceptance is the way of Life.

We should understand that each individual hold masculine and feminine qualities within us. When both qualities are not well alligned, the person is out of balance. The traditional gender roles over the years has created highly masculine males on one hand and highly feminine female on the other side.  we are drawn to certain individual that help us correct these imbalance. These highly masculine males become attracted to highly feminine female.

https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/23/sexual-imbalance/

Tobechi,

Carchoice:
Nothing can be done bro.


She took your senses with her. You can’t forget about her. I’m sorry.

. Bahd guy

Out of sight out of mind, bro. Pretend she doesn't exist anymore, you might actually start believing she doesn't and then she won't. Find a new hobby, travel or change location, give your life to Christ if you think it will help. Stop cyber stalking and find someone interesting to do online.

Carchoice:
Nothing can be done bro.

She took your senses with her. You can’t forget about her. I’m sorry.

anonimi:
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Alexgman1:
Its up to two years since i broke up with my ex (ALEX MARVEY). But uptil now I haven't gotten over her. She has moved on & deeply in love with someone new who she profess to be engaged to.
She has blocked me on every social media platforms but yet i still find a way to stalk her. Following her updates & uploads using a different and fake id.

Whenever we cross paths on the road she ignores me like we never knew before.
Despite the fact that it was her that messed up and did all the lies & cheating, yet i still forgave her for everything she did.

How can i move on and let go of her totally & for good because anytime i and my new girl are eating, walking, bathing & romancing i do imagine my ex.

Na why 2face talk the following to avoid this kind thing.


-"Love You microsoftly, cuz I wanna be sure that you come back for more of it girl"-

-"Take you mercilessly, cuz I wanna be sure that you always respect me girl"-


Jokes apart,
Move on bro, thats my advice. go for spiritual cleansing too cause I suspect say she install something inside your brain then she no come uninstall am when she trashed you. this your thing come the resemble OZO case wey don reach very high stage. (this obsession is not normal)
Its obvious she underrates you now from what you said. you will end up drowning in this whole mess and it will affect your life. Moving on is just your solution and you are doing it with the wrong person.

You don't love your new girlfriend else this new relationship should have started the process of you healing.

but your story is incomplete and one sided for people to really advice you.
how did the whole breakup thing go? what did you do too?, cause she must find a reason to hold on to and leave.
you guys must have had arguments and quarrels.

last last I am not a relationship expert....take any advice you get on Nairaland at your own peril

sisisioge:
She raised the bar of the kind of girl you really take fancy to...until you match or exceed that bar on another girl...you will keep remembering her...Pele.

I swear you are right, sort of like she set the benchmark... I've been there

Rule number one - Don't love with everything...

Alexgman1:
No. I never knew wat i felt was dis strong.

Now dat u've discovered that u are highly emotional, don't always deeply fall in love except u know that d opposite gender feels d same thing for you

Its simple! Go for big brother naija, become like LAYCON
and all your exes will start lining at ur door... thats the irony of life

Dreyton36:
Fvck mehnnnnn
E clear

OP anytime her thoughts come to your mind , this is what you gonna do

Say this in your mind

"Person wey I don fvck tire wetin remain there"

Then start thinking of the bad things she's done to you
Her promiscuity and all , how she took ur sincere love for granted , you'll see how you grow dislikes for her in due time

Bottomline is , time heals everything

Not helping. Have you ever loved a girl beyond just her body?

Carchoice:
Nothing can be done bro.


She took your senses with her. You can’t forget about her. I’m sorry.

Coconut head

Stop being a cheap ride. Stop thinking about her and move on with your life like she's happily done, and thank God you didn't marry her because it would've been bad for you

She's got no regrets or remorse, for doing you wrong. She didn't truly love you. Pray to find a woman that will love you genuinely

I know say na guy get this Topic!

frugal:
Not helping. Have you ever loved a girl beyond just her body?

Na you need advice, na you come they advice me
Na you love pass Ozo bbnaija?

iamadonis2:
She left with your kidney?

mtn on fire . dial *131*205#

Ur village people don't dey get you small small. Every soon you go see wetin you dey fine for woman wen no send you

Carchoice:
Nothing can be done bro.


She took your senses with her. You can’t forget about her. I’m sorry.

LMAO

Alexgman1:
Are u kidding me?

He is saying the fact

sisisioge:
She raised the bar of the kind of girl you really take fancy to...until you match or exceed that bar on another girl...you will keep remembering her...Pele.

Hmmmmn

You are doomed...maybe doomed forever

Makanaki127:
I was once like dis in 2016 after my GF broke up with me, make I no lie I almost kill myself out of depression, as d gal Sabi Bleep die, and anytime I remember the sex aspect wen I done miss I go like call her back, she is also very intelligent gal, she graduated with distinction back then in OND, I was down then like really down
But today I have move on completed but I can't love any gal again, I shall just day use my brain and I'm proud to say na gals day beg me to be serious with dem, some say am rude and dis am that but it just it, I day Bleep anyhow and the most sweet part of it I'm now a player, I can lie for Africa, I'm happy to be mumuing gals

you sound emotionally broken.

Alexgman1:
Its up to two years since i broke up with my ex (ALEX MARVEY). But uptil now I haven't gotten over her. She has moved on & deeply in love with someone new who she profess to be engaged to.
She has blocked me on every social media platforms but yet i still find a way to stalk her. Following her updates & uploads using a different and fake id.

Whenever we cross paths on the road she ignores me like we never knew before.
Despite the fact that it was her that messed up and did all the lies & cheating, yet i still forgave her for everything she did.

How can i move on and let go of her totally & for good because anytime i and my new girl are eating, walking, bathing & romancing i do imagine my ex.

The making of the world most dangerous playboy loading

We are the monsters that you made



Don't worry, you will be fine, but I just pity people's daughters that will pay for the crime of one Zakaria chick catching fun somewhere now

lacruz12:
This is what happens when you give your all and expect your partner to do same. You were the drive behind the relationship and she was just a passenger hoping to alight when due, you gladly pick her up whenever she loses interest regardless of her sins.

You gotta move on bro, she doesn't deserve your love one bit. You know quite well you are never gonna be 'perfect' even if she comes back to you, so kill the feelings and see the light in your new girl.

Stop stalking her, start steering your life in the right direction. There's more to life than meets the eye, you are wasting precious time. Invest your energy and time into improving yourself. What's wrong with you is just inferiority complex.... Thinking you ain't gonna find another like her. My guy na lie

Build your self esteem and confidence, think about the lies and cheating and tell yourself you don't deserve a filth like her. No better revenge than being successful, give her reasons to see she lost a gem

Thanks a million bro
I'm in this same shit and I can boldly tell u my belief is that "I'm never gonna find someone like her"

Hmm.... Inferiority complex

Alexgman1:
Its up to two years since i broke up with my ex (ALEX MARVEY). But uptil now I haven't gotten over her. She has moved on & deeply in love with someone new who she profess to be engaged to.
She has blocked me on every social media platforms but yet i still find a way to stalk her. Following her updates & uploads using a different and fake id.

Whenever we cross paths on the road she ignores me like we never knew before.
Despite the fact that it was her that messed up and did all the lies & cheating, yet i still forgave her for everything she did.

How can i move on and let go of her totally & for good because anytime i and my new girl are eating, walking, bathing & romancing i do imagine my ex.

Na just jealousy dey kee u, cos if she com bck u go Bleep nd get tired
My guy d only solution na dis