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Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by Nobody: 11:11pm On Oct 03, 2020
Most Nigerian men have this mentality that a good woman should not like money, she should be ready to suffer with them (they will maltreat her after the money comes), she should also not see anything wrong with cheating as long as they are providing for the family.

Why must a woman undergo all these before she can be tagged a good woman? Is she your mother?

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Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by iamkingdaniel: 11:16pm On Oct 03, 2020
"Most" not true, A few... Very correct.

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Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by Nobody: 11:16pm On Oct 03, 2020
Kolewerk
Creating stupid threads won't help you bitchhes

The real question is why do most girls feel they are entitled to their partner's wealth when they can't even do anything to help the man in question

No one is asking you to suffer but if you can't sow, you will never reap that's fact

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Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by Heroclitus(m): 11:18pm On Oct 03, 2020
Despite all your rantings online,I wouldn't be surprised if I got to know that you actually have a stronger attraction for males than an average Nigerian Lady

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Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by 4teenblaq: 11:18pm On Oct 03, 2020
Zzor:
Most Nigerian men have this mentality that a good woman should not like money,she should be ready to suffer with them(they will maltreat her after the money comes),she should also not see anything wrong with cheating as long as they are providing for the family.Why must a woman undergo all these before she can be tagged a good woman?Is she your mother?

federal government have approved reopening of schools, I think it is time for you to prepare and pack your luggages and be ready for lecture...

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Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by Nobody: 11:19pm On Oct 03, 2020
That is how poor men think grin

Many men have lot of unrealistic idealism of how a woman is suppose to treat them forgetting that the person they rely on for emotional support is also human.

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Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by TheCork(m): 11:20pm On Oct 03, 2020
Zzor:
Most Nigerian men have this mentality that a good woman should not like money,she should be ready to suffer with them(they will maltreat her after the money comes),she should also not see anything wrong with cheating as long as they are providing for the family.Why must a woman undergo all these before she can be tagged a good woman?Is she your mother?


angry

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Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by Nobody: 11:20pm On Oct 03, 2020
thebosstrevor1:
That is how poor men think
Exactly

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Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by TheCork(m): 11:21pm On Oct 03, 2020
Zzor:
Most Nigerian men have this mentality that a good woman should not like money,she should be ready to suffer with them(they will maltreat her after the money comes),she should also not see anything wrong with cheating as long as they are providing for the family.Why must a woman undergo all these before she can be tagged a good woman?Is she your mother?


Correction...
.u not a good woman..u stalk handsome guys like us on nairaland..me included!!!(no oofense) angry

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Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by bobokeshington: 11:24pm On Oct 03, 2020
Zzor:
Most Nigerian men have this mentality that a good woman should not like money,she should be ready to suffer with them(they will maltreat her after the money comes),she should also not see anything wrong with cheating as long as they are providing for the family.Why must a woman undergo all these before she can be tagged a good woman?Is she your mother?

A WOMAN WHO CANNOT STAND BY HER MAN WHEN HE HAS NOTHING WOULD DEFINITELY BE SHOWN THE EXIT DOOR WHEN HE HAS EVERYTHING

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Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by WrittyWritter(f): 11:34pm On Oct 03, 2020
undecided
Zzor:
Most Nigerian men have this mentality that a good woman should not like money,she should be ready to suffer with them(they will maltreat her after the money comes),she should also not see anything wrong with cheating as long as they are providing for the family.Why must a woman undergo all these before she can be tagged a good woman?Is she your mother?

Not all oo..No offense oo but y di I have a feeling you posted this because of the 'why do most Nigerian women have this mentality' thread that someone posted today because I remember reading ur comment on dat one ..Lol undecided
Zzor:
Most Nigerian men have this mentality that a good woman should not like money,she should be ready to suffer with them(they will maltreat her after the money comes),she should also not see anything wrong with cheating as long as they are providing for the family.Why must a woman undergo all these before she can be tagged a good woman?Is she your mother?

Not all oo..No offense oo but y do I have a feeling that you posted this because of the 'why do most Nigerian women have this mentality' thread that someone posted today because I remember reading ur comment on dat one ..Lol��
You guys should really all this 'men are wicked no women are the wicked ones and just accept the fact that it is about the person not gender�

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Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by tobechi74: 11:38pm On Oct 03, 2020
Societal training

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Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by padi94(m): 11:41pm On Oct 03, 2020
Shut up OP... that is a crappy post, quote me if you want to know why

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Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by Ffolksy: 11:48pm On Oct 03, 2020
Zzor:
Most Nigerian men have this mentality that a good woman should not like money,she should be ready to suffer with them(they will maltreat her after the money comes),she should also not see anything wrong with cheating as long as they are providing for the family.Why must a woman undergo all these before she can be tagged a good woman?Is she your mother?

Zzor, it would be interesting to know the statistics you referenced that gave you 'most men' for the personality you described. What kind of men have you been rolling with?

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Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by Premiumwriter: 11:54pm On Oct 03, 2020
Zzor market is nor selling

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Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by Nobody: 11:55pm On Oct 03, 2020
thebosstrevor1:
That is how poor men think grin

Many men have lot of unrealistic idealism of how a woman is suppose to treat them forgetting that the person they rely on for emotional support is also human.
White Knight spotted grin

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Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by fati2001(m): 12:56am On Oct 04, 2020
SIMPLE =BECAUSE ZOOGERIA ISSA ZOO.

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Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by TheCork(m): 1:03am On Oct 04, 2020
thebosstrevor1:
That is how poor men think grin

Many men have lot of unrealistic idealism of how a woman is suppose to treat them forgetting that the person they rely on for emotional support is also human.

angry
Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by TheCork(m): 1:06am On Oct 04, 2020
thebosstrevor1:
That is how poor men think grin

Many men have lot of unrealistic idealism of how a woman is suppose to treat them forgetting that the person they rely on for emotional support is also human.


So u call yor sef poor simply coz u tryin to impression Zzor....correct? ..do u reliaze she from ordnary Ghana?
Bro do u need job?(no oofense) angry

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Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by Nobody: 1:20am On Oct 04, 2020
TheCork:



So u call yor sef poor simply coz u tryin to impression Zzor....correct? ..do u reliaze she from Ghana? Bro do u need job?(no oofense) angry

them little little boys have started why are all of you always triggered and emotional

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Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by Nobody: 1:22am On Oct 04, 2020
Abouwaza:

White Knight spotted grin

So saying the truth is now white knight then i am proud to be that grin

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Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by TheCork(m): 1:33am On Oct 04, 2020
thebosstrevor1:


them little little boys have started why are all of you always triggered and emotional

bro. Zzor is a known gold digger. She always asking people for moiney on nairaland & she starting begging coz she found out I bought a new range (true story) angry

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Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by Nobody: 1:38am On Oct 04, 2020
Zzor:
Most Nigerian men have this mentality that a good woman should not like money,she should be ready to suffer with them(they will maltreat her after the money comes),she should also not see anything wrong with cheating as long as they are providing for the family.Why must a woman undergo all these before she can be tagged a good woman?Is she your mother?
so much for a preacher of pastor Chris’s gospel. Not surprised anyways

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Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by Nobody: 1:41am On Oct 04, 2020
TheCork:


bro. Zzor is a known gold digger. She always asking people for moiney on nairaland & she starting begging coz she found out I bought a new range (true story) angry

I dont care about her, i only care about her question and i provided an answer and moved on, her life story is none of my business

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Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by MrTAnonymous(m): 1:42am On Oct 04, 2020
Zzor:
Most Nigerian men have this mentality that a good woman should not like money,she should be ready to suffer with them(they will maltreat her after the money comes),she should also not see anything wrong with cheating as long as they are providing for the family.Why must a woman undergo all these before she can be tagged a good woman?Is she your mother?

Firstly, I am not in support of women not liking or having money, infact women should make good money. The issue is girls should stop having this entitlement attitude, it sucks. I especially hate when someone with an entitlement attitude starts demanding stuffs from me like I am your father undecided Babygirl are you a PUTA? undecided

Women are the main reason why men go outside and cheat. No man wants to deal with a frustrated woman especially after a long day at work. Why go home to meet a troublesome and frustrating woman when I can just go and meet my side chick who is ready to give me peace of mind.

Mind you, I am not supporting cheating, cheating is bad But please lets understand each other before committing into a relationship.

Incase you don't know na me talk

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Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by Nobody: 2:35am On Oct 04, 2020
How you gonna show her the exit door if she's not there in the first place?! It's only woman that are useless that will attempt to go back to a broke man she "abandoned". Working women are too busy working their own hustle to look back. And as a working woman, any broke man that ever I "abandoned" are still broke. And if I would of stuck with then, I'd be broke. And don't think there isn't a line out the door of future men willing to break me. So yeah women, keep it moving!!


bobokeshington:


A WOMAN WHO CANNOT STAND BY HER MAN WHEN HE HAS NOTHING WOULD DEFINITELY BE SHOWN THE EXIT DOOR WHEN HE HAS EVERYTHING

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Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by Stephenmoka4(m): 2:50am On Oct 04, 2020
Zzor:
Most Nigerian men have this mentality that a good woman should not like money,she should be ready to suffer with them(they will maltreat her after the money comes),she should also not see anything wrong with cheating as long as they are providing for the family.Why must a woman undergo all these before she can be tagged a good woman?Is she your mother?
I do not have such mentality. Everyone should like money, as it is one of the strongest purchasing power currently in existence.

There is something wrong for a partner to cheat, in that case the male side shouldn't be justified. Using the term "providing for the family" is a man's primary responsibility and should not be used as a cover-up for wrong doings.
A good woman is one that respect, stay faithful, loyal, being able to sort her man's mistake (without staying silence) and of course, bring happiness.

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Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by Nobody: 2:59am On Oct 04, 2020
Question? Whose fault is it that your wife is troublesome and frustrated? Could it be because you have a side chick? I'm still trying to figure which women have the better deal in Nigeria; the wife or the side chick?

MrTAnonymous:


Firstly, I am not in support of women not liking or having money, infact women should make good money. The issue is girls should stop having this entitlement attitude, it sucks. I especially hate when someone with an entitlement attitude starts demanding stuffs from me like I am your father undecided Babygirl are you a PUTA? undecided

Women are the main reason why men go outside and cheat. No man wants to deal with a frustrated woman especially after a long day at work. Why go home to meet a troublesome and frustrating woman when I can just go and meet my side chick who is ready to give me peace of mind.

Mind you, I am not supporting cheating, cheating is bad But please lets understand each other before committing into a relationship.

Incase you don't know na me talk

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Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by Mrscarter(f): 3:05am On Oct 04, 2020
bobokeshington:


A WOMAN WHO CANNOT STAND BY HER MAN WHEN HE HAS NOTHING WOULD DEFINITELY BE SHOWN THE EXIT DOOR WHEN HE HAS EVERYTHING

I think that's fair
Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by Mrscarter(f): 3:12am On Oct 04, 2020
Stephenmoka4:
I do not have such mentality. Everyone should like money, as it is one of the strongest purchasing power currently in existence.

There is something wrong for a partner to cheat, in that case the male side shouldn't be justified. Using the term "providing for the family" is a man's primary responsibility and should not be used as a cover-up for wrong doings.
A good woman is one that respect, stay faithful, loyal, being able to sort her man's mistake (without staying silence) and of course, bring happiness.

Cheating isn't a mistake it is first a choice then becomes a mistake.
Anymore cheating after the first time is just a choice not mistakes at all. Afterall who repeatedly n deliberately keeps making the same mistake yeah?

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Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by Nobody: 3:23am On Oct 04, 2020
Mrscarter:


Cheating isn't a mistake it is first a choice then becomes a mistake.
Anymore cheating after the first time is just a choice not mistakes at all. Afterall who repeatedly n deliberately keeps making the same mistake yeah?
you are confused

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Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by Mrscarter(f): 3:26am On Oct 04, 2020
Zzor:
Most Nigerian men have this mentality that a good woman should not like money,she should be ready to suffer with them(they will maltreat her after the money comes),she should also not see anything wrong with cheating as long as they are providing for the family.Why must a woman undergo all these before she can be tagged a good woman?Is she your mother?

I think if you're only dating then the guy shouldn't have to buy every little thing for her. If he buys her something it should be because he wants to give her a gift or make her feel special. But ion think the guy should be responsible for everything especially if they only been dating a short amount of time. If I was a guy that would turn me off. But once Ur married a man should support his wife but she shouldn't expect more than he can afford(I know girls who do this n put alot of stress on the guy) if they been dating a long time it's fair I think that the guy spends on U to some extent if he wants you to have things n U can't afford them yourself.
But never should us girls act like we are entitled to his money, we don't work for it we didn't earn it. Especially if he's a decent guy n faithful n all. If your man us broke but he's a good guy in every other way then inspire n motivate him to work hard n find a way to make money. Build him up n give him faith in himself n stand by him the same as U would if he were rich. Giving him the confidence he needs n motivation n you can be surprised what he could accomplish. And he will love you the more for it and be faithful n loyal to you n guys always remember that kinda thing. Good guys do. He will work harder to build a better life for you aswell as himself.
Dating guys for petty things like money for hair and iPhones and all that stuff that's just taking what you didn't earn. I prefer to have my own money n have no reliance on a man n that way our relationship doesn't have anything to do with money n we can enjoy the things that relationships are meant to be about.
But that's just wat I think.
As for cheating that's a deal breaker for me. ion see the point in being in a relationship if U want other ppl than Ur partner. Ur in a relationship for love n if U love someone how can U even think of someone else. Ion understand that.

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